AM men so far

January 1, 2013

Happy New Year!

I am feeling a little better this morning – regrouping, taking stock of where I am and trying to figure out where I am going.  I feel done with Ashley Madison but don’t see a clear alternative.  Here’s a quick summary of my contacts since I joined AM in mid-September:

  • 10 men contacted me that I replied to 
  • 6 Met 
  • 3 Had sex with (2 good, one bad)
  • 8 Gone
  • 2 Still talking (Mr Truck and Panties Man)

Month            Met       Status Comments

September

   #1                   No        Gone    Guilt king, stood me up

   The Lawyer     Once     Gone     Regular guy, so sweet, too busy to cheat

   Dancing Man    Once     Gone     Regular guy, One and done without a word

   Panties Man     Once     Active   Kinky, sweet, too busy to cheat

   The Professor   Once     Gone     Vanilla, erudite, lunch and silence

October

   Mr Truck          No       Active     Email king, porn king, kinky

November 

   Speedy             Once     Gone      Selfish, shorter, thinner, one and done

   Period Man       No         Gone      Too many periods!

December

   SmoothGuy       No        Gone     Nice guy, said he won’t cheat

   Volt                Once     Gone     Great guy, generous, guilty

Volt Guilt

From: Sassy
To: Volt 
Sent: Saturday, Dec 29, 2012 4:11 pm 
Subject: Snowy Saturday 
Hiya Sean, 
I am still smiling!  Hope you had a great day and are finding good moments to remember that keep you warm on this wintery day.  I was a good girl – had lunch with my mom and read her email.  Whee!  
-S
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From: Sassy 
To: Volt
Sent: Monday, December 31, 2012 2:18 AM
Subject: Sushi Sunday
Hiya Sean!
Hope you had a good day and the snow didn’t make too much work for you.  I went out in the wilds of the suburbs today to visit friends.  They took us out for sushi!  Yum.  It was very fresh and delicious.  It made me think of something else tasty I had earlier this week… you! 
-S
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, Dec 31, 2012 5:00 PM
Hi
Nice to hear from you. I had a wonderful time Thursday! I have had some guilty feeling and second thoughts that have me worried. I am not going to be able to start a new relationship at this time. I thought I was, but with all that I have going on at home and with what is as risk for me, I just can’t I am sorry .I hope you find what your looking for and I wish you the best.
Take Care
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Monday, Dec 31, 2012 6:13 pm 
Hi Sean, 
Thanks for writing.  I appreciate knowing.  
Sorry to hear the guilt is hitting you.  I understand.  It’s part of what makes you such a special man.  Thank you very much for being so sweet to me and making me feel sexy for a little while. I will never forget that last position… watching you smile and feeling your warmth flood that condom. Pure magic.
I hope you’ll let me know how you’re doing… I’d love to know when you’re a grandfather!  And if you find someone worth the risk.  You deserve it. 
Happy New Year! 
-S 
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, January 1, 2013 10:12 AM
Hi
Thank you again for the wonderful afternoon, It will be a great memory for me too.I will let you know when I’m a grandfather. For now I will abandon my affair search, its not something I can deal with right now. I don’t exactly know why all of a suddent this guilt thing…… I will have to figure things out. Thank you again.
Take Care
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt 
Sent: Tuesday, Jan 1, 2013 12:10 PM 
Hi Sean, 
Best of luck in figuring things out.  If you want a friend to talk with… I am here to listen.  You don’t have to put your hands on me to be special to me.  And I have listened to a lot of people in chat, so I may be able to offer some insights.  I want to help.  
Off to Mom’s for turkey! Enjoy the day! 
-S

Out with the old

Monday, December 31, 2012
10:54am
Good morning kid!  Hope your last day of 2012 goes smoothly!
I’m off to Framingham for lunch with a MAN!  Think good thoughts for me at noon thirty!  I am finally going to meet the first guy I talked to on AM.  Bring on #1!  
11:51am Phil
Have fun!  Here’s a man
[photo of his smiling face and naked shoulders in his bedroom]
Enjoy lunch
12:33pm
You look good enough to eat!  He’s late…
12:42pm Phil
[photo of his shoulders and back in his bathroom with jeans on]
Something to distract you
12:43pm
Thanks.  I think I’m being stood up.
12:46pm Phil
Awwwww, that’s bullshit. Just chickenshit!
12:47pm
How long do I wait? Grrrr
12:51pm Phil
Half hour. Should have called, jack ass
12:53pm
Doesn’t have my #.  But could’ve emailed…sigh
Thanks for being out there…this so sucks!
12:56pm Phil
I’m so sorry! Guy’s a low life, not worth seeing. His Momma failed miserably. Hope I provided a little levity and distraction. Say what you mean, mean what you say, no bullshit
1:20pm
Giving up. Bleh.
1:29pm
How’s your day going?
1:34pm Phil
Sorry Sass. 
Good, had amazing video sex, got a workout in, now prepping for this evening.
1:37pm
Glad one of us got off!  
Thanks again, Philip.  
Ordering take-out from Olive Garden!  At least I get some sausage!
1:38pm Phil
I’m relaxed as can be. 
LOL! Enjoy. 
Just discovered face time program. WOW! What fun!
1:40pm
Nice!  The Beach Gal?
2:03pm Phil
Of course!
2:04pm
Got my lunch, headed home.  Hugs with ear nibbles!
2:06pm Phil
Enjoy! Finished shopping, cooking now and some cleaning!
2:06pm
Partying tonight?
2:06pm Phil
My girl just makes me smile and laugh and umm other things.
2:07pm
Excellent!
2:07pm Phil
Yeah, friends coming over, a couple neighbors, good food, plenty to drink.
2:07pm
Gotta drive, more in a bit
2:08pm Phil
We got a keg, big fire pit, lots of food, cigars
Drive careful
3:00pm
Mmmm… nothing like sausage soup!
3:19pm
LOL
5:29pm
Volt just blew me off.  More B.S.  Wow… blown off by two men in one day. 
I am so done with all this.  Happy New Year!
6:01pm Phil
Huh?  Happy New Year babe!
Find a strong alcoholic beverage and chill!
6:04pm
Ha ha… wish that worked… but thanks for the thought.  
Can’t seem to stop crying.  Ugh.  maybe that will help…
6:49pm Phil
Ohh baby, stop, you just got a jackass. 
Not worth your tears
END OF 2012

Waiting for Volt

When I got home from meeting Volt, I felt so fantastic!!  There were messages from Philip… but it took me awhile to answer.  I wanted to savor the memories, take my time deciding what I thought.  The moment I responded, Philip called and wanted a full report!  The cheek!  
He listened and asked questions and seemed very happy for me.  I listened to him puzzle about the women in his life.  It was so marvelous to hear his voice and have a real conversation.  It kept me from fretting about not hearing back from Volt.  Ugh.  
I went from that to chatting online.  They listened to me fret.  Was this going to be yet another case of a meet I thought went beautifully and never heard from the man again?  Arrgh!  They finally told me it was okay to write when it got to be more than 6 hours since we parted.  *sigh  
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Thursday, December 27, 2012 9:08 PM
Subject: Thanks
Hiya Sean, 
Thank you ever so much for lunch today!  I enjoyed it immensely.  I really appreciate everything you did to make it special.  Hope you had an easy drive back.  
-Sassy
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I waited for a reply.  Surely he’d write before he went to bed?  I finally gave up and went to bed very late… without a reply. 
Gentlemen!  Please.  Please.  PLEASE!  Do NOT leaving a lady wondering!  
Sassy’s suggestions for perfect post-meet communications:
1) Write from your car right after you part, or as soon as you get home.  
2) Write again the next morning. 
3) Keep writing!  
It doesn’t have to be much… something short and sweet.  Anything but SILENCE!  
Thank goodness, when I woke up on Friday – there was an email!  HOORAY!  
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From: Volt
To: Sassy 
Sent: Friday, December 28, 2012 7:45 AM
Subject: Re: Thanks
Hi
I had a great time as well. I did not have any problems getting home. I hope you enjoy the rest of your vacation. Talk to you soon.
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Friday, December 28, 2012 12:10 PM
Subject: Re: Thanks
Hiya Sean,
I am smiling this morning and you are the only one in the world who knows why.  🙂  There is also some tingling… mmmm.  
-S
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, Dec 28, 2012 3:00 PM
Hi

It will be our little secret. Have a great day.

A Torrential Downpour

I met Volt today! For those of you keeping score at home, this is the sixth man from AM I’ve met since September – The Lawyer, Dancing Man, Panties Man, Speedy, the Professor and now Volt.  You can click on the “Meet” label to read about each one. 
Paul Newman

Background
I had given up on searching for men online.  I had not heard from anyone interesting in nearly six weeks, and my experiences had been tough… nice meetings with no follow-up.  Bleh.  
Then I got an email from an electrician!  I’d never talked to a tradesman before.  He works with his hands.  Hmmm…. He can’t really spell, he never went to college, but I decided it didn’t matter.  He had this calm, settled, focused, sweet demeanor that made me hope for someone who was interested in basic sex, long term. He was not very chatty, but enjoyed the erotica I sent.  He never responded to any porn I sent.  He liked the photos I sent but never sent me any other than the first three he posted on AM. 
He said he caught his wife cheating years ago and things were never the same between them.  He had been with another woman for awhile but her job and schedule changed making it tough to see her, so they ended it.  He said he wanted one woman, that I was the only one he was talking with.  His mother died the week he started writing to me.  
We were both on vacation the week after Christmas, so he suggested a meet.  I agreed and we set to planning.  Once that was settled, he didn’t talk much.  
The plan was to meet for lunch at The 99 in Somerville – easy to find, just off the highway.  He likes burgers and they serve a range of tasty ones.  Since he’s an early riser, I suggested meeting early, but they don’t open until 11 am.  So I suggested meeting earlier, sitting in my car, getting acquainted.  So we are set to meet at 10:30 am on December 27, three weeks and three days since he first wrote to me.  
The meet
The weather was nasty – driving rain, windy, cold… but perfect to stay hidden in a car.  I drove over, arriving at 10:28 am.  I thought I saw his car parked in the front lot.  I drove around to the back lot I had told him about and in about 30 seconds, he parked two spots over from me and waved!  I had put down the middle seats, so I opened the side doors and hopped out of the car.  We had a quick hug in the rain, and I motioned him into the back seat.  He looked like his photos.  Phew!  He reminded me of an older Paul Newman.  He matched his stats – about my age, 6’2″ tall and about 200 pounds.  He had on black jeans, black Henley t-shirt, a plaid button down flannel shirt, and a bomber jacket from his work, with a Harley-Davidson baseball cap.  I wore my soft old blue jeans, teal blue top (that buttons all the way down the front) and a silky scarf, a mixture of casual on the bottom and dressed up on top, with my old blue hoodie.  
We sprawled across the back seat like teenagers.  He put his arm around my shoulders and snuggled next to me, smiling.  We talked, staring at each other.  He touched my cheek and asked if it was okay to kiss me.  I nodded and we kissed… mmm.  He was very gentle, took it slow, asked if I was okay… said I smell nice!  He slipped his hand inside my shirt and tweaked my nipple over my bra… I started to squirm and moan.  He inched downward, making circles on my tummy and then further down inside my jeans.  He played along the edges of my panties, then dove inside to play with my clit.  He made me cum.  Great hands!  We steamed up the windows.  
After about half an hour, he said, “I notice a hotel across the parking lot.  Let me get a room.  We’d be so much more comfortable.”  I had decided I did not want to go that far on the first meet and I told him that.  He kissed me again and said it would be good, he would make it good.  I asked him to tempt me… tell me what he wanted to do.  He took a deep breath – he is not a big talker – then launched into a very sexy litany of basic acts.  He whispered and nibble on my ear.  I listened and melted.  I want to do that!  
I asked how it would work?  He said he’d get a room and I could call him in 10 minutes and he’d tell me the room number.  So easy.  So I said yes.  He took off to do that.  I texted Sis to tell her I was going to the hotel.  I wrote email to a blogger pal.  I wondered what I had agreed to do.  Heh.  
I called and he told me 321.  Easy to remember!  I drove across the lot to park on the hotel side, and took the elevator up to the third floor.  I knocked and he let me into the room.  I went to look out the window over the restaurant, warehouses and elevated highway in the rain.  He hugged me from behind, squeezed my chest and nibbled on my neck.  He unzipped my hoodie and draped it over the desk chair.  I turned around in his arms and we hugged hard… breathing each other in…then kissed for a long time.  We undressed each other slowly… he looked so happy as he uncovered parts of my body!  We ended up standing naked, looking at each other and smiling.  
We moved to the king size bed.  He rolled back the blankets and we sprawled out on the sheets.  I felt shy for a moment, so I rolled onto my stomach, – he gave me a lovely back rub!  He found the “easy button” on my back that is hooked directly to my clit and stroked it until I came!  Whoa… I hadn’t told him about that!  He played with my chest and then my clit with his finger, then licked my clit to another lovely orgasm.  He touched me all over…down each arm, each leg, my feet… I felt worshipped.  He kept asking me if I was okay, was he doing it right, did that feel good?   So wonderful to be touched!  
I sucked on him awhile… he was hard as a rock.  His cock is on the smaller side, but beautifully formed with a good girth… still big enough that I could not deep throat him easily, but he said to focus on the head…easier for him not to cum.  He said that felt good, and he adored the sounds I made.  He made some great sounds himself, moaning and sighing.  
He had put 3 condoms on the nightstand and took care of that as a matter of course… very nice.  I thanked him.  We had not talked about it because I thought we weren’t going there today.  I was cheered to think he might be able to cum more than once! 
He pulled me off sucking him and asked if I wanted him inside me.  I said yes. He tugged my legs up and entered me face-to-face for awhile… oh that felt so fantastic!  I flipped over and we did some doggie action… he flicked my clit and I came hard.  He liked that and came soon after me (I think, though he did not say).  He went to dispose of the condom.  
We lay next to each other on our sides, my face at his toes… he kept touching me… playing with my slit… rubbing my legs. I helped him find my g-spot… mmmm… I came again!  I sucked on him some more… he liked that a lot.  I played with his chest, then rolled him over and gave him a back rub while he rested… he has freckles and a very cute butt!  
He focused on my chest, sucking on one nipple while tweaking the other.  There was something about his mouth… his hand… he bit me gently and tugged and I exploded again!  The man is amazing!  
After a little while, he asked if I wanted more. I said yes.  He asked if I’d try a different position.  I nodded.  It was one I had never seen or done.  I was on my back, and he was lying perpendicular, bent at the waist, with my legs over his hips.  He could play with my clit and my chest and kiss me while pounding up from under… wow!  He puled out and pressed against my clit – I could really feel him twitching and I even felt him cum very distinctly!  Very very hot.  I exploded.  He disposed of the condom while I shuddered on the bed.  
He collapsed next to me but kept touching me… glancing over at me, smiling… nuzzling my neck.  
I asked him where he was today, officially?  He said he was “helping a friend with some electrical work” and that he hated lying but what can you do?  He looked at the clock and noticed it was 1:47 pm… said he has to get going.  He took a shower.  I used the toilet… and peeked at him. He laughed.  
We got dressed and he said he really enjoyed himself.  He said I should go first and he’d wait 10 minutes. He got very pensive, asked if it would be trouble that they asked for his credit card, even if he paid cash.  I said I wasn’t sure… but usually they don’t run anything unless you have phone charges or something extra.  I offered to charge it next time and he could give me cash if that was better. 
He gave me a big hug, said “I’ll see you online!” then I took off.  
I sat in my car eating a granola bar… I seem to have missed lunch.  I was gathering my wits and thought, “I could do this once a week.”  Mmmm…. Hooray for Volt!  
Summary
For the record – he made me cum SEVEN TIMES!  
Here’s the list of how he did it: 
#1 – in the back seat of the car, sitting next to each other, with his finger flicking my clit inside my jeans and his mouth on mine. 
#2 – a back rub.  (he found the spot.  I had not told him about it) 
#3 – his tongue flicking my clit and his fingers twisting inside me
#4 – his fingers on my clit while he was pounding me, sort of doggie style
#5 – two fingers inside me while we were “resting.”  I told him about the g-spot and curling fingers and helped him find it. 
#6 – sucking on my breast, while biting and twisting 
#7 – a new position – I was on my back with my legs over his hip while he was on his side bent at a right angle…with his face near mine. on the left.. so I could see his expressions, kiss him, he could play with my chest or clit.  There was this moment where his cock was pounding inside me, he was kissing me and his finger was on my clit and I could feel him cumming… and he took his cock out to press against my clit so I could feel the hot, warm liquid pouring into the condom… yowza.  Blew my mind. 
I like this guy!  

Three Wise Men?

The day after Christmas was fun!  I heard from three different men! 
1) Volt started off the day talking about our upcoming meet. 
From: Sassy 
To: Volt
Sent: Tuesday, December 25, 2012 8:59 AM
Subject: Re: Details 
Merry Christmas!  It’s snowing!  
-S
From: Volt 
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 8:19 am 
Good Morning
I didn’t get much snow just s dusting. Hope you had a nice Christmas. Mine was good, had a few people over for dinner. That was about it. Stayed in and watched tv. I will talk to you tomorrow, in person! See you soon.
Sean
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2) Next up Mr Truck chimed in with his latest sexy suggestions (Dig his salutation!):
From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 8:52 am
Hey there Sassolicious:
Do you have lots of different bras & panties? I bet you do. Might be fun to have you model a few combinations for me. I can do same with boxers and boxer briefs, the latter showing my package curves best. I should probably use those to fulfill your request: show my bulge then show my naked hard cock, give you lots to stare at, cause you to imagine things you want to do, ways you want to play with it. It will be fun for us. Perhaps after the coming pics you can share with me a peek of your sweet pussy or even just closer to it, maybe panties pulled tight to reveal puffy lips, or your full cameltoe?
Mmmmmm
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3) Finally Panties Man was bored at work and we had a flirty email exchange.  
Subject: Good Wednesday?
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 11:53 am 
Hey there, sexy sassy!
I can’t IM today, but can check in with email.  How are you doing?
Date: Wed, 26 Dec 2012 11:58:06 -0800
From: Sassy
Subject: Re: Good Wednesday?
To: Rick
Great! Out running errands, thinking about the man in car with the piercing gaze and wandering hands!
Subject: RE: Good Wednesday?
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy 
Dec 26, 2012 12:13 pm
I think I know that guy…is it the same one who found the pics you sent oh-so-sexy???  I look at them every once in awhile, always smile, and often get even more of a reaction 😉  
Whatcha wearing today???
Date: Wed, 26 Dec 2012 12:47:14 -0800 
From: Sassy
Subject: RE: Good Wednesday?
To: Rick 
You are very smart! And sexy… Glad those pics make you…smile.
I’m in total “not working – I can be comfortable” mode with blue sweatpants, sweatshirt and hoodie! Fleece, baby! Hiding mauve sporty Hanes undies and demure white bra! What about you?
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 12:50 pm 
mmmm…I’m back to wearing something pretty today.  Hadn’t been while at home all day with other people around.  These are hi-cut Olga panties; pretty red print.
Fleece is warm!  Not sexy, but warmth comes first on winter days and running errands.  
Date: Wed, 26 Dec 2012 1:42:03 -0800 pm
From: Sassy
Subject: RE: Good Wednesday?
To: Rick
Red? Nice. I’m chilling at the car wash. Mini-van is going to sparkle! In case, you know, I happen to see someone special later this week. 
Did Santa bring you anything good? 
-S
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 2:17 pm 
I was a great Santa.  He brought me some good things.  
You might have me curious just how much the van sparkles!  And now I’m wondering more about what you’ll be wearing tomorrow and Friday.  And also getting excited about thinking of sucking on a sexy nipple.  just saying….maybe I’ll need to suckle one nipple while tweaking the other…and maybe my other hand will also need to be busy.
But this is just me thinking!!  I wouldn’t assume you’d like this at all!  Just know that I believe I’d like it.
Date: Wed, 26 Dec 2012  7:32:18 -0800 pm
From: Sassy
Subject: RE: Good Wednesday?
To: Rick 
You do know how to tempt me… 
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy
Dec 26, 2012 9:16 pm
me tempt you???   how about you tempting me??
Date: Wed, 26 Dec 2012 22:04:12 -0800
From: Sassy
Subject: Re: Good Wednesday?
To: Rick
I don’t know what you mean.  🙂  
-S
From: Panties Man
To: Sassy
Dec 27, 2012 7:43 am
I guess I’ll have to tell you then!
I think your cleavage is sexier.  The profile of your breasts even more so.  Seeing your breasts covered only in a bra makes me hard and want to dive in and bare them to touch, feel and taste.
I imagine my hands wandering all over you; touching, feeling, probing, listening to your breathing get heavier and heavier as I find those places that make you warm, moist, and want more of me.
Does that help you understand??  🙂 

Volt Meet Prep

From: Sassy 
To: Volt
Sent: Thursday, December 20, 2012 9:46 PM
Subject: The Squish
Hi Sean. 
I hope you had a good Thursday!  Missed hearing from you… but I know this is a crazy time.  
I got to go to MGH for my annual mammogram.  Whee!  In addition to the pain of the boob squish, it now comes with a side of terror that I might fall down the rabbit hole into a life-threatening mess again.  *sigh  I try not to fret until they tell me to, but it’s tough to wait, probably a week, to hear if all that stuff they did to me has kept me safe.  On the upside, I found 8 Christmas presents at the gift store there… it rocks!  
One more day of work!  I am so psyched to get to be on vacation!  
Have a fabulous Friday!  
-Sassy
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From:Volt
To: Sassy 
Sent: Friday, December 21, 2012 5:12 AM
Subject: Re: The Squish
Hi
It’s been a long week at work, it will be so nice to be out of here for a week and a half. I hope all goes well for you. I am not very religious, but I will say a prayer for you.  I am leaving here at 11:00 today and don’t come back till the 2nd. I hope we can still get together Thursday. Have a nice day.
Sean
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From: Sassy 
To: Volt
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2012 5:57 PM
Subject: Saturday songs
HI Sean!
I hope your vacation is off to a grand start!  Did you get your shopping finished?  I had the radio playing Christmas songs today and finally started to feel the holiday spirit!  
I am trying to do something every day to get me out and make my vacation special.  Today there was a project meeting to teach people to do publicity and ad sales.  So fun to have enthusiastic new folks!  Then taking my mom to lunch.  We had a fun time at a local Greek diner. There was a lot of traffic… I suppose everyone is doing their last Christmas errands.  I was going to write from her computer, but her modem died!  I got to talk to Verizon… whee!  Since she’s had the same modem for over 20 years, they are sending her a new one for free.  
I been thinking about meeting… seeing your smile, watching your face as you talk, perhaps a touch of the hand, a hug… more?  I hope there will be that spark and I can make you really smile with my hands, my mouth and my curvy body!  You may think I’m a complete hussy, but here is sexy photo… enjoy! 
-Sassy
[I attached a photo of my naked chest]
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From: Volt
To: Sassy 
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2012 9:13 PM
Subject: Re: Saturday songs
Hi
Thank you for the very sexy pic, I love it! I am very excited about meeting you. I’m hopeful we hit it off too. I hope I can make you smile too!
 I will be doing some shopping tomorrow. I worked all day at home on a project. Its nice to be off from work for a week. I am just sitting hanging out with the dogs. Thanks again for the hot pic, its definatly a big turn on!! Talk to you soon.
Sean
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From: Volt
To: Sassy 
Sent: Saturday, December 22, 2012 5:12 PM
Subject: Re: The Squish
Hi
I look looking forward to making you smile! I keep looking at your boobs an it make me want to do all kinds of things with you! I am sitting relaxing after working on a project at home. I keep thinking about meeting Thursday. Did you have a place in mind? I can meet for breakfast or lunch, whatever work for you. I will talk with you soon. 
Sean 
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From: Sassy 
To: Volt
Sent: Sunday, December 23, 2012 10:03 AM
Subject: Re: Saturday songs
Hiya Sean! 
It makes me so happy to hear you gush about my photo!  I would like to… smile again.  There is nothing in the world better than a man with a sexy mind intent on making me smile!  Okay… maybe a freshly steam lobster.  Hard to choose!
I hope the traffic isn’t too bad for your shopping… they’re talking about craziness on the radio, like not even being able to park at the big malls.  With any luck you don’t have to go near the malls!  
We’re hoping to see The Hobbit today.  Maybe the crowds are at the mall and not the cinema!  
Have a great Sunday!
 -Sassy
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Sunday, December 23, 2012 8:27 PM
Subject: Details 
Hiya Sean!
You work so hard!  Amazing all the time you put into home projects!  
Great to hear my spectacular chest is inspiring you!  It takes a lot of courage to send a shot like that!
We got out today – saw “The Hobbit” up in Revere.  There were only about 20 people in the theater.  We had a yummy Chinese lunch, then I ferried Hubby around to finish his shopping.  He survived the stores!  
I have a theory on a place.  Let me know if this sounds doable?  It’s got easy free parking and good food – The 99 restaurant in Somerville.  It’s just off Rte 93, onto 28, two quick right turns.  The address is 20 Cummings Street, Somerville, MA 02145.  It shares a parking lot with a La Quinta motel, behind the Assembly Square Mall.  They have booths which may afford us some privacy. 
I did a google map with directions 
http://goo.gl/maps/IlIlo
Here’s the menu – lots of great burgers and All-American dishes. 
http://www.99restaurants.com/menus-standout-starters.aspx
They open at 11 am.  Is that still a good time for you on Thursday?  Or we could meet a little earlier, sit in my car and talk until they open?  The lot on the far side of the restaurant on the left is relatively private.  Whatever time makes sense to you.  
Does that sound okay?  Thank you very much for agreeing to come here.  If this plan doesn’t seem right for some reason, let me know and I’ll keep thinking.  
Hope your Christmas Eve is wonderful!  
-Sassy
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From: Volt
To: Sassy 
Sent: Monday, December 24, 2012 8:57 AM
Subject: Re: Details
Good Morning
The 99 sound great. I will be there around 10;30. I am looking forward to this! I have to get out shopping today. Nothing like waiting til the last second. I hope your time off from work is going well. I am enjoying mine. Its just nice to stay home sometimes. I will talk to you later. 
Have a nice day
Sean

Low Voltage

From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Wednesday, December 19, 2012 7:56 AM
Subject: Wet Wednesday
Good morning Sean!
Dashing off to work but wanted to say I am thinking about you, hoping your day is going well and send you a little smile and a big hug!  
 -S
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, December 19, 2012 7:56 AM
Subject: Wet Wednesday
Dec 19, 2012 6:00 pm
Hi
Always nice to hear from you! I have had a long day. I’m glad its over. Thanks for the hug I needed that;) I am looking forward to seeing you the 27th. Have a great night
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Wednesday, December 19, 2012 8:49 pm 
Subject: Wet Wednesday
Hiya Sean! 
I hear ya… hope you can relax.  Only two more days until break!
-S

Kissing lessons

From: Sassy
To: Volt
Sent: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 8:04 AM
Subject: Tuesday times
Good morning!  I hope your Tuesday is off to a great start!  
I’m off to work, hoping for a quiet day so I have time to think of fun things to send you! 
-Sassy
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From: Volt 
To: Sassy
Dec 18, 2012 9:26 am
Good Morning
I was at work extra early this morning, the hard part of my day is behind me now. I know this is a busy time of year for everyone. I still have lots of shopping to do. I hope you have a nice quite day. Talk to you later
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt 
Dec 18, 2012 2:49 pm
Hiya Sean!
I am full of Cajun food and your sweet words.  I took my assistants out for lunch.  I’m trying to get out of the office more, lessen the stress on all of us!  Do you usually bring lunch?  I’ve gotten in the habit of snarfing a cereal bar and working right along, with is probably very bad for me! 
Do you know what you’re shopping for and just need to get it?  Or are you still needing ideas?  I do all my shopping online these days… you are very brave to go to stores!  Eep!  I can’t believe Christmas is next week!  Will you be at your place for the festivities? 
I have to make a little opening speech at a meeting tonight and then my projects will be quiet for awhile, thank goodness.    
Kissing is on my mind…so basic but so amazing… exploring with hands and mouth… mmm… I miss that so much.  I was looking at random kisses on youtube last night from TV shows I don’t even watch, but people pull out the one or two minutes of a great kiss and it gets to me… hope I am learning things that will make me even better the next time I get to kiss someone… maybe next week?  There’s a lot to be learned from youtube!
-Sassy
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From: Volt 
To: Sassy
Dec 18, 2012 6:01 pm
Hi
Sound like a nice lunch. I usually bring mine. There are not to many good places to eat near by.  It’s amazing the different things you can learn on u-tube. I would have never imagined looking up kissing. I hope you get to use your new found skills;) I do do on line shopping but this year its just a bunch of gift certificates so I have to go to the resturaunts. I can’t wait till next week, I could use the time off. I am still hopefull we can get together! I am getting ready to go home so I will catch up with you later. Have a nice night.
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt 
Dec 18, 2012 10:00 pm
Hiya Sean, 
So are you a sandwich guy at lunch?  Leftovers from last night’s dinner?  I am trying to imagine you at lunch time… do you stay at your desk?  
I have the kissing thing down… but as I watch the kissers, I pick up things to do with my hands or ideas of ways to stand or lie to augment the lip action.  I do hope you’ll want to see what I’ve learned.  🙂  I have you on my calendar for Dec. 27th.  Have ideas on where… tossing around the best food vs. easy parking.  I have been thinking of a shower fantasy… written a little… stay tuned. 
Oooh!  Restaurant certificates!  That sounds like such a great gift!  
We had a quick dinner at the local Thai place  I got to see my niece who is the best 5 year old on the planet.  We were talking about “early vs. late,” like is 7 pm early in the evening or late in the evening?  She decided it was the middle.  Hah.  
You probably won’t see this until morning, so I hope you slept well and are off to a great start on a Wednesday worth remembering!
-S

Volt Reconnected

From: Volt
To: Sassy
Dec 17, 2012 5:10 am
Good Morning
 I never heard back from you, hope I didn’t say something to offend you? Look forward to talking more.
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Dec 17, 2012 7:47 am
Hiya Sean!
Hope your week is off to a great start.  Is this a busy time for you? 
Sorry I was quiet yesterday!  Didn’t mean to get you worrying!  Please don’t ever take silence as a problem.  I am very tough to offend… and if so, I usually say… Hey, what was that?!  
We have project meeting tonight, so I had a lot of prep to do, and work around the house, and I was catching up with emails to people who sent me Christmas cards.  I was thinking about you and hugs and more!  
Have a great Monday!  
 -Sassy
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Dec 17, 2012 9:33 am
Hi
Glad to hear! I have lots to do this time of year, but always have time for you. I still have shopping to do as usual. Spent the day finishing up a project at home.  I’m off the week of Xmas so I will finish up all the loose ends that week. I hope to have a nice relaxing week. I will talk to you soon.
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Dec 17, 2012 10:54 am 
Hiya Sean!  
Aww… you say the sweetest things!  I am at my desk at work, hoping for a quiet day.  We get free chair massages today!  I talked my boss into letting me hire someone to the staff as a year-end present.  So at 12:30 pm I will have a man’s hands all over my back.  Wish it could be you!  Have you had a massage?  I used to be rather skittish about them but started getting them for free when I was in chemo… and now they seem like one of the best treats around!  
Hope your Monday is going well!  Mwah!
 -S
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From: Volt
To: Sassy
Dec 17, 2012 12:14 pm
Hi
Wow..what a great place to work. I have never had one. I have heard its nice. Maybe some time if things work out we can exchange them. Having someone hands all over you could be lots of fun. I just wish it could be me!  Have a nice message;)
Sean
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From: Sassy
To: Volt
Dec 17, 2012 1:40 pm
Hiya Sean!
I am so relaxed!  It’s amazing what 20 minutes with a massage therapist will do.  
There must be somewhere near your work that they do them for relatively cheap.  Most places charge like $12 per 10 minutes… it is so worth it for a treat now and then.  I was worried that it would feel sexual, but it doesn’t.  It’s more like… someone doing yoga or exercising for you.  They also make great presents, if you are stuck on what to give someone.  
I am no expert, but I would adore putting my hands on you, rubbing, pressing, getting the kinks out and helping you relax… and I would definitely let you do the same for me.  It may be tough to stick to that… but if I cross over into something more sexy, perhaps you won’t mind.  
How is your day going?  I wish I had time for a nap, but I get to have my weekly meeting with my boss at 3 pm instead.  It feels like being called to the principal’s office, but I try not to get too worked up about it.  
-Sassy
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From: Sassy
To:  Volt
Dec 17, 2012 5:06 pm
Hiya Sean, 
I hope you had a good day.  I am headed off to dinner and a meeting…smiling thinking of you and hoping you have an easy drive home and a relaxing evening.  I wish you could be with me!  More later… hugs!  
 -Sassy