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Meet #30 Part 2 Dealing

Wednesday, August 27, 2014 
My alarm went off at 6 am.  I was not tired, just a little slow and cranky.  I looked at him lying next to me and smiled.  Such a treat!  

I got up and ready in record time, rubbed on him and kissed his face, told him I was going, and left him lying in my bed at 6:35 am, headed to work for the busiest day of my year, running a huge conference!  Whee! 
It’s odd how this week, when I should be completely focused on work, always has some guy causing a major distraction.  It started with Philip in 2010.  He contacted me about a week before the conference and we were going hot and heavy, talking late into the night and most of the day as I worked.  In 2013, I had two guys I was juggling, one of whom told me his was a sub the morning of the conference, so I stewed over that most of the morning then wrote to him on my lunch break telling him goodbye!   And now Kris kept me talking all night.  Whee! 
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TEXTS
Me: Good morning! Are you still at my place? 11:22 AM
Kris: no – had mtg at work at 9, another at 10. just leaving office and heading home.  Need to work on filling out financials for divorce conference with wife’s lawyer next Thursday. 🙁  Hope you’re not too tired and day’s going ok. 12:28 PM
Me: Thanks. Just checking as Hubby is heading home. I’m feeling amazingly well. Day is gruesome but I’m dealing. When it’s bad, I think of you wrapped around me in my bed and smile. You tired? Hope the tasks flow easily! 12:33 PM
Kris: little tired, but “dealing”.  As long as i take my “meds” (caffeine) I’m fine. 😉 12:41 PM


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Meet #30 All night

Tuesday, August 26, 2014 
Hubby had gone off to NH with his lady, so I was alone at home.  It was a very rare chance for me to have Kris over to spend the night.  I had invited him on Sunday and he said he was very conflicted – he’d let me know.  I didn’t hear another word from him after he left Monday morning. 
He finally texted me late evening on Tuesday.
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Kris: Find someone to keep the creatures away with tonite? 10:36 PM
Me: *sigh. Forgive me for the delay please. Work was gruesome today. No brain left. Please come hold on to me. 10:47 PM
Kris: Can u handle a “cuddle only” bed partner? Too hard/tempting? Or just too late now? Know u have big day tomorrow. 10:48 PM
Me: I can. I promise. I have to be at work at 7 am. Can be up until midnight. 10:50 PM
Kris: Ok….can b there round 11:45…..little pillow talk….cuddle….sleep with “real you.”  😉 10:53 PM
Kris: Getting on bike – u will have to let me in.  Hubby take car? 10:54 PM
Me: Yay! Thank you ever so much. Not sure why it seems so important… just…is 10:54 PM
Me: Hubby has the car. Text when you want in. 10:55 PM
Kris: k.  last text till then.  hopping on bike now.  bout 45 mins. 10:56 PM
Kris: here! 11:58 PM
Me: Be right down 11:59 PM
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At midnight I raced down (in my night shirt) to let him in.  He talked me into trying on his extra helmet and sitting on his motorcycle.  He backed up about 10 feet, turned it on, then drove back into the parking space.  He crowed “There!  You are the first woman to ride my bike!”  We laughed.  “And you’ve had your first ride!”  It’s bizarre how happy that made him.  
We came upstairs.  He had a cup of coffee and munched on various snacks sitting on the sofa.  I sat at my desk and we talked.  I told him how my brain is playing tricks, making him perfect when he is not around to annoy me.  The ladies in chat got me to list the ways he is annoying, to help me keep things balanced.
1) he picks on me about being smart
2) he picks on me for my weight 
3) he is relentless trying to get me to ride his motorcycle
4) he likes to listen to rock music WAY TOO LOUD
5) he keeps locking the bathroom door 
6) he takes unnecessary risks and thinks it’s fun
7) he is always late
He allowed as how that was a good psychological defense. 
At 12:45 am he said, “Shouldn’t you go to bed?” I agreed and we crawled into bed and cuddled.  We kept talking.  We got very serious, talked about love and us… not that we do just that we are in pretty deep and whether that means anything and… it was suddenly 3 am!  Ugh.  I had to be up at 6 am.  But I wasn’t tired.  I went to the bathroom, hoping that would somehow make me sleepy.  We talked a little more.  I finally fell asleep about 3:30 am.  Even though there was nothing sexy per se, it was incredibly wonderful to sleep with a man wrapped around me, who I can touch at will!


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Meet #29 Part 2 Double-minded

Monday, August 25, 2014
I got up at 7:08 am to be sure he was awake.  He’d already showered and was on his second cup of coffee!  He ate cereal and talked to me about his week ahead, pulled out my Bible to quote James 1:7 about the “double-minded man.”  Heh.  Using that to say he didn’t know if he’d come back tomorrow night to stay with me while Hubby is away. 
He gave me a hug and left about 7:45 am.
It is so lovely to have him here. Despite the physical limits and his craziness, he makes me smile. 
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Me: You make me smile. 8:23 AM
Kris: Good! heard it takes less face muscles to smile than frown. have fun hobnobbing with the elite and whoever else, Ms. Demure. 😉 


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A good egg

Monday, August 25, 2014
            
6:04am Philip
Happy Monday!   Helping Fred move today. Enjoy the day!

7:34am

Good morning!  You are such a good egg.
I’m off to work to welcome the new hires.
Had dinner with Kris last night and gave him a sassy blow job!  Whee!

8:25am Philip

Told you he would cave. Good for you!

Fred has no friends to help so I’m it. I’m happy to help, got my tools to help hang stuff. This move will be good for her.

Glad you had some fun with your guy!

2:59pm Philip

Moving sucks!   Everything is moved though. Glad I could help. Staying over but sleeping in gym shorts. Just happy to enjoy her company. I did not help in hopes of getting anything . Don’t want her to think that either

6:43pm

Why not have sex every chance?

6:46pm Philip

See where it goes. It’s up to her. I’m horny as a billy goat

6:48pm

I know that.
and like it!

6:48pm Philip

Ha!

6:49pm

I’m at the movies – gonna see the new Doctor Who season premiere

6:50pm Philip

Cool!  Enjoy!

6:51pm
Theatre buffet – Medium popcorn and soda, corn dog nuggets and cinnabon goey bites!

11:00pm
Sushi post-movie at Basho Japanese Brasserie in the Fenway

 Shrimp fresh rolls
 A boat filled with maki, nigiri and sashimi – oh my!
 Sushi! Tamago, unagi and a shrimp tempura maki

Shrimp and veggies tempura
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Meet #29 Three women

Sunday, August 24, 2014  
I was starting to plan dinner and saying to Hubby that I missed Kris.  There had been no word from him since Thursday.  He nodded sagely.  Like magic, there was a text!!
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Kris: Wachupto? 5:31 PM
Me: Kris! I was just thinking about you. Quiet evening at home. Wanna hang out? 6:16 PM
Me: I am eager to hear how your week went! 6:18 PM
Kris: Sure – half way there! eta 7. want me to park on the street? 6:36 PM
Me: You are so good. Are you on the bike or car? 6:37 PM
Me: Have you eaten? Hungry? 6:38 PM
Kris: Bike. eaten no. hungry just a little 6:41 PM
Kris: Wanna meet someplace for “light meal”? go dutch. unless u have food and wanna save $. 6:46 PM
Me: Ping me when you arrive. 6:48 PM
Me: Should park inside here. I’ll move car and meet you down in the garage. I need to shower… we’ll figure out food. 6:51 PM
Kris: Here 7:01 PM
Me: Omw down 7:02 PM
Kris: sometimes im actually on time! 😉 7:04 PM

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I moved my car and met him in the garage.  He gave me a long hug and put his arm around me while we walked to the elevator.  I took a shower and he sat on the toilet and told me about his three dates and driving all over New England to meet them!   

  • He met “Marlo Thomas” who doesn’t really look like her, and is 10 years older than her photos and just… no.  
  • Then he met “the Little Old Lady Who Lives in a Shoe” who had three kids and married a guy with five, and adopted ten more!  Many of them are still at home!  She was full of energy, looked much younger than her 69 years, and he had fun.  
  • Finally there was “The Colleague” who went to the same schools and has the same job with a competitor. She was fun to talk with.  Then he sat in his car missing his wife.  Ugh.  
I dressed demurely.  We had a fun talk with Hubby about Shakespeare and Doctor Who.  Kris marveled at the calm, intellectual discussion we had… apparently that doesn’t happen at his house.
Kris and I went out to The 99 for supper about 9 pm.  We shared the crackers and cheese, both had onion soup.  I had the fried chicken with corn and mashed potatoes while he ate the chicken pot pie with rice.  We had a great conversation!  
We came back about 10:45 pm and Hubby was ensconced on the sofa playing video games.  So we went into the bedroom and cuddled.  After a while, he played with my clit and made me soar!
Hubby had asked to go to bed at midnight, so Kris and I came out to the sofa. He put his head in my lap and asked me to tell him what I think about when he is touching me.  I told him about the raunchy videos, and certain memories of the two of us.  I played with him and then gave him a sassy blow job!  He said he’d have no trouble falling asleep now. 🙂 
I tucked him in and got to bed at 1 am.


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Sausages for lunch

Saturday, August 23, 2014
1:14pm
Lunch with Mom at Olive Garden in Framingham! She can’t resist their “buy one, take one home” deal

 Zuppa toscano – sausage kale potato soup
 Strawberry passion fruit limonada
Spaghetti with meat sauce, a couple of sausages
 and the famous garlic bread stick
7:46pm
You make it home?
8:12pm Philip
I did!   Pooped

8:12pm

I bet.  Just glad you made it safely.

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Reconnection 62 years later

Friday, August 22, 2014

7:13am

TGIF kid!

7:39am Philip

No lie!   Have a great one!

8:54am
I’m such a sucker for reconnection stories! This may be the best one ever.

http://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/style/2014/08/22/more-than-years-after-one-summer-together-profession-undying-love/i7q2GErPgqziGScYHNspVJ/story.html?event=event25

8:57pm
You finish your work?  Headed home? 
I had some stomach bug… came home midday and napped.  Yuck. Starting to feel better.  Phew. 
Have a great weekend!

11:33pm Philip

We are finally done.
Found a great barbecue place for supper and outta here tomorrow.
Enjoy the weekend!

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Pulchritudinous man

Thursday, August 21, 2014
Kris: Seriously conflicted.  feel like I’m setting u up for more pain, when I really cant deal with guilt.  getting very paranoid lately – bad thoughts – losing wife, family, job…MIND. Divorce 2 weeks from today if I agree, which I may want to delay. sex isnt much on my mind right now SASSY!!!!!!! 6:38 PM
Me: Take deep breaths. Don’t worry about me. Hugs. 6:39 PM
Kris: 🙂 u make it hard to let u go. evil woman. 😉 6:46 PM
Me: I’m going to a project event tonight. 6:52 PM
Kris: Have fun! I’m headed to the gym on bike. see if i can turn skinny man into more pulchritude. 😉 6:54 PM
Me: I’m praying for you. Let me know what else I can do to help. Mwah! 6:55 PM
Kris: Ok…thank u.  u r very sweet.  thank u 6:56 PM
Me: You are most welcome! I care about you, you pulchritudinous man! 7:00 PM
Kris: Oh yeah. u can go for a ride on my mindbike! (couldnt resist. evil grin). no woman has been on it yet. u said u like being “the first” – here’s your chance! 7:00 PM
Kris: Pulchritudinous.  u HAD to make that up.  LOL! 7:01 PM
Kris: Meant bike…. Not mindbike (though I’m sure “pretending” would b just fine with u! 🙂 7:03 PM
Me: I did not make up that word! 7:04 PM
Kris: Didnt really think so.  teasing. 😉 7:11 PM
Me: Still mired in imagining your “mindbike” 7:12 PM
Kris: Ur dodging again, Ms. Demure. shame shame 7:14 PM
Me: Dodging? 7:14 PM
Kris: Going for bike ride….try to keep up… 😉 7:15 PM
Me: I’m scared. 7:20 PM
Kris: I know.  cant resist asking.  it’s ok.  gotta go now.  later. Big long hug…light kiss on mouth. 7:23 PM
Me: Relaxing back rub with scratching! 7:24 PM


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Because you loved me

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

10:19am Philip

[He posted a photo of himself lazing in the hotel swimming pool to his Facebook wall]

Do you think that’s a good picture in the pool?
I see old fat guy enjoying the water.
I have received other comments that I was surprised about

12:15pm Philip
You ignoring me?

5:54pm

Hiya kid! 
Sorry -wicked busy @ work.
That photo shows how gorgeous you are!

6:18pm Philip

I got all these messages alluding to that. I look at it and it must just be good lighting or something cause it’s really just an old man enjoying the pool.

7:27pm
USS Constitution 30 sec video

https://www.youtube.com/embed/uFf7yeWmHZg?feature=player_embedded


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFf7yeWmHZg

2014 Guerriere Battle Gun Salute

CHARLESTOWN, Mass. (Aug. 19, 2014) Firing of USS Constitution’s port side saluting battery, followed by ringing of the ship’s bell at noon, as part of a commemoration of the 202nd anniversary of Constitution’s first battle in the War of 1812 against the British frigate HMS Guerriere on Aug. 19, 1812.

8:28pm
This voice gave me the tingle… hard to believe it come from that small girl! Fantastic!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/wKJmuViLqgI?feature=player_embedded
Charice and Celine Dion duet at Madison Square Garden (HD)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKJmuViLqgI

11:13pm Philip

very cool

12:02am Philip
Liked that one. Very hot