A paper rose

The New Guy didn’t write back.  I get it, I guess.  But I could have talked to him.  I could have helped him. I tried not to write again.  But then about a week later I saw a quote and something about it… I thought it was worth one last try.  Maybe he had calmed down?

http://stevenkom.deviantart.com/art/Paper-rose-207309904
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From: Sassy
To NewGuy
Sent: Monday, Jun 24, 2013 11:23 AM 
Good morning!  
Saw this quote on Jonathan Carroll’s Facebook page… it screamed to be sent to you. 
“He folded his fear into a perfect rose. He held it out in the palm of his hand. She took it from him and put it in her hair.”
Arundhati Roy
-S
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He never wrote back.  I hate silence.  
Farewell New Guy.  Best of luck to you. 

The New Guy Meet

Tuesday, June 18, 2013
From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 4:04 PM 
Subject: I can’t do this
I’m sorry 
Been driving around mall for an hour
Trying to screw up my courage
And failing to do so
I think I’m just not ready to take the leap past text messages
Much of me would like very much to make this happen
But I’m too afraid on too many levels
To carry it off right now
May be another time
But not yet
Good luck
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From: Sassy
To: New guy
Sent: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 4:15 PM 
Subject: Re: I can’t do this
Thanks for letting me know. Sorry it’s so scary. The first time is tough. Let me know what I can do to make it easier?
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From: Sassy
To: New guy
Sent: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 4:21 PM 
Subject: Re: I can’t do this
Are you far away now? If not, park. Come in. Talk. That’s all. You can do it. I’ll help. I’m just a lonely lady looking to make you smile. Nothing else. You set the pace.
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From: Sassy
To: New guy
Sent: Tuesday, June 18, 2013 4:36 PM 
Subject: Re: I can’t do this
Okay. Giving up. Don’t fret. Back to email!
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So he stood me up.  At least he emailed and didn’t leave me sitting there too long. 
I hate this part.
Hate hate hate it.
He was the one in a hurry! I would’ve emailed for a month if he wanted.
This is why I shy away from newbies!
I understand the fear…but ugh.
Eh
Treated myself to a lobster roll for dinner!
I wish these guys could punt before I pay for parking.
I am wondering if this was all b.s. 
hard to tell
but it seems real
and he seemed so nice. *sigh 
Another couple of weeks invested without even a hug.  Yuck! 
Back on the shelf for me.

He called me a devil?

Monday, June 17, 2013

From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Subject: You wonder about 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 11:12 AM 
My ears? Where did that come from?

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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Subject: How do you know
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 12:02 PM

I’m somebody you can trust

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From: Sassy
To: New Guy
Sent: Jun 17, 2013 12:15 PM
Subject: re: You wonder about
Nibbling. And whispering naughty things!
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, June 17, 2013 1:34 PM
Subject: You ARE an enthusiastic devil
Are you this exuberant in everything you do
Or is this a place where you feel more comfortable being effusive?
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He called me a devil?  Yuck!!!
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 6:23:13 PM 
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
By day, a mild-mannered, demure, business lady.  
For the right man?  Sassy!  
Oh my… a woman who is interested in SEX!  
Sound like fun?  
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 6:34:18 PM 
Yup
You do.
I’m just not used to hearing it
From somebody I don’t know very well (yet)
But hopefully I will
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy 
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 7:54 PM 
Sorry if I’m going too fast.. not used to flirting? It’s new to me but fun. I only do it online. And you know things about me almost no one else does.
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, June 17, 2013 8:02 PM
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil
No
You’re not going too fast.
I’m working to hold back
Cause I don’t want to scare you off.
And I do like what I’ve heard so far
Like I said, I’ve never done this, and I don’t do any Facebook, etc., so I’m not used to talking about sex, or any other kind of intimacy, online
I really look forward to meeting you in person: I’m happy to take as long as it takes, but i think we’ll know
In the first few minutes
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 8:42 PM 
This is a different world.  I hope you’ll like it,
but remember the real world rules don’t apply.  
Some conventions have developed – it’s a 
fascinating place where wrong is so right,
and people say what they want and get it!  
You can be yourself, or figure out who a new
you will be, and share on a new level.  While
not sharing things you’d usually say. 
In my experience, it’s best not to judge too quickly. 
The first meet is awkward – we’re nervous.  
Remember I am not someone you’ll be seen with, 
or live with, or have your kids.  We’ll be alone… 
to touch, to let me touch you.  If we’re lucky! 
I’ll be near the Au Bon Pain, down the stairs in the
lower section with the windows facing the fountain. 
I feel like Lil Orphan Annie… “tomorrow, tomorrow.” 
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, June 17, 2013 8:58 PM
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil
I will look to you
To take me in hand
So to speak
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 11:12:14 PM 
I see what you did there… 
makes me smile.  
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 11:53:10 PM 
That’s the idea
Make ’em laugh
(?danny Kaye)
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: You ARE an enthusiastic devil 
Sent: Tue, Jun 18, 2013 1:32 AM
How can Paul McCartney be 71 today?!
I do want to hold your hand.
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Tuesday, June 18, 2013 9:56 AM
But he looks good
Needs a more age-appropriate haircut tho. 
Did you see the Olympic opening? Nice, quiet, organized show

Pre-meet chit chat

Saturday, June 15, 2013
From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday 
Sent: Sat, Jun 15, 2013 3:29 PM 
Wondering about your smile, your laugh,  your ears!  Tuesday…
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
Sent: Sat, Jun 15, 2013 6:19 PM 
I can’t wait to see you
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, June 16, 2013 8:13 PM
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
How are those eyes?
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
Sent: Sun, Jun 16, 2013 9:22 PM 
Fabulous!  Full of mischief.  ðŸ™‚ 
You rocking this Sunday? 
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, June 16, 2013 10:13 PM
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
Saw superman with my kid
About as good as it gets
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
Sent: Sun, Jun 17, 2013 11:04 PM 
Was there kissing?  ðŸ™‚ 
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, June 16, 2013 11:05 PM
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
Not much
But there were many explosions
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday 
Sent: Mon, Jun 17, 2013 12:28 AM 
I would like to cause some explosions… of a more intimate nature!  
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Jun 17, 2013 12:30 AM 
Subject: Re: Meeting Tuesday
We’ll see what we 
Can do

Planning to Meet New Guy

Friday, June 14, 2013
From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Sent: Fri, Jun 14, 2013 3:27:32 AM 
Subject: Meeting Monday 
Hiya!  Noooo… I don’t scare very easily.  
Thank you for your patience while I get to know you. 
There are awful creeps on AM and it takes a 
little time to make sure you aren’t one of them! 
I have Monday off – would that afternoon work? 
Which end of Cambridge?  Somewhere with easy 
access and parking… any ideas?  Maybe the mall
food court, Panera near the grocery store further
north… name somewhere safe for you?
I’m flexible.  
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, June 14, 2013 6:41 AM
Subject: RE: Meeting Monday
Damn
Have meeting 1 till 5 Monday
Any other late aft @the mall sounds good
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Sent: Fri, Jun 14, 2013 8:08:05 AM 
Subject: Re: Meeting Monday 
Good morning!  I hope your work week is ending well.  
Tuesday or Wednesday are possible.  
Shall we say 4:30 pm?  Which day?  
I’ve been to all but 5 states (AZ, NV, WY, ND, SD), 
London twice, Mexico twice… Canada lots.  
Any questions about meeting or me?  
Have a great weekend! 
-S 
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Jun 14, 2013 4:49 PM
Subject: Meeting Tuesday
Tuesday mall food court 4:30 ( or 4 if possible?)?
Not that I don’t have questions, but none that I wouldn’t rather hear in person.
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy
Sent: Jun 14, 2013 4:49 PM
Subject: re: Meeting Tuesday
4 pm is fine. See you there! 
Have a wonderful weekend!
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Jun 14, 2013 4:49 PM
Great

New Guy Moves to Yahoo

Thursday, June 13, 2013 
From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, June 13, 2013 9:46 AM
Subject: Is this what you meant
Or is there another app?
Thx
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From: Sassy
To: New Guy 
Jun 13, 2013 1:54 PM
This works!  Wow!  So happy to see you here.  
-S
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Is this what you meant 
Sent: Thu, Jun 13, 2013 1:54 PM 
Did you get the chat one too or is that too much? 
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Jun 13, 2013 2:24 PM
I will look
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, June 13, 2013 2:24 PM
Subject: Re: Is this what you meant
I’m never sure what gets onto the “cloud” from apple so I think I should stick to this for now
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From: Sassy 
To: New Guy
Subject: Re: Is this what you meant 
Sent: Thu, Jun 13, 2013 3:09 PM 
Sure!  Want to talk on the phone sometime?  I’m not much of a phone person, but if hearing my voice, my words might help you decide if you’d like to meet, it’s is a possibility.  I’ll be home early this afternoon… into the evening. Or whenever. 
Good morning!  Happy Thursday!  You are special.  
Three quick questions: 
Want to say anything about your work?  I’m an office manager for a small office at a big place.  ðŸ™‚  
How did you find out about AM? 
Where do you think is the most beautiful place in the world?  My favorites are Trunk Cove on the island of St. John – nothing like blue waters and white sand.  Or the red rocks of Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs. 
Think about staring into my blue eyes. 
-S
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From: New Guy
To: Sassy
Jun 13, 2013 3:24 PM
Had been working from home, just started at a medium sized company. Stability is good, but commute and dumb bureaucracy are not so hot.
Read about AM online, filed it away, decided to take a look 
Lots of choices, again. Those are good ones
I also like North Shore of Maui
Cliffs in Ghana, edinburgh cadtle at sunset, beach on Quintana Roo that I don’t remember name of, and Epcot at night ( I have broad but plebeian tastes, what can I say)
No: not that I don’t want to talk, but I don’t get much out of the phone either.
At this point I’d be happy to set up some very public, open, brief, safe face to face wherever you prefer, or to continue email till you do.
This weekend not good, but late afternoons would good if/when you’d like 
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From: New Guy 
To: Sassy
Jun 13, 2013 5:58 PM
Gee
Did I scare you off?
Looking back you seem more interested in emailing than rushing into meeting.
Happy to tsk more this way if that’s what you prefer; I’m just more used to face to face.
Sorry: I don’t sing, can’t dance, and I’m not particularly musical. I have seen most movies ever made, and. Remember most of them.
Read voraciously: scifi, mysteries, history 
Love to travel and regret not traveling for a living
Been thru some of the US, lots of Caribbean, some Europe and Africa
Just went to Haiti: not as bad as I thought 
Not sure what other sort of small detail you’d like to hear, but happy to keep talking
Keep smiling

Talk soon

New Guy Opens Up

Yay!  The new guy wrote back again.  It took him two days…What keeps him from writing?  Feels like he is starting to loosen up a little.  
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Date:  Jun 12th – 3:18pm
From:  New guy
Message:
First, ansers to your questions: 
1. Food: I love sushi. I love the taste, i love the feel, and, unless i order a whole boat, it always seems like relatively health food. Which is a good idea, cause my next several favorites involve large amounts of fried clams, or. Veal parm from santarpios of blessed memory, or a two pound lobster.my idea of a kichen is a microwave with a phone inside. I love to eat, and have done so, too well. 
2. Origin: much as i have always held my birthplace to be Krypton, or at the least Gotham City, i grew up around here and never left. I do love to travel, and keep looking for. A job that requires multiple trips ( and frequent vacations) 
3. Theater: only sporadically. Last play i say was Wicked, in london last spring. Felt like. Rube for seeing a five year old play instead of shakespeare, but it was there.
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Wow!  Finally a spark of humor with super hero stuff!  ðŸ™‚
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Date:  Jun 12th – 3:26pm
From:  New guy
Message:
Sorry: got cut off 
Used to haunt Wordsworth, but am now spoiled with nook and amazon 24×7. Love movies, but tend toward ones with cars or noise or aliens, all three if at all possible. If any one big habit lately, its working out: not so it shows, but i will go to gym every day religiously, or bike 20 miles when i can; good for my ADD Questions? I have millions, but more about you and this…arena. 
Why are you here? 
Have you done this before? 
How well did it work? 
What are you looking for? 
What would make you interested in taking next step? 
What would that be? 
What would the best possible outcome be; what would be worst? 
All i can think of, for now and here 
Hope to talk soon 
As you say, hugs, with groping.
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Date:  Jun 12th – 8:58pm
From:  New guy
Message:
Keep thinking about you, wondering what you’re like.
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Date:  Jun 12th – 10:18pm
From:  Sassy
Message:
Hiya! What fun answers! And questions! 
Did someone tell you what I like to eat? Our tastes match. I adore sushi, but I’m a wimp, stick to the cooked stuff. Great protein! Fried clams? Yup. I order veal parm in the North End, La Famiglia Georgio. And my all-time favorite is LOBSTER! I tried the new Belle Isle Seafood in Winthrop on Sunday. Their lobster pie is delectable! And the view is spectacular! Ever been? 
Be my super hero? 🙂 Not sure which is cooler… flying or the Batmobile? I’ve traveled but never wanted to live anywhere else, except maybe Cancun the way it was in the 80s. 
Maybe you can show up at a theater and sit next to a curvy lady in the dark sometime. 
Great you have built an activity into your life, so you can go home freshly showered or in different clothes and not raise suspicion, if you decide I can help you with an alternate work-out activity. 
I’m here because my husband isn’t interested in me in bed. We’re good friends. I am not going to leave him. I survived breast cancer in 2011 – I’m whole and healthy now and I want to live life to the fullest and that includes sex! 
I’ve had fun getting to know a few AM guys, met some, but none clicked. I’m searching for a friend I can talk with, hear about his life and share parts of mine, and meet now and then. 
A next step would be to meet in public for coffee or a drink or lunch, see if there’s any chemistry, maybe see how you kiss, if we’re interested? I can tell a lot from that. I have a very good feeling about you, just want to ask a few more questions. 
Worse case? You’re an axe murderer. Eep! 
So four quick questions for you. 
1) Do you have a pet? 
I’m owned by two cats. 
2) Why are you here? 
3) What music do you like? 
I like folk, a cappella and Broadway. I like to sing along. 
4) What’s your favorite part of female anatomy? 
I’m a sucker for a man’s shoulders. 
What am I like? I’m sassy. Hugs with groping and an ear nibble!
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Date:  Jun 12th – 11:33pm
From:  New guy
Message:
Pet: a labradoodle. Don’t shed too much and pretty bright too big to be a lap dog, too small to jump on the table. Got one about eight years ago.
Music: I have tried to broaden my taste but I can’t get too far from anyone at Woodstock. Saw Santana last summer, was excellent. am bummed i can’t get anyone to go to the rascals in two weeks, like most of Dropkick Zmurphys, and have five versions of Amazing Grace. I actually like Eminem, and Adele,Al Kooper (I’m looking at my iTunes to remember) randy Newman from start to finish, and almost any movie theme (not to sound like a moron but the theme from 2d batman movie is great at the heavy bag. In general, loud is good, but not metal, thank you 
Why do this? Because my marriage has, through fits and starts, drifted to a complete stop, in bed and out. not ready to leave but not having much fun at all: old enough to repaint but young enough to sell. (Back, again, to woodstock). Tired of. Working like a maniac just to keep busy, and really really really miss the taste of a woman’s skin 
Favorite part of a woman? Like asking my favorite food, too many choices to pick just one. I like the belly, between belly button and pubes: sensitive, stimulating, and if you’re there, you’re almost home. I’m afraid I unimaginately love breasts, Esp nipples: again, you can make somebody get aroused, and you can feel it happen right there. Something very sensual about a big butt: all that flesh and skin and touch and so great to massage, before, during,after. eyes are critical; bright light eyes are the most beautiful thing in the world, what jewels were invented to imitate. I could go on, and I will, but not here, not now Hope that helps 
One question: you said there was another way to chat but I didn’t understand: on this site or elsewhere? Later
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Date:  Jun 13th – 12:08am
From:  Sassy
Message:
Wow… thanks for the answers. You are a very interesting man! Great to know more about you. 
I was raised near Woodstock, danced to that music. I saw Randy Newman give a master class… he is classically trained and has such a broad range! I’d go to the Rascals… Would that be weird? Something to think about anyway. Do you sing yourself? Dance? 
I adore it when I ask a question and get a story… sounds like you like women. 🙂 Your writing took my breath away there. So sorry your marriage is not a source of joy. I miss all the basics… and some of the more exotic moves too! 
Most guys have a Yahoo email account with a fake name, often matches their AM name. That gives you access to chat online for free. Or you can download a Yahoo chat app to a smart phone or iPad if you have that. That let’s you chat in real time, or email using Yahoo instead of AM. Better interface, free. Can work if you don’t share a computer/phone and remember to delete stuff from prying eyes. 
Anything else you wanted to know? Are you feeling more comfortable? 
-Sassy

The New Guy Writes Back!

The new guy FINALLY WROTE BACK!  I admit it – after 48 hours passed, I assumed he didn’t like my message or liked some other woman’s message better, or lost his nerve.  Whatever.  A week – yes, an entire WEEK LATER – late on a Sunday night, I get an email from Ashley Madison, and click over there to find this message from the new guy! 
Date:  Jun 9th – 11:38pm
From:  The New Guy
Message:
Sorry for delay Figured this is like putting a message in a bottle, and thought just not looking would help ensure a return. really dont know next step: like you, Im looking for something more to life than what I have now,. I like to laugh, like to hug, like to touch. Also dont know how to mchat on-line, and really dont like all the texts that describe physical activity in slavering detail (I really like physical intimacy, I just dont like talking about it in this way. I do like your phrase hugs with groping though. I live in the burbs, go near you en route to work, maybe we could meet for coffee and chat. If thers other stuff youd like to talk about, let me know. Hope to talk again before a week goes by.
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Making me wait a week for what?  Geesh mister.  Gentleman – I do NOT recommend this tactic.  With the hundreds of responses the average woman gets on AM, she will have met 3 other guys in that time and not even remember writing to you! 
Hmmm… his punctuation is really crappy!  And he doesn’t know his way around a computer.  And doesn’t have a clue about online dating.  Ugh.  Do I want to steer this ship?  I suppose I can teach him… might be fun?  Hmm…. I wonder if all this is some ploy to get me to meet sooner.  But it certainly seems genuine.  
But wait… what’s this?  He doesn’t want to text about sex?  WTF?!  That’s a huge part of the fun!!!  Maybe I can convince him that can be worth the time… hmmm… That certainly made answering more of a challenge.  I can talk about topics other than sex.  Sort of.  Maybe.  
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Date:  Jun 10th – 4:23pm
From:  Sassy
Message:
Good afternoon! Great to see your message. Don’t be nervous – I don’t bite! I may nibble your ear a little… I’d love to meet you, but it usually helps to talk a little bit so I feel more comfortable. I promise not to keep you waiting long… you’ve probably been thinking about this awhile. 
Here are three quick questions: 
1) What’s your favorite special meal? 
I adore trying new places. I’m not much of a cook, but make really good reservations. 
2) Were you raised around here? 
I’m from upstate NY but moved to MA for college and stayed. I used to be a Yankees fan but I have grown out of it. Go Sox! 
3) You mentioned theater. Have you been to see a show lately? 
Ask me anything you are curious about and we’ll be on the road to fun! 
More hugs! More groping! 
-Sassy

The New Guy

I got a message from Ashley Madison!  A new guy!

The timing of contacts from Ashley Madison men can be rather spooky.  No new messages for weeks and then just when I decide that SeaMan was not for me, and maybe I am done?  Up pops an email from a new guy, starting off the month right with some fishing in the extra-marital affairs waters!

Late at night on a Saturday, maybe after his wife has gone to bed?  He looks at my profile, gives Ashley Madison his credit card, screws up his courage and writes to me.  I’m not sure when it changed, but AM now won’t send out the message.  I have to click on their site to see it.  Whatever.  I pop over there and read his words:

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Saturday June 1, 2013 – 11:33pm
Ive never done this, and dont know exactly how to respond, but your description sounds very attractive. My profile sounds pretty lame but in the flesh im pretty good looking, 5’11”, 250 heavy but not fat, piercing blue eyes and grey hair. Im looking for someone to explore with. Love oral, slow buildup, talking and, more than anything else laughing. Would love to talk (by whatever means works for you) and see how this goes. 
Respond, if you want to take a chance. 

You wont be disappointed
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It’s a nice message.  It doesn’t give any indication that he read my profile.  There’s an interesting mix of clueless and confidence.  It seems honest, real.  Do I believe it or is it a ploy?  But ugh… a newbie?  Hmmm… I read it again.  Okay, so he doesn’t like apostrophes.   Is that a thing? Maybe he wrote this on his phone?  Strange, because he writes well otherwise.   “Piercing blue eyes”… yum.  I go look at his profile.  
The profile name is innocuous enough… not terribly creative or catchy but not crude like 694u etc.  
I glance at his stats and as always, wonder if they are true.  I mostly assume they are fudged a little for security reasons.  It’s says 61… could be.  Height 6’0 (AM goes by 2 inch increments so he rounded up, okay), 250 is a bit heavy but then so am I too.  His limits are “Undecided.”  Ick.  I don’t like it.  Probably honest but make up your mind before you get on here!   Then he checked a few boxes, nothing exciting but nothing yucky.  He only wrote one sentence and it’s dull, doesn’t tell me much.  He’s right – it is lame in that “I just wanted to slap something up here” way of new members.  But his message is pretty good.  I feel like it deserves a response, even I don’t take it much further than that.  
So very late at night Saturday into Sunday (or early in the morning, depending on how you look at such things) I replied with a short message.  I agonize over these first messages.  Want to keep it short, upbeat, fun… stick in a question for him to answer.  I try to get him off AM to Yahoo.  Reassure him.  Hope it encourages him and makes him smile to get an answer within two hours!  
Here’s what he saw:
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Date:  Jun 2nd – 1:34am
From:  Sassy
Message:
Hiya! I want to take a chance! Thanks for your sweet note and your interest in me. Welcome to the wild world of AM. We sound like twins… I’m tall, curvy, blue-eyed and silver haired! Exploring with you sounds fun. What would you like to know that will tell you if I’m the one to make you laugh? You can email me or chat over on Yahoo under the same user name. It’s okay to contact me anytime. Tell me more about what you want and what brings you here. I am open and straightforward… you can be also. Hugs with groping! -Sassy
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So now… I wait.  I’ve never had a guy not write back, so I don’t worry too much.  I try not to think about it, be pleasantly surprised when his response appears.  *Hits refresh  *Hits refresh