#1 Depart gracefully from the job.
#3 Have some down time.
#4 Check on how to get out of lease. Are you allowed to sublet etc?
#5 Find somewhere you can stay short term… with a friend? Your own apt?
#6 Pack your car with essentials.
#7 Tell your lovely wife you would prefer not to live with her anymore, you will be filing for divorce.
#8 Go away
#9 Have some down time.
#11 Continue to make changes and have a wonderful life.
My lists go to 11.
Oh! I forgot one!
12) Drive to NY to visit family and stop in BOSTON on the way back.