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Just remember

Thursday, May 22, 2014

5/22, 5:00am Phil
Oh cool!
    
5/22, 6:29am
Good morning!   Can’t sleep…fretting about work.  Bleh.  Here’s to a good Thursday!

5/22, 7:04am Phil
Just remember being pounded and smile

Good morning, hoping it goes well. Looking forward to a hot shower with my favorite red head and then some time in the park

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Got pounded

Wednesday, May 21, 2014
  
5/21, 6:46am
Good morning kid!
     
5/21, 7:08am Phil
I am looking at another lawyer.  I really did not like the guy I spoke with all but at the end of the day is just money.  I won’t be destitute and will still be able to maintain a standard of living and I will certainly not feel any guilt about my wife’s standard of living.  Having someone who cares enough to rub your back and shoulders, to run lotion into your feet until you melt is ideal to me. Ewww does not get it.     
       
5/21, 7:09am Phil
Oh and good morning!
        
5/21, 5:56pm
How was your day?  Crazy day for me. … new boss comes back tomorrow.  My stomach is clenching already.  Bleh.  My guy is coming over to distract me!

5/21, 6:06pm Phil
Well enjoy the distraction
     
5/21, 6:06pm
Thanks!  You getting distracted again soon?
   
5/21, 6:07pm  Phil
Who knows?
 One day she wants to jump my bones, the next she is reserved and afraid of being hurt.
  
5/21, 6:09pm
Ah… sounds like someone else I know… YOU!

Be your patient sweet self.  Send more flowers.

Maybe buy something that says forever… like… diamond earrings? or some kind of ring or bracelet? in her style.   If you’re ready to do that.

       
5/21, 6:16pm Phil
Done that before. The cost of this shook her. She’s afraid I’ll stay and she will get hurt     
       
5/21, 6:16pm
I can see that.  But your behavior seems different to me this time.
       
5/21, 6:19pm Phil
I’m trying, really into her and I think we’d have a blast. She’s a great fit with the rest of my crazy family
       
5/21, 6:23pm
Probably tricky until you make an irrevocable step like moving out or telling your wife or introducing her to your kids or something…

5/21, 6:25pm Phil
I think so. I don’t blame her. Meeting her for drinks and a bite to eat this evening. She’s happy to slap a big ole kiss on me. I’ll take that and be happy with it.
          
5/21, 6:26pm
Very good.  You’ve navigated tougher waters…you have good instincts.  It will be fine!
5/21, 6:28pm Phil
I’m going at her pace, careful not to rush her. The other night was all her and she’s fine with that and so am I. I’m very happy just being with her
         
5/21, 6:28pm
Where does your wife think you are?  Work?
  
5/21, 9:02pm Phil

[photo of Fred and him cuddling in a bar]
5/21, 10:09pm Phil
Yup.

Fun evening. Spending tomorrow evening together too
   

5/21, 10:17pm
You two look so happy!   Thank you for sharing.

I got pounded. 🙂

5/21, 10:24pm Phil
Oh I love it. So glad! Nothing like that!

Hoping for that tomorrow

       
5/21, 10:28pm
Just got a nibble from a possible car buyer for Mom’s car!  A friend of a friend!  Cross your fingers!

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Divorce is expensive

Tuesday, May 20, 2014
5/20, 8:25am
Good morning hot stuff!
     
5/20, 8:38am Phil
Good morning. Off to do an initial consult with the lawyer today. Find out how bad a financial hit I will take.        
       
5/20, 8:43am Phil
I have a woman who has been pampered and pretty much been able to do anything she likes, who has given very little back. So why do I feel bad about walking out? Fred is such a loving, tender person and my wife is so not. Fred just makes me feel happy.  My wife in general pisses me off. I did not miss her when I left before and she admitted to being deceptive and just mean. I guess I have grown accustomed to this and accepted that it’s what life is all about. It’s still a hard thing.
       
5/20, 1:38pm
Hope the lawyer had better news that you thought.  You have gotten through hard things.  You will get through this.  You are not alone this time.     
       
5/20, 2:13pm Phil
I go at 4:30. Everyone always says, you don’t look miserable but you try to tell people, that’s not a reason to stay married. You don’t have to hate the person. My wife and I enjoy dinner and wineries but how much more fun to sip wine with your hand on your babies ass, to ride the bike with her deliberately dropping her hand to your crotch or rubbing an amazing rack on ur back. To party and get a little hammered and take a cab home, be a little crazy. Everyone wants to treat you like a total ass. I want the best for my wife, I want her to find a man who adores her and wants to move to Fla and live next to Disney.  I want the foot rubs, the laughter, boating and fishing. Mind blowing sex. I want that so badly. Want to spend the day on a boat drinking beer, relaxing fishing and not with my buddies but with a woman I’m crazy about.

5/20, 2:33pm Phil
you’d think I threw her out in the cold or something rather than letting her keep a house, the savings, the time share, furniture, everything plus half my pension a year in income
       
5/20, 2:51pm
You don’t have to justify this change.  You don’t have to convince people.  If they care about you, say it’s right for you and they will be happy for you.  If not… keep moving.  Focus on her and you and the amazing future!

5/20, 7:06pm
The Ninety Nine makes the best fried chicken!  Had a great dinner with Mom.

5/20, 7:15pm Phil
Going to cost me half my retirement plus at least 2k/month on top of that and she can drag it out for 2 1/2 years. Wow! Best case is a divorce in 8 months, worst case is 2 1/2 years with 50k in legal bills. Unbelievable!

I’m stunned! I expected half my retirement a month and out in six months.

It’s more money and she can break me financially if she wants to
      

5/20, 8:56pm Phil
Think I’ll still take the red head

5/20, 9:05pm
I have two thoughts.  What if you don’t divorce, just leave?   Or is there some leverage you can put into the settlement to incentivize her to sign and not contest?

Ask the lawyer to be creative.   Or talk to another one?

Also, may seem like a lot but us cheaper than all her usual spending?

So glad to hear it didn’t dissuade you!

     
5/20, 9:08pm Phil
Gonna talk to another lawyer. Did not like this guy at all. Either way, I choose the girl and how she makes me feel

5/20, 9:09pm
I have a friend in chat who got quotes from 3 lawyers – varied by a lot.

5/20, 9:10pm Phil
I put my feet on chair outside tonight, wife went ewww, Fred would have just started rubbing just to watch my eyes roll back.
I did not like the lawyer. Big titted receptionist falling out of her blouse though

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Putty in her hands

Monday, May 19, 2014

5/19, 4:13am Phil
Got my world rocked! How bout you?
    
5/19, 7:36am
Good morning!  Sounds like you had fun.  Me too!

5/19, 7:42am Phil
Oh lord

5/19, 7:45am         
: )

5/19, 7:58am Phil

Glad you had a fun nite. I got way more than I was expecting.
    
5/19, 10:16am Phil
I’m chaffed and sore, got scratch marks and bite marks. Holy shit.

I said we’re not doing this, she said oh yes we are, dropped her pants and bent over. I lost my self control        

       
5/19, 10:49am Phil
Have a great day Sass!
[him smiling at me]
   
5/19, 10:50am
About time.  Are you packing?
   
5/19, 10:50am Phil
Ha, lawyer tomorrow. Looking for a place

I was trying to be good, she got tired of good, took matters into her own hand.  

       
5/19, 10:55am
She sounds perfect for you.  Why can’t you move in with her?

5/19, 12:11pm Phil
She has a roommate who owns the house. Be much easier if she had her own place
       
5/19, 9:36pm Phil
Hope you had a great evening

[photo of Fred and him cuddling]
   
5/19, 9:41pm Phil
This does not suck
  
5/19, 9:41pm
Aww… you two look so happy!  Sorry I missed your calls.  Was stuck in the office, then in the car with Hubby.  You leave fun messages!!  Thanks.

5/19, 9:45pm Phil
That pic was before she turned me inside out and upside down. I was literally putty in her hands. It been a long time since I made that much noise and begged. I can’t describe how it feels to have your feet rubbed with lotion and then the rest of me rubbed with lotion and I was trying so hard to be good and she said fuck that. I want that right here. How do you argue with that?
  
5/19, 9:46pm
You deserve it!  Smart sexy lady!
     
5/19, 9:48pm Phil
: )
       

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“Meet my dad”

Sunday, May 18, 2014
  
5/18, 10:08am Phil
Started my day here holding a red head

[beautiful water scene at sunrise]
      
5/18, 10:08am Phil
Have a great one!      
       
5/18, 10:30am Phil
You ladies enjoy the horse race?      
       
5/18, 10:38am
Wow!  What a gorgeous spot!  It makes me smile so much to see you happy.
       
5/18, 10:40am
The race was fun!  Always great to have the possibility of a Triple Crown winner!  Have you been reading about this horse?  He is owned by “Dumb Ass Partners” with a donkey on the silks, as people told his co-owners they were idiots to spend $8k on a horse.  They are laughing all the way to the bank.
     
5/18, 10:41am
I have a meet today with my guy.  We’re going to eat Greek food then go for a walk in Mt Auburn Cemetery so he can “meet my dad.”  Then come back to my house for “dessert.”

5/18, 10:42am Phil
Lovely! Have fun!

Love the story about the horse. I’m going to go read it!

5/18, 3:41pm
Cemetery was looking good today!  They plant the most beautiful trees and flowers.

       

5/18, 9:59pm Phil

Dear God!      
       
5/18, 10:35pm
Dear God what?

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The Preakness

Saturday, May 17, 2014

5/17, 8:04am
Good morning kid!

5/17, 8:05am Phil
Good morning! Happy Saturday!

5/17, 8:07am
I’m off to Mom’s for a late lunch and The Preakness!  More cookies!  Have a super Saturday!

5/17, 10:30am Phil
You too! Had breakfast with a friendly red head. Great way to start the day

5/17, 2:26pm
Mom wanted pizza today.

My delicious chicken parmesan. 

5/17, 9:26pm
Hubby and I had a great time at Jimmy’s Steer House tonight.

 Arancini appetizer

Steak tips and LOBSTER PIE!  
with their incredible spinach rice  
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Big thumb

Friday, May 16, 2014
5/16, 7:56am
Good morning Philip! TGIF!

5/16, 9:25am Phil
Heard that!       
       
5/16, 9:48am Phil
Looking forward to the weekend. Moving slowly with Fred cause I think that’s the right way. A little fondling and grab adding and knee buckling kisses but otherwise slow. Rediscovering that we can spend four hours chatting and enjoying each other’s company. Rediscovered that we can laugh till the tears flow and that we are still dear friends after a lifetime and extraordinarily attracted to one another as in can’t keep our hands to ourselves and we just fit. We fit extremely well in the way you are thinking but we fit as partners. She has had a rough life, single Mom raising two kids but she did it, the kids are well educated and successful. So she is very appreciative of anything

5/16, 10:31am
You deserve this.  Go slow with her but get moving yourself.
         
5/16, 10:57am Phil
Lawyer on Tuesday to get the legal facts.  Looking at living options. This will still take a little time but I’m making progress.  I love the hell out of both girls. Beach Gal is fucking guy number five. Fred has not so much as gone out to dinner with anyone since we were together. Her roommate says the same thing. Roomy says she loves the hell out of you and she was never interested in anyone else. She told my Mom, she would wait forever if she had to. Seems like an easy choice and I really really enjoy this girl
       
5/16, 11:51am

5/16, 12:22pm Phil
That’s a big thumb!

5/16, 4:06pm Phil
Came home to a Freddie snack, gin and tonics and a scantily dressed red head. I could get used to this.
[photo of the snacks she put out for him… gorgeous platter of meats, cheeses, olives, veggies and crackers!]
  
5/16, 4:25pm
Wowzers!  She is spoiling you!  I am seeing the new Godzilla movie with Hubby.

5/16, 8:16pm Phil
Yup
        
5/16, 8:21pm
Godzilla was fun!  Lots of yummy military scenes!  Made me think of my favorite officer.

5/16, 8:42pm Phil
I got to see the girl naked and oh my god. Lots of touching, teasing, geez. Glad you enjoyed the show. I drank gin and tonics with my baby for four hours and it was awesome

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So alive

Thursday, May 15, 2014
              
5/15, 4:12am Phil
Awesome!  Sounds fun!
  
5/15, 6:11am Phil
Morning, have a great day!  Cabaret is so much fun! Glad you enjoyed!

[photo of him in a dress shirt and tie, smiling at me]
                   
5/15, 7:04am
Good morning!  Up early prepping for the cleaners.  Have a fantastic day!

5/15, 7:47am Phil
You too sweetie.  Gonna bend a red head over a pool table later today. Always a fun activity      
       
5/15, 7:59am
I can’t explain how happy it makes me that you have something like that to look foward to!

5/15, 1:42pm Phil
It’s nice, just having fun together. She looks good in tight jeans though. Going to see a lawyer about what a divorce will cost in terms of assets and money. I need to know and I also need to know what I can get a place for and see what this will cost me. 
       
5/15, 2:37pm
Yay!  Great to see you taking concrete steps.  Information is power.

5/15, 2:55pm Phil
I agree. At least I’ll be informed
   
5/15, 4:40pm Phil
[photo of him at a winery his arm around Fred]
  
5/15, 4:41pm
Awww… you two look so good.  Having fun?      
       
5/15, 4:43pm Phil
[photo of Fred sitting at an outside bar with him behind her holding her shoulders.]
    
5/15, 4:57pm Phil
We are. This is so nice 
       
5/15, 7:25pm Phil
Dear god this is nice

5/15, 7:26pm
What is good about it?         
       
5/15, 7:29pm Phil
So stimulating on a physical, mental, emotional level. Body is amazing, southern accent drives me crazy. Great kisser, amazing soft hands
     
5/15, 7:32pm
Let that balance the bad stuff, get you motivated to get things done and BE WITH HER!

5/15, 7:33pm Phil
She had a hand full of my cock and oh man     
       
5/15, 7:34pm
You could have that every day… boggles the mind, eh?

5/15, 7:48pm Phil
Oh my god, we chatted and flirted for 4 hours, just amazing
         
5/15, 7:48pm
Get packing.
5/15, 8:09pm Phil
: )
5/15, 9:26pm Phil
Feel so alive and so happy to be alive

5/15, 9:26pm
Yay!

5/15, 9:26pm Phil
Been awhile.

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Big tips

Tuesday, May 13, 2014
5/13, 7:34am Phil
Morning girl. Hope you have a fabulous day!

5/13, 7:55am
Good morning kid! 
       
5/13, 2:00pm Phil
Taking off early to have beers with my girl.     
       
5/13, 2:07pm
Yay!
I’m out for lunch with a temp who used to work with us
    
5/13, 2:30pm Phil
Cool!
       
5/13, 8:03pm Phil
Had a fabulous afternoon!

5/13, 8:05pm
Yay!
   
5/13, 8:08pm Phil
Had oysters and shrimp on the water while she massaged my errrr member under the table
   
5/13, 8:09pm
Naughty boy!  FUN!
 Did you do something for her?
Just posted ad for my mom’s car.  Hope someone takes it SOON! 
       
5/13, 8:11pm Phil
She wanted nothing but I massaged her feet which were also in my crotch
       
5/13, 8:11pm
Hee hee

5/13, 8:16pm Phil
Yeah, fun, waitress knew exactly what we were doing,

5/13, 8:17pm
I ran into that last time I was out with my guy.  I took a page from you book and sat on his side of the booth!  He gave her a big tip.

5/13, 8:18pm Phil
I tipped her well too. Told us she loved us. You guys were so hot and cute she said.

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Philip’s Fabulous Morning

Monday, May 12, 2014
     
5/12, 8:01am
Good morning!   Hope you have a day that changes your life!

5/12, 1:07pm Phil
It was a hell of a start
[photo of him with Fred, his head on hers, big smiles]
5/12, 1:09pm
Do tell!  You two look so great.

That does not look like a park…
   

5/12, 1:12pm Phil
Never made it that far. And yes I was naked but not what you think

5/12, 1:22pm
Explain?
   
5/12, 1:51pm Phil
I was all sweaty so I stripped down and took a shower while she threw my clothes in the washer
5/12, 1:59pm
Any smooching?
Any plan for more?
       
5/12, 3:25pm Phil
Smooching yes, a little foundling yes, me poking her with a hard-on yes
 Was very nice and left me wanting much more
    
5/12, 3:39pm
So you are still thinking this can work? Doing things to move that way?

5/12, 3:40pm Phil
Had a wonderful time and yeah. Beach Gal is happy and living her life, that’s not gonna happen and Fred is wonderful

5/12, 3:41pm
I am so happy for you!

5/12, 3:55pm Phil
Just a fabulous morning

5/12, 4:21pm Phil
She was almost in the shower with me. Want to hold off just a bit. Texted and said it was all she could do to not drop to her knees and swallow my cock. Made me smile
       
5/12, 4:26pm
Ooh… very nice!

5/12, 6:57pm Phil
She’s a lot of fun and very sweet
   
5/12, 6:58pm
Different from your wife?
        
5/12, 7:01pm Phil
Oh lord yes. She’s exciting and oh my god so sensuous and loving. Loves being outside, motorcycles, jeeps made to have her hair and other assets in the wind. We still laugh about her being naked in the car blowing me, ass up and a truck driver stayed right next to us and then Fred licked her lips, smiled and waved to the guy flashing he amazing tits. He honked the horn and drove on. That was fun