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Good snuggle weather

Friday May 24, 2013
TEXTS
5:22 pm From SeaMan to me
Hey…how was yur day off
5:24 pm from me to SeaMan
Great!  Spent lots of time with Mom.  You? 
5:26 pm From SeaMan to me
Work..work
5:28 pm from me to SeaMan
Going sailing this weekend? 
5:29 pm From SeaMan to me
Wash out…til monday
5:30 pm From me to SeaMan
Yeah… good times for movies or other indoor activities. 
5:30 pm From SeaMan to me
Indeed….good snuggle weather
5:36 pm From SeaMan to me
So what r u wearing
5:30 pm from me to SeaMan
ha ha… not much.  Big old t-shirt and bright purple underwear.
5:41 pm from me to SeaMan
You? Similar to what I saw? 
5:42 pm From SeaMan to me
Oooo….like easy access
5:48 pm From SeaMan to me
remind me what im missing…Send me a sexy pic
5:59 pm from me to SeaMan
Sent to yahoo email.
[sent him my belly button and pink panties photo]
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Offer to SeaMan

Thursday May 23, 2013
TEXTS
10:30 am From me to SeaMan
Good morning!  FYI – I’m off work tomorrow, and all next week. If you’d like to claim any of those afternoons… let me know.  🙂
1:59 pm From SeaMan to me
Hope so…. will let you know
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SeaMan support

Wednesday May 22, 2013
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9:44 am From SeaMan to me
Good morning sunshine….hope all goes well for Mom today
10:00 am From me to SeaMan
Good morning!  Thank you!  Going to be a tough day. 
10:17 am From SeaMan to me
feel free to share yur thoughts during the day
10:18 am From me to SeaMan
Thanks.  Trying to work and not think about it too much. 
5:18 pm From SeaMan to me
How did it go 2day
5:19 pm From me to SeaMan
No word yet.  Going nuts.  Going to nap until they call. 
5:19 pm From SeaMan to me
Getting the best care in the country…
5:20 p From me to SeaMan
I know.  Sorry to be mired in this.  Not what you signed up for! 
5:22 pm From SeaMan to me
No worries…part of life…hang in there…
5:42 pm From me to SeaMan
I appreciate you listening.  You’re a nice man. 
5:43 pm From SeaMan to me
Lol….ive been called worse.
10:00 pm 
Mom’s in ICU, doing well.  So relieved.

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SeaMan sunshine

Tuesday May 21, 2013 
TEXTS from SeaMan 
8:52 am 
From him to me
Good morning sunshine….hows mom
8:54 am 
from me to him 
Good morning!  How’re you doing? Mom is amazingly calm.  Surgery tomorrow. 
8:55 am 
from him to me
great thx…hope it goes well.
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Even more survey Q&A

May 20, 2013 Tuesday

I got an and email from Ashley Madison asking me to participate in an academic survey about online dating.  I filled it out, then volunteered to be interviewed via email and had a fun back-and-forth with the grad student running it.  If you missed the first part, click here.  The second part is here.  This is the third post.

From the grad student
To me
Sent: Tuesday, May 14, 2013 3:56 PM
Note: this is a bulk blind copied message with a follow-up question. Make sure to hit REPLY and not “reply all.”
Many women “frequently process experiences and information through discussions with cohorts.” With an OP, the ability to discuss the experience or even the man himself is severely limited or sometimes eliminated. This can leave women “feeling slightly isolated.”
Is this the situation with you? If so, can you elaborate?
How do you handle this isolation?
[her name]
Ph.D. Student, Sociology
Graduate Teaching Assistant
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From me
To the Grad Student
May 20, 2013
This is not my situation.  
I am very lucky to have plenty of people to talk to.  I can’t talk to everyone, but I have my sister, three local friends (two women and one man) and several online pals that I can talk with.  
I am also 
– in an online chat room on IRC for “cheaters” that is very supportive, 
– participate in an online forum that is a wealth of information and 
– email bloggers who write about Ashley Madison and other extra-marital adventures.  
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From: the grad student
To Me
May 14, 2013
oooh, tell me about the new guy?
1.    What are all the ways an outside partner complicates your life? 
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From me
To the grad student 
May 20, 2013
Hi!  
The new guy is a fun – my best start ever!  He asked me to lunch on our third text (usually takes at least a week or more).  We had a great hug with some groping, then a fun discussion over lunch, then a walk by the river for “dessert.”  We ended up necking like teenagers on a bench in the sunshine.  Whee!  He talked about a hotel… soon.  We’ll see!  
Q.  What are all the ways an outside partner complicates your life? 
A.  Complications

– Made me realize what I was missing on the sex front 
– Made me quieter.  I was used to yammering away but now I have to filter, which is hard, so I talk a lot less.  
– Makes me almost break in half sometimes missing him  (facet of long-distance relationship) 
– Makes me argue with myself about “cheating” even though Hubby doesn’t see it that way
– Taught me different rules about extra-marital relationships that are tough to take, that is doesn’t “go anywhere” or mean we’ll live happily  ever after.  It’s just passion and a confidante, and men never leaves their wives etc. 
– Costs money I don’t have to fly to see him, eat out, buy him presents, upgrade my phone 
– Makes my computer life way more tricky.  Have to be super-careful not to leave my screen open at work, not to email things to the wrong places or text him when his wife might see it etc. 
– Takes me longer to get things done in my regular life because I am writing to him, thinking of him, reading things looking to see if they’d be good to send him, watching p0rn to see if he might like it 
– Makes me lead a “double life” and distances me from my friends because I can’t tell them the big news in my life 
– We can’t share the big days like holidays or important family events.  I really needed him at my dad’s funeral.  There was no way he could get away to come.  He could have appeared – my family would’ve welcomed him, but he couldn’t find an excuse for a trip that his wife would buy
– We take risks that worry me.  Every time we’re in a car I wonder what would happen if we had an accident… 
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Floral Panties

From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2013 8:33 AM
Subject: see you online…sent IM
Haven’t heard from you in a bit, so am just saying hi.
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From: Sassy
To: Rick 
Sent: Fri, 10 May 2013 08:45 AM
Subject: Re: see you online…sent IM
Hiya right back at you!  Crazy time at work… have enough for three people to do!  
Seeing your name in my inbox gave me a boost!  Thank you Rick!   
How’re things?  
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, May 10, 2013 8:47 AM
Subject: RE: see you online…sent IM
I’m doing ok.  At the main office today, though will have to make out trip out to the hinterlands to pick up something.  
Thinking of you taking advantage of me, touching me all over as you discover what I am wearing….
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Date: Fri, 10 May 2013 09:00 AM
Subject: Re: see you online…sent IM
My car is in the shop so I am stuck except for taking the bus to and from work.  Bleh.  It’s up at the dealer near you, so think good thoughts if you drive by and wave! 
I wish your errands would send you my way.  It would be fun to dash down to your car, hop in for a few moments and touch you places that a lady should not touch a man in a car parked on the street.  Might even have to unbutton buttons or unzip zippers to touch skin I am not supposed to touch.  And watch your face as I squeeze and stroke and press…. mmmm… 
 -S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: May 10, 2013 12:07 PM
If only I knew where you worked….
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Date: Fri, 10 May 2013 12:22 PM
Subject: Re: see you online…sent IM
Oh don’t tease me… you know it’s not on your way anywhere today!  Naughty man! 
 Just for that you better tell me what color you have on over your beautiful man bulge today. 
 -S
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From: Rick
To: Sassy
Sent: May 10, 2013 3:14 PM
Not what color…what colors.
Bright floral print, holding me in tight, and would feel so nice on your hands as you touched skin, then nylon, and then found the surprise the nylon held for you.
You would enjoy it. 
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Sat, 11 May 2013 09:03 AM
Subject: Saturday sighting
Hiya Rick!  I hope you’re having a fine Saturday.  I thought I was going to be stuck in the house whining about my car in the shop, but my mom and my sister’s best friend have conspired to take me out for lunch!  
I was thinking about you being out for lunch.  Something you probably don’t so very often… but roll with it!  You sip your water, look around at the other diners.  and see a face you think you recognize.  Could it be that Sassy girl?  But you only saw her once and it was a long time ago for only a few minutes… you’re not sure.  Suddenly, the lady rises and heads toward the bathrooms.  She pauses, looking your way, points at you, then in the direction she is going.  It’s her. You’re intrigued.  It looks like she wants you to meet her by the bathroom?  
You really should not do this.  But you excuse yourself and head down the long hallway, around the corner, down the stairs… she is standing in the doorway of the ladies bathroom.  Crooking her finger at you.  Smiling her sexy smile.  You are not sure… this is risky.  You’ll talk to her for a moment and then go.  When you get close enough to speak, she takes your hand, pressed a finger to your lips, pulls you into the little room and locks the door. 
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From: Rick 
To: Sassy
Sent:  May 11, 2013 6:24 pm
Oh, you are naughty!!  
I would go, as you know I would.  How could I not when you are pull me so easily into that naughty, sassy web you weave?
Hope lunch was nice.  I spent the day watching my kids play sports; or just getting wet.  Being teased into a ladies room sounds like much, much more fun. 
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: Sat, 18 May 2013 12:41 PM
Subject: Horsing around
Hiya Rick!  How are you this beautiful Saturday?  
I am off to Mom’s to watch the Preakness… thinking of you being so close by, as always wishing I could see you, touch you, tease you… mmm… 
Hugs with groping! 
-S
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From: Rick 
To: Sassy
Sent: May 18, 2013 5:47 PM
RE: Horsing around
Actually, I’m not so close by.  My father passed away unexpectedly so I’m way out West tending to things.  Hopefully I’ll be back sometime next week.  
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From: Sassy
To: Rick
Sent: May 18, 2013 6:29 PM
RE: Horsing around
Oh Rick!  My deepest condolences.  I will pray for your family and you.  

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TGIF

TEXTS from SeaMan
5/17/13
3:06 pm to me
Hey….TGIF….how r holding up
3: 33 pm to him
Pretty quiet here.  You? 
4:06 pm to me
Quiet day…paperwork…
4:10 pm to him
We’re closing up early.  Yay!
4:15 pm to me
Nice….well deserved
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Test yur gag reflex

TEXTS from SeaMan via Google Voice
5/15/13
9:38 am to me
Good morning sunshine
9:54 to him 
Good morning!  Such a glorious day!
4:02 pm to me
Hey..hows yur day going
4:20 pm to him
Crazy but being very productive!  You?  
Mom made it thru heart catheterization!
4:21 pm to me
Jeez….had no idea….glad she is alright…how u holding up?
4:24 pm to him 
Compartmentalizing so I can work.  Taking her dinner.  Freaky crap is
open heart surgery next week.  Adore memory of lunch and “dessert” with you when
things get bad. What’s your news?
4:26 pm to me
keep the good thought….
I’m Just working away….
4:31 pm to him
Could I sneak under your desk? Cause trouble?
4:33 pm to me
Lol….could use some release ….test yur gag reflex 😉
4:33 pm to him
Test your stamina.
4:32 pm to me
Deal
10:16 pm to me
Sweet dreams
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SeaMan Fantasizes

Tuesday, May 14, 2013
SeaMan went right back to his office and texted me!  Yay!  Phew… always such a relief when a man keeps talking after a meet!  He got very steamy very fast.  
TEXTS via Google Voice
5/13/13 
2:33 pm to me
Hey…thx for hanging out…
2:35 pm to him
Wish I still was, instead of sitting at my dek
3:01 to me
Hmmm…..like it i were under yur desk now…..my beard tickling yur thighs…..
3:15 pm to him 
Remind me of your email and I’ll send you a photo 
3:39 pm to me
[redacted] at yahoo
3:42 pm to him 
You want to see my black bra or the white? 
3:43 pm to me
blk
[I emailed him my famous cleavage photo]
3:51 pm to me
Got it! HOT!….cant wait to dive in face first…
5:11 pm to me
Probly shld not distract on ride home…but my cock is still semi-hard from yur touch
5:12 pm to him 
Hope it helps your fantasies
5:15 pm to me
Lol….u enter the room…lights low….soft music playing….i offer u a drink…we kiss…embrace…
5:17 pm to me
I kiss yur neck…..trail of kisses to yur cleavage…
5:20 pm to me
I slowly remove yur top….and bra…releasing yur luvly breasts into my hands…..
5:22 pm to me
I remove my shirt…chest to chest….nipples hard….we kiss deep and wet…..you grabbing my ass…pulliNg my growing cock into you…
5:22 pm to me
I lay you down….undress you….i get naked
5:24 pm to me
You grab my cock and direct to yur mouth as i massage your pussy…
5:25 pm to me
Your lips cover my cock head as i slip one…two…three fingers into your pussy…
5:26 pm to me
I slowly finger fuck you….as you lick my balls….and shaft…
5:27 pm to me
Yur first orgasm is growing….moaning….i curl my fingers to hit yur spot…explosion…
5:29 pm to me
Now that yur pussy is Wet…you beg for my cock…fuck me….
5:30 pm to me
Fav position?
5:32 to him 
Like so many!  Doggie?  Side spooned? Deck chair? 
5:33 pm to me
Cool
5:34 pm 
You? 
5:35 pm to me
All
5:26 pm to him
Cowgirl?  
5:37 pm to me
Cowgirl….side entry r fun
5:38 pm to me
Sounds hot
5:46 pm to me
Lol….want u to faint
5:50 pm to him 
I want you to cum
5:53 pm to me
Already doing that….
5:59 pm gotta run, out for dinner with Hubby
7:45 pm 
[I emailed him my erotica “The View“]
8:03 pm to me
Hi..how was dinner
8:04 pm to him
Yummy… sushi
8:05 pm to me
luv sushi….keep yur strength up
8:12 pm to me
Do you have a nip pic..preview what i will be sucking on…
8:13 pm to him 
Want to see that or read my erotica? 
8:52 pm to me
Do i have to choose?
8:53 pm to him
No.  Sending both!  Greedy man.
9:32 pm to me
Super hot! perfect…so succulent…..luv them
9:33 pm to me
Glad i was greedy….hold me over til i taste the real ones…
9:35 pm to him 
Do you have any hot pics to send me? 
9:40 pm to me
No pics to match those 🙁
9:40 pm to him
Take some! 
9:40 pm to me
I cld try ltr
9:44 pm to him
No big deal.  But nice to see what I’d be sucking on.  🙂  You are fun!
9:53 pm to me
thx …you too.  I headed to bed. 
9:54 pm 
Sleep well!  
10:12 to me
Sweet dreams…
11:16 pm 
[He emailed back in response to “The View]
Luv it….so erotic….yum
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He started right up again the next morning!  Adore that! 
TEXTS 
5/14/13
9:22 am to me
Good morning sunshine….Hope its a good one for you
9:25 am to him
Good morning to you!  Still smiling about yesterday. 
9:28 am to me
😉
12:56 am to me
Hey sexy….hows yur day going…
1:21 pm to him 
Having vivid fantasies… makes for a great day!  You?
1:23 pm to me
Aw yes…yur fabulous breasts sliding up and down my body….
1:30 pm to him
Oh!  My chest goes on a tour of the sea man’s body! mmm.
1:31 pm to him
I expanded on yesterday – Me in a long coat, on your lap naked, arms
around your neck, riding… not usually an exhibitionist but yum!
1:35 pm to me 
Luv it…filling yur wet pussy with my thick hard cock…..suckin on yur nipples…yum..