Category Archives: Panties Man

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Keep 300 feet back

Sunday, April 21, 2013

I had a meltdown this morning. I feel like a firetruck with a big sign on my butt that says “Danger – Keep 300 ft back.”  Sigh.

With all the craziness this week around the Marathon and the Lockdown, I felt the need to reaffirm that I am alive!  I wanted to talk with a nice man.

1) I decided to try AM chat last night.

I haven’t done it before but I was home alone and bored. I got pinged by a local guy.  He was so easy to talk with!  I felt a great connection.

Maybe you can tell me why a guy would talk to me for two hours, tell me he wants to meet for lunch, tell me he will call in 15 minutes to settle the details and then…NOT CALL?! No call, no email, no message on AM.  When did the lie start?

2)  Mr Truck said we could talk

I’ve been emailing with Mr Truck for 6 months. We have fun sharing p0rn. He tells me when his wife is away and that we should meet, but it never happens. So this time I asked if he could call me. He has a great voice and speaks very well in a sexy way. Oh, great idea, he says. He is a morning person, so he picks 8 am today. So I get up early, get myself all psyched up and… NOTHING.

So I sit at my computer crying, wondering what is wrong with me that two guys in 12 hours can’t be bothered to call me at a time they chose?  I ask for so little and I can’t even get that?

Another chatter had the misfortune to wish me a good morning on IM about 11 am and I whined all over him, poor man.  But that seemed to help.

I need to lower my expectations a lot… and not saddle these men with my need for a special man when all they want is a little chit chat now and then.

Mr. Truck emailed me eventually – so sorry, has the flu, fell asleep on the couch about midnight and missed his alarm. Whatever.

Mr. Hyatt is asking when he can see me. I feel stupid not to do it… but I just don’t care. I should give him a second chance, I suppose. But he doesn’t listen to me… and sends me the oddest videos.  I dunno.

I want to dump them all and focus on Philip. He thinks he can get here to see me again… which makes me sooo happy! But I know I mustn’t give up all my local options just because he might appear for a couple of days.

It was fascinating which of the AM men checked on me on Friday when all hell was breaking lose in my backyard. Two guys – Panties Man and Schenectady Sam, a guy who somehow ended up on my chat list and we’ve talked like… four times. So… marginal guys. Am I wrong to think that if the AM men can’t be bothered to contact me when it seems like the world is coming to an end, I can assume they really don’t care at all?  Not sure why it bugs me so much, but it does.

Wow… that was wicked cranky sounding! Sorry.  I need some time off from AM or some sort of miracle. This week is nutty at work with a big event, so perhaps I’ll just sit back and not think about AM.

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Lick it

From: Sassy
To: Rick 
Sent: Wed, 17 Apr 2013 11:02 AM
Subject: Re: Office visit
Good morning!  
Did you see Stephen Colbert’s homage to Boston?  It’s wicked funny.  🙂  
http://thecolbertreport.cc.com/videos/ifpmy1/intro—4-16-13
2 minutes of sass! 
Tell me what color today? 
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 17, 2013 11:31 AM
Subject: Re: Office visit
I heard it driving to work.   Great to have some humor!
Ummmmm…..I’m a little shy telling you what color today 
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From: Rick 
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 17, 2013 1:06 PM
Subject: Re: Office visit
Carnation…olga hi cut without a stitch, carnation. with lace waistband.
wish you could see them for yourself….
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Wed, 17 Apr 2013 2:54 PM
Subject: Re: Office visit
Ah… good man.  Thank you.  That gets my imagination going! 
how I tell you to drop your slacks… polite but firm. 
how I would stare while you stood there blushing…  tell you how gorgeous you look. 
I’d get you to raise your arms above your head, turn this way and that, so I could get a really good view.  
I’d watch you get harder and harder… you can’t hide that bulge!  
I would put my hands on you… first just a finger… teasing around that lace… 
then along each leg… then a quick press in the middle, to feel the wonderful fabric as you tremble.  
You’d see the look of fire in my eyes.  
I’d ask you questions… easy questions… about how you feel, about what you want… 
but I would keep doing what I want to do. 
I would walk around you, exploring your body, squeezing your ass.  Rubbing you here and there.  
I’d bend you over the desk… and begin to peel down those pretty panties.  Touching.  You can’t see me now… only feel what I do and wonder what will come next.  Slap!  I’d see how you react to a tap on a cheek.  Slap!  And then the other.  Then I’d lean over, hold your hips in my hands and lick… yes… lick that beautiful ass… find the crack and lick from the top down toward your most sensitive spots.  Slurp.  Flick.  Mmm…. tasty! 
Then I’d turn you around and peel down the front… just a little.  You’d be wondering again… what is she going to do?  
Do you want to hear more? 
-S
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From: Rick 
To: Sassy
Sent: Wed, Apr 17, 2013 3:15 PM
Subject: Re: Office visit
YES!!!!!  More and More! 
I love your mind
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From: Rick 
To: Sassy
Sent: Wed, Apr 17, 2013 6:08 PM
Subject: Re: Office visit
I LOVE the anal play!  That you would lick it!  I am embarrassed to admit to anyone else how exciting it would be to massage your butt cheeks, playing with them.  Then hearing your commanding voice ‘lick my ass NOW!’  
Lying on my back, you riding my face, you choosing whether my tongue is serving your front or back. 
Then you on your front or standing up, my face deep on the folds of your ass using my long tongue to make you squirm

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You would think

Monday, April 15, 2013

So there was a thing in Boston today.   A VERY BAD thing.  And it was all over the news.  All over the world.  Late afternoon, I started hearing from friends and family and project people and co-workers and bloggers and blog fans and chatters and Philip and…

You would think I would hear from the AM men I am corresponding with regularly.  Mr Truck?  Panties Man?  Mr Hyatt?  Maybe the Traveler who had just been here?  Maybe they’d inquire as to how I am?  Was I there?  Am I close to the area?  Tell me how they got along today with so many roads and services disrupted?  I thought they’d check in.

Wrong!

The only man I heard from was Schenectady Sam, the guy over 100 miles away who had helped me try to unravel and AM Mystery in late March, that I hadn’t talked with much at all.

Not a word from any of the others.  Zip.  Nada.  Zero.  They were the only subset of my social circles that were silent.  Why do you think that is?

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IM Apr 15 4:27 PM
• Apr 15 4:27 PM Sam: are you OK?????
IM Apr 15 9:38 PM
• Apr 15 9:38 PM Sassy: Yes. I am fine. Thanks for checking on me!
• Apr 15 9:38 PM Sassy: Scary shit Sam. 
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From: Sassy
To: Sam
Sent: Monday, Apr 15, 2013 9:46 PM 
Subject: Checking in 
Hiya!  Since IM is being so freaky, I am switching to email.  
Thank you very much for checking on me!  It’s been a long strange afternoon, but I am fine, and as far as I can tell, all my pals are safe too.  Several of them were right there, but got lucky. 
Here’s a fun video of a man hard at work, to keep us smiling.  This is NSFW!  
http://www.redtube.com/28931
-S
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To: Sassy
From: Sam
Sent: Tues, Apr 16, 2013 9:10 AM
Subject: Re: Checking in
What a thing.  I watched it all unfold on the camera feed from WBZ.  I’m glad to hear that you and yours are safe, but man … it just makes you shake, doesn’t it?
Thanks for the video.  🙂  I watched it this morning BEFORE I drove in to work.  And now that I’m here, I’m …
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From: Sassy
To: Sam
Sent: Tues, Apr 16, 2013 11:42 AM
Subject: Re: Checking in
Good morning!  
I flipped back and forth between the Boston Globe tweeter feed and CBS live feed… so bizarre.  How can this happen in my city?  On this day?  Then my phone, email, IMs and Facebook went wild with people checking on me.  It is lovely to be cared for!  
We are trying to focus on the good done by hundreds of people rather then the evil done by a few.  I do feel the need to reconfirm that I am alive, say things to people I care about.  Never forget that you are a special man and there is a sassy woman in Boston who thinks so!  and wishes she could kneel at your feet and have a blissful look on her face while she pleasures you slowly and carefully with her hands and mouth for 5 minutes!  Have a great Tuesday! 
-S
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From: Sam
To: Sassy
Sent: Tues, Apr 16, 2013 2:18 PM 
Subject: Re: Checking in
well that idea just made me totally melt …
xxx
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Devices

From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, April 10, 2013 8:51 PM
Subject: Tumblr
I’m a little embarassed to admit that a lot of what I see in this tumblr excites me. 
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Sat, 13 Apr 2013 1:57 AM 
Subject: Re: Tumblr
Finally had a chance to look at this one.  Very interesting… had not seen the lock-up devices before.  Explain the appeal of that if you can?  Some very sexy stroking gifs!  
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 13, 2013 7:34 AM
Subject: Re: Tumblr

The appeal of the chastity devices has to do with orgasm denial.  There is a heightened sense of sexual frustration that has a bit of an intoxicating effect.  Well, at least how I imagine it.  I have been involved with a little play of sexual denial, not with any lock up devices, and it does make the guy want to be on his best behavior and does increase the focus on serving, obedience, and having someone else in control.  it is hard to describe; it can just be a fun game to play.  
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Bump and grope

From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Sat, Apr 6, 2013 11:47 AM 
Subject: Hiya Sexy
I enjoyed myself, thinking about you again and all that we’ve written.
Watcha wearing today??  Care to share?  Maybe another pic as well?
Up to anything interesting this blustery but sunny Saturday?
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Saturday, April 6, 2013 12:22 PM
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
Hi!  I’m driving to take Mom to lunch, so think of me very close by! 
Hugs with my hand on your cock!
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Sat, Apr 6, 2013 12:29 PM
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
mmm…too bad we can’t bump into each other.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Saturday, April 6, 2013 12:48 PM
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
Oh yes…bump into me by mistake.  Grope.  Hee!
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Sat, Apr 6, 2013 2:03 PM
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
That would be fun…
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From: Sassy 
To: Rick
Sent: Saturday, April 6, 2013 4:23 PM
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
Leaving mom, thinking of you and your smile.  
Pop out for coffee?  😉
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 6, 2013 5:20 PM 
Subject: Re: Hiya, Sexy!
Bad timing…wife just got home and we’re going out.
We need to schedule this better next week!
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Watching

From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 7:48 PM
Subject: Re: ???
Hey there.  See you online and sent you IM.  If you’re busy, that’s fine, but if your IM is just not working again I wanted to let you know.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 1:00 AM
Subject: Re: ???
Thanks for checking… I fell asleep at 8 pm.  Oops!  Keep trying! 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy 
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 8:04 AM
Subject: Re: ???
So you should be a well rested Sassy this morning, eh?
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 10:46 AM
Subject: Re: ???
I am awake and raring to go!  I feel so good!  The sun is shining and for the first time since July I can walk, I’m not coughing or barfing… life is grand!  Whee!  Happy Friday!  
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 11:06 AM
Love the perkiness!! 
Just like those perky nipples I believe you have, waiting for me to suck.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 11:20 AM
Subject: Re: ???
Tell me about your nipples?  Do they like attention?  
Maybe flicked with silk covering them?  
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 11:46 AM
Subject: Re: ???
talk like this will have me needing to go ‘take care of myself’ in the bathroom. 😉  
After I look at that nightie pic again, of course…
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 11:52 AM
Subject: Re: ???
I’d like to watch sometime… see what you do so I could mimic it with my hands.  
And I’d say naughty things to you.  
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 11:58 AM
Re: ???
oh, this is making me hard!!! 
Years ago, I did perform on web cam for an online friend who lived in Canada.  Her husband had the same kinks as I do, and she enjoyed playing with me. I’m blushing thinking of what she said, what she told me to do, how she acted…it was such a turn on being her toy that way.  (and now I’m Really hard!).
It was easier being on cam when traveling; don’t know how to make it work from home due to other people in my house and the dogs.  Now I’m fantasizing about meeting, some play, you giving me the nightie and telling me you will watch me use it (and wear it!) while performing online for you, then meeting again and giving it back as you talk to me about watching me while you touch me…
damn…I will definitely need to relieve myself today!  Good thing I’m in the local office instead of the client, and its quiet, and there is a private bathroom!
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 12:56 AM
Subject: Today
Today I am wearing Vanity Fair Ravissant briefs; rose.  They feel sooo silky.  I keep imagining you reaching your hand down into my pants (I do resist, but you easily talk me out of that) and finding them, and then you happily rub me and feel me get hard from your touch.  Just like I’m hard now, writing this!
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From: Sassy 
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 12:56 PM
Subject: Re: ???
Rick Rick Rick!  You make me so hot and so naughty!  Private bathroom, eh?  That makes my mind race… I might have to sit on the sink and stare while you do your thing… 
Not sure why, but cams scare me.  I know I need to get over it… there is a lot of fun to be had if I can get over my combination of tech troubles, lack of confidence in how I look and the weirdness of “putting on a show” for a man.  
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 1:09 PM
No rush on using cams.  I have the same fear; only did it with that one woman after really gaining trust.  But I have to say that being her online toy; her ‘sissy’ who performed for her; was pretty amazing.  Seeing that we are close enough to meet in person, that would probably happen more often than not.  Unless I am able to have truly private time to perform, and you truly have private time to watch (and want to watch).
How does your mind race about the private bathroom??  I was wondering if I could get up the courage, if you would like to see my engorged manhood in what I am wearing.  The pre-cum could be leaking out, leaving a mark where my tip is. 
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 1:11 PM
Subject: Re: Today
I can see that so clearly… running a finger along the edges around your waist, between your legs… slipping my hands underneath on your tight ass, sneaking a finger underneath in front to see just how hard you are… finding a little liquid there and letting you watch me lick it?  Yes… that would be lovely. 
Why are you there?  Why don’t you get in your car and drive to Boston?!  I know… there are lots of reasons but nothing seems more important right now than getting my hands on you and making you burn. 
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 1:19 PM
But what if I was to visit you some Friday??  
Probably no privacy or ability to spend time together, right? 
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From: Sassy 
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 1:36 PM
Subject: Re: Today
Some Friday I might be off work… or I might go out to lunch.  Or I might…
 oh my… it is fun to think about. 
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 1:47 PM 
it is fun to think about.
I might have free time shortly to go into the bathroom.  I’ll have the image of that nightie pic with you in my mind, and will imagine this email thread where you said you’ll be telling me naughty things.  Tell me what sort of naughty things you’d be saying, so I can think of them.  Please? 
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From: Sassy 
To: Rick
Sent: Friday, April 5, 2013 3:05 PM
Subject: Re: Today
Wow… it’s tough to know what would come pouring out of my mouth!  I close my eyes and see you in there… wondering where you stand or sit… whether you are fast and furious, pumping and sighing, or have the patience and time to finesse.. slowly stroke and tap and twist… I’d probably react to whatever you were doing, and talk about what I want us to do next.  
I have seen the amazing underwear with sexy bulge… now I wonder why you hide your beautiful flesh under it… when will I get to see it?  Or is it special somehow, that you don’t want to show me?  Or you think I don’t want to see your cock?  Or you are shy?  
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 5, 2013 3:17 PM 
It is special…..

I want to show you, but am shy, and love the idea of you taking over and taking what you want.  That meets my needs; being desired, being made to be submissive; and I think it could be great and wonderful for you, learning to take charge and taking what you want. 
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Photo shoot ideas

Panties Man was very communicative last week, the usual sharing what undies he has on and dreaming about wearing my negligee.  So I tossed a new element into the mix.  
I try to pay attention to what a man wants, and come up with creative fantasies based on his desires.  Sometimes they are way outside anything I want to do, but they flow out of my head and I send them along to see if they can brighten his day.  I hit the jackpot last week with Panties Man.  
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, April 1, 2013 7:50 PM
Subject: ???
Hi there.  I responded to your email, and have sent some IMs, but no reply even though I see you online.  Are you ok and just busy?  Just wanted to check in.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick 
Sent: Monday, April 1, 2013 8:15 PM
Subject: Re: ???
Hiya Rick!  Happy April!  Did you see the daffodils blooming today?!  SPRING!  
Wow… I can’t get Yahoo IM to work at all!  And the email keeps asking me to login every time I hit send.  Wacky internet!  Grrr!  I am NOT ignoring you.  Sorry it seems that way.  I like you.  🙂  
My innards are finally starting to feel better.  Thank you ever so much for checking on me.  I’ve been through the wringer – lost 10 pounds since Wednesday and some of my brain!  
How are you dear man?  I hope you are having a lovely evening and thinking about what we’d do if you could get in your car and pop down there to keep me company tonight while H is away.  Don’t you need to go to the store or something?  🙂 
 -S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, April 1, 2013 10:02 PM
Subject: Re: ???
🙂  Another night doing homework….
We need your internet working better!  I get so excited looking at that picture of you holding that nightie.  To think I could touch it; and have you part of that; such a nice thought!
Watcha doing on Friday, during the day?  Or Saturday?
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Tuesday, April 2, 2013 11:15 AM
Subject: Re: ???
Good morning!  I am feeling so good this morning!  I hope your day is going well.  
It warms my heart and certain other areas lower down to know that I sent you an inspiring photo.  
After being out sick so much, I need to work this week, so sadly Friday is out.  Saturday might work.  Keep me in mind. 
-S
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Date: Tue, 2 Apr 2013 3:42 PM
Subject: Photo shoot ideas 
Hiya Rick, 
How’s your day going?  Being productive?  
What color would I see if I unzipped your slacks today? 
Your message gave me an idea of another photo.  
What if there is a photo of a beautiful man’s body… not his face because that is too scary…just his shoulders and chest and what’s this?  A pale peach lacy negligee… with one shoulder strap down.  Wow… he looks hot.  Like a super model!  It feels so cool and silky against his skin, and so naughty.  He was only going to touch, rub it against his cheek.  but she slowly, slyly took off his clothes… unbuttoning, unzipping… tugging… until they were in a pile on the floor and she could see his skin, touch him, tease him.  She made him take it all off… except one bit.  Not yet time for that.  
She convinced him to try it on the silky thing… she has her ways.  She gathered it up and slid it over his head and let it sail down his body…. stood with him looking in the mirror at this strange and wonderful sight.  Kissed his shoulder, his neck, his lips… 
Then she got out her phone… 
SNAP – one from the neck down of the lady thing covering his manly body.  
She tells him to pull up one side…show off his sexy leg…SNAP  
then higher… show off that pretty underwear.. come on… SNAP
she turns him around, bends him over, raises the silk to show his tight ass in lace.. SNAP
now it’s time… she hands him the phone… shows him where to press… then peels off his lacy briefs and dives under the silk… sucking him deep into her mouth… he moans… she hums… he groans… he pulls back the silk… SNAP from above…SNAP from the side… her hair covers her face but the image of her mouth with his gorgeous cock is there.  
Half a dozen photos that will make him hot and hard long after the silk and the woman are gone! 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 2, 2013 4:50 PM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
holy…shit….
This directly hits so many fantasies I have!!  Being seduced…just as you described.  That seduction making me frozen…and the pics!  JUST as you described; being surprised in a compromising position; but no face shot; and in ‘her’ clothes.
Damn, this was so amazing.  For someone who claims she has no experience with this, how could you describe my needs and fantasies so exactly???!!!  
more later.  gotta calm down.
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 2, 2013 6:52 PM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
With that message, I cannot deny you any request.
Today, it would be light blue hi cut briefs.  Specifically, Vanity Fair Illuminations ‘caribbean’ color Hi Cut, from Kohls.
And may I ask what you are wearing?  Or care to share with a pic???  You make me so hot!
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 2, 2013 6:55 PM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
Something else that I think is hot.
A pic of you in the negligee; you send to me.
We meet…you do what you describe, having me look at the pic you sent.  Part of the appeal is that what you are offering is yours, and was on you. 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 2, 2013 7:08 PM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
I can’t stop thinking of what you wrote!
I imagine us sitting in the car again, and you were so shy before.  We sit and talk, and you start using your wiles.  I hesitate, enjoying the temptation, but not able to give in.  You lean over and whisper in my ear, making me hear all of the things you wrote about…telling me to admit what I want and like…you repeating what I say and telling me how hot it makes you…you touching me the entire time, feeling me get flushed, and responding while simultaneously having my defenses broken down so I am putty in your hands.
Is this something you’d really want to do?  Is this something that you believe you can do? I have this impression that once you overcome your own hesitation and see the power you have, you’ll need to keep drinking that power and loving being in control. 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 3, 2013 8:48 AM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
I had to read this again…..so hot.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick 
Date: Wed, 3 Apr 2013 06:47:30 -0700
Subject: Re: Photo shoot ideas
Good morning sexy!  The sun is shining… you have a hot story to read… and a  hot woman to write to you – what a day, eh?  Busy day for me and date tonight…. may not be online much but I will be thinking of you in a silky thing and your flesh deep in my mouth.  Every time you touch yourself today, think of my hand and mouth there.  And smile. 
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 3, 2013 10:21 AM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
oh, I love your words. 
You have a date tonight??  That’s great!  hopefully it goes well!  Do tell me all about it. 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 3, 2013 11:12 AM
Subject: What color today?
I’ll share if you do. 
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From: Sassy
To: Rick 
Sent: Wed, 3 Apr 2013 08:27:56 -0700
Subject: Re: What color today?
Black bra.  You know the one.  
With black Hanes “just my size” sport briefs.  
With a pantyliner that is already soaked thanks to you!  
😉
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 3, 2013 11:47 AM
RE: What color today?
Nice to know I have that effect on you!
Me: brownish pants, yellow button down. Hi cut pinkish print panties; very girly if I have to admit it
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Wed, 3 Apr 2013 11:26:36 -0700
Subject: Re: Photo shoot ideas
Hiya!  Dashing between meetings… would rather be playing with you! 
Thank you ever so much for your kind words about my writing.  I feel very connected to you write now… my brain is in this odd place… I just want to write and write.  And that makes me want to do things!  With you!  Arrgh.  Not sure if sharing the writing or doing is actually better… pros and cons to each.  
Ah tonight – my first AM traveling man, from Florida, invited me to dinner.  He comes up once a month or so.  He looks very distinguished, probably older than he admits… says 61 but I’m guessing late 60s.   Fancy restaurant  (not my style but I’ll enjoy on his dime!)  I told him I am not his type (he checked lots of boxes for stuff I don’t do) but offered to eat with him if he didn’t find someone more attuned to his kink.  So I am dressing up and heading into Boston to hear his stories. Half nervous, half whatever because we have not talked at all. Check out the place!  
 http://www.theoceanaire.com/pdf/menus/boston/Boston_Dinner_Menu.pdf
Any advice?  
-S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 3, 2013 12:05 PM
RE: Photo shoot ideas
Writing your thoughts is good….it isn’t one or the other.  Until we can actually meet, writing is great to way connected and let your creative thoughts flow.  Then, in person, you can act out the best scenarios you’ve worked up.
Good luck on the date!  Hopefully our connection will help you feel more comfortable and confident, which will make you more desirable to others 
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, April 4, 2013 8:11 AM
Subject: Your date???
How did it go??!!
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Thu, 4 Apr 2013 12:05 PM
Subject: Re: Your date???
It was lovely.  Classy dinner… nice man…  Looks 70!   He was sweet but I’m not sure about him.  Still thinking… 
How are you this fine spring day? 
 -S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Apr 4, 2013 3:27 PM
RE: Your date???
Doing ok today.  Busy work day.
What are you not sure about?  Any touching or kissing?

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Polite Panties Man

Panties Man disappeared for another week, but then was so sweet to check in on me when I told him I’d been sick.   We kept missing each other, popping back forth between IM and email.  
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·       Mar 29 8:24 AM Rick: Good morning! how the week flew by. It is as if we chatted yesterday, but it was a whole week ago. How was your week?
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From: Sassy
To: Panties Man
Sent:  Sat, Mar 30, 2013 2:44 PM
Subject: Up and down
Hiya Rick! 
Hope you are enjoying this spring day!  In a word… my week sucked.  I got food poisoning and was a total wreck!  I thought I would die and wished I could!  Arrrgh!  I am finally feeling a little better today and hoping to make it to Easter dinner with the family tomorrow night.  Hope your week was better than mine! 
 -S
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·       Mar 30 2:53 PM Rick: food poisoning??!! I had that once, and it was Awful!
·       Mar 30 2:54 PM Rick: glad you’re better, though something like that can take a bit of time to get over.
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Mar 30, 2013
Subject: Re: Up and down 3:59 PM 
That does suck!!  I had it once; horrible, horrible feeling.  Glad you’re better!  Hopefully you weren’t planning on hosting Easter yourself! 
 How are things otherwise?  I’ve been holed up all day catching up on things, so couldn’t get out again (and thus didn’t send you a note…)
I have thought often of what you said about that nightie.  I couldn’t take it myself, but would love to see and feel it.  And any time we got together, it would be a wonderful thing to share!  I’m getting quite excited (and need to shift in my seat) thinking about it!.
Rick
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·       Mar 31 10:18 PM Rick: hey there. feeling better?
·       Mar 31 10:28 PM Rick: ready for another week of work?
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Meet evaporation

Surprise, surprise… no meeting today!  It’s okay… I know better by now.  I just play along, let him dream and never for one moment take it seriously.  At least he tells me!  
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Saturday, March 23, 2013 
·       Mar 23 9:38 AM Rick: Good morning!
·       Mar 23 9:38 AM Rick: bad news today, and a very big sad face 🙁 
·       Mar 23 9:38 AM Rick: busy with kids and can’t get out to meet up with you.
·       Mar 23 10:46 AM Sassy: No worries.
·       Mar 23 10:46 AM Sassy: Thanks for saying.

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Panties Man Returns

Remember Panties Man?  He disappeared right after the holidays.  And reappeared three months later!  I wonder what happened?  We jumped right back in where we left off… him talking about meeting but it never happening. 
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March 22, 2013 
·       Mar 22 3:22 PM Rick: hey!! remember me????
·       Mar 22 3:28 PM Sassy: HIya
·       Mar 22 3:29 PM Sassy: What’s up?
·       Mar 22 3:38 PM Rick: At work. It’s been so long!! I’m not online much, as you must have guessed. Work and life have been keeping me pretty darn busy.
·       Mar 22 3:39 PM Rick: How are things with you? Has the office drama calmed down? have you met anyone new?
·       Mar 22 3:39 PM Sassy: Great to know you’re still alive. 🙂  
·       Mar 22 3:39 PM Rick: Are you still sexy? Yes….I thought you were (and are!!) despite your comments to the contrary
·       Mar 22 3:40 PM Sassy: Rolling along… work is much calmer. Have new boss. 🙂 
·       Mar 22 3:40 PM Rick: do you like him/her?
·       Mar 22 3:40 PM Sassy: Can’t tell yet
·       Mar 22 3:40 PM Rick: ok.
·       Mar 22 3:40 PM Sassy: I am still fabulous and frisky.
·       Mar 22 3:41 PM Sassy: You met anyone else?
·       Mar 22 3:41 PM Rick: really! Good to hear! mmm….anywhere near Woburn right about now, so I can see for myself??
·       Mar 22 3:41 PM Rick: nope; no one on my dance card. Just work and school.
·       Mar 22 3:41 PM Sassy: How grim!
·       Mar 22 3:42 PM Sassy: Nope. At work… about to take Hubby clothes shopping. Bleh.
·       Mar 22 3:42 PM Rick: awww.
·       Mar 22 3:43 PM Rick: so, watcha wearing today? [laughing devil icon] 
·       Mar 22 3:43 PM Rick: anything pretty and sexy under those work clothes?
·       Mar 22 3:43 PM Rick: (that icon is me being a little devilish…but the icon is a bit more forceful than I had expected!)
·       Mar 22 3:44 PM Sassy: White bra you have seen in photo…. zzzz
·       Mar 22 3:44 PM Sassy: and blue floral panties. You?
·       Mar 22 3:45 PM Rick: just the normal guy-wear.
·       Mar 22 3:45 PM Sassy: You’re very cute when you’re devilish
·       Mar 22 3:45 PM Rick: (or maybe something else….
·       Mar 22 3:45 PM Sassy: what color?
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Rick: awww, do I have to admit it?
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Sassy: yup
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Rick: mmmmm what if I don’t? 😉  
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Sassy: thinking about slipping my fingers under them!
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Rick: oh, man, that would be so hot.
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Rick: tell me more…
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Sassy: teasing, tantalizing… tasting!
·       Mar 22 3:46 PM Rick: tell me what you would enjoy doing; what would turn you on
·       Mar 22 3:47 PM Sassy: exploring your body
·       Mar 22 3:47 PMSassy: finding out what makes you moan
·       Mar 22 3:47 PM Rick: mmmmm….damn, we need to meet up to work on this.
·       Mar 22 3:47 PM Sassy: a very slow blow job
·       Mar 22 3:48 PM Rick: I have some Wed and Thur nights free for a couple of months, besides some Fridays. How do we make this work??
·       Mar 22 3:48 PM Rick: ohhhhh!!! I CRAVE having a blow job!!!
·       Mar 22 3:48 PM Rick: Please tell me what I need to do to get one!! Please; I’ll do nearly anything!!!
·       Mar 22 3:49 PM Sassy: You don’t need to do anything except present yourself and help me figure out a quiet spot
·       Mar 22 3:50 PM Sassy: And be nice to me. 🙂 
·       Mar 22 3:50 PM Sassy: Do you still want the negligee?
·       Mar 22 3:51 PM Rick: ok! but remember that I do like working for it; enjoy being dominated.
·       Mar 22 3:51 PM Sassy: I know…
·       Mar 22 3:51 PM Sassy: I’ll think on that
·       Mar 22 3:51 PM Rick: damn, i wish there was an easy, handy quiet spot. But I’ll work on this again. It is getting warmer, too, which presents more options.
·       Mar 22 3:51 PM Rick: oh! I’d love to see it!!!
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Rick: and feel it…
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Rick: and have you rub it on me, making me admit that I like it…
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Sassy: I want you to have it.
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Rick: really?
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Sassy: Yes.
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Rick: wow!
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Sassy: If that is not problematic
·       Mar 22 3:52 PM Rick: honestly, it could raise questions in my house. I need to figure out how I can keep it.
·       Mar 22 3:53 PM Rick: now I’m getting pretty hard in my pants thinking about this. meeting up and you presenting it to me, making me admit I want to feel it.
·       Mar 22 3:53 PM Rick: you let me touch it and then you get me to admit that I want to try it on.
·       Mar 22 3:53 PM Sassy: that could be very fun
·       Mar 22 3:53 PM Rick: you make me admit it, and then beg to try it on, and I do (in this fantasy we’re in a room somewhere, obviously)
·       Mar 22 3:54 PM Sassy: I might have to run my hand up under it
·       Mar 22 3:54 PM Sassy: or down under it
·       Mar 22 3:54 PM Rick: once I’m wearing it, I’d be putty in your hands. you could do anything you wanted. This fantasy has you bending me over and playing with my ass, like those sites you showed me
·       Mar 22 3:54 PM Rick: yes…your hands would be all over me in it. I’d be your play thing!
·       Mar 22 3:54 PM Sassy: mmmm
·       Mar 22 3:55 PM Rick: I do tend to lose the focus after I ejaculate; in this fantasy you keep my focused, making me wear it long after I cum while you continue to play with me, or make me serve you
·       Mar 22 3:55 PM Rick: until I’m hard again. And then we play some more but you don’t let me cum, and make me get dressed with the nightie still on.
·       Mar 22 3:55 PM Rick: so I have to go home wearing it.
·       Mar 22 3:56 PM Sassy: wow… your brain is amazing1
·       Mar 22 3:56 PM Rick: wow….maybe I can find us a hotel room!
·       Mar 22 3:56 PM Rick: that just rolled off my head into my fingers. Did you like it?
·       Mar 22 3:56 PM Sassy: Yes.
·       Mar 22 3:56 PM Rick: mmmm….
·       Mar 22 4:00 PM Rick: wouldn’t it be fun to be in a hotel room, just the two of us, for a few hours?
·       Mar 22 4:01 PM Rick: we should start up by having other get-togethers first, just to spend some time with each other. I enjoyed speaking with you. And watching you as I brushed your arm with my fingers. And kissed you.
·       Mar 22 4:02 PM Sassy: I remember an electricity
·       Mar 22 4:02 PM Sassy: It would be good now that we might not be so nervous?
·       Mar 22 4:05 PM Rick: some nervousness is good.
·       Mar 22 4:06 PM Rick: with all that I shared after we last met, I wonder if you’ll be much less nervous and enjoy playing a more dominant role with my fetish. Maybe not…but maybe you’ll find yourself delightfully empowered by being able to manipulate me as your plaything.
·       Mar 22 4:08 PM Rick: ok, my friend, I need to be taking off. We need to seriously be in touch and find some time to get together. I have some time on Saturdays for a few weeks; what are you doing tomorrow??
·       Mar 22 4:09 PM Sassy: Nothing planned…
·       Mar 22 4:10 PM Rick: ok! I do have some schoolwork, but maybe????
·       Mar 22 4:10 PM Sassy: Yes.
·       Mar 22 4:10 PM Rick: just a casual meeting, if we can make it work. No expectations; just to say hello. 🙂 
·       Mar 22 4:11 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Mar 22 4:11 PM Rick: but if I were to get kidnapped….oh boy!
·       Mar 22 4:12 PM Sassy: Yum
·       Mar 22 4:12 PM Rick: ok, I do need to sign off; heading out. Might not be on tonight, but can check in. Feel free to write email and I’ll respond when I can.
·       Mar 22 4:12 PM Sassy: Just tell me where and I will be there.
·       Mar 22 4:12 PM Rick: (and dare I say that I am 100% for wearing…you know….so far in 2013. and what I had planned to be wearing tomorrow is pretty garish, so I’d be ripe for teasing for anyone who knew….)
·       Mar 22 4:13 PM Sassy: I will have to see it
·       Mar 22 4:13 PM Rick: We can check-in tomorrow; don’t know of a place off the top of my head, but we can figure something out.
·       Mar 22 4:13 PM Rick: well…I might resist letting you see it!
·       Mar 22 4:13 PM Sassy: I have my ways
·       Mar 22 4:13 PM Rick: actually, I know I will resist! I’d be blushing a storm.
·       Mar 22 4:14 PM Sassy: I’m going to put my hand on them
·       Mar 22 4:14 PM Rick: mmmm…thinking of you and your ways. ‘Come into my van to talk. Oh..the van is starting!! buckle up…..’
·       Mar 22 4:15 PM Rick: oh, man….that sounds soo exciting. But I will resist; and would love you using your ‘ways’ to break me down and submit. I have so many thoughts going through my head!
·       Mar 22 4:15 PM Sassy: Put your hand down there right now
·       Mar 22 4:15 PM Sassy: See my hand
·       Mar 22 4:16 PM Sassy: Stroke
·       Mar 22 4:16 PM Sassy: Now go
·       Mar 22 4:17 PM Rick: mmmm…yes ma’am!
·       Mar 22 4:17 PM Rick: talking like that makes me want to listen and obey you
·       Mar 22 4:17 PM Rick: i’m off! We’ll be in touch!