Hot hand job

March 4, 2016 Friday

7:45AM Sassy
Good morning kid!
7:59AM Phil
Good morning!
8:00AM Sassy
Having fun?
8:15AM Phil
Absolutely
8:16AM Sassy
Yay! 

7:09PM Sassy
Hubby’s birthday dinner at Sichuan Garden II in Woburn

 The perfect hot & sour soup
 Hubby’s spiced rum mai tai
Cellophane noodles with minced pork and pork dumplings

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Chengdu dry spicy chicken and sesame shrimp

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 Pork fried rice
My Shirley Temple

8:32PM Sassy
Hope you’re having fun with the family.  

When you’re alone, here’s a hot hand job.


9:44PM Phil
Lovely!


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Blow job and politics

March 1, 2016 Tuesday “Super Tuesday”

8:34AM
I voted in the presidential primary!  No line! 
[photo of me outside the polling place with the “I Voted” sticker on my jacket]

8:20PM Phil
I see you voted, congrats!
8:24PM Sassy
Are you registered where you live?

8:24 PM Phil
Yep
8:25PM Sassy
Dem?

8:25PM Phil
Oh hell no

8:26PM Sassy
Now I remember why we don’t talk politics much

8:26PM Phil
I did not vote for Trump though
8:27PM Sassy
All of the GOP are scary
8:27PM Phil
Dems too

8:27PM Sassy
You watching results?
8:32PM Phil
Yup. Pretty close so far
8:34PM Sassy
Who did you pick?

8:34PM Phil
Cruz

8:34PM Sassy
Why?

8:35PM Phil
Seems to have the experience, like where he stands on govt and he’s not the other two

[photo of his naked legs propped up on a chair outside on his balcony]

Sitting out on a pretty night
8:36PM Sassy
mmm… toes…
8:36PM Phil
Ha

[photo of his naked leg propped up on a chair outside on his balcony, with his erect cock too!]
8:38PM Sassy
naughty
nice

8:38PM Phil
Yeah, nice to sit out naked

8:40PM Phil
I have been known to be naughty
8:42PM Sassy
Mmm… in the nicest way

8:42PM Phil
Nothing like getting off outside  😛
8:455PM Sassy
What are you thinking about tonight?

8:46PM Phil
Blow jobs
8:56PM Phil
Watch a little porn and just playing
8:56PM Sassy

8:58PM Phil
Mmm, nice

8:59PM Phi
[He sent me a photo I had sent him of me naked just out of the shower with my hair up in a towel]
8:49PM Phil
Looking at this sexy girl
8:59PM Sassy
Oh my…

9:00PM Phil
Great tits and I know that pussy’s wet and tight

9:01PM Phil
Hope you don’t mind

9:01PM Sassy
I’m so happy to help.
9:02PM Phil
Thank you
9:04PM Phil
I like to think of a little baby oil and sliding between them
9:05PM Sassy
Mmmm….
9:07PM back and forth….
maybe a lick at the top?

9:08PM Phil
Yes please
Licking up pre cum now
Wish it was you
9:09PM Sassy
Me too

9:09PM Phil
Sweet tonight, tastes good

9:13PM Phil
Mmm
9:15PM Phil 
Can almost smell your pussy. Let me make love to you and feel your heat
9:15PM Sassy
No let… join in gladly!

9:16PM Phil
Slowing pumping my cock in and out while kissing you deeply
9:17PM Phil
Balls slapping against your ass, mmm

9:18PM
Lean forward so my cock hits your clit on every stroke
9:19PM Sassy
You set my on fire from hours away…. going to burn up when you’re closer!
9:47PM Phil
Phil called you.
[We were on the phone for about 5 minutes while I talked dirty to him and listened to him cum!) 
9:54PM Sassy
Whooeee


Sexy gif

February 12, 2016 Friday
7:20AM Sassy
Good morning kid!   Happy Friday!

7:27AM Sassy
Happy frigid Friday!  It’s 8 degrees!  With a “real feel” temp of -11 F!  Brrrr….going to be this way all weekend.  Not going above freezing until TUESDAY!  
11:10AM Phil
Good morning!
11:15AM Sassy
Still in bed. : ) 
11:16AM
Been up and about since 5:30
11:19AM Sassy
Yay!
12:57PM Sassy



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Stew’s shower scenario

October 18. 2014 Saturday
Stew: Good morning Sassy – ur deep in my psyche I think about u all the time and yearn to b with u – know that will b sometime in the future but hopefully we can at least talk today 7:41 AM
Me: Good morning to you! Wanna shower with me? Wash my back? Play with my front? 8:20 AM
Stew: Ur killing me : ) how can u be saying these things to me and not want to c me : )  now I have yet another raging hard on and no way to do anything about it 🙁 yes I would love that – on the road I often had big walk in showers in my room with multiple heads and a bench to sit on – I would live to be there now with u to rub soap and water all over your body and explore every erogenous spot u had – definitely 8:25 AM
Me: Here’s a morning grope for you. Off to Mom’s! I’ll ping when I get back!  8:55 AM


Stew: I love oatmeal – can’t wait to share some with u : ) 10:02 AM
Me: Mom put down a deposit and will move in less than 3 weeks! Whee! Big relief! 11:36 AM
Me: Do you cook? 11:36 AM
Me: I make really good reservations! 11:37 AM
Stew: I enjoy cooking I make really great Thai food – spicy coconut curries – I am not a strict vegan but I try to eat non animal based foods as much as possible 11:43 AM
Stew: So how is your day going have been thinking about u all day – keep trying to think of ways to convey my normalness so that you would want to c me : )  3:27 PM
Me: Been thinking of you. If I handed you my panties, you’d be able to tell! 3:43 PM
Stew: Well that sounds like a good thing – hope it is – I have no desire to move in with my kids when I am old and need help – I would rather be in assisted living or nursing home 3:44 PM
Me: This place is so elegant! Everything brand new, thought out… 3:45 PM
Me: Did you end up coming into the regatta? 3:46 PM
Stew: I can’t wait to smell and taste your sweet juices – i live that u say u may be a bit of a squirter – I am hoping u will want to get together soon – this interchange is a lot of fun but I want to cu live and in living color : )  3:46 PM
Stew: No could not work out the cars – we have 3 cars for 4 people and my kids had to work and Saturday is my wife’s day to hang with her girlfriends and shop – I am alone now if u can talk 3:48 PM
Stew: Now u have me fixated on your panties and what they r covering – u really know how to get my engines revved 4:08 PM
Me: Driving home – can talk a little now or wait til I get home in 25 min? Call now if you like or I’ll ping when I get in. 4:19 PM
Stew: Unfortunately my daughter has come home so we will have to wait for another time 4:30 PM
Stew: I will try and get out to take the dogs for a walk in 25 minutes 4:31 PM
Stew: I am out walking the dogs call as soon as u can 5:07 PM
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5:08 PM
I called him, talked for almost half an hour while he walked his dogs.  He tells great dog stories!  I think that is a sign of a good man. 
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Me: What a marvelous menagerie! 7:22 PM
Stew: Yes they r good doggers and fun to have around – I like cats but love dogs because they r always so happy to cu 7:50 PM

Stew’s Sassy dream

October 16, 2014 Thursday 

From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014  5:59 AM
your skirt was lifted up and folded on your back.  You were bent over the conference table and I was inside of you embraced by your hot and soaking wet pussy.  My cock was swollen like it never had been before as I thrust deep inside of you.  I held on to your hips to hold you in close to me and I kept thrusting harder and faster – my whole body was on fire. you were moaning with lustful pleasure and I could feel that I was about to explode blasting my white hot cum deep inside of you – The feeling of pressure building inside my cock was unbelievable when 
The alarm went off
Yes that is how I woke up this morning – extremely excited with a rock hard cock and a deep sense of frustration because I was not inside of you and was not anywhere near you.  What a vivid dream – you certainly have gotten in my psyche.
Hope your day goes well – can’t wait to talk with you
Stew
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 6:45 AM 
Good morning!   My goodness…hope it’s fun to get revved up in your dreams.  Amazing what four paragraphs can do.  🙂
I am tuning up my sultry voice for later. Put your finger behind your ear, and think of me kissing you there. 

Here’s to a great Thursday!  
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 7:45 AM
Yes it was simultaneously exciting and frustrating to wake up that way. can’t wait to experience that for real.
Can’t wait to talk to you – I have some questions that you can answer at your convenience either by email or when we talk
I am curious about your relationship with your husband. As I mentioned I signed on to AM Because while I like my wife, she is a good friend, wonderful mother, and great homemaker she has no interest in any intimacy.  It is a long story that I can discuss with you at some point, but I am not willing to live without passion nor do I want to break up my family.  So I am hoping to find one special friend on AM that I can share my passion with.
So while I do not feel good about sneaking around it is the only choice I have if I want to find passion again and keep my home life as it is.
What is the story with your husband – what does he know and how do you handle your home life and your AM life.
What are you looking for from me if we do find there is a chemistry between us and want to play together?  My hope for us is that you would be my one special friend that I can have fun with, good food, good conversation, good wine, laugh and enjoy ourselves and have wonderful, passionate, imaginative sex.  It will be hard enough to juggle my home life with you – I would never want to try and add other ladies to that mix.  Also, For me to have great passion I need intimacy and to develop intimacy there needs to be an underlying relationship.  I have no interest in one night stands or multiple partners.  I want one special lady and I hope that will be you.
If you don’t want one special guy I am ok with that.  Of course from a selfish standpoint I want us outside of our home lives to be exclusive to each other because that would make it easier to get together with you and so I hope you want the same arrangement as I do.  But if you don’t I can work with that as long as ur honest with me and when ur with me focused on me.  I am an honest truthful person – which is ironic given what I am trying to do.  But with that aside I do not play games and what u see is what u get.  So if you ever have any questions about me – why I did or did not do something or what I am feeling or want – just ask.  I will give an honest answer.
How long have you been playing around?  If you have been doing this before why ru looking now?
Me this is my first time on AM.  In my 30 years of marriage I have had three affairs and four one night stands.  I’ve been out on the road a lot – over the years four times I met a woman in a bar one evening and one thing led to another and we wound up in hers or my room, but it was very unsatisfying – as soon as we were done I would be lying next to her wondering about how quickly I could get out of there or would she leave if we were in my room.  With you I want to be wishing the time would never end and counting the moments until I see you again.  I had that with a woman I met in through work.  Given the nature of my job I was only in town about 8 times a year, but whenever I was we got together.  I looked forward to our time together and hated when I had to leave.  But don’t get to her area so our relationship has just faded away.  Sad for me but it has left me with wanting to find something similar here in my home state.  I hope you feel the same.
Have you ever been with a woman? I have never been with a man and have no desire to experience that.  
Have you ever been involved in a threesome?  I have and it was not very fulfilling.  My wife explored things with women in college and very early on in her marriage we invited one of her ex girlfriends into our house.  It was very exciting at first but I could tell that my wife was uncomfortable and had no interest in playing with her ex girlfriend and seemed uncomfortable when the two of us played together.  So it was unfulfilling to say the least.  I am not sure if I would ever try it again, but it would have to be with two women who very much wanted to play with each other and with me.  I have no interest being in a threesome with two guys and a woman.  But most of all what I want is one special lady who wants to explore a wide range of sexual experiences with me and wants and desires for my touch.
What type of toys do you have and how do you want to use them with me?  As I said I have not used toys but am open to anything that does not hurt and gives pleasure to you.
Have you ever used food in sex?  I have not but could be open to having something to lick off of you or for you to lick off of me.  If you were to do that what would you like to have on my cock and balls to lick off?  What would you like on you for me to lick off and where would you like me to place it?
If there was only one way for me to pleasure you what would you pick what way do you most want me to touch you when we are together?  If you could add a second type of touching what would be your second favorite?
If there was only one way for you to touch me what would you most want to do to me?  If you could add a second type of touching what would you add?
I cannot wait to learn more about you – I am so excited about the possibilities that lay ahead for us.  Look forward to talking with you and continuing our journey of discovery.
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 8:51 AM
Realized I did not answer for myself the questions I posed about touching.  So here goes
I think as you can see from my writings I am very oral, so by far my favorite thing would be licking you.  I love everything about going down on a woman – the smell , the taste, the feel, the warmth, the wetness.  I love when a women gets particularly wet and for some women when they have particularly intense climaxes their juices just squirt out.  
Number two would be kissing and exploring each other’s mouths with our tongues – I love it when a woman likes to taste herself, so I love it when a woman wants me to kiss her after I go down on her.
Number three would be sucking on your breasts and licking your nipples. I’m would love it if I could make you cum just by using my mouth and tongue on your breasts and nipples.
Number four would be playing with your pussy and clit with my fingers and using my fingers to probe the inside of your pussy and butt
Don’t worry I love being inside a woman, but you all have a great advantage over us men.  You can climax multiple times and you can climax and keep going.  So while I dearly love feeling all warm and snug wrapped inside a woman’s pussy it has the limitation that sooner or later I am going to cum and my cock will lose its firmness.  I do not have to worry about that with my mouth, tongue and fingers.  I can keep going indefinitely to give you pleasure and bring you to climax after climax.
I have never experienced anal sex but am open to anything you would find pleasurable.  I would think I would much prefer the warm embrace of your pussy lips but how would I know unless I had something to compare it to?
For your touching me my favorite would be for me to be inside you and to feel your warm wet pussy embrace my cock.  I love trying various different positions but my two favorite would be entering you from behind – I find I can angle my cock so it applies maximum friction to the clit in that position and thus can maximize the pleasure I provide a woman.  Also in that position your magnificent breasts would be hanging down and swinging back and forth with each thrust of my cock.  I would love to see them sway back and forth as I thrust back and forth inside of you.  Another favorite would be for you to sit on top of me – that way I can lie back and give you some control.  I can look at your face and I can reach up to those beautiful breasts.
I also love to have my cock sucked.  My last lady friend once sucked me off while I conducted a conference call with my staff.  It was very frustrating trying to ignore what she was doing and talk with my staff.  I love it when the woman massages my balls or places a finger up my butt while she is working on my cock.
These of course are a listing of what I like, but what I would like most of all is to see, hear, and feel you finding pleasure in my touch and reaching many deep and explosive orgasms at my touch.  So what I would like the most is whatever turns you on the most.  It just would be great if our likes matched up well but I am open to anything that would bring you pleasure.    
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:03 AM
As you can tell you are on my mind.  With today being your annual checkup it made me think about you having cancer.  I purposely have not asked about it because I did not want to presume given the very beginning of our relationship that I should ask such a personal question.  But I wanted you to know that I am open to talk about it however you may want.  If you wanted to leave that aspect of your life out of interactions, then I am fine with that.  Also I am happy to discuss it in any way shape or form that you want to.  I like most people have had health scares and losses in my life.  I am happy to discuss them with you if you are interested or I can keep them out of our discussions.  I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you today as you have your checkup in a way that was real and not pornographic  : ) 
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Connecting
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 4:50 PM
Hope things went well today and my emails helped to out a smile on your face.
I am driving to meet my family for dinner and will have two windows between 5:30 and 6:30 and between 8:00 and 9:00 this evening when I will be driving alone.  I would love it if you could call me at [redacted]  during one or both of those windows – I want to hear that sultry voice of yours  : ) 
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5:42 PM 
I called him and we talked for nearly an hour.  He has a sexy voice and says sexy things!  I was very comfortable, felt like I could have talked with him all night!  We agreed to talk again at 8:30 when he’s done with dinner.  He asked me to send more erotica, so I did. 
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: The Storm
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 6:47 PM
The Storm
He made it inside just as the first thunder clap sounded.  BANG!  It started to pour as he walked past the living room windows.  Wow. That was close.  He loved thunderstorms!  He was very tempted to stand outside to watch the storm.  Maybe even dance in the downpour.  But there was something more important he had to do.  
He knew where to find her.  He shed his clothes as he made his way to the bedroom and sure enough, there was this lump the size of a person under the blanket. He rubbed where he thought a leg might be, and a slight whimper filtered out through the covers.  There was a crash of lightning and another big boom, and she shrieked.  
“It’s okay.  You’re okay.  I’m here,” he said calmly, trying to be soothing.  He crawled into the bed next to her.  She clung to him and wrapped herself around him, burying her head in his chest, trembling.  He couldn’t believe she was still such a wuss about thunderstorms.  She was so brave about almost everything else.  
But he knew how to distract her.  He put his hands on her back and rubbed gently.  He explored up and then down, surprised that she was naked.  He pressed her ass so that she fit tightly against him.  She moaned sweetly when she felt him hard against the top of her leg.  She shifted her head up and grabbed his head with her hands, kissing him frantically.  He slowed her down a bit, pressing his tongue into her mouth at a leisurely pace and making more soothing noises.  
“We have plenty of time…” he pointed out, squeezing her breast and teasing the nipple.
“Fuck me,” she whispered fiercely.  It sent a shock wave through him.  He loved it when she talked dirty to him.  Everyone else saw her as an ultra-polite, demure lady.  Only he knew about the wild girl inside.  She was turning the intense fear into another emotion, putting it to good use.  Smart girl.

“Yes, ma’am…” he chuckled.  He hugged her, pondering which position would be best. 
“Fuck me now,” she urged him. She wasn’t going to let him go slow today.  She flattened him onto the bed, straddled him and pressed him close, shifting her hips to rub him against her.  He could feel her dripping already.  It made him a little crazy.  He shifted slightly and she took him inside her and began to move.  Up and down she went.  He put a hand on her hip and one on her breast, twisting, teasing…
He knew her inside and out, as much as any person can know another.  But it never stopped surprising him how tight and hot she was, how he fit inside her like a sculptor had made him to be there and made her to make him feel so incredible every single time.  When he first touched her as a green boy, he realized that she was different.  He had felt an emotional connection for ages, but when they finally kissed, he felt a physical connection to her that he never felt again in his life.  Special, comfortable, exciting… and at times, inflammatory.  Chemistry.  That had never changed.  He thought he would get tired of her, stop thinking about her, stop wanting her… but it never happened.  Sometimes it drove him crazy, when he couldn’t get to her.  When he could and he couldn’t get inside her fast enough.  But it was the best kind of crazy… it made him feel alive.  Kept him young.  Made them both happier than anything or anyone else.  And the most amazing thing was that she felt the same way.  He marveled over that every day.  
She stopped moving… sensing that his mind had drifted.  He snapped back to her body and what she was doing, putting a finger at the top of her slit and flicking her most sensitive spot.  She sighed in pleasure and started moving again, rising up, arching her back and driving down on him again, shoving him so deep inside…. and then out again.  Her tits looked amazing when she did that!  It was the sweetest form of torture… so hot, so wet, so…. hmmmm.. he could not think when she was like this.  He could feel… oh, man could he feel!  Every nerve in his body was on fire.  And he craved the heat.  She kept turning up the temperature… taking him closer and closer… and then stopping.  She was panting.  She leaned over and kissed him again, sucking his tongue, twisting her hips… damn.  He felt the magic start.  He wasn’t going to last long if she kept this up… it was as if every muscle inside her was trying to squeeze him, milk him… whoa, baby.  What a woman…he thought she was going to make him peak.  But when he thought he couldn’t take it another moment, she stopped, flipping over onto her back on the bed. 
She lay there breathing loudly.  He tried to figure out what she was up to.  She turned to him and kissed him, wrapping herself around him on her side.  She stroked him, then put her hand lower, caressing his balls, pressing the spots she knew would send him soaring.  His breath grew ragged.. what would she do next?  
She pressed a finger inside his ass.  Oh, wow… she was really trying to push all his buttons this time!  His hips rocketed off the bed.  She pumped in and out, whispering in his ear.  “You like it when I fuck you, don’t you, fella?  Like it when I give your ass the love, eh?”she said, making a little sucking sound.  He moaned.  She knew just what to do.  She moved down his body, putting her mouth where her hand had been, licking his cock and sucking it deep into her mouth, then kissing his balls and sucking them and finally sticking her tongue in his ass!  He moaned and trembled.  She could be such a vixen!  
That was it.  He rolled over, pulled her legs up to his shoulders, and dove back inside her, pumping, deep, long strokes while she moaned and then screamed, her head thrashing from side to side.  He watched her shake, felt her hips crashing up against him.  She opened her eyes and the look… the look nearly made him explode.  So many words popped into his head… lust, passion, fire… love.  No one loved him like she did.  Her mind, her body… it all went together to make him know… mmmm…. 
There was another big thunderclap and she jumped.  He went wild on her, his hips thrusting in and out, hearing the slap of his balls on her skin and her moans… he let go, let his body take over, let the pulsing inside her trigger the flow…. he filled her, shooting over and over inside her, grunting and moaning and… exploding.  He collapsed beside her, feeling his heart beat, listening to her breathing… smiling. He did love thunderstorms!  And her…
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: re: Connecting
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 7:27 PM
Hiya hot stuff!  It was wonderful to talk with you and fill in more pieces of the “Stew puzzle.”  Thank you for brightening my evening!! 
-Sassy
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: The cancer thing
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 7:56 PM
Hiya Sexy man, 
Thank you for your kind words.  These check-ups are like driving up to the edge of cliff with a beautiful view.  The people are nice, it’s a shiny place but.. please God don’t let them shove me off the edge!  
Do you have questions?  I don’t mind talking about any part of my adventures, just don’t want to make it what I am about.  It took over my life four years ago for 10 months .  I wasn’t brave, I just went to the doctor a lot.  I worked the whole time.  I was cut, stabbed, poisoned and zapped.  And didn’t end up with any super powers!  I am whole and healthy and mostly put it all behind me.  
Here is the timeline: 
2010
Oct 25 Mammogram
Nov 3 Further tests
Nov 4 Diagnosis – breast cancer!  
Nov 20 Met with the team at MGH to hear their treatment plan
   a. Surgery in December
   b. Chemo Feb-May 
   c. Radiation  June-August
Dec 20 Surgery (removed a breast tumor the size of a shirt button) 
2011 
Jan 4 Second surgery (to get more tissue out) 
Feb – May Chemo every two weeks 
June-August Daily radiation 
I was very lucky to have found it early, to have a supportive family and an entire community to care for me.  And to live close to one of the best hospitals in the world.  
I didn’t have the nasty side effects you hear about – no nausea, no awful infections, no lasting side effects.  I had random crap like… everything tasted like soap for a week.  A nuisance but not painful.  I did spend one “interesting” weekend in the ICU with blood clots in my lungs.  But in every case, the doctors knew what to do, did it and I rolled along. 
The worst moments were the two weeks from when I was diagnosed to meeting the doctors and finding out what it really meant.  Once I got to the team at MGH, they took care of me.  And my dad died during my first weeks in chemo.  Nothing like going to a funeral with 200 people when you’re immunosuppressed and not supposed to be around crowds or touch people and your brain is mush.  But I did it anyway! 
The funniest moment was when I had lost 40 pounds, was wearing a wig feeling hideous and stupid.  Someone told me how great I looked and asked if I had been to a spa?  Ha!  Oh yes… Club Med(ical)!  
I am not usually vain but the worst part for me was losing my waist-length dark hair.  I rocked a wig for 6 months, then let my short hair show!  Thankfully, my hair is back to its long length… even if it’s silver now. 
Stories will come up now and then from those days, as I learned a lot.  But mostly it is in the past except for the check-ups 3 times a year.  If there is anything else you want to know, don’t hesitate to ask!  And feel free to share about your health adventures whenever you feel like it.  
-S
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 7:59 PM
I read over your thoughts about touching several times.  I hope to make it part of our “playbook” if we get together!  It all sounds possible and pleasurable!  
-S
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8:33 PM
I called him and we talked for another hour!  He is so easy to talk with… so sexy.  It’s scaring me how much I like him.

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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: The Storm
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:50 PM
Oh wow – I am going to have to reread this when I am alone and can properly relieve the tension I am feeling in my cock and balls.  Maybe you will have some time free during the day where you can be “bad” and tell me what you want me to do to myself  : ) 
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: Connecting
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:52 PM
And you brightened my evening so very much.  I feel so excited about the possibilities that lay ahead of us.  I understand you want to proceed slowly and I will be patient, but I am totally smitten with you and am yours patiently waiting for when you want to meet for a drink.
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: re: That cancer thing 
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:55 PM
Thank you for sharing this with me.  Well all I can say is based upon the picture you sent me your breasts came through this in amazing shape.  They are two beautiful orbs of pleasure that I cannot wait to thoroughly explore.
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:58 PM
I am so glad you are open to my thoughts and that you are as imaginative as I am.  We seem to be a very good arch.  I know that we will someday be experiencing these and many more and I am confident as I said on the phone that you will find me a wonderful lover.   I certainly will do everything in my power to make you fulfilled.
BTW I am so glad that you can get so wet – I would love to feel your love juices gushing over me as you climax!
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:56 PM
Hi again!  
Wow… you keep me busy writing!  I so adore exploring inside your head.  Thank you for letting me in and sharing all these parts of yourself.   And thanks for asking to talk… it was great to have you in real time and go back and forth.  
What did you want to know about Hubby and I?  We met online.  He moved here from the midwest to live with me and we married a year later.  He is a talented, funny, sweet, smart man.  But he suffers from severe depression and morbid obesity.  Most days his medicines and therapy keep him on an even keel but some days he can’t get out of bed.  I promised to take care of him and I will continue to do that.  About 15 years ago he decided he did not want me physically anymore.  We are good friends. About 5 years ago he decided he wanted to see other women.  He started dating in 2012.  We are open.  He does his thing and I do mine.  We don’t share details, but he knows that I see other men.  He has a lady friend.  Perhaps you will meet him someday.  He would prefer that I date single men within our circle (the opposite of most men who want it to be no one they know and not close to home!) but I feel best when I am helping a man who would not otherwise be able to date, and does not want more than I can give or ask me to leave Hubby. 
I have no intention of changing your home life and will do everything in my power to keep your secrets.  You tell me whatever will help with that in terms of when it’s safe to call, or for you to visit, or anything that keeps you safe.  I have learned a lot from blogs and chat about what can go wrong and how to avoid it.  The main rules are:
– no use of credit cards that would be hard to explain, and
– “police your brass” in terms of your computer and phone.  Watch out for deleted messages in the trash, saved IM conversations, drafts, sent mail.  Use an incognito browser.  Save my number in your contacts under some random male name.  Watch out for phone logs.  
And don’t be “suddenly happier” or change your habits.  
I won’t wear perfume to get on your clothes, and I won’t mark your body as much as I would love to scratch or gently bite or… mmm… 
It is tough to lead the “double life” but I hope you will find me worth it!  I am leery of playing with newbies to AM but you seem to have learned the stealth lessons in other contexts and have your wits about you. 
Thank you so much for explaining what you want and setting expectations.  I find that can go a long way toward making it easier to be together.  My wishes match yours.  The phrase “friends with benefits” is trite but it fits.  I think it is very important to be honest.  I may need a “hall pass” if the old flame ever manages to see me again, but I will tell you and practice safe sex.  I am not possessive… if you decide you want others, just be nice to me and be safe, and I will judge you by how you are with me. 
I think I answered your questions about my history – old flame, on AM two years, changing now because my last guy got busted.  His wife left the house that night, moved away and has not seen him since except for one meet with their minister that was not productive.  She has filed for divorce, and he has moved on to dating “Good Christian Women” who will marry him.  We were together and exclusive for 6 months, but he doesn’t need me anymore.  We are friendly but he is busy with three other women!  If you want anything clarified, let me know. 
This is where I stopped to talk with you!  Whee!  
I told you about my one attempt with a woman, and the foursome.  Interesting but nothing I seek out or dream about. 
Thank you for explaining about your wife.  I think you have what chatters call DADT (Don’t ask, don’t tell) which is about as good as most men get. 
My toys are: 
1) 9″ “stunt cock”
2) The circus on a stick 
3) tiny black rubber butt plug that vibrates
4) silver bullet that vibrates
5) tiny rabbit keychain vibrator 
6 & 7) smaller vibrating dildos 
I got five in one package and two in another “on sale” that friends from chat recommended.  I don’t use them myself, just to enhance thing with a man.  Some day when we want some variety I can set them all out and we can experiment. 
I haven’t done much with food during sex.  Chocolate comes to mind, or there are certain lubes that taste like pina coladas!  I have lost my vegetable virginity… one guy showed up with a cucumber!  It was rather sweet… he had an inferiority complex about his size (He may have watched too much porn) and brought something big and smooth to please me.  His equipment was fine but we went ahead and played with the cuke!  I have to giggle every time I’m in the produce section now. 
I hope you are beginning to get a sense of who I am… and how we could have fun.  You are giving me great hope that we could be very special. 
Hugs with groping and a soft, sensual massage. 
-S
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:58 PM
I am so glad you are open to my thoughts and that you are as imaginative as I am.  We seem to be a very good arch.  I know that we will someday be experiencing these and many more and I am confident as I said on the phone that you will find me a wonderful lover   I certainly will do everything in my power to make you fulfilled.
BTW I am so glad that you can get so wet – I would love to feel your love juices gushing over me as you climax!
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: What a view two
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 10:16 PM
Wow what a wonderfully thorough and thoughtful response.  I have loved every interaction we have had so far.  You seem so honest, open and respectful and I strive to be the same.  As you can tell I want so much for us to move along and meet! That is just because I am so excited about the possibilities that await us.  It sounds like we will have a lot of fun together.  I also understand your need and to proceed slowly and I will respect that – it is just hard to wait.  I am like a little boy waiting for Christmas.  
I appreciate the tips and have and will be very careful.  I have changed all of my electronics so that they lock the screen after one minute of rest and I disabled the function to show previews of messages on locked screens (that is how my daughter saw a text before and told my wife).  I have changed all of my passwords and clear my history and delete emails after reading them. So I am and will be careful
Thank you so much for responding to my initial email and for you wonderful open heart.  I look forward to our future together. 
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: Action shots
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 10:33 PM
As we were talking about what you’d like to do with my chest… I thought of a couple of .gifs I have in my modest collection.  Here they are for you to enjoy: 
1) The hands



2) The mouth


I find these little loops can be quite entertaining.  
-S  
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: Action shots
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 10:39 PM
Thank- you but neither of those lady’s breasts come even close to you bountiful beautiful breasts : )  
I am so happy that you said you thought that I could bring you to climax just by sucking on your beautiful and luscious breasts.  I so much want to explore every inch of your beautiful boobs.  What little I have seen of you is spectacular.  I am a very lucky man to have found you!
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From: Stew
To: Sassy
Subject: Re: Action shots
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 11:19 PM
Sweet dreams – I look forward to talking to you tomorrow.  If you have a break during the day please give me a call.  I loved talking with you tonight.  And of course as soon as ur comfortable with meeting me for a drink I will make myself available.  I assure you there is no weirdness or oddity with me and you will find in me nothing but a decent, respectful lover focused on your wants and needs.  I understand that you want to to go slow and I respect that, but I will take every opportunity to assure you that my feelings and desires for you are true 
Just know when ur ready I will be ready for you.
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From: Sassy
To: Stew
Subject: Re: Action shots
Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2014 11:11 PM
Awwww…. thanks.  I was trying to stay up to see the end of the baseball and football games but just can’t make it.  I am usually a night owl but having to get up early to take my car in has me dozing on the keyboard! 
I’m going to crawl into bed and think about you lying behind me, nibbling, tweaking… mmm…  
Sweet sexy dreams!  
-S


Licking gif

Tuesday, August 19, 2014
       
7:52am
Good morning!  Here’s to a great Tuesday!
    
7:58am Philip
Good morning! Enjoy the day!

Hope there are dicks everywhere?
      

8:02am
Yum.
      
8:12am Philip
LOL

6:51pm
Another dinner with Mom at The Ninety Nine.  She was in fine form.

9:22pm
Your thought for this evening.   Click to see her move!  

Simply Sexy
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What I want

Sunday, August 17, 2014

8:56am

Good morning kid!  Safe travels!

8:56am Philip
Morning Sass, on my way. 
Hope you have a great Sunday!

8:58am

Having lunch with a former intern from the Midwest I haven’t seen in two years – should be great catching up! Happy trails!

8:58am Philip

Have fun!

8:59am

Kris emailed last night after 3 days of silence.  He wants to stay friends but no more sex.  What do I say to that?

8:59am Philip

Why not?

9:00am

He’s going to be GOOD now.
9:00am Philip
For awhile maybe

9:01am
He’s going to date good Christian women from church and pick one to marry.  *sigh
9:04am Philip
He’s going to find them rather boring and tame compared to you. I’ve done the good Christian women. I like the wild ones much better

9:07am
My theory is to coast along, not expect much and be pleasantly surprised if anything happens.

9:11am Philip
Not a bad way to go. Better than giving up. Anything can happen and often does

9:12am

Yeah… most people are saying just stop but you know that’s not me.

9:15am Philip

Screw most people. Most people are unhappy as shit going through boring ass lives. If you are not with someone you want to touch all time, go find that person.

Good for you

9:16am

He was so good for me… 
I hate that I have to go out looking again.  *sigh

9:17am Philip
I know that feeling.
9:17am
Heh.  What a pair we are!  
9:32am Philip
Yeah. Hindsight is so clear. Where was it when I needed it.  I just never got over feeling it wasn’t right. Ah well. 
Fred was a different person out in the country. Relaxed and fun and Fred again. We go back years. Waiting to see how that turns out. 
My wife is demanding a 4ooo dollar watch. Be a cold day in hell. Those days are over.  400 bucks maybe. She knits and sews and does little else. 
Meanwhile Fred is flashing incredible cleavage and shaking her sweet ass while shooting pool in a bar and throwing back beers. Hair blowing in the wind, singing at the top of her lungs, flashing the occasional trucker. Hmmmm
5:14pm Philip
Made it. Rainy but humid. I like it

5:15pm

See the oysters I ate for lunch!  Thought of you!  
Oysters clockwise from the top > 

  • 3 citrusy Lucky Lime from p.e.i., 
  • 3 the cucumbery Gigamotos from British Columbia and 
  • 3 buttery Royal Miyagi from British Columbia. 

I was surprised how different they tasted! In the middle we have cocktail sauce, an onion reduction and lemons.

 New England clam chowder 
with bacon lardons and a spicy crouton. 
Amazing smoky flavor!
Sugar snap pea salad
with house-made ricotta, mint, almond vinaigrette
 MAINE LOBSTER ROLL 
with cole slaw, french fries, bread & butter pickles

 Smoked shrimp beignets

 Fried oysters with a delectable mustard mayo remoulade

 Two desserts: Chocolate mousse with Heath bits 
and the brillat-savarin (triple cream soft, white-crusted cow’s milk dessert cheese) cheesecake
 with a brown butter crust, macerated plums 
 Fresh blueberry custard tart 
 The gate points the way in to B&G Oysters 

5:16pm Philip
Why thank you!

Cum play!

5:20pm Philip

[photo of his smiling face sitting on a hotel bed in a hoodie]
5:47pm

[hot photo of a woman lying on her back sucking a man standing over her]
5:50pm Philip
Damn girl!

I could use a little of that

5:59pm

Here’s what I want.  Click to see 10 panels of sexy. 
6:11pm Philip
Nice!

6:12pm

His thumb on her hard nipple, and him tapping her clit… oh yes!

Kris is coming over tonight.  To talk.

How do I get him into the bedroom?!

6:21pm Philip

Just let it flow or you will scare him off

6:21pm

I know… *sigh

What does Fred do to get you there when you think you won’t?

6:39pm Philip
She shows off those amazing tits, and sits real close, hands on my knees and just works her magic. Last time she just dropped her pants in the kitchen bent over and said cum here and I did. There was no return. I said we are not doing this, she grabbed my cock, inserted it and backed up and said oh yes we are. Dear god

6:41pm

Hmmm… hot!    But doesn’t sound like my style.
But desperate times may call for desperate measures!

6:44pm Philip
She is such a sexual thing. Love her body. She is very flexible, used to dance. And talk about a hot box, wow. She is unreal

6:46pm

I have developed a “second personality” that is very… sassy.  You would be surprised.
6:55pm Philip
I like it
6:56pm
You set me in the right direction… four years ago tomorrow!

7:24pm

The bike
[photo of Kris with his Harley parked in my garage]
7:29pm Philip
Nice!   I want one

7:55pm Philip

7:58pm
Kris asks what kind you want?

8:17pm Philip
Electra Glide Ultra

10:52pm Philip
Very hot stuff. Using it to beat off to

11:09pm
 : )
11:09pm Philip
Thank you

11:11pm

been up on the roof w/K, solving the problems of the world.

11:11pm Philip

Hah Solve this problem
11:12pm Philip
[photo of his beautiful cock from above]
11:17pm Philip
Did you solve anything!?

Erotica, gifs and two tumblrs

Tuesday, April 22, 2014 
Kris: Good morning! How late can u stay Sunday? so i can work on my lie (evil man). I’m SO looking forward to it…and not very nervous at all. We’ve already been naked together and you had no problem getting me off. What’s the worst that can happen…I’m a terrible fuck and you’re forced to dump me? But you’re such a hussy…i’m counting on you to work your magic. Licking, slowly, fingers, feeling, pressing, licking, sucking, pulling, a little faster, back to slowly, wet, inserting, fingers, feeling, tongue, licking, slowly, groaning, fingers, touching, pressing, inserted, feeling…GOOD MORNING BAD GIRL SASSY! 9:02 AM
Kris: my last email got “a little flow going”…felt a little wetness sitting in my “undies”… eruption on the horizon…unloading down the road… 9:20 AM
Me: Good morning frisky! Wow… you are such hot stuff! There is some wetness over here too! It is so fun to inspire you to write like that! 9:40 AM
Kris: And so u do! Know what time the “treat of our meet” will have to end? when you’ll likely have to head home by on Sunday? 9:44 AM
Me: I don’t have a time in mind, other than being in my own bed at midnight so I can get up for work Monday11:42 AM
Kris: :)…..plenty of time for those multiple “O”s. i’m going to have to get creative with my excuse….tried floating “day of spring skiing at Killington, VT. met with,”i just lost my job…we don’t have the money.” I’ll think if something. want to play for a LONG time. play, eat, talk…..play some more…like u said… 🙂 12:15 PM
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From: Sassy
To: Kris
Sent: Apr 22, 2014 2:09 PM
Subject: The Fan
The Fan
He couldn’t believe he was doing this.  His friend had talked
him into reading at Stone Soup Poets open mike.  One of the
stories.  It was for Valentine’s Day, and everyone was doing
it, but it still made him feel vulnerable and exposed.  He
read and paused, as appreciative sighs filled the room, and
knew it would be alright.  He noticed this woman, standing in
the back against the wall.  Staring right at him.  He felt like
he was reading to her, and that she felt it, too.  He finished,
and a crowd gathered around him to chat and congratulate and
fawn and cluck.  He searched the room for her, but she had gone.
He listened to the other artists awhile, but couldn’t get the
hazy image of the woman out of his mind.  Finally, he slipped
out the side door and started toward the train.  She spoke as
he passed, startling him.
       “Your story was…special.  It touched me.”  She almost
whispered into the night air.
       “Thank you,” he said, automatically.  Brilliant.  He tried
to make out her face in the dim light of the street lamp.
       “It made me…want to know you,” she sighed, almost as if
she hadn’t wanted to admit it. He was sure his mouth hung open at
that point.  He remembered himself in a few seconds, and decided to
be flip.
       “So, what did you want to know?”  He quipped, not really
expecting her to answer. She looked away, then surprised him.
       “What it would be like to inspire you.”  He gulped in air.
There didn’t seem to be enough air to fill his burning lungs.  He
realized that somehow, in the last minute, something had passed
between them.  It scared him, but drew him to her.
       “Can I walk you to the train?”  He asked her.  She seemed
to consider it carefully, then stepped forward and took his arm in
silent acceptance.  He felt her breast against his arm and wondered
if he could remember how to walk.  He managed.  He thought she would
ask him mundane questions, quiz him about his story or his life.  She
was silent, seemingly deep in thought, walking in step with him.
       He wanted to see her face, but she was beside him so he could
only take in her long hair, swinging around her, and how she seemed
just the right height to walk with him, and how her chest moved with
each step.  They passed a pottery shop and she paused briefly to
glance at the brightly colored bowls.  Suddenly, she yanked him into
the dark doorway, and pressed him against the stone of the building.
He felt the cold against his back, then the heat of her in front,
as she wiggled to fit her body to his.  Then she put her lips within
a hair of his, and stopped.  This seemed to be quite a distance for
her initiative to take her, but not quite there.
       He cursed the lack of light.  He couldn’t see her eyes.  But
it didn’t seem to matter, he was taking her invitation and sinking
his tongue into her mouth before he realized he’d decided to do it.
He felt as hard as the stone against his back, and knew she felt it
too by the breath she took when he raised his head momentarily.  She
worked her hand under his shirt, and put his hand on her breast.
They teased each other’s nipples, nipping at necks and ears and noses.
Smiling into each other’s mouths as their breathing raged out of
control.
       This was crazy.  He didn’t know this woman.  He knew
nothing except she liked his writing, that she had understood
the call in it.  And that she felt so right in his arms.  It
was nuts, but it made sense to him.  He’d find out the other
stuff later, if it became important.  He was startled back to
the present by her hand at his belt.  Oh, my god.
       She stopped for a moment, took a deep breath and
whispered in his ear.
       “I don’t…I mean, I haven’t…ever…without…” she
couldn’t seem to say it, but he knew she was trying to justify
this wildfire burning between two strangers in a dark doorway.
       “I know,” he murmured, hugging her even closer.  That
seemed to settle it.  She undid his belt, and slipped her hand
inside his clothes to touch him.  He thought he’d pass out.
She rubbed him just the right way for longer than he thought
he could endure.  He knew he should be touching her, but could
not summon the brain power beyond savoring her touch.  She
removed one hand to her pocket, he heard a rip, then she was
taking his sex from his pants, and covering it with latex,
and leading him to a ledge deeper in the doorway.  She stretched
out on the stone, and pulled him down over her, into her.  The
combination of the time and place and strangeness and the latex
set him off almost immediately.  He pounded her into the stone,
without thought of her soft body.  She met his every thrust,
moaning in his ear.  He felt the pulsing, the searing heat, and
filled the plastic, thinking of filling her.  She clenched him
deep inside.  His mind clung to every detail as he realized he
would desperately need to write about this later.
       They clung to one another forever.  Then sat close to
each other on the ledge as they righted their clothes.  There
seemed to be so much to say, and yet nowhere to start.  He
finally took her arm, and they continued toward the train. He
thought he should be panicking, but couldn’t get beyond the
amazing afterglow.  When they reached the platform, he expected
her to disappear like the dream she seemed to him.  She chewed
her lip.  He feasted on seeing her in the light.
       “I need to know more.”  She whispered, a pleading look
on her face.
       “Yes.” It was all he could say.  It seemed enough.
       “Take me home with you.”
       “Yes.”
       “Let me inspire you.”
       He moaned and rolled his eyes.  Then the train rumbled
into the station and they boarded locked arm in arm.
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Me: Sent you more of my erotica. Read in private! 2:10 PM
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Kris: Ok I will…you naughty girl! 3:52 PM
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Kris: Won’t b home till 10:30. need to workout. been “slacking” lately. need to get back on track. Sorry it will b so late again…but would love to chat if u want when i get home. Haven’t read “Sassy Does Boston” yet (TEASING !)…but can’t wait to peek inside that horny little imagination of yours… 🙂 8:27 PM
Me: 10:30 is fine. I drank Mt Dew with dinner so I should be awake! 8:37 PM
Kris: i feel like saying…..uuuhh baby!…..don’t know why. 8:43 PM
Me: Okaaay 8:46 PM
Kris: in little bit of a “wild” mood. got something i can bite a little? better go work it off…later! 8:48 PM
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·       Apr 22 10:40 PM Kris: Hi!…Give me a minute to read your erotica…
·       Apr 22 10:40 PM Sassy: Ok
·       Apr 22 10:49 PM Kris: Wow! That was one well-written hot story! Ever do something like that – have sex with almost a perfect stranger?
·       Apr 22 10:50 PM Sassy: Sort of… long ago
·       Apr 22 10:50 PM Kris: what happened…how did it happen?
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: a gal pal and I were in Mexico
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: Going into a disco
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: There were British soldiers – The disco would only let men in with women
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: So they offered to buy us drinks if we’d get them in
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: They were very cute, polite…
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: There was a power failure at the disco. They got us out safely
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: My pal invited them back to our hotel bar
·       Apr 22 10:53 PM Sassy: We ended up in our room.
·       Apr 22 10:53 PM Sassy: Gal friend made out with one in bed while I was out on the balcony with the other, just talking
·       Apr 22 10:54 PM Sassy: Then we stopped talking…and went inside to the other bed
·       Apr 22 10:54 PM Sassy: then they joined us.  Things get a little blurry after that
·       Apr 22 10:55 PM Sassy: But very very hot
·       Apr 22 10:56 PM Kris: i thought you didn’t have much fun with sex until you ventured out more recently. sounds like you did….how old were you then?
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Sassy: hmmm… 25
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Sassy: They didn’t help me cum… just did their own thing
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Kris: you answered my next question….LOL
·       Apr 22 10:58 PM Sassy: I can’t recall having an orgasm until I was 34
·       Apr 22 10:58 PM Sassy: I was alone on my bed, talking to a guy on the phone
·       Apr 22 10:59 PM Kris: and?
·       Apr 22 11:00 PM Sassy: Strange things happened to my body
·       Apr 22 11:00 PM Sassy: I had read a lot of romance novels and I was like… Hey! Maybe this is what they meant!
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Sassy: Guy was from Ontario. So I call him Mr O.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Kris: LOL SO HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Kris: Were you touching yourself? how/why did you cum?
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Sassy: I wasn’t… just listening to him talk
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Kris: what was he talking about?
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Sassy: I forget… figure skating I think
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Kris: Come on!
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: He was a figure skater
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Kris: how do you have an orgasm without any direct stimulation?
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: I do it all the time
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Kris: how?
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: Very powerful imagination
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Kris: you don’t touch yourself at all?
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Sassy: nope… very rare
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Kris: when/where do you imagine things? how often?
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Sassy: You mean enough to make me cum?
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Sassy: varies…depends on how long since I was with a man
·       Apr 22 11:06 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:06 PM Sassy: usually in bed before I go to sleep, or just as I wake up, or in the shower
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: Or if I find a very nice video of a certain kind.
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: When I’ve been with a man, I’m usually calm for… about a month
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: after that I get twitchy. start to watch things, dream up things, or re-live adventures
·       Apr 22 11:08 PM Sassy: start writing.  imagining…
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Kris: a month is a long time to be calm. I’m generally “calm” for about 24 hours….LOL
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Sassy: You’re male.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Seems to be the way it is.
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Though many of the chat women are more like that.
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Kris: think about/want sex all the time?
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Yes… and take care of themselves daily
·       Apr 22 11:11 PM Sassy: If I am having sex, or hot online discussions, I crave it more
·       Apr 22 11:11 PM Sassy: imagine more. But don’t do much about it for longer
·       Apr 22 11:12 PM Kris: what do you mean “don’t do much about it for longer”?
·       Apr 22 11:13 PM Sassy: work at cumming
·       Apr 22 11:13 PM Sassy: I do use the showerhead sometimes.  It has a nice pounding action
·       Apr 22 11:14 PM Kris:  : )
·       Apr 22 11:14 PM Sassy: You like to think about me self-pleasuring?
·       Apr 22 11:16 PM Kris: I’m just curious….getting to know you and experiences you’ve had….but yes….kind of…..is also part of a little fantasy of when I’m with you…..never done before…..my wife says she has never masturbated….. ever….so I’m curious/interested in a woman who does/would….maybe even when with me in some way….if possible….just a little fantasy.
·       Apr 22 11:17 PM Sassy: You want to watch?
·       Apr 22 11:17 PM Kris: yes….or watch but “participate” at the same time in some way…..
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: It is likely “not like it looks in the movies” but could still be very hot
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: I wouldn’t mind watching you also
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: See what you do so I can do it
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Kris: i’m pretty sure you already know…but I’m game…never done it before…but could be fun
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Sassy: There is a very classic pattern in p0rn… that men think is what women do.
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:21 PM Sassy: Usually involves a lot of fingers in and out
·       Apr 22 11:21 PM Sassy: When I do touch, it is more pressing, pulling
·       Apr 22 11:24 PM Kris: you would know better than me obviously and maybe each woman is different…but it seems to me the clit is the main point of pleasure. and the rest is just a “supporting cast” though still important….correct me if I’m wrong…..remember…..I’ve been only “pleasuring” one woman for over 25 years…..so my experience is limited….and like I said…most of the porn I’ve seen I think is fake bull shit – women are moaning and groaning at stuff I’m not convinced in real life most women would actually get off by…..but again…you would know better than me.
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: It varies a lot. Some women like clit, some more vaginal filling etc.
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: P0rn runs all over the map
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: lots of crap, but some really stunning, beautiful, fabulous
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Sassy: I don’t see much like I want it… but have a small collection of things men find very exciting and real-ish
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Sassy: Do you think your touching is relatively stereotypical?
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 22 11:28 PM Sassy: Does it look like it does in p0rn?
·       Apr 22 11:29 PM Kris: i’m trying to think. LOL. of some porn I’ve seen…and compared to “what i do”…..
·       Apr 22 11:30 PM Sassy: I’ve never seen anyone but my H do it
·       Apr 22 11:30 PM Kris: are you talking about a man beating off?
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Sassy: Imagine lots of pumping and talking to yourself.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Sassy: Have you thought about me whilst?
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Kris: absolutely!
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Sassy: Where are you usually thinking?
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Kris: i like to do it in the shower….use soap for lubrication….feels better.
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Kris: or just before i go to sleep at night…fantasize and beat off.
·       Apr 22 11:33 PM Kris: probably at least daily… sometimes two or three times a day. I’m very “active and horny”….ALL the time.
·       Apr 22 11:33 PM Sassy: Does w ever see you or do you have to hide?
·       Apr 22 11:34 PM Kris: She doesn’t see me. it’s not hard to hide…she doesn’t look in when i’m taking a shower and i can do it pretty quietly even when she’s laying next to me in bed.
·       Apr 22 11:34 PM Kris: i like to express myself verbally….but i don’t have to. I can do it quietly or even silently….
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Sassy: I used to cry when H did it in bed next to me… but I have gotten over that
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Kris: because he wasn’t having any sex with you?
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Sassy: Yes. Made me feel like chopped liver
·       Apr 22 11:36 PM Kris: i want to come over there and give you a hug.,…but it probably wouldn’t end there….so better wait until Sunday
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: You can run a tab
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: Store it up and let it out on Sunday. : )
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Kris: count on it!
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: 25 hugs, 65.5 kisses…
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: how did you arrive at those numbers?
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: Made them up
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: 15 breast squeezes
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: 4 spankings
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: and a partridge in a pear tree!
·       Apr 22 11:39 PM Sassy: Laaaa!
·       Apr 22 11:39 PM Kris: uuuhhh…naughty girl!!!
·       Apr 22 11:40 PM Sassy: You like it
·       Apr 22 11:40 PM Kris: what…spanking?
·       Apr 22 11:41 PM Sassy: naughty girl
·       Apr 22 11:41 PM Kris: of course! but I like that you’re so nice too!
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: The contrast heightens it
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: Shy, demure, polite in public
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: wild girl in private!
·       Apr 22 11:43 PM Kris: my kind of girl!
·       Apr 22 11:43 PM Kris: i had a kind of “weird” fantasy about being in you today
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Sassy: oh?
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Sassy: tell!
·       Apr 22 11:45 PM Kris: you know how sex can be in all kinds of sort of “modes”—-like “fast and hot and ravage me”—-or take it slower and be a little more gentle…etc., etc.
·       Apr 22 11:47 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 22 11:48 PM Kris: so this fantasy was very “undeveloped”. just sort of a “snap shot” or “image”….without a lot of content or detail….ever have those kinds of “quick images”?
·       Apr 22 11:50 PM Sassy: sure
·       Apr 22 11:53 PM Kris: ok….so i don’t know how to explain this exactly…except when we have kissed in public places….like the first time you kissed me outside the restaurant…and then when you were kissing me in the parking garage….and then when we kissed after we met the last time….I know I’ve tried to describe it….like i was “mesmerized” or “in a trance”…it was passionate and very hot and I was like “weak” or oblivious to everything else around me.
·       Apr 22 11:55 PM Kris: so in my “snap shot” fantasy…..I’m in you and thrusting but it’s not “hot and heavy and fast”….it’s medium speed and I feel this “connection”. and it feels good, but it’s like the same feeling as kissing you…and maybe I’m kissing you at the same time….or I’m looking at you and “mesmerized”… but it’s more “intimate” than “hot and heavy”. I’m fucking you….but it’s more than that……don’t want to freak you out….but that was my fantasy.
·       Apr 22 11:57 PM Kris: that’s it….just a “sense” of “being in and with you”…and feeling very good about it…..on different levels. hope that doesn’t freak you out…..
·       Apr 22 11:58 PM Sassy: Not freaky.  rather sweet. And very hot
·       Apr 22 11:59 PM Sassy: wonder if it i wishful thinking… or a premonition?  : )
·       Apr 23 12:01 AM Kris: hoping it’s a premonition…..but it’s only “one mode”.  there are others I want to be in too…..that are “hot, heavy, fast, hard”…..but that was just a little fantasy I had today. it was nice…hope it IS a premonition….and not just wishful thinking…..I guess I’ll find out soon enough!….LOL
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Sassy: Really nifty that you are thinking these things… and sharing them!
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Sassy: I was thinking a lot about you and oral today
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Kris: like what?
·       Apr 23 12:03 AM Sassy: I was thinking about different positions
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: Sitting up, propped on pillows
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: Or in a chair
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: or on the edge of the bed
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: where I am above you… can see… hold your head
·       Apr 23 12:05 AM Kris: your wish is my command…any way you want it…
·       Apr 23 12:05 AM Sassy: don’t know what is best.  need to experiment.  : )
·       Apr 23 12:06 AM Sassy: I am often lying flat but I think tilted up or sitting up might be better
·       Apr 23 12:08 AM Kris: if you were propped up against pillows….or sitting at the edge of the bed like you say….you could have the benefit of watching me….take my head in your hands…….using me for your pleasure….a little bit of a sense of more control and power for you…..visual stimulation…..what do you think?
·       Apr 23 12:10 AM Sassy: That’s my theory
·       Apr 23 12:10 AM Sassy: More in it with you rather than just being done to
·       Apr 23 12:11 AM Kris: Well….we’re quite the planners” here…aren’t we…LOL
·       Apr 23 12:11 AM Sassy: It’s fun to anticipate… plan… even if it doesn’t exactly happen
·       Apr 23 12:13 AM Kris: i agree…..i think it helps….excites….is fun to talk about…..instead of having to “guess” or talk too much instead of doing…..i think this conversation is fun.  I’ve known women who haven’t wanted to talk about sex at all…….which i don’t get…..but oh well….you’re not one of them!
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Sassy: talking about it, reading about it, writing about it… DOING IT!
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Kris: i’m curious about the “small collection of porn” you have that you like
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Kris: what is it about it that you like?
·       Apr 23 12:15 AM Sassy: Real looking people… being nice to each other.
·       Apr 23 12:15 AM Sassy: I like to hear what’s going on, not cheesy music
·       Apr 23 12:16 AM Kris: one thing that I wish would be shown more is a woman’s orgasmic contractions as they’re happening….
·       Apr 23 12:17 AM Kris: there are only a few that I’ve seen that I’ve trusted were real….
·       Apr 23 12:17 AM Kris: and the women aren’t necessarily screaming at the top of their lungs….
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Kris: sometimes they’re just doing that “groaning of cumming”……and you know they’re getting off
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: I also like to learn things.
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: I learned a lot about blow jobs and hand jobs
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: different positions
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: leaving the lights on
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Kris: i want to see everything!
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: heh
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Kris: leave the lights on!
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: I know… radical
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: I go through phases. Sometimes I want romantic.
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: Sometimes I watch very “bad stuff”
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Kris: what’s “bad stuff”?
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: japanese school girls being tied up and fingered…
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: outdoor sex
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: dom/sub stuff
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Kris: does dom/sub stuff interest/excite you—something you like to do?
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Sassy: No.  kinda horrified
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Kris: just like to watch different things?
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Sassy: try to understand it
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Sassy: and it has its moments
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Kris: moments…meaning?
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: isolated moments of kindess, hotness
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: Maybe you can bring your laptop and I can show you some
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Kris: ok
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: or I can send one a day or something
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: your reaction to different ones can tell me things
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Kris: sure…however you want to do it
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: feel free to say yuck or yum.
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: Helps a lot
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: Never watched with someone
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: but shared a lot
·       Apr 23 12:25 AM Kris: never watched porn with someone?
·       Apr 23 12:25 AM Sassy: no
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Sassy: You?
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Kris: yes…with my wife.  but a long time ago…not recently
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Kris: I’d like to watch some with you
·       Apr 23 12:27 AM Kris: unless you’d rather not…and just do it…LOL
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Sassy: Most of my favorites are short
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Sassy: There are these 10 sec gifs I find launch my mind
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Kris: “gifs”?
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Sassy: little loops
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Sassy: wife still with you there?
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Kris: no…she was in bed when I came home….so been alone this whole time
·       Apr 23 12:31 AM Sassy: http://advizortoall.tumblr.com/post/37135662621/this-kills-me-and-i-love-it
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Kris: want me to watch it now?
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Sassy: sure
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Kris: ok
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Kris: omg. i’m getting a hard on…what a blow job!….does it just keep going?
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Sassy: nope… just a little snippet… kindling.  another?
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Kris: sure!
·       Apr 23 12:35 AM Sassy: this is one of my all-time faves
·       Apr 23 12:35 AM Sassy: http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2i6vtbB2Y1r9az6fo1_500.gif
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Kris: omg…want to do that Sunday?
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Sassy: sure. can be tough for you to control…
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Sassy: and my hands will NOT be on the bed
·       Apr 23 12:37 AM Kris: did you mean “can be tough for me to control?”
·       Apr 23 12:37 AM Sassy: usually makes a man cum super fast
·       Apr 23 12:38 AM Kris: i could…but i have lots of self-control. can just kind of “enjoy but go someplace else in my head” so I can keep going longer…..then when i want to cum i need to mentally “shift gears” and just let it go.
·       Apr 23 12:39 AM Sassy: nice
·       Apr 23 12:39 AM Kris: but there’s a danger in that for me too.  because sometimes it’s not easy to switch back.  but I find a way….by just “letting it go”…..
·       Apr 23 12:40 AM Kris: does that make any sense?
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: Here’s a mild one I find very hot
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: http://advizortoall.tumblr.com/post/22858574847
·       Apr 23 12:43 AM Kris: is the guy kneeling or sitting on something?
·       Apr 23 12:43 AM Sassy: I imagine him sitting on a kitchen chair
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: right….there’s variation on the previous one I like….
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: it starts like this….
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: 69 with me on top….so i’m licking you and my cock is in your mouth…with me on top….
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: after doing that for a while…
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: I’d move to a position like the one in the video….
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: but instead of licking your breasts….
·       Apr 23 12:46 AM Kris: I’d use my hands on your clit and on your breasts….while you’re sucking on my cock…..but could also alternately lick your nipples
·       Apr 23 12:46 AM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: So you can see how gifs can inspire?
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Kris: yes
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: and they aren’t crap
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Kris: no. they’re real…we can do that…and I want to..
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: sure… probably “fake” but… that’s okay
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: sometimes I find the video they’re from
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Kris: i don’t mean what they’re doing is fake…but sometimes people fake orgasms. that part bugs me…
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Sassy: and I’m like… wait… whoa!
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Kris: i don’t understand….”sometimes i find the video they’re from…and i’m like….wait….whoa!” what do you mean by that?
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Sassy: they are snagged from a longer video, snippet
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Sassy: fun to see that 10 sec fitting into a longer thing
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Kris: oh….
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Sassy: has a woman ever sent you porn before?
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Kris: well…right now we just watched some porn together….even though we’re not in the same room!
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Kris: no.  you’re the first
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Sassy: : )
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Kris: it’s fun….gives us ideas for things to do together….I’ve got a hard on and it’s uncomfortable now.  balls are aching.
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Sassy: Wish I could help with that
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: LOL…..me too!
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Sassy: But so glad that you “get it” and see what I was talking about
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: sure!
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: we could watch some more on Sunday if you like…
·       Apr 23 12:53 AM Kris: or maybe we’ll be “too busy”
·       Apr 23 12:54 AM Kris: this is so much fun…but should we get some sleep…i can sleep in…but you have to get up.
·       Apr 23 12:54 AM Sassy: yeah… just having so much fun!
·       Apr 23 12:55 AM Kris: me too…in spite of my aching balls…
·       Apr 23 12:55 AM Sassy: FYI – if you click on the header in those link, it takes you out to the guy’s tumblr
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: You can see all the photos or gifs he has posted
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Kris: ok….
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: the kitchen kiss one comes from my favorite tumblr
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: He has quite arty, eclectic tastes
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Kris: what’s a “tumblr”?
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: Usually a series of photos on a particular topic
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: you can google tumblr Edsel and see a bunch of old cars
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: of tumblr big boobs or weird wedding photos etc.
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Kris: will your boobs be there?
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Sassy: gosh… I dunno
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: But there are millions of them… I think 65 million last count
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: You never heard of tumblr?
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Kris: no….I’ve led a very sheltered and culturally-impoverished life….
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: they got bought out by Yahoo… so folks are worried… they’ve started censoring
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: but not as much as was feared
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: It is a major harbor for porn
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: A pal of mine runs a tumblr of “one note tumblrs”
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: It’s hysterical
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Kris: one note tumblrs?
·       Apr 23 1:01 AM Sassy: very narrow, one theme tumblrs
·       Apr 23 1:01 AM Kris: what’s the theme…or don’t i dare to ask?
·       Apr 23 1:02 AM Sassy: hang on… trying to find it
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: http://asingleservingofporn.tumblr.com/
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: tuck that away to poke around in later
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: It’s like… women in horse masks
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: or best butts
·       Apr 23 1:05 AM Sassy: or “cooking in the buff”
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: so if there is a theme you like, it leads you to another tumblr only about that
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: can be a bit of a rabbit hole
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: Okay… I really should go.
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: just took a quick glance…got it.
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: me too
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: Thanks for indulging me
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: Nite sweet Sassy…Mwah!
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Kris: I had fun!
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Sassy: Sleep well.
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Kris: thanks…you too!

Erotica, gifs and two tumblrs

Tuesday, April 22, 2014 
Kris: Good morning! How late can u stay Sunday? so i can work on my lie (evil man). I’m SO looking forward to it…and not very nervous at all. We’ve already been naked together and you had no problem getting me off. What’s the worst that can happen…I’m a terrible fuck and you’re forced to dump me? But you’re such a hussy…i’m counting on you to work your magic. Licking, slowly, fingers, feeling, pressing, licking, sucking, pulling, a little faster, back to slowly, wet, inserting, fingers, feeling, tongue, licking, slowly, groaning, fingers, touching, pressing, inserted, feeling…GOOD MORNING BAD GIRL SASSY! 9:02 AM
Kris: my last email got “a little flow going”…felt a little wetness sitting in my “undies”… eruption on the horizon…unloading down the road… 9:20 AM
Me: Good morning frisky! Wow… you are such hot stuff! There is some wetness over here too! It is so fun to inspire you to write like that! 9:40 AM
Kris: And so u do! Know what time the “treat of our meet” will have to end? when you’ll likely have to head home by on Sunday? 9:44 AM
Me: I don’t have a time in mind, other than being in my own bed at midnight so I can get up for work Monday11:42 AM
Kris: :)…..plenty of time for those multiple “O”s. i’m going to have to get creative with my excuse….tried floating “day of spring skiing at Killington, VT. met with,”i just lost my job…we don’t have the money.” I’ll think if something. want to play for a LONG time. play, eat, talk…..play some more…like u said… 🙂 12:15 PM
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From: Sassy
To: Kris
Sent: Apr 22, 2014 2:09 PM
Subject: The Fan
The Fan
He couldn’t believe he was doing this.  His friend had talked
him into reading at Stone Soup Poets open mike.  One of the
stories.  It was for Valentine’s Day, and everyone was doing
it, but it still made him feel vulnerable and exposed.  He
read and paused, as appreciative sighs filled the room, and
knew it would be alright.  He noticed this woman, standing in
the back against the wall.  Staring right at him.  He felt like
he was reading to her, and that she felt it, too.  He finished,
and a crowd gathered around him to chat and congratulate and
fawn and cluck.  He searched the room for her, but she had gone.
He listened to the other artists awhile, but couldn’t get the
hazy image of the woman out of his mind.  Finally, he slipped
out the side door and started toward the train.  She spoke as
he passed, startling him.
       “Your story was…special.  It touched me.”  She almost
whispered into the night air.
       “Thank you,” he said, automatically.  Brilliant.  He tried
to make out her face in the dim light of the street lamp.
       “It made me…want to know you,” she sighed, almost as if
she hadn’t wanted to admit it. He was sure his mouth hung open at
that point.  He remembered himself in a few seconds, and decided to
be flip.
       “So, what did you want to know?”  He quipped, not really
expecting her to answer. She looked away, then surprised him.
       “What it would be like to inspire you.”  He gulped in air.
There didn’t seem to be enough air to fill his burning lungs.  He
realized that somehow, in the last minute, something had passed
between them.  It scared him, but drew him to her.
       “Can I walk you to the train?”  He asked her.  She seemed
to consider it carefully, then stepped forward and took his arm in
silent acceptance.  He felt her breast against his arm and wondered
if he could remember how to walk.  He managed.  He thought she would
ask him mundane questions, quiz him about his story or his life.  She
was silent, seemingly deep in thought, walking in step with him.
       He wanted to see her face, but she was beside him so he could
only take in her long hair, swinging around her, and how she seemed
just the right height to walk with him, and how her chest moved with
each step.  They passed a pottery shop and she paused briefly to
glance at the brightly colored bowls.  Suddenly, she yanked him into
the dark doorway, and pressed him against the stone of the building.
He felt the cold against his back, then the heat of her in front,
as she wiggled to fit her body to his.  Then she put her lips within
a hair of his, and stopped.  This seemed to be quite a distance for
her initiative to take her, but not quite there.
       He cursed the lack of light.  He couldn’t see her eyes.  But
it didn’t seem to matter, he was taking her invitation and sinking
his tongue into her mouth before he realized he’d decided to do it.
He felt as hard as the stone against his back, and knew she felt it
too by the breath she took when he raised his head momentarily.  She
worked her hand under his shirt, and put his hand on her breast.
They teased each other’s nipples, nipping at necks and ears and noses.
Smiling into each other’s mouths as their breathing raged out of
control.
       This was crazy.  He didn’t know this woman.  He knew
nothing except she liked his writing, that she had understood
the call in it.  And that she felt so right in his arms.  It
was nuts, but it made sense to him.  He’d find out the other
stuff later, if it became important.  He was startled back to
the present by her hand at his belt.  Oh, my god.
       She stopped for a moment, took a deep breath and
whispered in his ear.
       “I don’t…I mean, I haven’t…ever…without…” she
couldn’t seem to say it, but he knew she was trying to justify
this wildfire burning between two strangers in a dark doorway.
       “I know,” he murmured, hugging her even closer.  That
seemed to settle it.  She undid his belt, and slipped her hand
inside his clothes to touch him.  He thought he’d pass out.
She rubbed him just the right way for longer than he thought
he could endure.  He knew he should be touching her, but could
not summon the brain power beyond savoring her touch.  She
removed one hand to her pocket, he heard a rip, then she was
taking his sex from his pants, and covering it with latex,
and leading him to a ledge deeper in the doorway.  She stretched
out on the stone, and pulled him down over her, into her.  The
combination of the time and place and strangeness and the latex
set him off almost immediately.  He pounded her into the stone,
without thought of her soft body.  She met his every thrust,
moaning in his ear.  He felt the pulsing, the searing heat, and
filled the plastic, thinking of filling her.  She clenched him
deep inside.  His mind clung to every detail as he realized he
would desperately need to write about this later.
       They clung to one another forever.  Then sat close to
each other on the ledge as they righted their clothes.  There
seemed to be so much to say, and yet nowhere to start.  He
finally took her arm, and they continued toward the train. He
thought he should be panicking, but couldn’t get beyond the
amazing afterglow.  When they reached the platform, he expected
her to disappear like the dream she seemed to him.  She chewed
her lip.  He feasted on seeing her in the light.
       “I need to know more.”  She whispered, a pleading look
on her face.
       “Yes.” It was all he could say.  It seemed enough.
       “Take me home with you.”
       “Yes.”
       “Let me inspire you.”
       He moaned and rolled his eyes.  Then the train rumbled
into the station and they boarded locked arm in arm.
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Me: Sent you more of my erotica. Read in private! 2:10 PM
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Kris: Ok I will…you naughty girl! 3:52 PM
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Kris: Won’t b home till 10:30. need to workout. been “slacking” lately. need to get back on track. Sorry it will b so late again…but would love to chat if u want when i get home. Haven’t read “Sassy Does Boston” yet (TEASING !)…but can’t wait to peek inside that horny little imagination of yours… 🙂 8:27 PM
Me: 10:30 is fine. I drank Mt Dew with dinner so I should be awake! 8:37 PM
Kris: i feel like saying…..uuuhh baby!…..don’t know why. 8:43 PM
Me: Okaaay 8:46 PM
Kris: in little bit of a “wild” mood. got something i can bite a little? better go work it off…later! 8:48 PM
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·       Apr 22 10:40 PM Kris: Hi!…Give me a minute to read your erotica…
·       Apr 22 10:40 PM Sassy: Ok
·       Apr 22 10:49 PM Kris: Wow! That was one well-written hot story! Ever do something like that – have sex with almost a perfect stranger?
·       Apr 22 10:50 PM Sassy: Sort of… long ago
·       Apr 22 10:50 PM Kris: what happened…how did it happen?
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: a gal pal and I were in Mexico
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: Going into a disco
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: There were British soldiers – The disco would only let men in with women
·       Apr 22 10:51 PM Sassy: So they offered to buy us drinks if we’d get them in
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: They were very cute, polite…
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: There was a power failure at the disco. They got us out safely
·       Apr 22 10:52 PM Sassy: My pal invited them back to our hotel bar
·       Apr 22 10:53 PM Sassy: We ended up in our room.
·       Apr 22 10:53 PM Sassy: Gal friend made out with one in bed while I was out on the balcony with the other, just talking
·       Apr 22 10:54 PM Sassy: Then we stopped talking…and went inside to the other bed
·       Apr 22 10:54 PM Sassy: then they joined us.  Things get a little blurry after that
·       Apr 22 10:55 PM Sassy: But very very hot
·       Apr 22 10:56 PM Kris: i thought you didn’t have much fun with sex until you ventured out more recently. sounds like you did….how old were you then?
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Sassy: hmmm… 25
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Sassy: They didn’t help me cum… just did their own thing
·       Apr 22 10:57 PM Kris: you answered my next question….LOL
·       Apr 22 10:58 PM Sassy: I can’t recall having an orgasm until I was 34
·       Apr 22 10:58 PM Sassy: I was alone on my bed, talking to a guy on the phone
·       Apr 22 10:59 PM Kris: and?
·       Apr 22 11:00 PM Sassy: Strange things happened to my body
·       Apr 22 11:00 PM Sassy: I had read a lot of romance novels and I was like… Hey! Maybe this is what they meant!
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Sassy: Guy was from Ontario. So I call him Mr O.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Kris: LOL SO HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 22 11:01 PM Kris: Were you touching yourself? how/why did you cum?
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Sassy: I wasn’t… just listening to him talk
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Kris: what was he talking about?
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Sassy: I forget… figure skating I think
·       Apr 22 11:02 PM Kris: Come on!
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: He was a figure skater
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Kris: how do you have an orgasm without any direct stimulation?
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: I do it all the time
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Kris: how?
·       Apr 22 11:03 PM Sassy: Very powerful imagination
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Kris: you don’t touch yourself at all?
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Sassy: nope… very rare
·       Apr 22 11:04 PM Kris: when/where do you imagine things? how often?
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Sassy: You mean enough to make me cum?
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 22 11:05 PM Sassy: varies…depends on how long since I was with a man
·       Apr 22 11:06 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:06 PM Sassy: usually in bed before I go to sleep, or just as I wake up, or in the shower
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: Or if I find a very nice video of a certain kind.
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: When I’ve been with a man, I’m usually calm for… about a month
·       Apr 22 11:07 PM Sassy: after that I get twitchy. start to watch things, dream up things, or re-live adventures
·       Apr 22 11:08 PM Sassy: start writing.  imagining…
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Kris: a month is a long time to be calm. I’m generally “calm” for about 24 hours….LOL
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Sassy: You’re male.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:09 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Seems to be the way it is.
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Though many of the chat women are more like that.
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Kris: think about/want sex all the time?
·       Apr 22 11:10 PM Sassy: Yes… and take care of themselves daily
·       Apr 22 11:11 PM Sassy: If I am having sex, or hot online discussions, I crave it more
·       Apr 22 11:11 PM Sassy: imagine more. But don’t do much about it for longer
·       Apr 22 11:12 PM Kris: what do you mean “don’t do much about it for longer”?
·       Apr 22 11:13 PM Sassy: work at cumming
·       Apr 22 11:13 PM Sassy: I do use the showerhead sometimes.  It has a nice pounding action
·       Apr 22 11:14 PM Kris:  : )
·       Apr 22 11:14 PM Sassy: You like to think about me self-pleasuring?
·       Apr 22 11:16 PM Kris: I’m just curious….getting to know you and experiences you’ve had….but yes….kind of…..is also part of a little fantasy of when I’m with you…..never done before…..my wife says she has never masturbated….. ever….so I’m curious/interested in a woman who does/would….maybe even when with me in some way….if possible….just a little fantasy.
·       Apr 22 11:17 PM Sassy: You want to watch?
·       Apr 22 11:17 PM Kris: yes….or watch but “participate” at the same time in some way…..
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: It is likely “not like it looks in the movies” but could still be very hot
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: I wouldn’t mind watching you also
·       Apr 22 11:18 PM Sassy: See what you do so I can do it
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Kris: i’m pretty sure you already know…but I’m game…never done it before…but could be fun
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Sassy: There is a very classic pattern in p0rn… that men think is what women do.
·       Apr 22 11:19 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:21 PM Sassy: Usually involves a lot of fingers in and out
·       Apr 22 11:21 PM Sassy: When I do touch, it is more pressing, pulling
·       Apr 22 11:24 PM Kris: you would know better than me obviously and maybe each woman is different…but it seems to me the clit is the main point of pleasure. and the rest is just a “supporting cast” though still important….correct me if I’m wrong…..remember…..I’ve been only “pleasuring” one woman for over 25 years…..so my experience is limited….and like I said…most of the porn I’ve seen I think is fake bull shit – women are moaning and groaning at stuff I’m not convinced in real life most women would actually get off by…..but again…you would know better than me.
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: It varies a lot. Some women like clit, some more vaginal filling etc.
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: P0rn runs all over the map
·       Apr 22 11:26 PM Sassy: lots of crap, but some really stunning, beautiful, fabulous
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Sassy: I don’t see much like I want it… but have a small collection of things men find very exciting and real-ish
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Sassy: Do you think your touching is relatively stereotypical?
·       Apr 22 11:27 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 22 11:28 PM Sassy: Does it look like it does in p0rn?
·       Apr 22 11:29 PM Kris: i’m trying to think. LOL. of some porn I’ve seen…and compared to “what i do”…..
·       Apr 22 11:30 PM Sassy: I’ve never seen anyone but my H do it
·       Apr 22 11:30 PM Kris: are you talking about a man beating off?
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Sassy: Imagine lots of pumping and talking to yourself.  : )
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Sassy: Have you thought about me whilst?
·       Apr 22 11:31 PM Kris: absolutely!
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Sassy: Where are you usually thinking?
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Kris: i like to do it in the shower….use soap for lubrication….feels better.
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 22 11:32 PM Kris: or just before i go to sleep at night…fantasize and beat off.
·       Apr 22 11:33 PM Kris: probably at least daily… sometimes two or three times a day. I’m very “active and horny”….ALL the time.
·       Apr 22 11:33 PM Sassy: Does w ever see you or do you have to hide?
·       Apr 22 11:34 PM Kris: She doesn’t see me. it’s not hard to hide…she doesn’t look in when i’m taking a shower and i can do it pretty quietly even when she’s laying next to me in bed.
·       Apr 22 11:34 PM Kris: i like to express myself verbally….but i don’t have to. I can do it quietly or even silently….
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Sassy: I used to cry when H did it in bed next to me… but I have gotten over that
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Kris: because he wasn’t having any sex with you?
·       Apr 22 11:35 PM Sassy: Yes. Made me feel like chopped liver
·       Apr 22 11:36 PM Kris: i want to come over there and give you a hug.,…but it probably wouldn’t end there….so better wait until Sunday
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: You can run a tab
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Kris: meaning?
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: Store it up and let it out on Sunday. : )
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Kris: count on it!
·       Apr 22 11:37 PM Sassy: 25 hugs, 65.5 kisses…
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: how did you arrive at those numbers?
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: Made them up
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: 15 breast squeezes
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: 4 spankings
·       Apr 22 11:38 PM Sassy: and a partridge in a pear tree!
·       Apr 22 11:39 PM Sassy: Laaaa!
·       Apr 22 11:39 PM Kris: uuuhhh…naughty girl!!!
·       Apr 22 11:40 PM Sassy: You like it
·       Apr 22 11:40 PM Kris: what…spanking?
·       Apr 22 11:41 PM Sassy: naughty girl
·       Apr 22 11:41 PM Kris: of course! but I like that you’re so nice too!
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: The contrast heightens it
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: Shy, demure, polite in public
·       Apr 22 11:42 PM Sassy: wild girl in private!
·       Apr 22 11:43 PM Kris: my kind of girl!
·       Apr 22 11:43 PM Kris: i had a kind of “weird” fantasy about being in you today
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Sassy: oh?
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Kris: yes
·       Apr 22 11:44 PM Sassy: tell!
·       Apr 22 11:45 PM Kris: you know how sex can be in all kinds of sort of “modes”—-like “fast and hot and ravage me”—-or take it slower and be a little more gentle…etc., etc.
·       Apr 22 11:47 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 22 11:48 PM Kris: so this fantasy was very “undeveloped”. just sort of a “snap shot” or “image”….without a lot of content or detail….ever have those kinds of “quick images”?
·       Apr 22 11:50 PM Sassy: sure
·       Apr 22 11:53 PM Kris: ok….so i don’t know how to explain this exactly…except when we have kissed in public places….like the first time you kissed me outside the restaurant…and then when you were kissing me in the parking garage….and then when we kissed after we met the last time….I know I’ve tried to describe it….like i was “mesmerized” or “in a trance”…it was passionate and very hot and I was like “weak” or oblivious to everything else around me.
·       Apr 22 11:55 PM Kris: so in my “snap shot” fantasy…..I’m in you and thrusting but it’s not “hot and heavy and fast”….it’s medium speed and I feel this “connection”. and it feels good, but it’s like the same feeling as kissing you…and maybe I’m kissing you at the same time….or I’m looking at you and “mesmerized”… but it’s more “intimate” than “hot and heavy”. I’m fucking you….but it’s more than that……don’t want to freak you out….but that was my fantasy.
·       Apr 22 11:57 PM Kris: that’s it….just a “sense” of “being in and with you”…and feeling very good about it…..on different levels. hope that doesn’t freak you out…..
·       Apr 22 11:58 PM Sassy: Not freaky.  rather sweet. And very hot
·       Apr 22 11:59 PM Sassy: wonder if it i wishful thinking… or a premonition?  : )
·       Apr 23 12:01 AM Kris: hoping it’s a premonition…..but it’s only “one mode”.  there are others I want to be in too…..that are “hot, heavy, fast, hard”…..but that was just a little fantasy I had today. it was nice…hope it IS a premonition….and not just wishful thinking…..I guess I’ll find out soon enough!….LOL
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Sassy: Really nifty that you are thinking these things… and sharing them!
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Sassy: I was thinking a lot about you and oral today
·       Apr 23 12:02 AM Kris: like what?
·       Apr 23 12:03 AM Sassy: I was thinking about different positions
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: Sitting up, propped on pillows
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: Or in a chair
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: or on the edge of the bed
·       Apr 23 12:04 AM Sassy: where I am above you… can see… hold your head
·       Apr 23 12:05 AM Kris: your wish is my command…any way you want it…
·       Apr 23 12:05 AM Sassy: don’t know what is best.  need to experiment.  : )
·       Apr 23 12:06 AM Sassy: I am often lying flat but I think tilted up or sitting up might be better
·       Apr 23 12:08 AM Kris: if you were propped up against pillows….or sitting at the edge of the bed like you say….you could have the benefit of watching me….take my head in your hands…….using me for your pleasure….a little bit of a sense of more control and power for you…..visual stimulation…..what do you think?
·       Apr 23 12:10 AM Sassy: That’s my theory
·       Apr 23 12:10 AM Sassy: More in it with you rather than just being done to
·       Apr 23 12:11 AM Kris: Well….we’re quite the planners” here…aren’t we…LOL
·       Apr 23 12:11 AM Sassy: It’s fun to anticipate… plan… even if it doesn’t exactly happen
·       Apr 23 12:13 AM Kris: i agree…..i think it helps….excites….is fun to talk about…..instead of having to “guess” or talk too much instead of doing…..i think this conversation is fun.  I’ve known women who haven’t wanted to talk about sex at all…….which i don’t get…..but oh well….you’re not one of them!
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Sassy: talking about it, reading about it, writing about it… DOING IT!
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Kris: i’m curious about the “small collection of porn” you have that you like
·       Apr 23 12:14 AM Kris: what is it about it that you like?
·       Apr 23 12:15 AM Sassy: Real looking people… being nice to each other.
·       Apr 23 12:15 AM Sassy: I like to hear what’s going on, not cheesy music
·       Apr 23 12:16 AM Kris: one thing that I wish would be shown more is a woman’s orgasmic contractions as they’re happening….
·       Apr 23 12:17 AM Kris: there are only a few that I’ve seen that I’ve trusted were real….
·       Apr 23 12:17 AM Kris: and the women aren’t necessarily screaming at the top of their lungs….
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Kris: sometimes they’re just doing that “groaning of cumming”……and you know they’re getting off
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: I also like to learn things.
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: I learned a lot about blow jobs and hand jobs
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: different positions
·       Apr 23 12:18 AM Sassy: leaving the lights on
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Kris: i want to see everything!
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: heh
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Kris: leave the lights on!
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: I know… radical
·       Apr 23 12:19 AM Sassy: I go through phases. Sometimes I want romantic.
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: Sometimes I watch very “bad stuff”
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Kris: what’s “bad stuff”?
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: japanese school girls being tied up and fingered…
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: outdoor sex
·       Apr 23 12:20 AM Sassy: dom/sub stuff
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Kris: does dom/sub stuff interest/excite you—something you like to do?
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Sassy: No.  kinda horrified
·       Apr 23 12:21 AM Kris: just like to watch different things?
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Sassy: try to understand it
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Sassy: and it has its moments
·       Apr 23 12:22 AM Kris: moments…meaning?
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: isolated moments of kindess, hotness
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: Maybe you can bring your laptop and I can show you some
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Kris: ok
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: or I can send one a day or something
·       Apr 23 12:23 AM Sassy: your reaction to different ones can tell me things
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Kris: sure…however you want to do it
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: feel free to say yuck or yum.
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: Helps a lot
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: Never watched with someone
·       Apr 23 12:24 AM Sassy: but shared a lot
·       Apr 23 12:25 AM Kris: never watched porn with someone?
·       Apr 23 12:25 AM Sassy: no
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Sassy: You?
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Kris: yes…with my wife.  but a long time ago…not recently
·       Apr 23 12:26 AM Kris: I’d like to watch some with you
·       Apr 23 12:27 AM Kris: unless you’d rather not…and just do it…LOL
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Sassy: Most of my favorites are short
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Sassy: There are these 10 sec gifs I find launch my mind
·       Apr 23 12:29 AM Kris: “gifs”?
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Sassy: little loops
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Sassy: wife still with you there?
·       Apr 23 12:30 AM Kris: no…she was in bed when I came home….so been alone this whole time
·       Apr 23 12:31 AM Sassy: http://advizortoall.tumblr.com/post/37135662621/this-kills-me-and-i-love-it
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Kris: want me to watch it now?
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Sassy: sure
·       Apr 23 12:32 AM Kris: ok
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Kris: omg. i’m getting a hard on…what a blow job!….does it just keep going?
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Sassy: nope… just a little snippet… kindling.  another?
·       Apr 23 12:34 AM Kris: sure!
·       Apr 23 12:35 AM Sassy: this is one of my all-time faves
·       Apr 23 12:35 AM Sassy: http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2i6vtbB2Y1r9az6fo1_500.gif
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Kris: omg…want to do that Sunday?
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Sassy: sure. can be tough for you to control…
·       Apr 23 12:36 AM Sassy: and my hands will NOT be on the bed
·       Apr 23 12:37 AM Kris: did you mean “can be tough for me to control?”
·       Apr 23 12:37 AM Sassy: usually makes a man cum super fast
·       Apr 23 12:38 AM Kris: i could…but i have lots of self-control. can just kind of “enjoy but go someplace else in my head” so I can keep going longer…..then when i want to cum i need to mentally “shift gears” and just let it go.
·       Apr 23 12:39 AM Sassy: nice
·       Apr 23 12:39 AM Kris: but there’s a danger in that for me too.  because sometimes it’s not easy to switch back.  but I find a way….by just “letting it go”…..
·       Apr 23 12:40 AM Kris: does that make any sense?
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: Here’s a mild one I find very hot
·       Apr 23 12:41 AM Sassy: http://advizortoall.tumblr.com/post/22858574847
·       Apr 23 12:43 AM Kris: is the guy kneeling or sitting on something?
·       Apr 23 12:43 AM Sassy: I imagine him sitting on a kitchen chair
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: right….there’s variation on the previous one I like….
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: it starts like this….
·       Apr 23 12:44 AM Kris: 69 with me on top….so i’m licking you and my cock is in your mouth…with me on top….
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: after doing that for a while…
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: I’d move to a position like the one in the video….
·       Apr 23 12:45 AM Kris: but instead of licking your breasts….
·       Apr 23 12:46 AM Kris: I’d use my hands on your clit and on your breasts….while you’re sucking on my cock…..but could also alternately lick your nipples
·       Apr 23 12:46 AM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: So you can see how gifs can inspire?
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Kris: yes
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: and they aren’t crap
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Kris: no. they’re real…we can do that…and I want to..
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: sure… probably “fake” but… that’s okay
·       Apr 23 12:47 AM Sassy: sometimes I find the video they’re from
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Kris: i don’t mean what they’re doing is fake…but sometimes people fake orgasms. that part bugs me…
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Sassy: and I’m like… wait… whoa!
·       Apr 23 12:48 AM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Kris: i don’t understand….”sometimes i find the video they’re from…and i’m like….wait….whoa!” what do you mean by that?
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Sassy: they are snagged from a longer video, snippet
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Sassy: fun to see that 10 sec fitting into a longer thing
·       Apr 23 12:49 AM Kris: oh….
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Sassy: has a woman ever sent you porn before?
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Kris: well…right now we just watched some porn together….even though we’re not in the same room!
·       Apr 23 12:50 AM Kris: no.  you’re the first
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Sassy: : )
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Kris: it’s fun….gives us ideas for things to do together….I’ve got a hard on and it’s uncomfortable now.  balls are aching.
·       Apr 23 12:51 AM Sassy: Wish I could help with that
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: LOL…..me too!
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Sassy: But so glad that you “get it” and see what I was talking about
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: sure!
·       Apr 23 12:52 AM Kris: we could watch some more on Sunday if you like…
·       Apr 23 12:53 AM Kris: or maybe we’ll be “too busy”
·       Apr 23 12:54 AM Kris: this is so much fun…but should we get some sleep…i can sleep in…but you have to get up.
·       Apr 23 12:54 AM Sassy: yeah… just having so much fun!
·       Apr 23 12:55 AM Kris: me too…in spite of my aching balls…
·       Apr 23 12:55 AM Sassy: FYI – if you click on the header in those link, it takes you out to the guy’s tumblr
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: You can see all the photos or gifs he has posted
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Kris: ok….
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: the kitchen kiss one comes from my favorite tumblr
·       Apr 23 12:56 AM Sassy: He has quite arty, eclectic tastes
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Kris: what’s a “tumblr”?
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: Usually a series of photos on a particular topic
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: you can google tumblr Edsel and see a bunch of old cars
·       Apr 23 12:57 AM Sassy: of tumblr big boobs or weird wedding photos etc.
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Kris: will your boobs be there?
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Sassy: gosh… I dunno
·       Apr 23 12:58 AM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: But there are millions of them… I think 65 million last count
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: You never heard of tumblr?
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Kris: no….I’ve led a very sheltered and culturally-impoverished life….
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: they got bought out by Yahoo… so folks are worried… they’ve started censoring
·       Apr 23 12:59 AM Sassy: but not as much as was feared
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: It is a major harbor for porn
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: A pal of mine runs a tumblr of “one note tumblrs”
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Sassy: It’s hysterical
·       Apr 23 1:00 AM Kris: one note tumblrs?
·       Apr 23 1:01 AM Sassy: very narrow, one theme tumblrs
·       Apr 23 1:01 AM Kris: what’s the theme…or don’t i dare to ask?
·       Apr 23 1:02 AM Sassy: hang on… trying to find it
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: http://asingleservingofporn.tumblr.com/
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: tuck that away to poke around in later
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: It’s like… women in horse masks
·       Apr 23 1:04 AM Sassy: or best butts
·       Apr 23 1:05 AM Sassy: or “cooking in the buff”
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: so if there is a theme you like, it leads you to another tumblr only about that
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: can be a bit of a rabbit hole
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: Okay… I really should go.
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: just took a quick glance…got it.
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: me too
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Sassy: Thanks for indulging me
·       Apr 23 1:06 AM Kris: Nite sweet Sassy…Mwah!
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Kris: I had fun!
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Sassy: Sleep well.
·       Apr 23 1:07 AM Kris: thanks…you too!