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Bite that shoulder

Monday, April 21, 2014

8:01am Sassy

Happy Patriots Day! Pray for an uneventful Marathon!

8:23am Phil

I love lamb and lobster bisque. I broke down and had an amazing bowl of she crab soup here. I think I did well watching my diet, ate everything in moderation. Feel refreshed and ready for the week. I still miss my girl so bad but I am at least dealing with it. I don’t think I ever want to stop missing her. Keeps her close to my heart.

My new position will keep my mind occupied. I just got promoted which means a lot of study and travel. No more just sitting in front of a computer. My head had way too much time to think. Now more action. A lot of hotel nights but I’m ok with that. It’s when I sit at home and realize I’m so unhappy that it really gets me. I hate the house. Was my least favorite but was my wife’s choice.  She has had me out looking at half million dollar homes that I have zero desire for. Better for me to travel some, clear my heart and head. Have a great day kiddo

8:23am Phil

Thank you and I will.

8:29am Sassy

Bigwig?  Cool! Give it time,  kid.  I know great things are in store for you!

10:17am Phil

I’m trying girl, I’m trying. If my personal life matched my professional life, wow. My personal life is living in the shelter. Gotta get out of this funk. I’m no fun for anyone like I am

3:15pm Phil

Just out of the gym

[photo of him just out of the shower… beautiful shoulders!]     

3:56pm Sassy

I swear you get better looking all the time!  I want to bite that shoulder so badly!  Nom nom nom

4:26pm Phil

Not true but thank you . I’m just me, ain’t all that

4:29pm Phil

[photo of him in a t-shirt, looking tired]
            
4:53pm Sassy
I’m gonna start sending you photos of other men… I am not shitting you!

5:10pm Phil

Oh stop! I wished the girl Happy Easter and she blocked me. I was asking for answers. Guess that’s clear enough. Wow!

8:53pm Phil

bummed, really bummed but now I understand. She wants no part of me. It’s over, and I need to come to terms with it.  Try to remember the good and forget that she will do anything physically possible to keep this guy happy and keep him with her. Hard image but a necessary one. Sucks, just sucks.

8:54pm Phil

nite girl, just want to curl up with my pillow and hold it tight and maybe cry a little.

8:54pm Sassy

Sorry Philip.  Hugs.

9:04pm Phil

I know. Dream over

I’m going to tuck my heart away and leave it buried where nothing can hurt it again. I can’t do this. I’m not good at it and I fucked it all up and now I just have pain. Ok is good enough, no pain there. I’m not reaching for that golden ring again.

I’m done

10:24pm Sassy
There are still amazing people in this world.  Check out these photos from today’s Boston Marathon of four people carrying a guy over the finish line who fell 100 feet from the end.  Boston Strong!

http://www.fitbie.com/2014/04/21/most-beautiful-moment-2014-boston-marathon-photos

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Easter treats

Sunday, April 20, 2014  EASTER

6:57am Sassy

Happy Easter!

7:14am Phil

Happy Easter!

[photo of him at the beach]
            
8:54am Phil
Running on the beach. Now church
[photo of him all sweaty after a run…without his mustache! ARGH!]
1:51pm Phil
What’s missing?
[another photo of his freshly shaven face]
2:02pm Sassy
Your mind.

2:03pm Phil

Huh? Maybe but not what I meant

2:04pm Sassy

I know…trying not to go ARGH!

2:04pm Phil

What?

 Wife and daughter were being bitches. Said I looked like Groucho Marks. Now I look 10

2:07pm Sassy

Yeah.  I figure if I can’t say something nice, better not say anything.

You’re still gorgeous.

2:09pm Phil

Guess you like the stash.
I think I look like an over the hill old guy no matter what I do

2:10pm Sassy

You’re wrong.

You’re so young and handsome and lots of fun!

2:47pm Phil

: )
3:49pm Phil
Yeah yeah

3:50pm Phil

Cheers girlie
[photo of him with beer toasting the camera]
3:50pm Sassy
Did you see my wall?  Put up a dozen pics!  Sis hired a private chef!  They cook, serve and clean up!  So special!

The menu
 Amuse bouche – tuna tartar with avocado
 in soy sesame-fried shallots 
 Local greens with pork belly, chevre, and 
a poached egg with a roasted garlic vinaigrette 
 Crispy duck breast in a orange-fennel reduction with 
summer vegetables, ricotta gnocchi and English pea puree
 
Ricotta mousse with poached rhubarb and candied lemon peel, 
pomegranate reduction and graham cracker crust

3:55pm Phil

Love it. House is gorgeous! We are just having baked ham, Mac and cheese and green bean casserole

7:53pm Phil

Had a wonderful day! The run on the beach was the highlight. Good meal, great worship service, saw some old friends. Missing the girl but nothing I can do. She latches onto anyone who pays attention and for now this guy is paying attention and he has no place to go. Been pretty happy all weekend though and actually got to relax which was so nice. Hope your day was fabulous

8:01pm Sassy

So glad to hear it!  I had an easy day, just showed up, ate, listened to family yammer.  Took Sis, BIL and niece to Logan headed to Disneyworld

Out for supper with friends now – more lobster bisque and lamb!  The Ninety-nine knows how to do it up for a holiday.  I should get a permanent table here.  Ha ha.

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Easter treats

Sunday, April 20, 2014  EASTER

6:57am Sassy

Happy Easter!

7:14am Phil

Happy Easter!

[photo of him at the beach]
            
8:54am Phil
Running on the beach. Now church
[photo of him all sweaty after a run…without his mustache! ARGH!]
1:51pm Phil
What’s missing?
[another photo of his freshly shaven face]
2:02pm Sassy
Your mind.

2:03pm Phil

Huh? Maybe but not what I meant

2:04pm Sassy

I know…trying not to go ARGH!

2:04pm Phil

What?

 Wife and daughter were being bitches. Said I looked like Groucho Marks. Now I look 10

2:07pm Sassy

Yeah.  I figure if I can’t say something nice, better not say anything.

You’re still gorgeous.

2:09pm Phil

Guess you like the stash.
I think I look like an over the hill old guy no matter what I do

2:10pm Sassy

You’re wrong.

You’re so young and handsome and lots of fun!

2:47pm Phil

: )
3:49pm Phil
Yeah yeah

3:50pm Phil

Cheers girlie
[photo of him with beer toasting the camera]
3:50pm Sassy
Did you see my wall?  Put up a dozen pics!  Sis hired a private chef!  They cook, serve and clean up!  So special!

The menu
 Amuse bouche – tuna tartar with avocado
 in soy sesame-fried shallots 
 Local greens with pork belly, chevre, and 
a poached egg with a roasted garlic vinaigrette 
 Crispy duck breast in a orange-fennel reduction with 
summer vegetables, ricotta gnocchi and English pea puree
 
Ricotta mousse with poached rhubarb and candied lemon peel, 
pomegranate reduction and graham cracker crust

3:55pm Phil

Love it. House is gorgeous! We are just having baked ham, Mac and cheese and green bean casserole

7:53pm Phil

Had a wonderful day! The run on the beach was the highlight. Good meal, great worship service, saw some old friends. Missing the girl but nothing I can do. She latches onto anyone who pays attention and for now this guy is paying attention and he has no place to go. Been pretty happy all weekend though and actually got to relax which was so nice. Hope your day was fabulous

8:01pm Sassy

So glad to hear it!  I had an easy day, just showed up, ate, listened to family yammer.  Took Sis, BIL and niece to Logan headed to Disneyworld

Out for supper with friends now – more lobster bisque and lamb!  The Ninety-nine knows how to do it up for a holiday.  I should get a permanent table here.  Ha ha.

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Easter specials

Saturday, April 19, 2014

5:30am Phil

Off to the beach. Going to be rainy but a rainy day at the beach is better than a glorious day in DC
[photo of him early in the morning with his hair wet from the shower]
9:48am Sassy
Good morning handsome!   Have a great time! I’m off to Mom’s as usual.

10:20am Sassy

Gorgeous beach photos!  One of those times when I say, “He is so like me!” In that the beach restores me no matter the weather!

10:22am Phil

Me too! Nothing makes me feel like the beach

11:29am Phil

[photo of his beautiful smile in an old sweatshirt]
            
11:30am Sassy
Mom’s in the bank, so I get to look at your sexy face!

1:54pm Sassy
Hey!  The Ninety-nine has Easter specials today!

I had the lobster bisque and ham!  Mom had the turkey dinner.  Such a treat!  Yum.

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Easter specials

Saturday, April 19, 2014

5:30am Phil

Off to the beach. Going to be rainy but a rainy day at the beach is better than a glorious day in DC
[photo of him early in the morning with his hair wet from the shower]
9:48am Sassy
Good morning handsome!   Have a great time! I’m off to Mom’s as usual.

10:20am Sassy

Gorgeous beach photos!  One of those times when I say, “He is so like me!” In that the beach restores me no matter the weather!

10:22am Phil

Me too! Nothing makes me feel like the beach

11:29am Phil

[photo of his beautiful smile in an old sweatshirt]
            
11:30am Sassy
Mom’s in the bank, so I get to look at your sexy face!

1:54pm Sassy
Hey!  The Ninety-nine has Easter specials today!

I had the lobster bisque and ham!  Mom had the turkey dinner.  Such a treat!  Yum.

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Shoulders

Friday, April 18, 2014
8:23am Sassy
Good morning kid!   Happy Good Friday!

8:54am Phil

Morning Sass

[photo of him all sweaty at the gym]

9:07am Sassy

Hiya Handsome!

9:09am Phil

Hey cutie.  An old friend commented on my profile and said she was headed to DC. She said drinks on me. My response, ooh that sounds naughty but fun!

Not sure that’s what she meant

9:29am Sassy

But you will get to find out!

9:31am Phil

Nah, just be naughty. We’ve been friends a long time

10:02am Phil

[photo of him with his hair all wild just out of the shower, showing his hunky shoulders that he knows make me melt!]
10:02am Sassy
You are so fun!  Mmm… shoulders…

10:03am Phil

Ha ha

5:01pm Phil

Just stepping out of the shower
[another one of him fresh out of the shower, showing a bit more… nice nipple!]
5:01pm Sassy
Step over here and give me a kiss!

5:05pm Phil

And dressed, be my pleasure

[photo of him dressed, hair combed]
5:06pm Sassy
Nice plaid!  SMOOTCH!

9:37pm Phil

Off to bed, pooped, night Sass

[photo of him just before bed… beautiful naked chest and big smile]
            
9:38pm Sassy
Sweet sexy dreams dear man.

9:40pm Phil

Thank you. You too

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Shoulders

Friday, April 18, 2014
8:23am Sassy
Good morning kid!   Happy Good Friday!

8:54am Phil

Morning Sass

[photo of him all sweaty at the gym]

9:07am Sassy

Hiya Handsome!

9:09am Phil

Hey cutie.  An old friend commented on my profile and said she was headed to DC. She said drinks on me. My response, ooh that sounds naughty but fun!

Not sure that’s what she meant

9:29am Sassy

But you will get to find out!

9:31am Phil

Nah, just be naughty. We’ve been friends a long time

10:02am Phil

[photo of him with his hair all wild just out of the shower, showing his hunky shoulders that he knows make me melt!]
10:02am Sassy
You are so fun!  Mmm… shoulders…

10:03am Phil

Ha ha

5:01pm Phil

Just stepping out of the shower
[another one of him fresh out of the shower, showing a bit more… nice nipple!]
5:01pm Sassy
Step over here and give me a kiss!

5:05pm Phil

And dressed, be my pleasure

[photo of him dressed, hair combed]
5:06pm Sassy
Nice plaid!  SMOOTCH!

9:37pm Phil

Off to bed, pooped, night Sass

[photo of him just before bed… beautiful naked chest and big smile]
            
9:38pm Sassy
Sweet sexy dreams dear man.

9:40pm Phil

Thank you. You too

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Big red

Thursday, April 17, 2014

4:45am Phil
Starting the day

[photo of him looking sleepy in an undershirt]
4:46am Phil
Have a great one!

8:12am Sassy

Good morning hot stuff!   Wow…would take that man back to bed!

8:17am Phil

LOL. Glad you had fun last night. Sad today. Had a nice nite, not excited about her coming home. I’m  being carefree, letting my heart take me. I think too much, don’t relax enough. It’s my last day. Got four days off. Got to stay busy or I’ll be sad all weekend. Maybe yard work tomorrow and a few wineries on Sat. Always fun, not romantic like it should be but relaxing and fun

8:17am Phil

Did you know there’s a big red cock on here?  : )

8:19am Phil

All dressed up

[photo of him at work in a dress shirt and tie]
                     
8:20am Sassy
I wish I could have big red cock for breakfast!

8:21am Phil

No calories in that syrup and it tastes good. I know

6:45pm Phil

Let the weekend begin

[photo of him after work, dress shirt undone, tie undone]
            
6:46pm Sassy
Woohoo!  Sorry I missed your call!

6:47pm Phil

[photo of him having a beer]           
       
6:51pm Sassy
Awww… your smile!  Melts me.

7:06pm Phil

I’m glad

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Big red

Thursday, April 17, 2014

4:45am Phil
Starting the day

[photo of him looking sleepy in an undershirt]
4:46am Phil
Have a great one!

8:12am Sassy

Good morning hot stuff!   Wow…would take that man back to bed!

8:17am Phil

LOL. Glad you had fun last night. Sad today. Had a nice nite, not excited about her coming home. I’m  being carefree, letting my heart take me. I think too much, don’t relax enough. It’s my last day. Got four days off. Got to stay busy or I’ll be sad all weekend. Maybe yard work tomorrow and a few wineries on Sat. Always fun, not romantic like it should be but relaxing and fun

8:17am Phil

Did you know there’s a big red cock on here?  : )

8:19am Phil

All dressed up

[photo of him at work in a dress shirt and tie]
                     
8:20am Sassy
I wish I could have big red cock for breakfast!

8:21am Phil

No calories in that syrup and it tastes good. I know

6:45pm Phil

Let the weekend begin

[photo of him after work, dress shirt undone, tie undone]
            
6:46pm Sassy
Woohoo!  Sorry I missed your call!

6:47pm Phil

[photo of him having a beer]           
       
6:51pm Sassy
Awww… your smile!  Melts me.

7:06pm Phil

I’m glad

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Jello

Wednesday, April 16, 2014
10:01am Phil
Have a great day kiddo!

10:14am Sassy

Same to you!  So great to hear your voice yesterday 
       
11:14am Phil
Always good to talk to you!

12:44pm Phil

Feeling better today. Learned today the guy is another bar fly who apparently does not have his own place and now lives with her. How do you let someone move in and occupy your home that you don’t know? A few nights in a bar ain’t knowing some one. Time to write this one off I think

12:51pm Sassy

Wow.  Sorry.  On the “doing things to tick you off” she really has it down, eh?  But if it makes it a little easier to stay away, perhaps a good thing.  Hugs kid.

12:58pm Phil

Then wonders why it didn’t work. And wonders why these guys always turn out to be shit bags. You can’t pick some guy up in a bar, fuck the hell out of him for a month or two and then come crying back

1:13pm Sassy

You’ve always let her before.

2:20pm Phil

This one really fried my ass though. I was there, she had me and she walked away for an apparently homeless bar fly? WTF. Not that I’m all that but I thought I was special to her and I now think anyone who was nice to her and paid attention to her would have been fine. When I get done being upset about it, I’m sure I’ll see it differently. I’m not mad at her. I’ve never been mad at her but I’m disappointed

2:22pm Phil

This is 5 over 3 years including my best friend which was described as a revenge fuck. I don’t even know what that is. I can’t even imagine doing something like that

2:25pm Sassy

Did she do anything like this in the time you lived with her?

2:29pm Phil

Yeah, that’s why I left, came out in a bra and panties and rubbed all over a friend, kissed and groped another friend in a bar, got pissed at me and decided to play strip poker with guys on the beach while slamming jack Daniels, I loved her but couldn’t handle it. She had affairs on her husband as well. I should have seen it long ago but the girl melts my heart, puts her arms around me and I turn to jello. Men are so stupid

2:34pm Sassy

Feelings aren’t stupid.

And dealing with a lover’s bad traits is normal… no one is perfect.

That she does this is bad, that she does it knowing it bugs you is worse.

I can see you saying you love her, you’ll deal

I can see you saying “no frickin way”

Only you can say which!

3:39pm Phil

I do love her. We all have faults and issues and I have not made her feel secure. Shame on me. Much of her action is an attempt to get my attention but all she had to do was just love me and I would already be there. Hurting me puts my guard up and makes me question. Just be mine, love me, stand beside me and I will treat you like royalty and love you back with all that I have. I just want her to be that incredible person I see in the morning, the one who rolls over and kisses me good morning and then convinces me that there much better things than breakfast.

7:33pm Phil

Hey Sass, had a great dinner

7:46pm Sassy

Saw that!  Yum!

7:48pm Phil

Enjoying a cigar and scotch, great tunes and loving the solitude

8:04pm Phil

Wanna yap?

8:08pm Sassy

Sure

8:09pm Phil

[photo of him looking very tired, sitting outside in his backyard]
            
8:10pm Sassy
You look relaxed.  But have way too many clothes on!

8:11pm Phil

I’ll fix that later

Big puffy face is gone, healthier by the day

8:13pm Sassy

I was noticing your disappearing chin!  Looks great!

10:54pm Phil

Hope you had fun

10:56pm Phil

[photo of his very erect cock]
            
11:13pm Sassy
Oh my!  I did!  Low key but lovely