9:37am

Good morning kid!  Another bunch of great photos yesterday!  I had a fun lunch with Mom and my niece. Then my guy came over and hung out.  He makes me smile. Have a great Sunday!

9:38am Phil 

He doing ok? I know how hard that is
Glad you are having a good weekend

9:41am 

He is doing incredibly well.  He got a text saying “check your mailbox” so he’s thinking that can’t be good.  Trying to decide if I can go with him to find out.  Hubby is being a great sport about having him around.

Amazing to have a guy around who picks up after himself and does stuff around my place!  And touches me…

9:42am Phil 

Hubby has his girl around there so you should be able to have your guy, right? 

I’m guessing the mailbox contains divorce papers

Nice when it’s a partnership.

9:45am

If she went right to that without ever talking to him?  Wow…

9:47am Phil 

Some women are like that.  She doesn’t sound like a real stable one

9:48am 

I dunno.  I can understand.  

If her son handed her a pile of our email?  ugh.

9:50am Phil 

That would be all she needs to make a case. Kids always pick a side but expect you to remain neutral where they are concerned.

 9:53am 

*sigh  I am so lucky to have friends like you who get it…

10:04am Phil 

I’m the last person to be judgmental. 

Too many people trapped in marriages they no longer enjoy

10:07am 

He loves her, wants to stay with her… figures he’s the one who gets caught.  Most of my online pals wouldn’t mind getting out.

10:16am Phil 

That sucks

10:39am Phil 

Never go to the house

12:02pm 

I learned that lesson last weekend!
No more closets!

1:05pm Phil 

There you go. Learn lessons along the way.

1:06pm

We’re driving to NH. Think good thoughts for him and me.

7:42pm Phil 

How did it go?

7:42pm

Mailbox had letter from wife. She’s moving far away to live with daughter, filing for legal separation, wants no contact.

He stayed calm, took me out for supper on Lake Winnipesaukee.  

He has some big decisions to make.

7:47pm Phil 

That’s what I thought. Sorry it worked out that way

7:50pm

Tough to know what to do.  He let me read it.

       
8:11am
Whoa… that’s a bunch of beer!  You had fun?  How’s your pal down there?  Is he retired too now?

My guy is definitely busted – his son hacked his Yahoo account.  Ugh.  Told his entire family!

Have a great Saturday!

12:45pm
Had a great lunch at McDonald’s with Mom and my niece.  She adores the playground there.  And McNuggets.  Heh.

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

8:01am Phil 

Had a wonderful evening of beer and tequila on the beach. 

Have a great day Sass!

 8:16am

Good morning!  I adored those photos – looked like a perfect Philip night!

8:19am Phil 

It certainly was!

7:43am

Good morning!   Yesterday was CALM!  Thank goodness.   

I had enough drama Sunday to last me at least a year!

11:20pm
I may never go to a grocery store again!  You know how I hate shopping.  I found a grocery delivery service – they’re offering free delivery to new customers and it’s only $3.99 after that. The web site is easy – lots of stores to choose from (Shaw’s, Market Basket, Whole Foods, Harvest Co-op and Costco), lots of products (or you can type in others), then a very personable personal shopper goes and brings it to you within a couple of hours. What a concept!  I’ve tried Peapod and Roche Brothers but they’re both next day and that never seems to work with my schedule.   This may be really useful for events at work too.

It’s a huge time saver!  I can say “load in what I bought last time,” tweak it and hit send!

So instead of touching groceries six times and lugging them around (into the cart, onto the conveyor, into bags, into the car, out of the car, into the house), they put them in my kitchen and I put them away!  You should see if they have them in your area.

https://www.instacart.com

6:20am Phil 

Hope everything worked out ok last night

7:57am

Good morning kid. He brought me home at 2 am. 

Where I found Hubby’s gf!  He took her home.  

What a weird night!  

Thanks again for listening!

7:57pm Phil 

Geez. What a nite

7:58pm 

You full of beer and brats?

7:59pm Phil 

Yup!

[mouthwatering photo of German food – brats, potato salad, sauerkraut!]

 7:59pm Phil

[photo of him toasting me with a big beer sitting outside at a restaurant]

8:56pm

Oh my!  Looks so delicious!  (and the food looks good too) 

8:57pm Phil 

[photo of him with a co-worker at the restaurant]

8:58pm Phil 

Ha, you kill me. 

Trying to have some fun while working

9:25pm

I believe that is not allowed! 

9:28pm Phil 

That’s what they tell me. Fuck em

10:07am

Good morning from NH!  Another gorgeous day!  I woke Kris up the right way.   Hope it’s a lovely Sunday for you!

11:08am Phil 

Good morning! Awesome! Glad you are having a great weekend. Driving to the beach

11:12am 

Well…his W just showed up!  They let her out to go to church and she stopped by.
I am hiding in the closet!!!!

11:15am Phil 

That’s funny as hell!

11:15am

Arrgh!
Thank goodness I had cleaned up and stowed all my stuff

11:17am Phil 

I am literally laughing my ass off
been bad with toys everywhere

11:18am 

don’t even think that! !

11:19am Phil 

I’m still laughing

11:19am

Yeah, bad luck that she arrived but he had a good plan 

and we were lucky it wasn’t worse
We had gone over where to go etc
Ugh. Never a dull moment with this guy!

11:21am Phil 

This stuff happens, at least you weren’t out on a window ledge

11:21am 

My mom liked him.  He charmed her at lunch yesterday. 

She told him “secrets” about me when I went to the bathroom!

11:22am Phil 

Always a good thing

11:23am

Thanks for listening.   Wife left and we’re off to the boat!

Oh… he told her about the Harley.  She was screaming at him. So hard to have to listen to that!

11:24am Phil 

Have fun! Oysters and beer for me
Great!!!!

11:26am

Yum.  I’m hoping for lobster tonight,  pull up to a river side place in Essex

11:27am Phil 

Awesome!  

I’m a simple boy. Oysters, some shrimp and a cold one on the beach
Enjoy the lobster!

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11:24pm 

I am such a mess.

11:29pm Phil 

What’s up?

11:30pm 

We had a wonderful day on his boat, then dinner, went to his place and…
 his wife was there!

11:31pm Phil 

Oh boy. Bad scene?

11:31pm 

He drove past and pulled over down the road.  

She drove out and saw him

11:32pm Phil 

You ok girl?

11:32pm

I’m alone at Applebee’s waiting for him

He drove off.  She followed him, beeping her horn
I ducked down

11:33pm Phil 

Does not sound like a good thing

11:33pm 

She pulled along side, screaming at him to pull over

11:34pm Phil 

Oh boy

11:35pm 

He sped up and lost her, high speed chase with the boat attached!
He dropped me off at the closest restaurant

11:36pm Phil 

At least you did not get caught in the middle of sex

11:36pm 

True!

11:36pm Phil 

That would have been bad

11:39pm 

Applebees closes at 12… 

not sure what to do if he doesn’t return by then

11:40pm Phil 

Where is your car?
Take a cab to your car

11:41pm

at home in Boston an hour away – I’m in NH… no cabs
I can call Hubby I guess

11:42pm Phil 

Oh shit
May be your only option

11:43pm

Ugh.  Why is there always a catch?

11:44pm Phil 

That’s life! What makes it interesting

11:51pm

Ha ha.  I hope this night gets dull soon!
The 25 year old waiter is hitting on me.  Sigh

12:01am Phil 

Just hope you get home ok

12:03am 

He just texted.  he is returning for me.
The waiter said I can stay for at least an hour while they clean up.
I may ask to go home.
Thanks kid.

12:04am Phil 

Awesome

12:04am 

Guys come and go, but you’re always here to listen! Whee!

12:05am Phil 

Good luck Sass