No word from Kris since Sunday.  Hubby is away overnight with his lady.  I am alone.  I asked Kris  to spend the night in my bed.  He didn’t.  We haven’t had sex in three weeks.  If he can meet other women, I can meet other men, right?  Guess I’ll put the time to good use and write to a new man on Ashley Madison!

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Date:  Oct 14th – 8:49pm

From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60

Message:

Hiya Lookin! Thanks for your sweet note. And sending me to read your profile. I would like to learn more. Here are some questions and a bit more about me. Are you a native to Massachusetts? I was raised in upstate NY but moved here for college and stayed. I’m an office manager during the day. I help run a community project  in my spare time. I’m into theater but not drama! I’ve been married almost 18 years, no kids but two very handsome cats! Hubby and I are a great team, just not in the bedroom. I survived cancer three years ago and resolved to live life to the fullest. I am looking for a confidante to share fun and passion. Could that be you? What brings you to AM? How did you find it? I know how to spell discreet and plan to stay anonymous for awhile. I could go on but it’s late and I wanted you to have a response tonight. Do tell me more, and ask more questions? Hugs with groping! – Sassy

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Date:  Oct 14th – 9:14pm

From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy

Message:

I was born in NYC, stayed in NY State until after college. Where in upstate NY ru from? I have been to Lake Placid/Saranac Lake/ Saratoga many times – love the Adirondacks. Went to law school in Boston, been here since. I have my own office now.  I am a liberal that believes in the power of government to help improve peoples’ lives – public policy interests me. Married over 30 years -grown kids, dogs and a cat. Wife is a good friend, wonderful mother, but no interest in any sort of physical intimacy. I very much want to be with a woman who wants and desires me and longs for my touch. Nothing would make me happier than to hear, see and feel a woman turned on by my touch. I too am looking for a confidante to share fun and passion, so it sounds like we want the same things. I do not want to change things at home but want passion in my life again. Saw an article about AM and thought I would try it. For me to have passion I need to have an emotional connection. I am not looking for love but I do want someone that longs to be with me when we are apart and not just because she is horny. Could that be you? I am happy to give you my email address if you want to “chat” outside of AM. Hugs with groping right back at you! – If we were to connect what type of groping do you most hope to receive from me? What really turns you on and what do you desire from a liaison? For me I much rather give than receive, so if we connect I would be a very attentive and imaginative lover focused on your wants and desires, but would love it if you like receiving oral. I love the intimacy – the smell, the taste, the feel the sounds – it is wonderful. If I can make you happy and fulfilled then I would be happy and fulfilled. Hope to hear from you soon

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Date:  Oct 14th – 9:59pm

From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy

Message:

Ran out of characters in my last email. I am a good, respectful person that is looking for one special lady. I have a wide variety of interests and am non judgmental. All I really want is a lady who is interested in me, who when she is with me is relaxed and enjoying herself and when she is away from me she misses me and looks forward to being with me again. It is easy enough to get sexual release but what I really want is to be desired and to be with a woman that is turned on by me and wants to be with me. Do you think that could be you? What do want from me if we were to start a relationship. I love busty, curvy women so I am sure I would find you desirable and would hope you find me desirable, but there is only one way to find out – meet and see if there is an emotional and physical attraction. I understand you wanting to proceed slowly and respect and share that feeling, but I am hopeful that you would like to exchange private emails and phone numbers so we can explore whether there is chemistry between us. My email is [his real name@gmail.com]- please send me an email if you want to hear more. I certainly want to hear more from you and hope to hear from u soon.

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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:03pm

From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy

Message:

I can be naughty when it is called for and I am always nice – here is a small gift to let u know I was happy to get your response and can “bearly” 🙂 wait for your next note.
 Stew

[He sent me an Ashley Madison gift – a teddy bear.  Very sweet but… guys… don’t do this.  It’s a waste of money!]

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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:04pm

From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60

Message:

Hiya! Thanks for the prompt response. Aha! Another native New Yorker! Please tell me you are not still a Yankees fan?! I was raised around Albany. My grandparents were in Mt Vernon and worked in the city, so we visited there often.  I worked at a law firm in downtown Boston, so I have seen lawyers at their best and worst. Hope you are one of the good guys. I like the word liberal. I am so sad to hear your wife is not into the physical side of life. I expected to be a mundane, faithful wife but life dealt me other cards. You can find me at the same user name on Yahoo if you’d like to switch to email or IM. I want to be an equal partner. You do things, I do things, we do things together. I am not into pain or role-playing. I like variety. Some days slow and sensual, other days wild and fast! Have you played with toys? I bought some and want to experiment – see how they can enhance things. Ideal sex for me is a conversation with breaks for moaning. 🙂 I try to figure out what makes us both happy and do it a lot. I’ve been told I am THE BEST KISSER EVER… perhaps you can affirm that. Unlike many women, I adore oral sex – both giving and receiving! When was your last sassy blow job? Hugs with groping! And an ear nibble… just because. – Sassy

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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:12pm

From:  Sassy
To: Hopin4passion60

Message:

Ha ha! Thank you for the gift! That was very sweet. This reminds me of a joke I heard yesterday. Why did the teddy bear skip dessert? Because he was already stuffed! Are you cuddly?

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Date:  Oct 14th – 10:30pm

From:  Hopin4passion60
To: Sassy

Message:

I think I am cuddly – I certainly like to cuddle. I am 6 feet tall 215 pounds – physically fit. I have played sports all my life and keep physically active. So I have an athletic body with some mileage on it. But as I have said I love busty, curvy ladies. Sent you a note to Yahoo – let me know if you go it

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[He switched to emailing my mischief Yahoo account.  He used a gmail account with what looked like a real name… hmm… ]

From: StewartWhite@gmail.com 

To: Sassy 

Subject: Hi from Hopin4Passion60

Sent: October 14, 2014 10:33 PM

I was never really a Yankees fan – my family on my Dad’s side are all from Mass – my ancestors came here in the 17th Century.  My grandparents and parents lived in MA and I went to prep school in Western MA. My grandfather was a big Red Sox fan and I always enjoyed the Red Sox.  So it was easy becoming a full fledged member of Red Sox nation when I moved here.

Where near Albany?  My wife is from around there.  Never really practiced law, just use it to run my own business, so I guess I am one of the good guys.  I believe in being honest and ethical and don’t believe in doing whatever it takes to win for your client, so I feel more comfortable doing my own thing.

Being an equal partner – “you do things, I do things, we do things together” sounds great, but nothing would turn me on more than to taste, see, feel and hear you turned on by something I was doing with or for you. I too am not into pain or role-playing. I also like variety. I have not played with toys, but since you bought some and want to experiment I would be a willing “lab rat.” 🙂  As I said my focus would be on your wants and desires, so if toys help you experience pleasure then they would be pleasurable for me.  I of course like a great blow job and it has been awhile since I have received one, so I would love to be a recipient of a sassy blow job.  I am very oral, so being with THE BEST KISSER EVER would be a great bonus.

I am so happy you adore receiving oral sex – nothing would make me happier than to be melted between your legs tasting and smelling your love juices, exploring every inch of your lips with my tongue. I would love exploring with my tongue what turns you on and hearing you moan with lust and desire as I bring you to climax.   

Hugs with groping! And a long slow licking of your inner thighs and sweet moist (you need to tell me how u want me to refer to your lady parts :-)… just because. – S

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From: StewartWhite@gmail.com 

To: Sassy

Subject: More Questions

Sent: October 14, 2014 10:42 PM

Saw you are interested in Theater.  What other things do you like to do to relax? 

I enjoy theater, movies (all kinds – even chick flicks 🙂 saw a lot of them with my kids; books (mostly current and historical events), good food and good conversation.

What would be your idea of a perfect first date should we decide to pursue this?

Once we get through the discovery stage and were comfortable this is something we want to embark on how would you like to proceed?  How often when would you like to get together; where would you like to meet (i.e. what times of day and what days work for you and how flexible can you be).  

I am excited to learn more about you.  On a sexual level it sounds like we have the same interests and desires

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From: Sassy

To: StewartWhite@gmail.com 

Subject: A connection 

Sent: Tue, Oct 14, 2014 10:44 PM

Hiya… what do you prefer to be called?  Stewart?  Stew?  Studmuffin? 

I just got your messages!  Wow! I’ll go reply to that. 

I do like to meet but give me a little while to get more comfortable, to trust?  I won’t make you wait too long, but want to explore a bit further so I don’t waste your time.  

-Sassy

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From: StewartWhite@gmail.com  

To: Sassy

Subject: Scent of a Woman

Sent: October 14, 2014 10:46 PM

As I said I like movies and I watched Scent of a Woman today while I was working out.

Don’t know if you have seen it but Al Pacino plays a retired Lt Colonel who is very abrasive.  Since he is blind Chris O’Donnell is a High School student who helps him get around.

They go to NYC for a weekend for Al Pacino to experience the fine things in life and he wants to hire a high end escort.  Chris O’Donnell says that Al Pacino has a one track mind and wonders why he is so interested in women and Al Pacino replies:

“Women! What could you say? Who made ’em? God must have been a fuckin’ genius. The hair… they say the hair is everything, you know. Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls… just wanted to go to sleep forever? Or lips… and when they touched, yours were like… that first swallow of wine… after you just crossed the desert. Tits. Hoo-ah! Big ones, little ones, nipples staring right out at ya, like secret searchlights. Mmm. Legs. I don’t care if they’re Greek columns… or secondhand Steinways. What’s between ’em… passport to heaven. There’s only two syllables in this whole wide world worth hearing: pussy.”

Pretty much sums up my feelings about women 🙂  I love everything about them.