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Is what it is

October 15, 2014 Wednesday

8:36am
Good morning kid!  Off to work to run another big reception!  
Have a wonderful Wednesday!

Kris hasn’t texted since Sunday, blew off a chance to sleep over in my bed last night, so I used the time to email a new online guy!

9:33am Philip

Is what it is, girl. Enjoy the day!


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Getting to know Stew

October 14, 2014 Tuesday
No word from Kris since Sunday.  Hubby is away overnight with his lady.  I am alone.  I asked Kris  to spend the night in my bed.  He didn’t.  We haven’t had sex in three weeks.  If he can meet other women, I can meet other men, right?  Guess I’ll put the time to good use and write to a new man on Ashley Madison!

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Date:  Oct 14th – 8:49pm
From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60
Message:
Hiya Lookin! Thanks for your sweet note. And sending me to read your profile. I would like to learn more. Here are some questions and a bit more about me. Are you a native to Massachusetts? I was raised in upstate NY but moved here for college and stayed. I’m an office manager during the day. I help run a community project  in my spare time. I’m into theater but not drama! I’ve been married almost 18 years, no kids but two very handsome cats! Hubby and I are a great team, just not in the bedroom. I survived cancer three years ago and resolved to live life to the fullest. I am looking for a confidante to share fun and passion. Could that be you? What brings you to AM? How did you find it? I know how to spell discreet and plan to stay anonymous for awhile. I could go on but it’s late and I wanted you to have a response tonight. Do tell me more, and ask more questions? Hugs with groping! – Sassy
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Date:  Oct 14th – 9:14pm
From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy
Message:
I was born in NYC, stayed in NY State until after college. Where in upstate NY ru from? I have been to Lake Placid/Saranac Lake/ Saratoga many times – love the Adirondacks. Went to law school in Boston, been here since. I have my own office now.  I am a liberal that believes in the power of government to help improve peoples’ lives – public policy interests me. Married over 30 years -grown kids, dogs and a cat. Wife is a good friend, wonderful mother, but no interest in any sort of physical intimacy. I very much want to be with a woman who wants and desires me and longs for my touch. Nothing would make me happier than to hear, see and feel a woman turned on by my touch. I too am looking for a confidante to share fun and passion, so it sounds like we want the same things. I do not want to change things at home but want passion in my life again. Saw an article about AM and thought I would try it. For me to have passion I need to have an emotional connection. I am not looking for love but I do want someone that longs to be with me when we are apart and not just because she is horny. Could that be you? I am happy to give you my email address if you want to “chat” outside of AM. Hugs with groping right back at you! – If we were to connect what type of groping do you most hope to receive from me? What really turns you on and what do you desire from a liaison? For me I much rather give than receive, so if we connect I would be a very attentive and imaginative lover focused on your wants and desires, but would love it if you like receiving oral. I love the intimacy – the smell, the taste, the feel the sounds – it is wonderful. If I can make you happy and fulfilled then I would be happy and fulfilled. Hope to hear from you soon
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Date:  Oct 14th – 9:59pm
From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy
Message:
Ran out of characters in my last email. I am a good, respectful person that is looking for one special lady. I have a wide variety of interests and am non judgmental. All I really want is a lady who is interested in me, who when she is with me is relaxed and enjoying herself and when she is away from me she misses me and looks forward to being with me again. It is easy enough to get sexual release but what I really want is to be desired and to be with a woman that is turned on by me and wants to be with me. Do you think that could be you? What do want from me if we were to start a relationship. I love busty, curvy women so I am sure I would find you desirable and would hope you find me desirable, but there is only one way to find out – meet and see if there is an emotional and physical attraction. I understand you wanting to proceed slowly and respect and share that feeling, but I am hopeful that you would like to exchange private emails and phone numbers so we can explore whether there is chemistry between us. My email is [his real name@gmail.com]- please send me an email if you want to hear more. I certainly want to hear more from you and hope to hear from u soon.
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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:03pm
From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy
Message:
I can be naughty when it is called for and I am always nice – here is a small gift to let u know I was happy to get your response and can “bearly” 🙂 wait for your next note.
 Stew
[He sent me an Ashley Madison gift – a teddy bear.  Very sweet but… guys… don’t do this.  It’s a waste of money!]
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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:04pm
From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60
Message:
Hiya! Thanks for the prompt response. Aha! Another native New Yorker! Please tell me you are not still a Yankees fan?! I was raised around Albany. My grandparents were in Mt Vernon and worked in the city, so we visited there often.  I worked at a law firm in downtown Boston, so I have seen lawyers at their best and worst. Hope you are one of the good guys. I like the word liberal. I am so sad to hear your wife is not into the physical side of life. I expected to be a mundane, faithful wife but life dealt me other cards. You can find me at the same user name on Yahoo if you’d like to switch to email or IM. I want to be an equal partner. You do things, I do things, we do things together. I am not into pain or role-playing. I like variety. Some days slow and sensual, other days wild and fast! Have you played with toys? I bought some and want to experiment – see how they can enhance things. Ideal sex for me is a conversation with breaks for moaning. 🙂 I try to figure out what makes us both happy and do it a lot. I’ve been told I am THE BEST KISSER EVER… perhaps you can affirm that. Unlike many women, I adore oral sex – both giving and receiving! When was your last sassy blow job? Hugs with groping! And an ear nibble… just because. – Sassy
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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:12pm
From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60
Message:
Ha ha! Thank you for the gift! That was very sweet. This reminds me of a joke I heard yesterday. Why did the teddy bear skip dessert? Because he was already stuffed! Are you cuddly?
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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:30pm
From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy
Message:
I think I am cuddly – I certainly like to cuddle. I am 6 feet tall 215 pounds – physically fit. I have played sports all my life and keep physically active. So I have an athletic body with some mileage on it. But as I have said I love busty, curvy ladies. Sent you a note to Yahoo – let me know if you go it
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[He switched to emailing my mischief Yahoo account.  He used a gmail account with what looked like a real name… hmm… ]
From: StewartWhite@gmail.com 
To: Sassy 
Subject: Hi from Hopin4Passion60
Sent: October 14, 2014 10:33 PM
I was never really a Yankees fan – my family on my Dad’s side are all from Mass – my ancestors came here in the 17th Century.  My grandparents and parents lived in MA and I went to prep school in Western MA. My grandfather was a big Red Sox fan and I always enjoyed the Red Sox.  So it was easy becoming a full fledged member of Red Sox nation when I moved here.
Where near Albany?  My wife is from around there.  Never really practiced law, just use it to run my own business, so I guess I am one of the good guys.  I believe in being honest and ethical and don’t believe in doing whatever it takes to win for your client, so I feel more comfortable doing my own thing.
Being an equal partner – “you do things, I do things, we do things together” sounds great, but nothing would turn me on more than to taste, see, feel and hear you turned on by something I was doing with or for you. I too am not into pain or role-playing. I also like variety. I have not played with toys, but since you bought some and want to experiment I would be a willing “lab rat.” 🙂  As I said my focus would be on your wants and desires, so if toys help you experience pleasure then they would be pleasurable for me.  I of course like a great blow job and it has been awhile since I have received one, so I would love to be a recipient of a sassy blow job.  I am very oral, so being with THE BEST KISSER EVER would be a great bonus.
I am so happy you adore receiving oral sex – nothing would make me happier than to be melted between your legs tasting and smelling your love juices, exploring every inch of your lips with my tongue. I would love exploring with my tongue what turns you on and hearing you moan with lust and desire as I bring you to climax.   
Hugs with groping! And a long slow licking of your inner thighs and sweet moist (you need to tell me how u want me to refer to your lady parts :-)… just because. – S
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From: StewartWhite@gmail.com 
To: Sassy
Subject: More Questions
Sent: October 14, 2014 10:42 PM
Saw you are interested in Theater.  What other things do you like to do to relax? 
I enjoy theater, movies (all kinds – even chick flicks 🙂 saw a lot of them with my kids; books (mostly current and historical events), good food and good conversation.
What would be your idea of a perfect first date should we decide to pursue this?
Once we get through the discovery stage and were comfortable this is something we want to embark on how would you like to proceed?  How often when would you like to get together; where would you like to meet (i.e. what times of day and what days work for you and how flexible can you be).  
I am excited to learn more about you.  On a sexual level it sounds like we have the same interests and desires
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From: Sassy
To: StewartWhite@gmail.com 
Subject: A connection 
Sent: Tue, Oct 14, 2014 10:44 PM
Hiya… what do you prefer to be called?  Stewart?  Stew?  Studmuffin? 
I just got your messages!  Wow! I’ll go reply to that. 
I do like to meet but give me a little while to get more comfortable, to trust?  I won’t make you wait too long, but want to explore a bit further so I don’t waste your time.  
-Sassy
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From: StewartWhite@gmail.com  
To: Sassy
Subject: Scent of a Woman
Sent: October 14, 2014 10:46 PM
As I said I like movies and I watched Scent of a Woman today while I was working out.
Don’t know if you have seen it but Al Pacino plays a retired Lt Colonel who is very abrasive.  Since he is blind Chris O’Donnell is a High School student who helps him get around.
They go to NYC for a weekend for Al Pacino to experience the fine things in life and he wants to hire a high end escort.  Chris O’Donnell says that Al Pacino has a one track mind and wonders why he is so interested in women and Al Pacino replies:
“Women! What could you say? Who made ’em? God must have been a fuckin’ genius. The hair… they say the hair is everything, you know. Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls… just wanted to go to sleep forever? Or lips… and when they touched, yours were like… that first swallow of wine… after you just crossed the desert. Tits. Hoo-ah! Big ones, little ones, nipples staring right out at ya, like secret searchlights. Mmm. Legs. I don’t care if they’re Greek columns… or secondhand Steinways. What’s between ’em… passport to heaven. There’s only two syllables in this whole wide world worth hearing: pussy.”
Pretty much sums up my feelings about women 🙂  I love everything about them.

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Truck stroking

October 14, 2014 Tuesday
·        10:35 AM Mr Truck: Needless to say, our conversation Sunday has been on my mind a lot. I stroked twice about it, spurting nice loads about at the point where you had me bent over so all your office workers could see my precious butt plug, then you inviting them to come look closer and touch it, jiggle it…
·        10:37 AM  Mr Truck: Inviting them to pinch a nipple, telling them loudly, what a little nipple whore I am
·        10:38 AM  Mr Truck: That all anyone ever needs to do it touch my nipples and watch me beg for my butt plug
·        10:42 AM  Mr Truck: Looking for butt plug vids for you now (well, for ME too!)
·        10:43 AM  Mr Truck: How did you know I’d be so open to this fantasy?
·        11:44 AM  Sassy: Oh my…. this has me so wet! Sitting at my office at work… tingling… it’s like someone stuck an electrical prod up inside me! You are so hot!
·        11:44 AM  Sassy: I didn’t know… I took a chance… you always um… rise to the occasion! 
·        11:45 AM  Sassy: I dreamed this awhile back and it has been feeding my fantasies ever since! Not sure what it is about it… I’m not usually into domme scenarios but man, this works on so many levels.
·        12:14 PM  Mr Truck: I know! It kind of took me by surprise that you tapped into secret anal yearnings of mine!
·        12:16 PM  Mr Truck: Having a difficult time finding any butt plug vids, don’t know why, I thought I’ve seen plenty a while back (oops, I think I gave myself away…)
·        12:17 PM  Mr Truck: I want to kiss you deeply while you twist my nipple with one hand and gently wet finger the rim my attention starved anus…
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Mr Truck resurfaces

October 12, 2014 Sunday 
After nearly four months, Mr Truck popped up again!  He pinged me in Yahoo chat.  
·         1:51 PM  Mr Truck: Hey long time no talk, how are you?
·         1:51 PM  Sassy: Rolling along. You?
·         1:52 PM  Mr Truck: Same, a few new contacts but no physical contact! How’s your new BF?
·         1:52 PM  Sassy: He’s complicated. But good when we’re together!
·         1:55 PM  Mr Truck: Does he satisfy you, have a wicked dirty mind? 
·         1:55 PM  Sassy: Hmmm… no!
·         1:55 PM  Mr Truck: Ha!
·         1:55 PM  Mr Truck: Can you still see other people?
·         1:56 PM  Sassy: I haven’t but I can
·         1:58 PM  Mr Truck: I still think of you often, and our plans…
·         2:00 PM  Sassy: Sweet! I look at porn you sent me. And share it, to inspire other men
·         2:00 PM  Mr Truck: Does it ever inspire them?
·         2:01 PM  Sassy: Oh yes
·         2:01 PM  Mr Truck: I miss sending you porn actually, you are the only woman who appreciates the fine points and knows how to express them
·         2:01 PM  Sassy: why did you stop?
·         2:02 PM  Mr Truck: I got swept away in a few project as well as a death in the family, so things have been kind of upside down here. I also knew you had a boyfriend and thought your needs were being met
·         2:02 PM  Sassy: Ah.  Very gallant. 
·         2:03 PM  Sassy: So sorry to hear about the death.  
·         2:03 PM  Mr Truck: thanks, how’s your mom?
·         2:04 PM  Sassy: She has good days and bad days.
·         2:04 PM  Mr Truck: Are you still talking to some hot potential fuck buddies?
·         2:04 PM  Sassy: Do send stuff, when you find time…
·         2:05 PM  Mr Truck: I’m actually looking as we speak
·         2:05 PM  Sassy: I always have lots of balls in the air…
·         2:05 PM  Mr Truck: Me too, except my own!
·         2:05 PM  Sassy: I would rather have them in my mouth…
·         2:06 PM  Mr Truck: Oh gosh Sassy, I could sure use a good wet ball sucking, with lots of plopping sounds
·         2:06 PM  Sassy: Put your finger behind you ear… think of me kissing there
·         2:07 PM  Mr Truck: Ohhh that’s a nice touch, from behind me
·         2:07 PM Sassy: Then flick your right nipple like I would
·         2:08 PM  Mr Truck: Flicking it now, it’s my favorite nipple, but I don’t want the other to feel neglected
·         2:08 PM  Sassy: You can pull on the left one…
·         2:08 PM  Mr Truck: Think of me finding that special spot on your back…
·         2:08 PM  Sassy: Oh my
·         2:08 PM  Mr Truck: Ohhh that gentle tugging is so sweet
·         2:08 PM  Sassy: twist… just a bit
·         2:09 PM  Mr Truck: You know me so well
·         2:09 PM  Sassy: Do I still have the right stuff?
·         2:10 PM  Mr Truck: Oh absolutely!!~!@~@#$#$ I want to lead you around by your nipples, shake those huge naturals by the nipples…
·         2:11 PM  Sassy: I want to take my little black rubber butt plug and slide it inside you
·         2:12 PM  Mr Truck: Oh honey, do you want me to keep it in, walk around with it in the room? You know how submissive that will make me
·         2:12 PM  Sassy: I have very naughty thoughts about them
·         2:13 PM  Sassy: I want to take you out in public… watch you try to deal with the vibrations
·         2:13 PM  Mr Truck: ohhhhh my
·         2:13 PM  Sassy: the constant humming in your balls
·         2:14 PM  Mr Truck: and the constant precum
·         2:14 PM  Sassy: in private I want to push it in and out while I suck on you
·         2:15 PM  Sassy: I had a dream where I ran an office of business women dresssed in suits… we hired men as our assistants and asked them to work naked
·         2:15 PM  Sassy: Would you work for me?
http://clothedfemalenakedmale.tumblr.com/post/13073468894
·         2:16 PM  Mr Truck: I love that idea, so vulnerable and submissive. I’d have to massage all of you and your staff’s nylon feet……
·         2:18 PM Sassy: In the dream, I wore a blue sapphire handled butt plug… and no undies. You would sneak under my desk, pull and push my plug while licking me
http://butt-plugged.tumblr.com/image/122939742387
·         2:18 PM  Mr Truck: ohhhh
·         2:18 PM  Sassy: [I’ve never seen one or worn one… no clue where my brain got that!]
·         2:19 PM  Mr Truck: I love the way a woman’s ass looks with butt plug just sitting in it……..
·         2:20 PM Sassy: I would be very serious, hard-working.. then flash my ass at you leaving the room
·         2:20 PM Mr Truck: YES!
·         2:21 PM  Sassy: I’d probably be very bad… see if I could get you hard
·         2:22 PM  Sassy: I wish I could find a clothed women/naked man video where the women aren’t mean to him
·         2:22 PM  Mr Truck: I told you about the girl about 5 or 6 years ago who used a medium sized dildo on me, very slowly. Once I relaxed and let it in, it was heaven, made me have an involuntary orgasm while on my hands & knees on the bed
·         2:23 PM  Mr Truck: I can find one for you, I used to look at them all the time.
·         2:23 PM  Sassy: I have been learning how to use my toys on my guy
·         2:23 PM  Mr Truck: he teaches you or you’re learning from just doing it
·         2:24 PM  Sassy: I try things and he lets me now how it feels
·         2:24 PM  Sassy: I ask questions… like “stay still or move back and forth?”
·         2:24 PM  Mr Truck: He likes to be ass fucked?
·         2:24 PM  Sassy: or “this far in? Or further?”
·         2:24 PM  Mr Truck: nice!
·         2:24 PM  Mr Truck: That’s hot in and of itself
·         2:25 PM  Sassy: It’s quite something to have that power… to be given the knowledge to drive him wild
·         2:25 PM  Mr Truck: yes
·         2:25 PM  Sassy: He has tried a bunch on me
·         2:25 PM  Sassy: I was surprised…
·         2:26 PM  Sassy: I thought I was a G-spot gal, so the big fake cock would be the best bet
·         2:26 PM  Mr Truck: How big?
·         2:26 PM  Sassy: but it turns out that the little silver bullet held to my clit… makes me soar
·         2:26 PM  Sassy: 9 inches
·         2:26 PM  Sassy: Didn’t do much for me
·         2:26 PM Mr Truck: 9 inches, drool…
·         2:26 PM Sassy: None of the inner ones did anything for me
·         2:27 PM  Sassy: but the clit ones? Boom!
·         2:27 PM  Mr Truck: I’d like to be ‘threatened’ by that bad boy
·         2:27 PM  Sassy: You can daydream about that
·         2:27 PM  Sassy: A woman might stick it inside her.. get it nice and wet..
·         2:27 PM  Mr Truck: I want you to make me suck it.
·         2:28 PM  Sassy: covered in her juice
·         2:28 PM  Mr Truck: we’re going to the same place…
·         2:28 PM  Sassy: : )  
·         2:28 PM  Sassy: a very hot place!
·         2:28 PM  Mr Truck: Is the cock realistic?
·         2:28 PM  Sassy: Yes! I could keep it in my desk drawer at the office… take it out after hours
·         2:29 PM  Mr Truck: mmm
·         2:29 PM  Sassy:  bend you over my desk
·         2:29 PM  Mr Truck: Oh my
·         2:29 PM  Sassy: I keep forgetting to shut the door
·         2:30 PM  Mr Truck: oh baby, people will see me getting it from you
·         2:30 PM  Sassy: yes
·         2:30 PM  Mr Truck: I want to be watched
·         2:30 PM  Sassy: they know you have a nice ass
·         2:30 PM  Sassy: and a gorgeous cock
·         2:30 PM  Mr Truck: ahhhh
·         2:30 PM  Sassy: they all want to play
·         2:30 PM  Sassy: but you only have eyes for me
·         2:30 PM  Mr Truck: can you imagine?
·         2:31 PM  Sassy: because I know how to make you burn
·         2:31 PM  Mr Truck: and I’m your little fuck slut
·         2:31 PM  Sassy: just the right mix of pleasure and naughtiness!
·         2:31 PM  Mr Truck: I’d be so red, in my face and on my spanked ass
·         2:32 PM  Sassy: I might have to take a call… leave you there on display
·         2:32 PM  Mr Truck: I bet your snow white skin gets nice and red
·         2:32 PM  Mr Truck: Oh wow
·         2:32 PM  Sassy: with the cock sticking out of your ass, vibrations all through your balls
·         2:32 PM  Mr Truck: yes
·         2:33 PM  Sassy: You squirming, moaning
·         2:33 PM  Mr Truck: and dying to cum
·         2:33 PM  Sassy: Me smiling!
·         2:33 PM Mr Truck: yes
·         2:33 PM  Sassy: No cumming… yet
·         2:33 PM  Mr Truck: I know, torture!
·         2:33 PM  Sassy: could you last a minute?
·         2:33 PM  Mr Truck: you’d know how to make me last, and build up more of a load
·         2:34 PM  Sassy: full of cock
·         2:34 PM  Sassy: vibrating cock
·         2:34 PM  Sassy: your ass facing the open door
·         2:34 PM  Mr Truck: and you threatening me with a real cock if I don’t obey
·         2:34 PM  Sassy: shaking
·         2:34 PM  Sassy: moaning
·         2:35 PM  Sassy: are you hard Stan?
·         2:36 PM  Mr Truck: Half hard, typing and tugging at cock & nipples. Is your cunt wet?
·         2:36 PM  Mr Truck: I can’t shoot my load here though
·         2:36 PM  Mr Truck: might get walked in on
·         2:36 PM  Sassy: Maybe you will take my scenario… think about it later?
·         2:36 PM  Sassy: think of all the ways you would like working in “my office”
·         2:36 PM  Mr Truck: Oh you know it!!!
·         2:36 PM Sassy: naked
·         2:37 PM  Sassy: saves on clothing and dry-cleaning!
·         2:38 PM  Sassy: think about the presents I would give you
·         2:41 PM  Sassy: It would be fun for me to know where you go with it in your mind
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Hopin4Passion60 writes

October 12, 2014 Sunday

I got a message from AM – a new man wrote to me!  First time in over a month! If you’ve ever wondered what a “you’ve got mail” email from Ashley Madison looks like, here it is (with some edits to protect his privacy).  It tempts me with some bits of his profile.  This one looks good!

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Subject: Hopin4passion60 has sent you a Message

I logged on to read his message.  Oh my…

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Date: Oct 12th – 1:04pm
From: Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy
Message:
I love laughing, touching, finding a way to get with each other what we do not have in our homes. I believe I am reasonably smart, with a good sense of humor, and upbeat. I like a wide variety of restaurants. I enjoy making a lady smile and be appreciated. I want conversation and sex. I am 6ft, 220 lbs, athletically built, so I am a sturdy guy and I love big, busty, beautiful, demure women with a great smile, sultry voice and a great attitude. We seem to have the same wants and desires. I am looking for one special lady with whom I can share a passionate love life. But for me in order to have passion there needs to be an underlying friendship. I want one special lady with whom I can talk, laugh and enjoy being with her and of course have great sex. But for the sex to be great there has to first be a connection. I do not want casual sex or one night stands. I want a woman who wants to be with me when we are not and not just because she is horny. If there is a connection between us I promise that in me you will find a kind, respectful and imaginative lover focused on your needs and desires.

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Meet #37 Part 2 Dancing with Kris

Sunday, October 12, 2014
I woke up about 9 am, washed my face and brushed my teeth, then went to find Kris.  He was sitting on the sofa, drinking coffee, eating a banana and browsing the ads on Christian Mingles.  I ate a bowl of cereal sitting at my computer, checked my email, Facebook, blog hits… 
We caught up on news from his life and mine.  He put on the radio to his favorite station, WZLX, saying Sunday mornings they play the blues and that fits his miserable life right now!  The first song we heard actually had happy lyrics!  He started dancing around the living room!  He is so cute when he boogies!  I had to get up and join in!  We shook our groove thing, then bumped hips and then he twirled me around and took me in his arms!  We were giggling and dancing and… it was so fun!  He looked into my eyes and smiled great big and I melted.  He noted that we had not done that before.  Another milestone!  We keep finding new ways to make each other smile.  
He went off to take a shower.  I wrote to Philip, letting him know I had gotten Kris into my bed.  Ha! 
Kris took off to go watch a football game with another of his Christian ladies, “the very Catholic one.”  I told him Hubby would be away overnight on Tuesday and asked him to stay over with me.  He said he was very busy with work and still very conflicted but he would think about it.  Way to make me feel unwanted, dude. *sigh I asked him to think about it, he could even come in late, and get back to me.  He said, “Have a good week!” and was gone.  I had the feeling he had already made up his mind.  Ugh.  I know… I know… his life is a mess and I shouldn’t push. *sigh 
What a mixture this guy is! So sweet and funny and sexy.  And annoying.  I know I put up with too much but for now it is still worth it.  But I feel like the day is coming when the balance may shift.  If he doesn’t appear Tuesday, that may be it.

He texted as he left the garage. 


Kris: listen for the obnoxiously loud music…and the bike horn beeps goodbye… Alfalfa… grin 11:25 AM
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Cheating cat

October 12, 2014 Sunday
            
10:21am 
I triumphed.

10:38am

10:59am Philip
I knew you would

11:08am

I didn’t actually say or do anything… I look up and he is looking at hotel rooms!  I thought it was for one of his other ladies.  Finally he spoke up, “Wanna get a room?”

Ha!

This was at 12:30 am.  I said no… not worth the money this late… but let’s go in the bedroom!  So we did.  And he focused completely on me until 3 am.  Whee!

11:17am 

We just danced in my living room.  It’s moments like that, keep me going!

9:51pm Philip
That’s wonderful!

10:10pm 
You have fun with the family?

10:55pm Philip
Yeah, had a blast


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Meet #37 All About Me

October 11, 2014 Saturday

I was leaving my mother’s place after a troubling visit.  She was in a lot of pain and I felt helpless about how to fix that.  I needed something good to happen.  I decided to text Kris.  I had not seen him in two weeks, and only heard from him once in that time (when I decided to swallow my pride and text him).  

2:56 pm Me
Hiya hot stuff!  How it going with you this rainy day?
There was no answer.  *sigh  I had to assume he was busy working, as he always is on a Saturday, and not listening to his phone.  Or perhaps he is on a date with one of the “good Christian women” he’s been finding on Christian Mingles?  *sigh 
I ran errands and went home.  I considered taking a nap, but ended up sitting at my desk, working on my blog.  
Finally, I got an answer!  
5:21 pm Kris
Started really rainy then turned out nice, went for ride. back home. time to make the donuts (work) AGAIN. Arrrggghhh!
5:22 pm Me 
Wanna work on my sofa?  Hubby’s off to a party. 
5:33 pm Kris
Nor sure – only if the demure lady could keep Sassy at bay. really not fair to u….what u really want is sex. I understand but can’t do
[Great!  He’s in the “no sex” loop again.  Grrr…. ]
5:34 pm Me
I want your company.  I want to know what’s up with you.
6:06 pm Kris
by time I got there, work only and have to leave by 11:00 am tomorrow if spent nite. not much time to talk
6:07 pm Me
Whatever you think.  You know I take what I can get.  🙂
6:31 pm Kris
u make me feel guilty and bad. u deserve better. won’t be able to do any real talking, just work till midnite. need to park bike inside. eta 7:45 if u want me to
6:34 pm Me
Come on down!  I have soup!  And grapes.  🙂
6:48 pm Kris
k
7:36 pm Kris
eta 8:30
8:34 pm Kris 
here 
His motorcycle and the music he had on were so loud, I heard him passing in front of my condo building five floors up with the windows closed!  Ha!  I was already in the elevator when he texted that he’d arrived, and opened to garage door before he had a chance to get off the bike!  He rolled into my parking space, dismounted and gave me a long hug.  I resigned myself to that being most of our physical contact.  
He took off the leathers and stowed them, grabbed his laptop and we went to the elevator.  He asked about my mother.  There was another couple in the elevator, so we just chatted along. 
We went inside and he set right up on the coffee table, plugging in his laptop.  He forgets to eat, so I always have snacks on hand to tempt him.  I handed him a bag of Cheetos crunchy cheese doodles to munch on, then offered him a choice of soups, and he picked the Progresso Italian Wedding soup.  I warmed it up for him in the microwave.  I offered him a soda or water  and he asked for coffee.  I pulled his mug and instant coffee down from the top shelf and fixed that in the microwave.  I turned on his favorite radio station. He sat on the sofa, working along, happily munching and slurping soup and coffee. 
I sat at my desk, working on my blog and typing bon mot, chatting with the lovely cheating ladies online on a Saturday night from all over the U.S. and Canada!  I wrote to Philip, asking him how to get Kris into my arms.  I told him I was thinking of taking off my sweater.  He said that would get his attention!  
Kris would look up every now and then, tell me some news from his life.  I’d listen, ask a couple of questions, then go quiet to encourage him to finish his work.  
Hubby got home about 11:15 pm and ordered a pizza.  We helped him finish it off. 
Finally midnight rolled around and he had to stop work.  I went over to sit next to him on the sofa.  He asked if I wanted to get a room!  Like…right now!  Wow… his definition of “no sex” is fascinating!  I thought about it, but decided it was a bad idea.  I said it wasn’t worth the money.  That it was late and we should save our pennies for a time when we could make the best use of it.  I felt like an idiot for turning down a chance to sleep with him wrapped around me, but it didn’t seem right with him so conflicted.  He put his head in my lap and we listened to music and talked. 
He told me stories of his Christian ladies.  He has said goodbye to “the little old lady who lived in a shoe” and is tied up with 20 different children.  She is fun but he can’t see inserting himself into that life.  
He also decided not to continue romancing the motorcycle mama, but asked to stay her friends and ride with her sometimes.  She thought that was a great idea!  He said he didn’t think he has ever had a female friend to just have fun with, and this could be a fun new thing for him. 
He told me about discussing sex with another of his ladies.  I got the answer to who had been occupying his time.  He told me he had seen her three times this week, including lunch today.  They have kissed and hugged in a sexy way but nothing more, though they are talking about having sex before marriage as a good way to know if they’re compatible.  She cheated on her husband, and is living with the man she was cheating with but wants to get away from him.  So now she is looking to cheat on him with Kris!  I told him not to expect fidelity from this one.  And she confirms what I had told him to expect – not all these women are going to be demure, holy people, just as he is not completely that way.  
He told me he had told her about me.  I asked what he’d said.  He explained that we’d had an affair that ended his marriage, that he had been “trying to say goodbye but couldn’t because I am the nicest woman he has ever met and put up with all his crap.”  He said he had admitted to having had sex with me less than two weeks ago, and that’s why he needs to stop, so he can say with integrity that he is not having sex with anyone else.  
I told him we did not have sex two weeks ago.  He looked startled.  I said, “You got a very sassy blow job in Rhode Island.  Which was fun for me.  But there was no sex.”  
He looked even more startled.  “So you got… no action.”  
“Right.”  
“Didn’t we do something in the morning?” 
“Nope.”  
“You paid for everything and got…nothing.”  I stared back. It looked as if he had not realized how that all turned out.  He did get how unfair that was.  I could see the changes in his face as he processed that.  I was thinking, “You worked Saturday night and wrote email to your wife in the morning,” but I decided not to say it – he had already gotten the message.  I was pleased that I managed to find a way to stick up for myself without being whiny or mean. 
“I did get two wonderful meals holding your hand, and a walk on the pier at sunset, and lying in your lap on the beach…” I listed the beautiful memories I had of our time in RI.   “Those are things I can not do with Hubby.”  He nodded and returned to the topic of telling his new lady about me, saying he was being careful.  
I asked him to be sure not to give away personal info about me and he told me not to worry – he has learned from his mistakes.  He told me he thought he had ticked her off – he read me her texts and his… he had been texting her while sitting on my couch!  There is no end to daggers he sticks in me… the attention he pays to other things while he’s with me… women and work and… grrrr!  Too busy to talk to me but plenty of time to text her?!  That was it… I had to get away from him before I told him off.  
I got up to go to bed and turned to kiss him gently on the forehead.  He grabbed me, kissing me hard.  I melted!  I am so starved to be touched!  I put his hand on my breast.  He pulled me back down and started tracing his finger down into my pants. I got up and went to talk to Hubby, asking him if he could stay up another hour or so, so Kris and I could have some bedroom time.  It’s not unusual for him to be up this late or later.  He agreed cheerfully, said he would kill more monsters in his video game! 
So at 1:30 am I took Kris by the hand and led him to my bedroom, closing the door.  We sprawled on the bed and he went right to work on my clit!  He pushed me and pushed me, but it was not happening.  I took off my sweater and bra, and his mouth landed on my right nipple, sucking and biting.  Still not happening. 
I did something I rarely do… I forgot about him, about making noises or moving to please him.  I went quiet and went away in my mind to a total fantasy – a camp fire, a man getting me to undress in front of our friends, showing them my body and what happens when he touches different parts!  I don’t know where that came from… and I am not an exhibitionist, but it set me off.  So naughty… that did it!  I soared!  
I asked if he’d like me to take care of him now?  He said no… tonight was all about me.  I realized it was to give me something for the missed opportunity in RI, but in a way that he could still tell his lady he had not had sex with me.  He went back to playing with my breast and rubbing my clit again but I stopped him…. too sensitive and getting sore.  It was 3 am by then, time to stop taking advantage of Hubby’s generosity.  So I kissed Kris hard one more time and sent him off to the sofa.  I drifted off to sleep smiling.  *sigh 
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Take off my sweater

October 11, 2014 Saturday

10:08am
Good morning!  Thanks for posting photos! 
So fun seeing our high school and your family!  
And you!

10:09am Philip

Good morning cutie! Off to party!

12:26pm 

Gorgeous mountains!  
It’s raining here so you lucked out on the weather!

12:48pm Philip

Gorgeous day here

1:29pm
Lunch with Mom on a rainy Saturday!

10:52pm
How was the lobster?

10:53pm Philip
Amazing! I had two!

10:53pm
Wow!

10:53pm Philip
Had a great day!

10:54pm 

Thank you ever so much for the photos!  So fun to follow your adventures!

10:54pm Philip
We manage to have fun occasionally

10:54pm

Kris is here

10:55pm Philip
Oh cool! Have a sexy, fun evening!

10:55pm

He’s working.
Back on his “no sex” kick.  *sigh

10:55pm Philip

Well, shit

10:55pm

Yup.
I am plotting… so bad

10:56pm Philip
Ha ha, plot away!

10:57pm

I wonder what will get him to cave…

10:58pm Philip

The right time

10:58pm
Might take off my sweater

10:58pm Philip
Can’t hurt!
Would get my attention

11:00pm
Hee!