Sharing my week

January 3, 2019 Thursday

From: Sassy

To: Brett
Sent: Jan 3 at 8:01 PM
Subject: January jumping

Hiya Brett!

Happy 2019!

Are you back? Hope you had an easy journey!

It’s Thursday night and I am thinking of you! It somehow makes you seem closer if I tell you about my week, so here goes! It’s been an up and down time over the break. I got out to do fun stuff, but also ended up with a nasty cold.

Friday
Hubby woke up with a bad cold and it was rainy so we had a quiet day at home. I cooked breakfast again – I think that’s some kind of record! Ha. We ate lunch off the treats we picked up from 7-Eleven in Gloucester the day before, and ordered Thai food for supper.

Saturday
My throat started to hurt. Argh. That’s the first symptom of this wretched cold going around! So now Hubby, Sis and I all have it, With the timing, I’m thinking someone at Christmas was contagious!

I had a lovely brunch with a friend of Hubby’s – she is at the tail end of the coughing crap but controlled it with meds and cough drops. We tried Branch Line in Watertown for a late brunch, which was fine but has no real attraction other then being around the corner from the theater.

We went to see “1776.” It was spectacular! They stuck to the script but were creative in cross-casting and costumes, e.g., Ben Franklin was a woman, Martha Washington was a man. And the costumes were an odd pastiche of frock coats and leather pants and Jimmy Choo heels. I know every word of that show and enjoyed seeing it again, especially in today’s political climate.

Hubby asked me to pick up Chinese food on my way home, so I did that and we had a quiet evening.

Sunday
I woke up with sniffles added to the cold symptoms. Bleh.

I went to brunch with my older sister and her beau. They took me to Bambara – a lovely hotel restaurant in the Hotel Marlowe near CambridgeSide. I adore their porridge with nuts and fruit!

We rolled on to the Kendall Cinema. Several friends mentioned they wanted to see the new Ruth Bader Ginsberg movie, so I let it be known that we were going, and three more people showed up! It’s an odd social interaction – they plop down, exchange pleasantries, watch a movie, then wave good bye! I should have coordinated a debrief somewhere nearby!

We saw “On the Basis of Sex” which I find an ungainly title, but I get why they used it. I did NOT like this movie. I am glad to have seen it, and contributed to the first weekend gross for a movie about a smart historic woman, but the film itself is problematic. Everyone else with me liked it, so this is just me. I felt like it was poorly written, and poorly directed – focusing too long on various simple points, and not explaining the more complicated ones. I was immersed in the law for so long and even I could not make out the legal machinations, just had to be glad they happened. It is frightening to think what this country would be like for women without RBG having pushed and shoved to change the laws! The acting is predictable and trite. Eh.

I came home and dealt with an Instacart order from Wegman’s. They didn’t find two things I really wanted. *sigh I made lunch for Hubby who was beyond dealing in between coughing fits. I took a long nap, then made chili with hot dogs for lunch and ate leftovers for supper. That felt quite virtuous!

Monday
I woke up even more sick – the coughing started up so I took Dayquil and drank a lot of water! I was the queen of delivery! I put through two instacart orders – Wegmans and Star Market – to be sure I got Hubby’s coffee. Of course, this time they both showed up with it!

I also ordered breakfast delivered. Wanted something special and effortless! The banana nut pancakes from Mass Ave Diner did it!  With bacon, of course.  🙂

I took two long naps, then made stuffing to have with rotissed chicken, mashed potatoes & gravy.

We missed my sister’s big New Year’s Eve party. I wish I could have sampled the food I helped her plan! You would have liked the beef wellington. I thought of you at midnight – wished you were here to be kissed! I thought of our quick kissing start the last time – such passion!

Tuesday
I woke up coughing…took DayQuil so I could go out for a festive French brunch at Gaslight in the South End with my older sister, her beau and my niece! We had a lovely time! The crepes and croissants are perfect. I returned home to naps and chicken soup for both lunch and dinner.

Wednesday
I was supposed to go back to work, but I was coughing too much so I stayed home sick. I started to feel better, so I did a little work. I did laundry and even matched up my socks to put away. Heh. I ate more chicken soup. It seems to be helping!

Thursday
Today I felt slightly worse. So I stayed home again. I did more work – got the payroll taken care of. I had chicken soup for lunch and Thai coconut chicken soup delivered for dinner. I got in a good nap. Soups and napping seem like the best medicine.

I have to go to a periodontal appointment in the morning – figuring Dayquil will get me through that. I’ll go on to the office if I feel okay.

So there’s my week. No plans for this weekend – hope to rest and shake off this cold! Hope you didn’t get it!

Take care! Hugs with groping! And a long French kiss…

-S

Post-Christmas Pleasantries

December 28, 2018 Friday

From: Sassy
To: Brett
Sent: Dec 28, 2018 at 1:44 AM
Subject: Post-Christmas pleasantries

Hiya Brett!

How was your Christmas? Hope you had tasty food and the family was behaving well. Did you get to try any edibles?

It’s been a good week!

Saturday I actually cooked breakfast then got the presents bagged, tagged and boxed up so I was ready for Christmas with two days to spare! It’s amazing what I can do when my brain is not focused on work. Gives me high hopes for retirement.

Sunday I had brunch in Belmont at The Loading Dock and shopped their deli for treats that will turn into meals so we can keep us from ordering delivery.

Our Christmas Eve was festive – we had Peking Duck at our favorite Chinese place with a gal from the project group. She told great stories! We strolled around HMart picking up Asian treats.

We had a good Christmas – so fun to watch my niece open her presents and be so pleased by each one. We survived brunch with 19 people! Then had a lovely nap. I made the pork ramen bowls and shrimp shumai I’d picked up at HMart for an easy dinner.

Wednesday was quiet – I got laundry done! We went out to Malden to our favorite Asian fusion place for an early dinner.

Today I went to Gloucester! They had put up a 50 foot “Christmas Tree” made of lobster traps! And a menorah! We had a tasty dinner at Passports, a cute little storefront on Main Street.

I resolved to get out of the house every day of my break and I have stuck to it!

Hope Friday brings you a few sexy thoughts of me… I will be thinking of you and the amazing things you do with your mouth and hands!

Take care dear man! Mwah!

-S

Almost Christmas

December 21, 2018 Friday

From: Mr Truck

To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 21, 2018 at 8:45 AM
Subject: Almost Christmas

Hey gorgeous, sorry I’ve been tied up with work. By the way how is your regular office gig, the one you used to sneak into a room and have naughty chats with me? 😉

All set for Christmas? I think I’m all shopped out in stores and online. Too bad I can’t buy you a nice strap-on, for you to ‘threaten’ me with when I get out of line, heh heh heh…

All the Cfnm videos I see are kind of dumb, the naked guy always gets a hand or blow job. Not complaining about that but there’s not much teasing or examining, the verbal is usually dumb. Hell you and I could make a great hot cfnm vid.

Ok if we don’t talk (still might try texting soon) have a fun Christmas on lovely Boston!

Hugs & teases

XOX

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From: Sassy

To: Mr Truck
Sent: Dec 21, 2018 at 10:11 PM
Re: Almost Christmas

Hiya hot stuff!

SO fun to hear from you. Hope your work has calmed down. My office was quiet this week. I am looking at retiring in May or June, so relishing each project as I finish it with a big dose of “LAST TIME!” I have my own office now, so I just have to shut the door when I need to have a “confidential chat.” Heh.

I am mourning the loss of Tumblr, looking around for a new place to find sexy photos and fun men. It is so sad they could just up and decide to create a diaspora of sexy people. I poked around youporn.com yesterday, didn’t find much except a woman driving her Jeep naked on the beach and stopping to get off with a male passenger filming her. I bet you’d be good at that. Heh.

Are you traveling for the holiday or hosting? I have to go about 3 miles to my sister’s so it is easy for me. I am an online shopper only, and the last Christmas package arrived yesterday, so I just have to stuff them into gift bags and drag them to my sister’s on Tuesday! I’ve never played with a strap-on… would love to experiment though I am not the threatening type… more of a temptress!

Have a fantastic Christmas!

-S

Big Fish bait

December 19, 2018 Wednesday

From: Sassy

To: Thad
Sent: Dec 19, 2018 at 1:56 PM
Subject: Cafe sushi finally

Hiya Thad! Hope you’re having a good day!

I finally got to Cafe Sushi for lunch! It is so tasty! I smiled thinking of you.

I’m so sad and angry about Tumblr banning p0rn. I’m on the hunt for new places to find inspiring photos.

Best wishes for a wonderful rest of the year and a better 2019!

-S

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Meet #27 Northerner The Big Chair

December 14, 2018 Friday

The Big Chair

It’s been so lovely the past two weeks being able to plan on seeing Brett again so soon! I usually only have a couple of days notice, but I could spend 14 days anticipating the best parts of being with him! I kept wondering if something would come up, but it didn’t and we got to have fun!

I worked at home in the morning, tackling the payroll and various other tasks for 3.5 hours, then used my last half personal day to take off the afternoon. I showered and put on black bra and panties, black socks, a dark blue sweater and blue paisley leggings!

I drove out to the burbs and went out to lunch on my own at our usual place, Bamboo. The Chinese buffet was especially good today! They put me at a 2-top across from the sushi bar. They came and took away most of the other tables around me to set up a big table for some office holiday party, so I had lots of privacy. I munched on shumai and read Facebook on my phone.

I took off to meet Brett at the hotel. He was getting out of his car as I arrived! I pulled in behind his car to park. We walked to the lobby together. He wandered off toward the bar as I checked in. There was no one around so that went quickly. He was just around the corner when I turned toward the elevator and smiled sweetly at me.

We went to room 3011 on the first hallway of the third floor. He wondered if that was the same room we had last time. I said I thought we had a higher number. We talked about how all the rooms look the same. I gave him the key cards and he opened the door.

I went in first, then turned to him as he closed the door. I grabbed him for a change! I kissed him deeply, then wrapped my arms around his waist and squeezed his ass! He moaned and sighed into my mouth. I kissed him deeper! I pressed him against the wall near the bathroom and groped between his legs. He chuckled and whispered in my ear, “Someone is eager today!” I smiled at him and winked.

We went on into the room. I sat in the big chair to take off my shoes. He tossed off his clothes and knelt in front of me! He leaned in and kissed me. I ran my hands over his face and messed up his hair. He pressed his erect cock between my legs and rubbed it against my leggings. I made a mental note to toss them in the wash when I got home as his pre-cum dripped everywhere.

He helped me take my clothes off, worshipping my breasts as he uncovered them, stroking my tummy with his cock, rubbing my legs as he pulled off my socks and leggings. He pulled me up from the chair and I sprawled horizontally across the bed on my back. He joined me and was on his side, sucking on my left breast and playing with my clit. He did that for a long time and I went away in my mind, indulging in a fantasy. I’ve seen a lot of photos online of naked women in hotel corridors, doing their exhibitionist thing, so I imagined myself risking being out in the hallway naked while he took photos as I posed exposing various body parts. There was something so precarious and fun and naughty about it… my body got very turned on and I came! Brett noticed and made an approving sound.

He reached for a condom on the night stand and rolled it on while I basked in the afterglow. He turned me so my legs were over his hip and he could angle his cock up inside me. I was really wet so there were wonderful squishing sounds as he moved in and out. He moaned. He pumped on and on… so deep, so hot, so hard, so good! I told him he was making me feel fantastic! He smiled then closed his eyes and concentrated as he moved in and out again.  After a bit he seemed to wear out… he rolled onto his back and breathed heavily.

We turned to each other and cuddled under the covers. He asked me about Tumblr and whether they were continuing with their purge of adult content. I told him yes, and about my work to find other sites and back up my posts. He told me about his holiday plans to travel North.

We got talking about the new cannabis shops and how I had never tried it. He said he did some in college long ago – his roommate was a believer in its mellowing powers. He said he might try it over the holidays as his kids said they were buying some edibles as gifts. I wondered if we should try it sometime, see how it might improve sex? We pondered the timing and whether it could be taken and wear off enough to drive home in an afternoon.

We got talking about my boyfriend in college, the railroad engineer – how we met, our four years together, how he left. [You can read all the details here]

I asked him if he had cum earlier. He said no. I wondered about that.. He always cums! I asked if he’d like to remedy that. We looked at the clock. There really was not time. But he said we should give it a try! He helped me get wet again – fingering my clit and nibbling on my breast. He got me revved up in short order! He rolled over and entered me in the missionary position, one that usually is not great for us, but he pulled my legs up around his hips and pressed inside. He smiled and said, “Oh yeah… I can do it this way” and pumped wildly and exploded inside me! I was so glad he could finish.

It was quite late, so we bounced out of bed. He showered while I used the toilet. I threw on my clothes so I’d be ready to go when he got out of the shower. He gave me the money for the room and left a tip for the maid. We checked around for any belongings, then walked out to our cars.

I ate one of the cookies the desk clerk had given me when I checked in – they make the best chocolate chip cookies! I drank a lot of water. I took off for home with a big smile on my face, my head full of so many sexy memories!

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From: Sassy

To: Brett
Sent: Dec 14, 2018 at 7:31 PM
Subject: Best present

Hiya Brett! Thank you for a fantastic afternoon.  Hope you got home easily! It took me twice as long to get home as it did to get out there, but I had fun memories to think about so it didn’t seem so long.

I picked up a gourmet supper from McDonald’s and am home smiling.

Take care dear man! Mwah!

-S

Good to go

December 13, 2018 Thursday

From: Brett

To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 13, 2018 at 6:32 PM
Re: Tumblr ban

Feeling a bit better today. Should be good to go.

-B

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From: Sassy
To: Brett
Sent: Dec 13, 2018 at 9:44 PM

Re: Tumblr ban

Hooray! So happy to hear that. Thanks for saying – I was worrying about you!

I survived my last Holiday Party at the office and I am raring to go tomorrow!!

-S

Smile and tingle

December 12, 2018 Wednesday

From: Brett

To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 12, 2018 at 6:29 AM
Re: Tumblr ban

Sassy,

Still on for Friday. Hope you didn’t forget. Can’t do lunch. Will meet as usual around 2:30.

B

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From: Sassy

To: Brett
Sent: Dec 12, 2018 at 7:19 AM
Re: Tumblr ban

Hooray! So excited! I will be there!!

Forget? Ha. Thoughts of seeing you have made me smile and tingle so many times these cold days. It is such a treat to have a meet to anticipate…

Hope the remaining days fly by and I can feel your arms around me. Mwah!

-S

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From: Brett

To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 12, 2018 at 10:57 PM
Re: Tumblr ban

OK. Just a heads up. I have a bit of nasal congestion. Hopefully it doesn’t develop into anything more.
It won’t stop me…just fair warning.

b

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From: Sassy

To: Brett
Sent: Dec 12, 2018 at 11:02 PM
Re: Tumblr ban

Aww…hope it isn’t making you feel too icky! Thanks for the heads up. I’ll be sure to wash my hands when we’re done. 🙂

If you don’t feel energetic on Friday, tell me and we’ll take is easy at whatever pace suits you. Hope it goes away! Mwah!

-S

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android



NY Times Tumblr Article

December 9, 2018 Sunday

From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 9, 2018 at 11:17 AM
Subject: Fw: Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn – The New York Times

Thought you might like this article

xox

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/06/style/tumblr-porn.html

Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn
Pornographic content, which had a large female viewer base on the site, will no longer be allowed.
Dec. 6, 2018

[photo – Inside the Manhattan offices of Tumblr.
Michael Appleton for The New York Times]

Elle Chase, 49, has run Lady Cheeky, one of the most celebrated pornographic blogs on Tumblr, for eight years.

It features short video clips, often focused on female pleasure, that she sources from around the internet. Celebrated by Glamour and Cosmopolitan as a great sex blog for women (Cosmo lauded its GIFs as “classy and smart”), Lady Cheeky has over 200,000 followers and gets two million page views a month.

But Ms. Chase will soon have to take her classy GIFs elsewhere.

Tumblr announced on Monday that, starting Dec. 17, what it calls “adult content” will no longer be allowed on the website. The company, which is owned by Yahoo, is defining adult content primarily as photos, videos or GIFs that “show real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples, and any content — including photos, videos, GIFs and illustrations — that depicts sex acts.” (Tumblr will continue to allow images of breast-feeding and nudity in art.)

The reaction from users was swift. A Change.org petition started by someone who identified as a NSFW (short for “not safe for work”) Tumblr artist drew hundreds of thousands of signatures in just two days, with many commenters decrying the decision. But critics applauded the move, citing the site’s lax policing of piracy and arguing that Tumblr does not do enough to keep minors from having access to pornography.

In interviews, creators and proponents of pornography on Tumblr expressed a mix of outrage and resignation. Many said that they planned to leave Tumblr for other platforms but were not sure where they would go.

Sera Smith, a 24-year-old from Los Angeles, said she has been visiting the Lady Cheeky Tumblr for three years and is drawn to the blog because it feels like a tasteful departure from sites like PornHub.

“I don’t have to worry about seeing something objectifying and terribly jarring,” Ms. Smith said. “It just feels like a safe space where things were curated for a variety of different social backgrounds and ethnic backgrounds.”

Founded in 2007, Tumblr reached its heyday around 2012, and hosted 108 million blogs the following year, when it was acquired by Yahoo. It wilted under the company’s leadership and is broadly acknowledged to be on the decline.

Still, some of its most faithful users have remained loyal to the platform for the pornography. According to a 2017 study that analyzed Yahoo data from 2015, approximately 100,000 producers on Tumblr generated sexually explicit content and 30 million people engaged with it.

The study found that 82 percent of the producers of that content were male and 68 percent of the consumers were female. (The study found that 72 percent of Tumblr users were female more broadly.) The average age of consumers of pornographic content was 26 years old. A little over 10 percent of those viewers were younger than 18.

“Most of the popular content was coming from professional producers,” said Luca Maria Aiello, one of the authors of the study and a former researcher at Yahoo Labs.

That content often appeared as GIFs — looping, second-long videos pulled from pornography produced by others — and were shared across the platform on blogs like Lady Cheeky.

“This is how porn started on the internet, with these little thumbnail galleries back in the late ’90s,” said Chauntelle Tibbals, the author of “Exposure: A Sociologist Explores Sex, Society, and Adult Entertainment.” What set Tumblr apart, in this internet era, was the range of content available, and as Brett L., a 28-year-old New Yorker who runs one of the most popular adult Tumblr accounts, put it: “Tumblr always was a place for all.”

Jorge España, a 24-year-old resident of Mexico City who hosts a Tumblr page called Stunner Pone, which featured what he calls “naughty furry art” (sexualized drawings of cartoon animals), said that outsiders could not understand how much work went into sites like his, and how much of a niche it filled.

“It may not be to their taste, and that’s fine, but trying to pretend that there isn’t a user base that craves this kind of content and goes to Tumblr specifically for it is misguided at best,” Mr. España said.

Tumblr was also a home for many L.G.B.T. pornography blogs, including that of Steven Toushin, 72, whose Tumblr, Bijou World, was an extension of the film and merchandise empire he has been running since the late 1960s.

Mr. Toushin said that Tumblr’s ban was a story that was familiar to him from his decades in the pornographic film industry. Any time a small, unregulated platform was acquired by a bigger one, he said, the new company would invoke a “morality clause” and attempt to shake people like him from using it.

“We try to find platforms to sell our product,” he said. “That’s all you can do is look for distribution platforms.”

But loosely regulated distribution platforms can also harbor illegal content — in this case child pornography, which Tumblr said caused Apple to remove its app from the App Store in November.

A source familiar with Tumblr’s decision to ban pornography, who was not authorized to speak publicly, said that the decision had been in the works long before that.

There have also been reports of nonconsensual pornography, or revenge porn, on the site. In 2017, a 27-year-old Bronx woman sued Tumblr after a tape emerged of her having sex with her boyfriend when she was 17.

Mary Anne Franks, a professor at the University of Miami School of Law and the legislative and tech policy director at the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative, said she has been asking Tumblr to address nonconsensual pornography on the site for years.

“If five years ago they had gotten a handle on nonconsensual pornography or the child pornography issues, maybe they wouldn’t have to resort to something so extreme,” Ms. Franks said.

Stoya, a pornographic film performer who maintains a Tumblr, said she has been contacted by underage users on the site.

“I got a message from a 16-year-old Irish girl,” she said, adding that she asked her to “come back in two years.”

Stoya thinks Tumblr’s ban ignores a larger problem. “Let’s think about what can actually be done here that would result in a world where people have better tools to navigate sexuality,” she said.

Few expect Tumblr’s decision to decrease the amount of pornography online. Many users predict the content will just migrate elsewhere.

Carlyn M., a grandmother in her 60s who works as a lawyer in the Netherlands and runs a Tumblr page dedicated to female masturbation in her spare time, said that she was “looking for a good alternative, just like many people.”

But none were “as good as Tumblr at the moment.”

Jonah Bromwich is based in New York. He writes for the Style section. @jonesieman
A version of this article appears in print on Dec. 9, 2018 , on Page ST12 of the New York edition with the headline: ‘NSFW’ Bloggers Prepare to Abandon Ship at Tumblr.’

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From: Sassy

To: Mr Truck
Sent: Dec 9, 2018 at 2:06 PM
Re: Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn – The New York Times

Thanks! I’m glad to see it getting coverage and making it seem like an over reaction. 

I think you may understand why this grieves me so… it’s like someone is burning my favorite books! Most of my mentourage don’t get it. Eh.

I’ve been indulging a lot this weekend, taking one last look at my favorite sites and downloading stuff. So sad.

I signed up with swarmr.com which looks quite similar. We’ll see if it ends up being the new spot.

How’re you this sunny Sunday? Hope you’re enjoying it!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android



Moot

December 4, 2018 Tuesday

From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 4, 2018 at 9:45 AM
Re: Tumblr ban

That’s so dumb, so bending to conservative values, rather than giving consumers/users what they want.

Worse yet, I was unable to see the links you sent, I guess I need to be a member. That wasn’t the case long ago when you sent me links. I really don’t want to join any more ‘clubs.’ But now it’s moot anyway 🙁

I’d still love to take stills and/or video of your body…

> On Monday, December 3, 2018, 9:19:26 PM EST, 

> Sassy wrote:
>
> FYI – Tumblr announced today they are banning p0rn. sigh
>
> -S
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From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 4, 2018 at 10:03 AM

Re: Audio Erotica

Answers below

On Sunday, December 2, 2018, 10:39:02 PM EST, Sassy wrote:

>>Wow! You moved? What made you do that?

A great deal on a house, small but nicer land and no taxes, we’ll save some taxes!

>> I do motor up that way now and then… or you could tell me when you around Boston? Would adore catching up!

Great let’s keep both options open. Loved our short but sweet parking lot rendezvous…

>>My local project is going strong, just finished a big event that did especially well!

Good to hear it, must be so fun for you

>>What are your hottest fantasies these days?

I too like the cfnm thing. So deliciously vulnerable for a clothed woman to tell me to strip in front of her, submit for her inspection & comments. I think cmnf would be fun too. Having you naked with me like for a full hour before we even touching, just erotic talk and lovingly close up examination. I also love cuckold fantasies, some incest stories too…

>>What’s the safest way for you to communicate?

Probably text and cell voice, selected times. I’ll have to explore google voice. I’m so out of step!

Kisses