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Anti-Funk Cream

[Tuesday March 22 – Philip’s Facebook account disappeared, so I switched back to text and wondered if it was yet another step in shutting me out.]
Tuesday, March 22
11:25 pm Hope you had a good day.  I stayed home.  Chemo sucks.  But improving now.  Hubby away overnight for sleep study.  Sleep well, kid,
Wednesday, March 23
7:16 am Good morning!  Cold and gray, 32, more snow later.  I feel good, headed to the office.  Have a great day!  Spread joy!
8:11 am Phil: Another decent day.  Gonna be packed.  Tons of meetings and events going on.  Got a clean bill of health yesterday, heart, lungs vacular, liver,  kidneys, blood sugar, cholesterol, blood pressure all good and better than expected for a man of my years.  Doc said, what ever you are doing is working extraordinarily well, keep it up!  Nice to hear! 
8:36 am Yay for good health!  I certainly do appreciate your keen mind and fit body.   🙂  Rock on!
8:44 am Phil: No one said anything about mental health!   🙂
11:23 am You’re more right-headed than anyone I know!  It’s sunny, despite forecast. I have such an urge to go for a walk w/you, laughing, kissing.  Life is grand!
3:23 pm  Lunch out w/handsome project peep, helping him find a new job.  Got free gumbo and crawfish etouffee!  Yum.  Still no snow!
3:40 pm Phil: I love etouffee!  Yum!
5:38 pm Done w/ almost huge pile of invites to a big reception at work!  Have a great evening!
6:28 pm Phil:  Ha ha ha.  Have a great evening!  [Photo of a chest with a blue t-shirt saying “Hey, RED SOX! At this rate it’ll take you 394 more years to catch our current total!  1903 NY 2009]
9:04 pm Heh… Makes me wonder what they’re afraid of…
10:41 pm Quiet night… saw NCIS online… Gibbs is so smooth!  Off to bed.  Head full of you, wish body was.  J  Sleep well, sweet man.  Dream of tall, dark wench.
10:54 pm Will I ever be where I can say to a man “I feel like being touched tonight” and it happens?  Life is so strange… don’t mind me.  Hot and no cure.  Heh. 
Thursday, March 24
7:56 am Phil:  Ahhhh, working myself into a funk.  So damn busy.  I  need a weekend.  Hope you have a good day!
8:12 am Good morning!  Sending you Sassy’s patented anti-funk cream – take w/ espresso and donut and 3 deep breaths – it’ll be better!
8:19 am Phil: Did espresso and 3 breaths,  no donut.  Thanks!   🙂
5:43 pm Home alone w/ the cats again!  H out working on his project.  Thinking of pizza maybe.  Hope you had a good day.
9:58 pm Chemo sucks.  Low red cells – Light-headed ick.  So ready for this to be over.  Bed now.  Sleep well, kid.  Dream of Boston Cream.   🙂
11:53 pm Phil: The end of the day.  Taking care of business [photo of his cock in hand in the shower]
11:53 pm Phil: ummmmmmmMmmmm [photo of cock and cum in the shower]

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Remembering his dad Part 1

Saturday sights
Between Phil and You
March 12 at 8:03am
Good morning! Sunny start – headed to the 50’s! Being industrious – cleaning, laundry etc. and posting kitty pics! Off to see Mom. Have a good Saturday, Philip.

Phil March 12 at 9:05am
You too! I am also cleaning, catching up at the office. Gonna be a good day! In the 40s here!
March 12 at 8:04pm
Hung w/ Mom, got her out – gassed and washed her car, grocery & shoe shopping, lunch, introduced to her grandcats! They charmed her. 🙂 So nice to be able to do things with her again!

Springing ahead Sunday
Between Phil and You
March 13 at 9:50am
Good morning! 46 already! Strangely busy in the lot for Sunday, must be a sale across the street. Have a smooth Sunday. Change all those clocks. 🙂
Phil March 13 at 9:53am
Gorgeous sunny day here. Having coffee watching the sun come up over the lake. Very productive day yesterday. Hopping for more of the same today! Have a great day! It’s almost time for baseball! That means footballs coming!

Phil March 13 at 9:53am
I love sales, was just at once. Not yours of course but cool store.

March 13 at 11:34am
My older sister is a huge shopper. She has that luck, finding great stuff for cheap. This probably won’t surprise you, but that store over there is 5 years old, and I’ve been there twice. When I say shopping is not my thing, I mean it. But if you were going, I’d tag along. 🙂
March 13 at 12:55pm
Sis is telling me about dinner at a steak house last night, Coach Grill in Wayland – she ordered lobster bisque and they brought two bowls – one lobster meat and one soup, and mixed them. Have you seen that? I haven’t. Drool.
Phil March 13 at 2:29pm
No! Wow! That sounds good. Had lobster bisque the other day. Had lots of lobster in it but all mixed. Sounds awesome!
Phil March 13 at 2:31pm
I don’t mind shopping.  Got a nice corned beef brisket, baby red potatoes and cabbage for St Pattys day. Green beer too!

March 13 at 2:53pm
Oooh…yummy!
March 13 at 4:45pm
Off to monthly project meeting, then eat w/ that gang. Nothing big on the agenda, which always make me wonder what trouble we’ll get into. Later, kid. Have a good evening.
March 13 at 10:45pm
Had easy meeting, nice dinner out at a new place. First real meal this week – such a relief to be able to eat again! Hope you had a nice evening, too. Sleep well, sweet man.
Phil March 13 at 11:18pm
Got a ton done. Good day. Relaxing. Ready for another week. Glad you feel better.

Phil March 14 at 5:59am
Dad passed away this morning. Harder than I thought it would be. Heading home soon. I know you know this but this sucks.

Phil March 14 at 8:12am
Oh, Philip. I am so sorry. I will be praying very hard for you, for your Mother and your entire family… traveling mercies and patience and strength.
Phil March 14 at 8:18am
Thanks Sassy. Just feel empty. I appreciate it.
March 14 at 8:34am
In some ways I know exactly how much this sucks. But you are different, so I won’t assume I know what you’re feeling. Tell me and I’ll help. I have advice, what people said that helped. Lean on me.
March 14 at 8:40am
#1 take care of your Mom. Ask her opinion and try to do what she wants. #2 Cut yourself and others LOTS of slack. People will say and do stupid things. Take lots of deep breaths.
Phil March 14 at 8:42am
Got it. Spoke with one of my dearest friends. Made things much better.

March 14 at 9:40am
So glad to hear it. #3 is enjoy your family and friends. I was so strengthened by their stories and presence. You driving or flying?
Phil March 14 at 10:15am
Driving. Going to enjoy all of the above
March 14 at 11:29am
I hope the road is rolling along. Thinking of you. Wishing I could do more…carry some of the burden for you. and boggling at how freakishly parallel our lives are. Is someone there making progress on the details or are you going to do a lot of it?
Phil March 14 at 11:40am
Brother is working it now.

March 14 at 11:45am
Cool. People will help him. That’s another lesson… let the funeral people help. They know the most efficient way in most cases. Is Sally with you?
Phil March 14 at 12:06pm
Have not left yet but she will be

March 14 at 1:01pm
Good that you won’t be alone. Safer. I had a hard time letting people help, but they’re glad to. Farm out tasks if you possibly figure out who/what. Think “Can someone else do it?” We let them bring food, pick up at the airport, pick up Mom, clean her house – you have a big family – use them! And don’t be afraid to whine at me or ask me anything.
March 14 at 1:34pm
Enough advice? Might be time to talk football. 🙁
Phil March 14 at 2:05pm
Appreciate it. Everything helps.
March 14 at 2:54pm
I was numb the first day. Tried to get tasks done and keep the family talking. That gave way to excited to see people, why it was good that it happened now, that the suffering was over etc. and then people started telling stories about dad, some I’d never heard, so that helped. Hope that phase comes and soon.
March 14 at 2:55pm
One of my co-workers just bought an iPad2 and let me hold it. They are wicked nice.
Phil March 14 at 3:03pm
Oh yeah, I have the original
March 14 at 5:26pm
I’m off to another project meeting, the first gathering of the new team for a different event. Thinking of you, sending energy… or whatever. 🙂
March 14 at 7:49pm
Done with my meeting. Nice bunch of people. Waiting for thai take-out, usual soup, satay and pad thai.
March 14 at 10:57pm
You stopping or going through? Hope it’s a smooth trip. Smile at the old home town for me. If you need an ear, call me anytime, day or night. I won’t gloat about the Red Sox beating the Yankees again today. 🙂
Phil  March 15 at 1:32am
You suck
March 15 at 4:31am
You know it. and like it…
Phil March 15 at 4:58am
LOL, as a matter of fact

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Beach bar textfest

Sunday, March 6
8:09 am Good morning!  55 here!  Gray but warm!  Headed to the UU church for niece’s baptism, then lunch w/ 40 people at sis’s house.  Have a great day!
10:10 am Phil: Getting some work done and then off to church.  Have a great day!
11:34 pm Good day?  I enjoyed all 90 min of UU worship – my niece was so good upfront!  Lunch was low key, Hungarian mushroom soup.

11:36 pm So tired after chemo, cousins, memorial and baptism in four days.  Too many people.  Bleh.  Pray I don’t get their germs!  Chemo kicking in, slept long nap.  Sleep well, kid.

Monday, March 7
8:03 pm Good morning!  54 and gray.  Have a mighty Monday!
11:17 pm Hey kid.  Hope you had a good day.  Busy at work, then quiet evening,  Yay!  Sleep well!

11:34 pm Phil:  Busy day. Prep to be away.  Headed to the beach tomorrow!

Tuesday, March 8
7:57 am Good morning!  27 and sunny pretty.  Feeling icky but pressing on.  Saw a kerfuffle on your work FB – comments balanced out.  Hope you have an easy flight!
4:59 pm Phil: Yeah work was all great fun.  Seems to have settled down now.
5:08 pm Cool.  I am having BAD day, stayed home, trying not to bug anyone.
5:13 pm Phil: Chemo bothering you?
5:17 pm Yep. Warning – whining here.  No brain.  Everything tastes like SOAP.  Can’t get warm.  Nothing dire.  Just… Ick. 
5:20 pm Phil: That sucks.  Hope you feel better tomorrow.
5:23 pm Thanks. Usually do.  Sorry to whine…. 
SWITCH TO EAST COAST TIME!
7:51 pm Phil: I am sitting in a bar at the beach, eating amazing fish tacos, drinking giant Fat Tuesday beers with 2 dollar margaritas.  I’m a very happy boy! 
7:52 pm Fab!
7:55 pm Meetings or what takes you there?
7:56 pm Phil: Meetings with bigwigs.  Great to be home!
7:57 pm I bet!  Warm?
7:58 pm Phil:  Cold.  49 breezy.  Gonna sit on the balcony and sip a scotch.
7:58 pm Sally w/ you?
7:59 pm Phil: No., traveling with a staffer.
8:01 pm How long there?
8:03 pm Phil: Couple days.  Meeting with the bigwigs tomorrow, and then a couple other organizations Thursday
8:33 pm Call sometime?  Voice would be a treat….
8:34 pm Seeing your kids?
8:39 pm Phil: Trying
8:41 pm Can you see the water?
8:43 pm Phil: I’m on the water, headed to see friends
8:50 am Oh, you are so lucky!
8:51 pm I wish I was there…
9:56 pm Headed to bed.  Have fun.  Think of me licking you!  🙂
Wednesday, March 9
5:23 am Good morning!  34 and clear.  Hope you have good meetings.
5:23 pm  Hey, kid.  Have fun w/ the bigwigs?   Busy work day for me, heading home for more Indian food.  Hope you have a nice evening.  <3
Thursday, March 10
6:32 am  Phil: Had great fun!  Terrific meeting, fun evening with friends.  More meetings today.  All easy ones. Drinks with my boy then home tomorrow. Good trip!
8:15 am Good morning!  Sweet to hear you so up!  Makes me smile.
9:05 am Off to work.  in tiger print panties.  😉
1:40 pm Feeling way better.  Slow day at work.  Head full of you.  Trying not to pester…but it’s tough.  Memory so strong.  Your mouth… your hands… my body…mmmm.
5:48 pm Phil: Having drinks with old friends.  Having a great time!
5:49 pm Awesome.  Headed home…
5:52 pm Did you write that you love me last week?
6:21 pm Home. Curled up with two kitties.  Thinking of your ass.   🙂
6:23 pm Phil: LOL
6:24 pm Phil: Enjoying a quiet evening with friends.
6:37 pm Sorry… shouldn’t bug you, just revved up, wicked hot for you.  Will try to behave.  Would rather fuck you silly.  Oops.  Enjoy yourself…
6:49 pm Phil:  Ha ha ha!  Horny wench!  I love it.   🙂
8:22 pm Damn it.  How can I keep from saying I want your cock buried in my tight hot hole?  I’ll wench you and raise you two long French kisses!
8:23 pm Phil: Which tight hot hole?
8:29 pm Hat trick, buddy.
8:30 pm Phil: Oh ho ho, bend over and take that cock.
8:49 pm So deep, so hard, so hot… wet… mmmm.,. burning like a frickin volcano.  You are torturing me… Don’t stop… pound.  Stone man.  In my bed.  naked.now. ummm.
8:51 pm Phil: No – pound that pussy, fuck me hard baby, give me that cock – is what I think you meant to say
8:59 pm Argh… Philip… Please… repeat first minutes alone…. Kiss…. Suck nipple and tug. Suck me until I explode then fingers then back door furious fuck and you…
9:00 pm Phil: ummm… sounds like fun.   🙂
9:08 pm Yup… Fun.  What are you drinking? 
9:11 am Phil: Beer.  Heading down to see my boy!
9:12 pm Busy night.
9:13 pm Fun night
9:21 pm Feels like home, still?
9:27 pm Crap.  Cats been texting you.  Eep.  They’re way better typists than me…
10:27 pm Phil:  It is home.   🙂  🙂  🙂
10:35 pm Sweet.  Raining.
10:39 pm Still want you… Again,.  Yet.  Hmmm.. How can that be?  One track mind tonight… and quite a sexy track it is.  Feeling sooo naughty.  Crazy…
10:48 pm Where are you now?
10:49 pm Phil: [another] bar
10:54 pm Great web site… drool
10:54 pm eating?
11:02 pm Phil: Drinking
11:02 pm Phil: Heading to [another bar and restaurant]
11:18 pm Geez… Your getting around.  They have paella!
11:19 pm find your son?  He ok?
11:40 pm Phil: Oh yeah and it’s awesome!  Fish Tacos!  Yum!
11:40 pm Margarita?
11:41 pm Phil: But of course!
11:45 pm I’ve never had a fish taco.  Have to go find one here.  Hard or soft taco?
11:54 pm Phil: soft, only way
11:59 pm Good to know.  Online reviews gush about them!
11:59 pm Just found a local pub that makes paella and pours Glenmorangie… heh.
12:07 am Found fish tacos, new place near Fenway – adding it to my list.
12:25 am Still rather eat you…
12:26 am Phil: LOL
12:32 am Just saw a recipe for pina colada body paint… Thinking about the fun you could make that… 

12:34 am Phil: I like pina coladas and your body
12:35 am probably not as sweet as your juice. 
12:42 am Absolutely not
[switched to FB chat very briefly – adding here for continuity]
12:45am Phil: to bed. Up at 5.  Goodnight

12:46am Good night, sweet man. 
Fuck me quick before you go?
Insatiable… that’s me tonight.
Can’t get you out of my head…
But sleep now… I’ll get over it somehow…
thanks for taking me with you around the beach bars tonight. Great fun. 
Friday, March 11
7:46 am Good morning.  43, fog.  Forecast says downpours.  Maybe the last of the snow piles will go!  Hope you have safe travel and good Friday!
7:53 am Phil: Gorgeous here!  Gonna be 75 here.  25 at home. Yippee
7:56 am You hearing Japan earthquake/tsunami news?
8:16 am Phil: Yea, wow.
8:17 am Ever felt a quake?  I did in CA… bizarre.
8:19 pm Phil: Yeah, several in CA.  A little freaky
2:50 am Lunch out at Border Café.  Couldn’t eat but had a great talk w/ minister lady I hadn’t seen in years.  Hope you made it back easily!
2:52 pm Phil:  Back and working, having a blast!
5:33 pm Wow..I’m constantly amazed how much you can do on so little sleep!  I’m home, prepping for project meeting.

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The Love Chat

Chat 3/5/11
The evening of my Dad’s memorial service
11: 42 pm Hi.  
I’m doing fine 
Very mellow…
You?
11:42pm Phil Good
11:42pm Went really well today. 
Just the way I wanted.
11:42pm Phil I am glad
Thought it would
11:43pm  Lots of home town people
11:43pm Phil  That’s very Cool
He was there a Long time
11:43pm Two of sis’s best friends – [names], and their mother. 
[more names]
11:43pm Phil Impacted a lot of people
11:43pm  [more names] drove down from Maine
11:44pm Phil I’m glad
11:44pm [more names]
11:45pm Phil Lot of family names I remember
11:45pm  almost 200 people!  And we managed to keep it upbeat
11:45pm Phil  Awesome!  That’s the way to do it
11:45pm sang “I’ve got that joy, joy, joy, joy down in my heart” and got us all in it
11:45pm Phil  He was upbeat
11:46pm  My mom spoke, and so did sis, and the [two names]
11:46pm Phil Good choice
11:47pm  I will send the program and slideshow when I get the electronic versions… if you want to look
11:47pm  Phil I’d love to see them
11:47pm Thank you for letting me go on about it…
Emo day, you know
11:48pm Phil I enjoyed hearing about it
I know
11:49pm People came from my work, and the project, and my church, managed to sit with each group at a table for awhile…
11:49pm Phil That’s a nice thing. Nice that people care
11:50pm Soloist sang ‘The Old Rugged Cross made the difference” that anthem Dad would sing a lot
11:51pm Phil  Love that hymn. Powerful
11:51pm That was the only time I lost it a bit
11:52pm Phil Good to cry
11:52pm Yup.
11:52pm Phil  Not good to hold it all in
11:52pm  Very true.
I love you.
11:54pm Phil Why thank you. Love you too Sass.


I am going to carry myself to the shower and into bed. I’m beat.
Where did you go?
11:56pm Sure.  Thanks for listening.
Just worrying… wondering if I should’ve let that out…
11:58pm Phil  I’ll always listen
11:58pm I want it to be a gift… not a burden…you know.
11:58pm Phil I am one person you need not worry about
I see it that way
11:59pm Phew
I think you knew mostly anyway, right?
11:59pm  Phil I knew, always did
11:59pm from the way I react when you touch me, and the way I touch you.
I tried not to…
12:00am Phil You have no control over that
12:01am You are just so… lovable! 

12:01am Phil  Now naked, need a shower, thinking about you touching me
12:02am  Oh, man… what an image
12:02am Phil Makes certain parts stand up
12:02am  I want to touch you… suck you…
12:03am Phil I love that
12:03am  hear you moan…press a finger inside you..
12:04am Phil  Like your mouth on my cock and balls, wet finger slipping up my ass
12:04am pump you deep into my throat…
12:04am Phil Oh yeah, take my cock deep
12:04am begin to taste the sweetness…
12:04am Phil Suck it
12:05am yes, yes..
12:05am Phil Pre cum flowing
12:05am so hot
so hard
12:05am Phil Ummmm
Feels so good
12:05am remember..
my hands on you… my mouth on you…
trying to show you
how I feel…
trying to make you soar…
12:07am Phil Turn around bend over, let me fuck that tight pussy.
Spreading your ass, lubricating that ass, slipping a finger inside

12:07 am TEXT [photo of his cock] Phil: you did this
12:08am mmmm… oh, man…
12:09am Phil  Pumping that ass in time with the cock in your pussy
12:09am I am so wet…
12:09am Damn that pussy feels good
12:10am I hear the sounds… ringing in my ears…
12:10am Phil  I like it wet. Hear our bodies slap together
12:10am  yes…. pounding..
12:10am Phil Sound of my cock thrusting in and out of you
12:11am clawing the comforter…
12:11am Phil Ass is taking two fingers, all lubricated
Spanking that ass
Pounding my cock deep and hard in that hot pussy
12:12am Clenching..
12:12am Phil Umm, want to fuck that ass
12:13am take me in the shower with you… do it..
12:13am  Phil Ummm, be soaping you up
Washing your ass, pussy, tits
On my knees to inspect
12:14am holy shit..
12:14am Phil Tongue touching your ass
Slipping inside
12:14am mmmm….
12:14am Phil  Fingers in your pussy
12:15am omg…
multiple access points!
12:15am Phil
Tongue in your ass, fingers in your pussy, you can barely stand
Fucking your ass with my tongue
Cock is so hard
Where to put it
12:16am  I am so yours..
12:17am Phil
Pussy or ass?
Mmmmm
Both great
Love to fill that ass with cum
12:17am nice to have a choice, eh?
12:17am Phil Oh yeah
12:18am Please.. please.. do it
12:19am Phil
Liked it when your head was leaning back off the bed while I fucked your mouth. That was hot. So wanted to cum down your throat
12:19am You let out the sweetest moan…
12:19am Phil Felt so good
You were really taking it
12:20am made me feel so…powerful.  To be able to do that for you…
I was pulsing… dripping…
12:21am  Phil That was a good position. I could finger you while you sucked me
My balls were on your nose
You were swallowing my cock so good
12:22am I love it when I ask you what you want and you show me. Oh, man…
12:23am Phil
I love that, loved when you licked and sucked my balls. Your tongue got near my ass, thought I was going to lose it
12:24am  you are so gorgeous there.
12:24am Phil  When you came, your entire body was moving, very cool
12:25am You filled me.. so perfect…fit..
damn it… it’s happening now… looking at that photo… listening to you.. knowing it made you happy…
you drive me WILD!
12:28 am TEXT Phil: [photo of his balls]
12:28am Phil
Ummm, cool, cum baby, cum for me
Shove your finger up my ass and suck those balls in the pic
12:29am Sucking.. stroking…
12:29am Phil Umm damn
12:30am pumping you…
squeezing… pulling just a bit…
pressing…
12:30am Phil  Umm yea, fuck my ass with that finger
12:31am in… out… up
12:31am Phil  Pre cum flowing down my cock
12:31am oh, god… I want to taste it so bad…
put it my mouth…
let me…
let go…
I want it all…
Wow… that is so hot!
12:33am Phil  Cool
Glad you enjoyed

12:34 am TEXT [photo of his dick with pre-cum bubble]
Phil: lick it up

12:35 am TEXT Phil: [photo of his ass]
12:35am ASSSS!
12:35am Phil Uh huh
12:36am  Gonna put my tongue all the way down that line and inside you…
12:36am Phil You never return the favor – send a photo!
Oh hell yeah
Lick that ass
Love it
12:37am Feel it, twisting up inside
I mean to… I want to send something.  
You make me want to go places on your body and do it ALL!
Until you can’t hold back any more…
until you EXPLODE!
YES!

12:40 am TEXT [ another ass photo, spread] Phil: Right there
12:41am Phil Uh yeah, want to cum in your mouth
12:41am Damn, your ass is so beautiful…
12:41am Phil In your ass, on your face, on your tits, in your pussy
12:41am Do it.. feel me swallow all around you… once, twice… more…
spray me, kid… fill me…
12:42am Phil Oh damn, cumming, damn
Uhh yea
12:43am Sucking all that juice..
12:43am Phil
Stick that phone down there and snap a pic of that wet pussy
Would love to see that
Mmmmmm, lick it up
Wow
Guess not, that’s ok. Came buckets
Now I need a shower
Hope you got off too
Hope you had fingers buried in your pussy
That’s what I imagine anyway
12:49am  Tricky… husband sitting right next to me…
12:50am Phil
Gonna go soap up my cock and balls
Tell him to take the pic
12:50am Tried…
HA!
I am completely smooth…
12:51am Phil He should have been on his knees eating your pussy and ass
12:51am rather shocking to see
12:51am Phil  Oh fuck, I’d love to see that
12:51am I am almost to the point where letting him seems wrong to me… 
that it’s not you…
kind of freaky..
let me try again for a photo… hang on…
12:52am Phil Does not sound like he would anyway
12:52am Nope…
It’s all yours…
12:53am Phil Ah well
Take the pic in front of him
Does not sound like he cares
I need to shower and get to bed. Gotta work tomorrow

12:54 am [I sent a photo of my slit, with cum spurting out]

12:55am  What looks like a string is… cum.
odd angle but something…
12:56am Phil
Damn girl! Look at those pussy lips 
looks good and wet
Hold the camera down
I knew what it was
Fuck that’s hot
Needs a cock stuffed in it
You are such a naughty girl. I love it!
Cool image to go to sleep to. Off to the shower
So glad we got off together!
1:00 am TEXT Phil: [he sent a photo of his butt]
1:01 am TEXT Phil: [and another]
1:05 am TEXT [I sent a shot of my smooth hairless slit]
1:07 am TEXT Phil: Oh yeah!  Great pussy shot!
1:09 am TEXT Not a glamour shot.  But real….
1:09 am TEXT Phil: [he sent a photo looking down his front as he stepped into the shower]
1:10 am TEXT Phil: [sent another shot of his back side, stepping into the shower]
1:10 am TEXT oh. My… want to grab that so BAD!!
1:13 am TEXT Phil: lol
1:17 am TEXT Your shoulders… Mmmm…
1:31 am TEXT Good night… very, very good. Thanks, kid.

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Remembering my dad

March 2011
texts
Note: times show up in my time zone, but his are actually an hour earlier (Central time)
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
7:53 am Good morning!  My kitty is helping me get ready.  He’s a goof, loves to lie on his back and wave his feet until I pet his tummy.  Have a terrific Tuesday!
7:57 am Phil: I do that too except it’s not my tummy I want rubbed.  J  Have a great day!
7:58 pm Hey, kid.  Good day?  Work was wicked busy – I earned my pay today!  Prepping tax papers for accountant now.  Ick.
10:54 pm Done w/ taxes.  Yay!  Wondering how you and Sally are getting along living together full-time… hoping it’s better than you thought.
11:41 pm Phil: Better than I thought.  Still a work in progress.  She is really working hard at it which is a first.
11:59 pm Oh, that’s great!  Hubby is being awful.  Not interested in me at all, propositioned two different women at the last party, doing zilch around here.  Sigh.
12:07 am On that cheery note, I’ll say good night.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Wednesday, March 2
5:55 am Phil: That sucks.  He just does not recognize what he has.  Men can be such dumb asses!  Off to work.  Up at 4 am.  Yuck
7:51 am Good morning!  34 and sun, lovely,  Two kitties w/me – that’s a first.  What got you up at “ridiculous o’clock?”  Hope it goes well!
7:59 am Phil: Seeing what the folks do first thing in the morning.  Showing my smiling face.  Its invigorating to see all that activity first thing in the morning!
8:12 am Stepped on the scale – down 25 pounds!  Woot!
8:15 am Phil:  Awesome!  Good for you!
11:36 am How’s your weight doing?  I’d love to lose until I weight less than you some day… but I had to bat men away in droves last time that was tue, so maybe not.  J
1:50 pm Phil: Ah, just buy a big stick.  My weight is the same.  I’d like to be 30 lbs lighter and I tend to do that in the warmer weather with longer days.  I like 20 mile bike rides and it really burns off the weight. 
5:12 pm Big stick?  Reminds me of something else… Great that you haven’t gained, w/ winter and stress and home cooking.   
5:40 pm Sorry I unloaded on you re: H.  I talked to him and he did a bunch of chores, so hope for better.
6:19 pm Phil: No problem.  Unload anytime you desire.  Glad to hear he is doing better
11:40 pm Got so much done tonight, great feeling!  Clean sheets.  Clean clothes.  Car detailed.  Kitchen clean.  Groceries.  Whee!
11:58 pm Thank you very much for the tribute to my dad you posted online!  Amazing words.  I appreciate it more than I can say.  Cried.  Needed to.  You are the nicest man.  Sleep well.
Thursday, March 3
7:39 am Good morning!  Cold again, 12 brr.  Off to eat a big breakfast at Kelly’s Diner with a pal, then chemo #3.  Have a great Thursday, Philip!
7:45 pm Phil: Nice day here.  Going on a beer and wine tour Saturday!  I can’t wait.  Sounds like a blast.  Have a great day!
3:24 pm Home from chemo.  Went well.
7:24 pm Feeling better than I did after the other rounds.  Must be the chocolate ice cream my pal made me eat to keep from my mouth from getting sore!  I’m not big on dessert but it tasted good today.  How’re you doing? 
7:26 pm  Phil: Good.  Doing very well.  Finishing my workout and then home for a drink.  Glad to hear it went better!
7:29 pm Waiting on delivery of Indian food, surfing Facebook… staying out of trouble.  [Man’s Name] is coming from Long Island for Dad’s memorial.  Dad got him into college.  Do you remember that family?
7:30 pm Phil:  I do remember them

7:30 pm Phil:  Love Indian food
7:31 pm His dad ran the bar.
7:31 pm shrimp korma.  Garlic naan.  Chicken saag.  Mango lassi.
7:32 pm Phil: Yum.  I like it Vindaloo hot
7:32 pm wasn’t one of his sisters in your class?  
7:34 pm Of course you’d eat vindaloo. I like the taste but it’s one of the few things that’s too hot for me.
7:36 pm ever cook it?  My older sister spent a year awhile back only making Indian food… very odd.
7:36 pm Phil: Love it with good garlic naan
7:38 pm Phil: I try, not as easy as you think.  Easier to find a good place and go there.  I always tell them Indian Hot
7:41 pm  Yum.  Nice people run our Indian restaurant.
7:43 pm Phil: They are nice people.  Brits and Japanese love curry.  They like it hot too.  Ate Indian a lot in both places.
10:41 pm Finally watched NCIS.  Good one.
10:42 pm off to bed.  Sleep well, sweet man.  Wish you could wake me early.
10:55 pm Phil: Nite Sass
Friday, March 4
6:42 am  Good morning!  Sunny, 19.  No office today – back to MGH for bone marrow booster shot then dinner with cousins arriving for the memorial and entire family at sis’s.  Have a fine Friday!
9:17 am Who posts on your work FB – just you or others?  Great quotes.  I read wikepedia about the various positions – wicked cool!
9:23 am Phil: Mostly me.  If it’s from my work FB id, that’s me.  It it’s from the page itself, mostly me but sometimes others.  Thank you. 
12:21 am Easy time getting booster shot.  Didn’t effect me much – just a little tired.  Pizza and spinach/pear/walnut salad with sis and cousins.  She got German choc cake for Hubby’s birthday, surprised him.  Cousins are a hoot!
12:40 am I long for you something fierce.  Why does it hit me so hard tonight?  Maybe talk of our home town – 2 car loads of them coming over tomorrow.  I have our first kiss at camp on my mind… memorable and electric you said.  Mmm… powder.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Saturday, March 5
8:21 am Good morning!  40 and rain. Trying to focus on honoring dad.  Service at 11 am, collation.  Praying it all goes well.  Have a grand time with beer tour.  I toured the brewery there in ’81, wicked cool.
8:27 pm Phil: You will do fine.  You had a special relationship.  Remember those times and it will flow.  Nice that home town crowd is coming.  I’m proud of them.  I know you will do fine.
8:31 am I dreamed you drove me to camp.  Right before you left town.  And the nurse’s cabin was open.  And we… spent a long time there.  May have to write that up.
8:39 am My sis made an amazing slideshow, I hope to get it online.  It got us all remembering.  I am pretty calm, focusing on helping Mom.  Thank you.
9:11 am Phil: love to see that
3:43 pm Done.  Memorial went really well.  Home w/ Chinese take-out.  How’s the tour?
3:47 pm Phil: [He sent me a photo of a restaurant – Mader’s in Milwaukee. ]
3:56 pm Beer?  Bratwurst?
4:05 pm Phil: Glad to hear!  All of the above!
4:12 pm Are you mellow?
4:41 pm Phil: Oh, yeah, fun day
5:59 pm Phil: Maeders is amazing – Old style German!  Very cool.  Hope your day was OK and honored your Dad like you want it to
7:27 pm Home?  I’m headed out for Mexican with the cousins
8:05 pm Phil: Just got there
8:42 pm You would’ve loved my dinner – seared scallops with creamy bacon mushroom sauce. 
8:43 pm Buy any beer?  Or wine?
8:46 pm Phil:  Oh wow!  Sounds fabulous.  I had a brat in a pretzel roll with sauerkraut and onions with cheese curds.  Bought some beer and cheese.
8:48 pm Mmm… cheese curds.  Brats.  Beer.  You must’ve been in heaven!
8:50 pm Phil: oh yeah J
8:50 pm Waiting on dessert…
[sent him the photo of Churros and ice cream with choc sauce]
9:21 pm Headed home at last. 
9:25 pm Phil: Oh yeah!
10:15 pm Finally home.
11:15 pm Did you conk out?
11:37 pm Phil: Nah, winding down.
11:38 pm Chat or is that impossible?
11:40 pm Phil:  For a minute
11:41 pm How you doing?
[We switched to Facebook- see the Love Chat post]

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February Part 3 Dad’s last day

Thursday, February 24
5:14 pm Hey, kid.  Had greek lunch… including galaktoboureko for dessert!  That sweet creamy custard tasted so good!
5:29 pm  Saw dad, in a coma now.  Sang “Amazing Grace” to him anyway.  Sigh. 
6:02 pm Phil:  You know, he can hear you.  He knows you are there and it warms his heart.  Keep singing and talking to him.  This is so hard.  We’re at the age where this happens.  Glad you enjoyed a good lunch.  Been another late busy day here.  I’m gonna go work out and then finish off the pile on my desk.
6:45 pm Thought there would be drama at the end, but he is peaceful…. Good to see.  Off to event #8! 
11:02 pm  Event done – great audience, laughed at everything!  So fun!  Hope your papers got done easily.  Headed home.  Sleep well, kid.
11:24 pm Phil:  Nite, glad it went well
11:43 pm Oh, kid.  I am so revved up!  Maybe good you weren’t within reach… I would burn us both up.  😉
Friday, February 25
9:02 am My dad died half an hour ago.  Mom called me. Headed to be w/ her.
9:05 am Phil: I’m so sorry Sassy.  I’ve thought of him often.  My memories of him are fond ones.  I’m sure anyone who knew him thinks of him that way.  He earned his place in heaven.  Prayers for your Mom, you and your sisters during this hard time.
11:11 am Thank you, Philip.  You say such perfect words.  I am so glad you found me.  Sorry my life is so strange right now, but you make a big difference.
11:21 am Phil: Life is a strange thing, it’s how you deal with and manage the strangeness that counts.  Take care of your Mom.

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From: Sassy Girl
Subject: Obituary 
Date: February 25, 2011 2:52:21 AM EST
To: Phil

I wrote the obit.  See below.  Came together well.  Family liked it.  
Tell me a story you recall about my dad?  in a reflective mood.  Wondering what people remember. 
-B
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From: Phil
Subject: Re: Obituary
Date: February 25, 2011 7:18:33 PM EST
To: Sassy Girl 

Thank you. I appreciate this.  Learned things I didn’t know! 

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7:48 pm Got a lot done.  Kept Mom and older sister from fighting.  J  Now on to event #9 and hugs.  Hope your weekend is off to a good start.
1:00 am Phil: Good.  Wandering around the bar keeping the junior staff from misbehaving
1:05 pm Wow.  You’re up late.  Just got in, went out w/ peeps for Mexican.
1:07 am The idea of you chaperoning is… different.
2:12 am Phil: It’s a little weird for me too.
2:12 am Phil: Snowing again.
2:34 am  Why are you still awake?  J
2:37 am We got the whole range today – 50 with monsoon rain, sleet, then huge snowflakes as we drove this evening. Typical New Enlgand wait 10 min and its changes.
2:28 am I’ve been talking to sis, in travel nightmare trying to get home early from CA.  The incoming plane missed curfew, landed 3 hours away, so they’re busing the entire plane load up there to board the red eye… and the bus got hit by a drunk driver!  Been a very odd day for her all around.
3:01 am Bed for me… Sleep well, sweet man.  Thanks for all your support!  I’ll never forget your threads in the tapestry of this day.  Even if they are green.  J

Saturday, February 26
7:38 pm Company arrived at 5 pm, quick Thai soup.  Last event then party.  Whee!  Hope you found your way home from scenic WI.
11:06 pm All done!  Great audience.  People got all goofy – laughed so hard!  Man, I adore these people.
12:13 am Phil: Awesome, glad it went well.  Night
12:15 am Any chance you could call me?  
2:27 am Finally home… partied – pulled pork!  Drove home in a gentle snow.  Nite, kid.
Sunday, February 27
From: Sassy Girl

Subject: Re: Obituary
Date: February 27, 2011 10:26:12 AM EST
To: Phil
Hiya, kid.
I know it’s probably impossible, but if you want to come for Dad’s memorial service, you would be welcome.  I was spinning schemes in my head of your flying into Boston late Friday, going with us to honor him on Saturday, then me driving you to see your dad and bringing you back to fly out Sunday.  
Just pat me on the head and smile at the crazy ideas I get.  🙂
 -S

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3:43 pm  Busy – brunch w/ a friend here from out of state, and now helping at mom’s.  Hope you’re having a good one!
10:14 pm Hey, kid.  How goes?  Great family time, met w/sis’s UU minister, then Chinese supper.  Yum.
11:08 pm Phil: Had a relaxing day.  Long walk with the dogs.  Watched the race, great service at the chapel, went to a movie and cooked ribeyes for supper.  Topped off with a nice scotch.  Not a bad day.
11:11 pm  Yay!  Sounds like fun.  What race?
Monday, February 28
6:08 am Good morning  Rain 40’s today.  I’m off to work.  Have a good Monday!
1:18 pm Phil: Good morning!  Solid ice here.  Cold and nasty.  Have a good day.  Hoping for an easy week.
9:59 pm Quiet day at last.  Wrote my dad’s memorial service.  You doing ok?
11:07 pm Phil: I’m ok.  More worried about you.  Good day at work.
11:08 pm I don’t mean to worry you…
11:10 pm Phil:  I know, a lot on your plate.  Take care of you.  You take care of everyone else.
11:14 pm I’m ok.  Wishing I could mess w/ you, but otherwise rolling along.
11:14 pm Phil:  Glad to hear that.
11:16 pm Should I not say that? 
11:35 pm Phil:  Oh why the hell not.  What you need is a hard cock pounding into that hot pussy til you explode, hot com spurting deep inside you.  That would ease your mind.
11:38 pm Phil:  Sorry, should not say things like that.
11:38 pm I wish you’d say them every night…
11:39 pm and some mornings.
11:39 pm Damn you make me so wet!
11:40 pm Phil: Ah, well good.  Off to bed with me.  Slip your fingers into that wet pussy and enjoy!
11:41 pm Thanks, kid.  Sleep well.
by

February Part 3 Dad's last day

Thursday, February 24
5:14 pm Hey, kid.  Had greek lunch… including galaktoboureko for dessert!  That sweet creamy custard tasted so good!
5:29 pm  Saw dad, in a coma now.  Sang “Amazing Grace” to him anyway.  Sigh. 
6:02 pm Phil:  You know, he can hear you.  He knows you are there and it warms his heart.  Keep singing and talking to him.  This is so hard.  We’re at the age where this happens.  Glad you enjoyed a good lunch.  Been another late busy day here.  I’m gonna go work out and then finish off the pile on my desk.
6:45 pm Thought there would be drama at the end, but he is peaceful…. Good to see.  Off to event #8! 
11:02 pm  Event done – great audience, laughed at everything!  So fun!  Hope your papers got done easily.  Headed home.  Sleep well, kid.
11:24 pm Phil:  Nite, glad it went well
11:43 pm Oh, kid.  I am so revved up!  Maybe good you weren’t within reach… I would burn us both up.  😉
Friday, February 25
9:02 am My dad died half an hour ago.  Mom called me. Headed to be w/ her.
9:05 am Phil: I’m so sorry Sassy.  I’ve thought of him often.  My memories of him are fond ones.  I’m sure anyone who knew him thinks of him that way.  He earned his place in heaven.  Prayers for your Mom, you and your sisters during this hard time.
11:11 am Thank you, Philip.  You say such perfect words.  I am so glad you found me.  Sorry my life is so strange right now, but you make a big difference.
11:21 am Phil: Life is a strange thing, it’s how you deal with and manage the strangeness that counts.  Take care of your Mom.

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From: Sassy Girl
Subject: Obituary 
Date: February 25, 2011 2:52:21 AM EST
To: Phil

I wrote the obit.  See below.  Came together well.  Family liked it.  
Tell me a story you recall about my dad?  in a reflective mood.  Wondering what people remember. 
-B
================

From: Phil
Subject: Re: Obituary
Date: February 25, 2011 7:18:33 PM EST
To: Sassy Girl 

Thank you. I appreciate this.  Learned things I didn’t know! 

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7:48 pm Got a lot done.  Kept Mom and older sister from fighting.  J  Now on to event #9 and hugs.  Hope your weekend is off to a good start.
1:00 am Phil: Good.  Wandering around the bar keeping the junior staff from misbehaving
1:05 pm Wow.  You’re up late.  Just got in, went out w/ peeps for Mexican.
1:07 am The idea of you chaperoning is… different.
2:12 am Phil: It’s a little weird for me too.
2:12 am Phil: Snowing again.
2:34 am  Why are you still awake?  J
2:37 am We got the whole range today – 50 with monsoon rain, sleet, then huge snowflakes as we drove this evening. Typical New Enlgand wait 10 min and its changes.
2:28 am I’ve been talking to sis, in travel nightmare trying to get home early from CA.  The incoming plane missed curfew, landed 3 hours away, so they’re busing the entire plane load up there to board the red eye… and the bus got hit by a drunk driver!  Been a very odd day for her all around.
3:01 am Bed for me… Sleep well, sweet man.  Thanks for all your support!  I’ll never forget your threads in the tapestry of this day.  Even if they are green.  J

Saturday, February 26
7:38 pm Company arrived at 5 pm, quick Thai soup.  Last event then party.  Whee!  Hope you found your way home from scenic WI.
11:06 pm All done!  Great audience.  People got all goofy – laughed so hard!  Man, I adore these people.
12:13 am Phil: Awesome, glad it went well.  Night
12:15 am Any chance you could call me?  
2:27 am Finally home… partied – pulled pork!  Drove home in a gentle snow.  Nite, kid.
Sunday, February 27
From: Sassy Girl

Subject: Re: Obituary
Date: February 27, 2011 10:26:12 AM EST
To: Phil
Hiya, kid.
I know it’s probably impossible, but if you want to come for Dad’s memorial service, you would be welcome.  I was spinning schemes in my head of your flying into Boston late Friday, going with us to honor him on Saturday, then me driving you to see your dad and bringing you back to fly out Sunday.  
Just pat me on the head and smile at the crazy ideas I get.  🙂
 -S

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3:43 pm  Busy – brunch w/ a friend here from out of state, and now helping at mom’s.  Hope you’re having a good one!
10:14 pm Hey, kid.  How goes?  Great family time, met w/sis’s UU minister, then Chinese supper.  Yum.
11:08 pm Phil: Had a relaxing day.  Long walk with the dogs.  Watched the race, great service at the chapel, went to a movie and cooked ribeyes for supper.  Topped off with a nice scotch.  Not a bad day.
11:11 pm  Yay!  Sounds like fun.  What race?
Monday, February 28
6:08 am Good morning  Rain 40’s today.  I’m off to work.  Have a good Monday!
1:18 pm Phil: Good morning!  Solid ice here.  Cold and nasty.  Have a good day.  Hoping for an easy week.
9:59 pm Quiet day at last.  Wrote my dad’s memorial service.  You doing ok?
11:07 pm Phil: I’m ok.  More worried about you.  Good day at work.
11:08 pm I don’t mean to worry you…
11:10 pm Phil:  I know, a lot on your plate.  Take
care of you.  You take care of everyone else.
11:14 pm I’m ok.  Wishing I could mess w/ you, but otherwise rolling along.
11:14 pm Phil:  Glad to hear that.
11:16 pm Should I not say that? 
11:35 pm Phil:  Oh why the hell not.  What you need is a hard cock pounding into that hot pussy til you explode, hot com spurting deep inside you.  That would ease your mind.
11:38 pm Phil:  Sorry, should not say things like that.
11:38 pm I wish you’d say them every night…
11:39 pm and some mornings.
11:39 pm Damn you make me so wet!
11:40 pm Phil: Ah, well good.  Off to bed with me.  Slip your fingers into that wet pussy and enjoy!
11:41 pm Thanks, kid.  Sleep well.
by

February Part 2 Hairless

Tuesday, February 15
7:41 am Phil: Woooooo!  Another busy ass day!  Have a great one.  That Korean seafood pancake sounds awesome.
7:58 am Morning!
8:05 am cold here again.  20’s.  Stayed up late working out the next 4 weeks publicity for 5 events, try to get each out there but not overdo.  Shared a google spreadsheet w/sis – great way to collaborate! 
8:15 am Today is my last day with hair for awhile.  Shave tomorrow.  There will be photos.  Trying to look on the bright side.  Bought a Red Sox wool hat!
8:34 am Phil:  It will grow back.  Ugly ass hat though
8:35 am Brat.  ;-P
4:16 pm Would you wear an MIT t-shirt?  Noticed a sale.  Can they mail to your office?
4:18 pm Phil: Sure
4:18 pm Phil: I won’t wear a Boston Red Sox shirt
4:19 pm Give me a little credit.  Brat.
4:43 pm The entire baseball season is going to be like this, isn’t it?  Bring it!
9:47 pm  Quiet evening, Chinese leftovers and laundry.  Off to watch NCIS and Westminster Dog Show!  Puppies!
10:12 pm Phil: Still working.  Working dinner with the bigwigs and now catching up on Admin.  Good thing I like my work. 🙂
10:35 pm  Yikes.
10:35 pm Time for Best in Show!  Doggies!
10:57 pm The Scottish deerhound named Hickory won!  First time for that breed.  Looks like a furry greyhound. 
12:01 am I hope you’re home now.  If not, call me. 🙂 Sleep well, sweet man.
Wednesday, February 16
7:24 am Phil:  Walked in the house at 11, back at work at 6 am.  Gonna be a long one today.  Was asked last night to go to Florida later this spring for a week.  Geez. Good thing I’ve got energizer batteries!  Good luck today.  That’s still an ugly ass hat. 🙂
8:07 am Dude!  Florida!
5:28 pm My long hair is gone.  🙁  Here’s the new do [Photo of me in the long brown wig].

7:02 pm Was brave, went out to dinner in the wig, yummy shrimp etouffee, okra and hush puppies!  Hope you survived the busy day.
9:46 pm Phil: You look Awesome!
9:48 pm Thanks.  You’re sweet.
9:53 pm  Good day?
10:00 pm Phil:  Yeah busy but awesome.
10:54 pm Thanks for making me laugh and being there today.  Made a big difference.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Thursday, February 17
7:26 am Phil: Thank you.  Have a great day today.  Weekend can’t come soon enough.
7:56 am Good morning!  Warm, going to 50!  Off to work, then Chemo #2 at 2:30 pm w/ mom.  Whee.  Have a tiptop day!
8:38 am  Phil: Good luck girl.  Kinda warm for an ugly wool hat though
8:42 am Hee!  Rockin the wig today!
1:47 pm Sitting outside at work, waiting for my ride, feels like Spring! 
2:08 pm Phil: Warm here too!  Snow is gone!  I love it.
6:31 pm Home.  Feeling fine.  Nurse said if I did well first round, should continue that way.  Hope so.  Have a good evening.
6:40 pm Phil:  If you start feeling sick to your stomach, it’s the hat.:) would make me sick too
6:42 pm Brat. 🙂
6:45 pm Fyi – I spent most of chemo thinking about you.  In my kitchen… Mmmm.  😉
6:47 pm Phil: Ha ha, gotta keep your mind off it some how.  🙂
6:47 pm Only this time, I did drop to the floor and do it right.:)
6:49 pm Phil: Ah, now that sounds like fun.  🙂
6:52 pm In my mind, you liked it a lot. Produced… a reaction.

6:52 pm Phil: That would be a mouthful of cum.  😀
6:53 pm Sweet. 🙂
6:54 pm then there was a very interesting shower….
7:07 pm Made the hospital time fly by.
7:18 pm Phil: Glad I could help!
7:20 pm Do men (you) think women who are smooth, i.e. no hair down there, are sexy?
7:29 pm Or is that just too odd….
7:39 pm Phil: Absolutely sexy
7:40 pm Phil: It’s very sexy.  Most guys like to see the pussy
7:43 pm  Well, let’s just say that head hair is not the only hair that falls out during chemo. 🙂 Hope that heats up some fantasies.
7:43 pm Phil: Ha ha
7:45 pm Not that you have time for such things….
7:47 pm Sorry if that was TMI.  I blame it on the drugs.  Yes, that’s it.  The drugs makes me less civilized.
11:11 pm Off to bed.  Feeling fine.  So odd after all the warnings.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Friday, February 18
9:20 am Good morning!  Warm, might hit 60!  Off to work , then event, then party.  Whee!  Have a fab Friday, Kid.
3:17 pm Working right along since I got here… Can’t believe how good I feel.  Psyched for the after party.  Meetings done?  Googled and found good press.  Good quote from you.
4:26 pm Phil: Yeah yeah.  Enjoy.  Had a good day but it’s been a long one already.  Have fun!
4:49 pm Is Monday a holiday for you?  We got out early, now at sushi place.
6:47 pm At the event!  So wish you were here… have a great evening!  [posted a photo on FB]
6:52 pm Phil: Wig looks great on you!  Love the party outfit.
6:55 pm Aww, thank you kind sir.
1:06 am Finally home – amazing evening!  Great party!  Crashing now.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Saturday, February 19
8:16 am Good morning!  37 and staying there.  Can you have a quiet day?  Hope it’s fun.
8:49 am I go back to MGH for qwik bone marrow booster shot, then take Hubby to eye doc and new glasses shop.  Whee.
12:05 pm Phil:  had espresso, walked the dogs, going to do a wine walk.  Enjoying a slow quiet day.  Kinda nice.  Loved the party photos!  Some pretty fabulous bazoombas there. 🙂 Have a great day!
2:48 pm Home again.  Easy shot, then yummy burrito and guac at gas station Mexican shop, 2 hrs waiting at eye place.  Ick.  Ooh… wine walk sounds so you.  Bazoombas hee!
3:50 pm Phil: Having a ball.  31 shops to explore, all serving free wine.  What a blast!
4:08 pm Photos?  Nap time.  Sending you a story link.  If you feel inspired to add to it, go ahead.  If not, no worries.   Only you and I have access.
5:33 pm Phil: Oh cool!  This is fun.  What a hoot.  Hundreds of winos staggering around. 🙂
8:09 pm Event #6 about to start, full house!  Hope you’re having a great evening!
9:42 pm Fun chat with project alums.  Buy any vino?
10:04 pm Phil: Drank a bunch
10:54 pm Event #6 is done!  Very smooth.  Too sleepy to party… dropping off the gang and heading home to my computer. 🙂
11:34 pm Home at last.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Sunday, February 20
3:01 pm Event #7 starting…. Hope you’re having a nice day.
4:31 pm Phil: Watching the race.  Nice slow day.
6:24 pm Race? Event #7 is done.  Off to TgiFriday’s for steak.
6:45 pm Phil: Daytona 500.  The race.  Enjoy deener.
7:29 pm went for mozz sticks, ribs, petite sirloin, mashed potato, sweet potato fries.  Oh, and peanut butter choc pie… Yum.  So much for not being able to eat during chemo!
8:38 pm Home at last.  So glad I don’t have to work tomorrow.
8:50 pm Heaven help me… I want to switch places w/ that dog… 🙂
 [Phil posted a photo to FB with his dog on his lap)
10:27 pm Bushed.  Bed now.  Sweet dreams.
12:58 am Phil: Nite
Monday, February 21
5:15 am Woke up laughing… funny dream.  Light snow. 25.  Good morning to you. Happy Prez Day!
11:56 am Being decadent… had breakfast delivered!  Hash, poached eggs, toast, fruit salad, home fries and Bacon!  Hope your day is great!
4:57 pm Productive day around the condo, lots of cleaning.  Dad’s in bad shape – spent 45 minutes talking funeral/burial with Mom.  How’s your dad?  Did he get home? 
8:37 pm talked to sis – she’s boarding a flight in California!  Wish I was there. 🙂 waiting on Chinese, mouth sore, need soup.  Hope your day was good!
10:30 pm I want you
10:32 pm but I’ll just smile quietly and say good night, sweet man.  😀
10:39 pm Unless you ask for more…
11:28 pm Phil: Hey, Dad is back in the hospital.  Should be in rehab later this week.  So sad about your dad, I’ll remember him in my prayers.  I’m beat and off to bed.  Night.
Tuesday, February 22
7:51 am Good morning!  Clear and cold, 12!  Brrr.  Back to work.  Have a super Tuesday! 
8:07 am Phil: Snowing here!  It’s gorgeous!  Have a great day!
3:36 pm one of THOSE days… feel like crap, no brain, mom needs me at the cemetery, leaving work early, dad off all meds except morphine.  Hope it won’t be long now.  Eep.  Hope your day is better
10:08 pm Very strange NCIS…
11:32 pm Had thai soup, satay – ultimate comfort food!  Feeling a little better.  Sleep well.  <3.
11:43 pm Phil:  Good nite.  Got my MIT shirt! Thankyou.  Still praying for your dad.  Been through this and know how hard and miserable it is. 
11:51 pm You are so good to me… Thank you kid.
11:53 pm Phil:  Love the Beaver mascot.  🙂
11:54 pm Heh.  Nature’s engineer.  And a sly reference to um… You know.
11:55 pm Phil: Yea, I know. 😉
11:57 pm I didn’t think anything could make me giggle tonight but you manage to… Heh.
Wednesday, February 23
6:01 am Good morning!  Have a wicked good Wednesday!
6:07 pm Done w/ the funeral home.  Easy.  Good people.  Out for dinner – getting schrod.
10:26 pm Worn out.  Chemo yuck.  Going to get lost in a memory of an October night in D.C.… sleep well, sweet man.
10:27 pm  Phil: Goodnite.

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February Part 1 Valentine’s

February 2011
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Note: times show up in my time zone, but his are actually an hour earlier (Central time)
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
7:53 am Good morning!  20 and flurries here.  Can’t find the cats.  Hope there is good in your day.
7:59 am Phil: There is good in every day! 🙂 lot to do today, decisions to be made based on the storm of the century.  Hoo Ya!  Have a great one.
10:50 pm Hiya, kid.  Buried in white stuff?  In between storms here.  SnOMG.  Busy project night – prepped for monthly meeting on Sunday.  Still no sign of kitties.  Sleep well.
Wednesday, February 2
9:08 am  Good morning!  34 here, sleet.  Ick.  Working from home – my employer thinks I’m non-essential!  Happy Groundhog Day!
7:46 pm Worst over?  Great fb photos of snow.  Very quiet here.  Trying not to think about starting chemo tomorrow.  Watched NCIS.  Odd one.  Hope you have a good evening.
7:55 pm Phil: Yeah, still clearing the roads and parking lots.  It will be fine.  You find the kitties?

10:51 pm ABC news based their national storm coverage on your area, looked awful.  Cats finally graced us with their furry faces 45 min ago!  Still can’t tell them apart!
11:28 pm Finally stopped precip.  Good work today – folks saying nice things about you on fb!  Sleep well, sweet man.
12:35 am Phil:  All lies. 🙂
Thursday, February 3
6:52 am Good morning!  20 and clouds, so thankful for a no-drama weather day!  Stay warm kid.
7:03 am Busy – cleaners coming in at 8 am, work 9-11 am, wig fitting 11:45 am and chemo at 12:30 pm!  Whee!  Feels like walking the plank – will I drown?  Float?  Or swim?  Got my flippers on and my sister with me.  Hoping for the best. 

8:13 am Phil: You will swim just fine. 🙂

5:44 pm Home.  Feel fine so far.  Hope you had a fun day.  Can see kitty! 🙂
10:06 pm Hope you have a nice evening.  Thanks for your support today.  Heading to bed early.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Friday, February 4
7:46 am Good morning!  16 and sunny here.  I feel fine, going to work.  Hope you have a fabulous Friday!
7:48 am Phil: That’s fabulous!  Have a great Friday!  Too many meetings today.  No fun.
7:50 pm Home yet?  Hope your work rolled along.  Having a great dinner out at the Independent Pub.  New chef, odd small plates combos but tasty.  Have a great evening!
8:19 pm  Phil: Having beers with the staff.  Work was good.
8:59 pm Ooh…  Are they cool or stodgy?  Does they like you?
9:19 pm Phil: Cool.
9:36 pm Better than the dc people?
9:39 pm Phil: Oh, yeah
10:06 pm Hooray!
10:43 pm Feeling brave.  Sent you a link to racy Star Trek photos.  Only open when you are alone! 🙂 🙂 Sleep well, sweet man.
12:15 am Phil:  Great evening!  Was a lot of fun.  Toured the areas I wanted to change – was much improved.  Nice to make a difference.
12:16 am Nifty.  Proud of you.
Saturday, February 5
8:11 am Good morning! 27 now, headed to 40 and rain!  Hope it takes snow away.  Have a super Saturday!
10:07 am [photo of Legal Seafoods lobster bisque and clam chowder at Shaw’s] Choices, choices. 🙂
10:47 am Phil: Get them both!
10:57 am Busy day?  Been to MGH for a quick bone marrow booster shot and the grocery already.  Whee!  Still working on kitty naming.
6:10 pm Heading out to pan Asian place again, with my sis and her hubby.  Hope you’re having a relaxing time.
9:44 pm Another incredible dinner!  Wish I could’ve handed you a bite of lobster tempura.
10:11 pm Hey, kid.  Off to bed.  Bus ride stuck in my mind, need to hear that story again, w/more details/ what you’ve added over the years. 🙂 Sleep well, sweet man.
11:55 pm Can’t sleep, head full of memories… Mmmm.
Sunday, February 6
7:47 am Good morning!  37.  Sunny.  Headed to 43… melting!  Have Super duper Super Bowl football day!
8:15 am Phil: Snowing its ass off here!  You too!  Enjoy the game!
8:31 am Busy project day – Monthly mtg, and dinner out.  What game? 😉  Go Packers! 
8:03 pm How’s the game?  I’m at the pan Asian place again with 10 project cronies.  Hope you’re having fun!
8:05 pm Phil: Game is awesome!  Having a blast!
8:05 pm Phil: Enjoy!
10:09 pm Wow!  Packers!
10:10 pm Phil: Whoooooooo!
10:10 pm Phil:  What a game!
10:11 pm dinner was incredible.  Again.  But after 3 times this week, I’m ready for something different!
10:12 pm Did you watch w/ the big gang?
10:12 pm Phil: Yeah, mix of Green Bay and Steelers fans
10:13 pm were the Steelers ever ahead?
10:15 pm Phil: Nope
10: 15 pm hee, hee, hee!  Awesome.
10:21 pm I work three people from WI – tomorrow should be fun at the office.
10:38 pm Phil: Oh, yeah
10:40 pm Wants you again… something about football makes you HOT!  Hotter…:)
10:41 pm Shouldn’t say, but it’s true.
11:46 pm Off to shower and bed.  Wishing, um… you know.  Sleep well, sweet man.
11:53 pm Phil: Nite girl
Monday, February 7
6:11 am Good morning!  30 here, going to 40 – more melting!  Hope your week gets off to a great start!
6:16 am Really revved up this morning.  No clue why.  Wish you were here to wake me up in style. 🙂
8:57 am I’m off to work, feeling great.  Have a fine Monday!
9:07 am Phil: You too!  Happy Monday!
5:00 pm Off to my Mom’s for a free dinner.  Have a nice evening!
11:32 pm Phil:  Hope it was good.  Snowing here again.  Off to the brig in the morning.  Yippee!
11:33 pm Hey, kid.  Raining here.  Waiting for Hubby to finish a meeting.  Why brig?
11:35 pm Phil:  Just going to visit.
11:37 pm Phil:  All it does here is snow, I swear
11:39 pm Supposed to change over to snow here soon…
11:45 pm Home finally.
11:45 pm Tired or hot?
11:49 pm Ah, well.  No fun for you then.:)
11:51 pm no tits, ass or pussy.  So sad.
12:08 am Sleep well, sweet man.
Tuesday, February 8
7:32 am Good morning!  32 here, snow but not sticking.  Have fun at the brig!
7:34 am Phil: Thanks!  On our way now, have a good one.  Looks like I missed a good time last nite. :):)
7:35 am Just make sure they don’t lock you up!
2:10 pm You make me smile.  🙂
2:23 pm Phil:  Did not lock me up.  Looks like no fun!
2:25 pm Glad you escaped.  Should be bad, deter people, right?
2:30 pm Phil:  Certainly deterred me!
10:06 pm Wants.  You.  Sleep well.
Wednesday, February 9
7:18 am Good morning! Sun and 16. Brr.  Have a wonderful Wednesday!
7:58 am Phil: Good morning!  The temp here is ridiculous!  It’s just friggin cold. Have people coming to tour and see how we do things here.  Then of course we have to entertain them this evening, dinner with the bigwigs tomorrow.  Always interesting and always great food.  Have a great day!
8:06 am Phil:  It’s 2 out, TWO!
8:16 am Yikes!  That is COLD!  Wow, busy you!  My immune system is tanking, no fun.  Be patient w/ me.  Escaping into fantasies of us.  Thank goodness for memories!  Tell me things, you are my joy.  Have fun w/ visitors!
4:05 pm Lots of meetings?  Quiet here.  Feeling better, got a new drug.  Whee.
7:39 pm Phil:  Still meeting.  Glad u feel better
7:40 pm Eating that Thai soup.  Cures all. 🙂
9:00 pm Exciting evening – figured out how to tell one cat from the other.  Heh.
9:35 pm Phil: Does one have a dickie and one not?
9:38 am You are a strange man.
9:46 am Phil: Well that would help tell the kitties apart would it not?
9:47 am Phil: I am not a strange man.
10:00 pm What did you eat?
10:13 pm It’s late.  Hard not to type sexy stuff.  Should stop before I tell you what I’ve been thinking…
10:32 pm You’re right… Not strange at all.  I meant to type sweet and skipped keys. 🙂
10:47 pm Bedtime.  Wishing you were here to tuck me in.  sleep well.
11:11 pm Phil: Nite. :)Had a burger.  Simple food.  Was good.  Off to bed.  Beat.
Thursday, February 10
6:41 am Good morning!  27 and sun.  Busy night!  Big project event.  So psyched.  Have a great Thursday!
6:43 am Phil: Woooo!  Got up at 4:30 am to work out with the staff!  Awesome.  Gonna grab some coffee and hit the elliptical!  Have a great night and an awesome day!
5:40 pm Good meetings?  Quiet day, wrote erotic story at work.  About us as kids.  Heh.  Wanna see?  At the event now, ordering dinner, helping set up.
9:35 pm Event is going so well!  Hope you’re having a fine evening.
10:45 pm All done.  Woot!  1 event down, 9 to go.  Sleep well, sweet man.
11:13 pm Phil:  Awesome!  Glad it went well.  Dinner was great!  Off to bed!
Friday, February 11
Good morning!  18 and sunny.  Rubbing warm kitty tummy.  Life is good.  Say more about dinner?  Have a fab Friday, Philip.

3:45 pm Great photos of you with the visitors!
3:58 pm Phil:  Yeah, that was a lot of work.  Dinner was good, not terribly stuffy.  Had macadamea chicken.  It was actually enjoyable.
6:08 pm Eating Thai food again – satay is especially good!
6:18 pm Phil:  You suck.  I love satay
7:27 pm at event #2, prepped the volunteers. Whee.  So good to see everyone.  Quiet evening for you?
10:06 pm Another event done.  Fun to see people.  Thinking of you, wondering what you’d think of it… Sleep well, sweet man. 
Saturday, February 12
6:39 am Good morning!  23 now-to 37 – melting!  Up late working on a newsletter w/ sis.  have 5 projects in various stages w/stuff going on in March.  Signed up w/a fancy email graphic co co we’ll have a spiffy format.  
6:47 am Busy or quiet today for you?  Hope it’s fun!
8:15 am Phil: Morning.  Hoping for a quiet day.  Going to try to get a little work done, clear a box or two at home
11:58 am You are a nice guy. 🙂
1:47 pm Phil: Well thank you. 🙂
5:24 pm Had an awesome dim sum.  Yummy steamer buns…
5:54 pm Phil: Leftover pot roast
6:23 pm You may not believe me, but I’ve never had pot roast.
6:37 pm Phil: I believe you. 🙂
6:48 pm Wasn’t on my Mom’s menu… Good day?  I’m at event #3!
8:40 pm Huge, responsive audience tonight – talked to someone’s parents here from WVa.
8:56 pm Phil: That’s always nice when the audience is into it.  Did some work, went to the theater.  Was good.  Now sipping a drink, unwinding.

10:22 pm What’s on your mind?
11:04 pm Done with event #3 – they were so on tonight!  Awesome!
11:06 pm Phil:  Cool!
11:44 pm Home at last.  What a night!  This is what it’s all about.  I am so pumped!  You asleep?
12:40 am Thank you emails all sent to volunteers… Maybe I can chill now.  Sleep well, sweet man. 
Sunday, February 13
[I decided it felt like I’d been bugging Philip too much, that I should back off.  I was also interested to see if he would write to me if I didn’t write to him.  The answer was no. :(]
Monday, February 14
7:54 am  Good morning!  Warmer, 37, headed to 48.  Melt!
8:01 am Phil: Us too.  Water every where!  Bring on Spring!  Busy week here.  I guess they all are.  Waiting for a down week to catch my breath.  Glad the event went well.  Have a good week and Happy Valentine’s Day!
11:48 am Happy Valentine’s Day, kid.  This year it seems sweeter to me for some reason. 🙂
9:24 pm Full of Korean food – yummy seafood scallion pancake.  Hope you had fun.
11:10 pm Hey kid.  Figured out why this day is better this year.  Because you showed me how to have fun again.  Thanks!  Sleep well, sweet man.

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February Part 1 Valentine's

February 2011
texts
Note: times show up in my time zone, but his are actually an hour earlier (Central time)
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
7:53 am Good morning!  20 and flurries here.  Can’t find the cats.  Hope there is good in your day.
7:59 am Phil: There is good in every day! 🙂 lot to do today, decisions to be made based on the storm of the century.  Hoo Ya!  Have a great one.
10:50 pm Hiya, kid.  Buried in white stuff?  In between storms here.  SnOMG.  Busy project night – prepped for monthly meeting on Sunday.  Still no sign of kitties.  Sleep well.
Wednesday, February 2
9:08 am  Good morning!  34 here, sleet.  Ick.  Working from home – my employer thinks I’m non-essential!  Happy Groundhog Day!
7:46 pm Worst over?  Great fb photos of snow.  Very quiet here.  Trying not to think about starting chemo tomorrow.  Watched NCIS.  Odd one.  Hope you have a good evening.
7:55 pm Phil: Yeah, still clearing the roads and parking lots.  It will be fine.  You find the kitties?

10:51 pm ABC news based their national storm coverage on your area, looked awful.  Cats finally graced us with their furry faces 45 min ago!  Still can’t tell them apart!
11:28 pm Finally stopped precip.  Good work today – folks saying nice things about you on fb!  Sleep well, sweet man.
12:35 am Phil:  All lies. 🙂
Thursday, February 3
6:52 am Good morning!  20 and clouds, so thankful for a no-drama weather day!  Stay warm kid.
7:03 am Busy – cleaners coming in at 8 am, work 9-11 am, wig fitting 11:45 am and chemo at 12:30 pm!  Whee!  Feels like walking the plank – will I drown?  Float?  Or swim?  Got my flippers on and my sister with me.  Hoping for the best. 

8:13 am Phil: You will swim just fine. 🙂

5:44 pm Home.  Feel fine so far.  Hope you had a fun day.  Can see kitty! 🙂
10:06 pm Hope you have a nice evening.  Thanks for your support today.  Heading to bed early.  Sleep well, sweet man.
Friday, February 4
7:46 am Good morning!  16 and sunny here.  I feel fine, going to work.  Hope you have a fabulous Friday!
7:48 am Phil: That’s fabulous!  Have a great Friday!  Too many meetings today.  No fun.
7:50 pm Home yet?  Hope your work rolled along.  Having a great dinner out at the Independent Pub.  New chef, odd small plates combos but tasty.  Have a great evening!
8:19 pm  Phil: Having beers with the staff.  Work was good.
8:59 pm Ooh…  Are they cool or stodgy?  Does they like you?
9:19 pm Phil: Cool.
9:36 pm Better than the dc people?
9:39 pm Phil: Oh, yeah
10:06 pm Hooray!
10:43 pm Feeling brave.  Sent you a link to racy Star Trek photos.  Only open when you are alone! 🙂 🙂 Sleep well, sweet man.
12:15 am Phil:  Great evening!  Was a lot of fun.  Toured the areas I wanted to change – was much improved.  Nice to make a difference.
12:16 am Nifty.  Proud of you.
Saturday, February 5
8:11 am Good morning! 27 now, headed to 40 and rain!  Hope it takes snow away.  Have a super Saturday!
10:07 am [photo of Legal Seafoods lobster bisque and clam chowder at Shaw’s] Choices, choices. 🙂
10:47 am Phil: Get them both!
10:57 am Busy day?  Been to MGH for a quick bone marrow booster shot and the grocery already.  Whee!  Still working on kitty naming.
6:10 pm Heading out to pan Asian place again, with my sis and her hubby.  Hope you’re having a relaxing time.
9:44 pm Another incredible dinner!  Wish I could’ve handed you a bite of lobster tempura.
10:11 pm Hey, kid.  Off to bed.  Bus ride stuck in my mind, need to hear that story again, w/more details/ what you’ve added over the years. 🙂 Sleep well, sweet man.
11:55 pm Can’t sleep, head full of memories… Mmmm.
Sunday, February 6
7:47 am Good morning!  37.  Sunny.  Headed to 43… melting!  Have Super duper Super Bowl football day!
8:15 am Phil: Snowing its ass off here!  You too!  Enjoy the game!
8:31 am Busy project day – Monthly mtg, and dinner out.  What game? 😉  Go Packers! 
8:03 pm How’s the game?  I’m at the pan Asian place again with 10 project cronies.  Hope you’re having fun!
8:05 pm Phil: Game is awesome!  Having a blast!
8:05 pm Phil: Enjoy!
10:09 pm Wow!  Packers!
10:10 pm Phil: Whoooooooo!
10:10 pm Phil:  What a game!
10:11 pm dinner was incredible.  Again.  But after 3 times this week, I’m ready for something different!
10:12 pm Did you watch w/ the big gang?
10:12 pm Phil: Yeah, mix of Green Bay and Steelers fans
10:13 pm were the Steelers ever ahead?
10:15 pm Phil: Nope
10: 15 pm hee, hee, hee!  Awesome.
10:21 pm I work three people from WI – tomorrow should be fun at the office.
10:38 pm Phil: Oh, yeah
10:40 pm Wants you again… something about football makes you HOT!  Hotter…:)
10:41 pm Shouldn’t say, but it’s true.
11:46 pm Off to shower and bed.  Wishing, um… you know.  Sleep well, sweet man.
11:53 pm Phil: Nite girl
Monday, February 7
6:11 am Good morning!  30 here, going to 40 – more melting!  Hope your week gets off to a great start!
6:16 am Really r
evved up this morning.  No clue why.  Wish you were here to wake me up in style. 🙂
8:57 am I’m off to work, feeling great.  Have a fine Monday!
9:07 am Phil: You too!  Happy Monday!
5:00 pm Off to my Mom’s for a free dinner.  Have a nice evening!
11:32 pm Phil:  Hope it was good.  Snowing here again.  Off to the brig in the morning.  Yippee!
11:33 pm Hey, kid.  Raining here.  Waiting for Hubby to finish a meeting.  Why brig?
11:35 pm Phil:  Just going to visit.
11:37 pm Phil:  All it does here is snow, I swear
11:39 pm Supposed to change over to snow here soon…
11:45 pm Home finally.
11:45 pm Tired or hot?
11:49 pm Ah, well.  No fun for you then.:)
11:51 pm no tits, ass or pussy.  So sad.
12:08 am Sleep well, sweet man.
Tuesday, February 8
7:32 am Good morning!  32 here, snow but not sticking.  Have fun at the brig!
7:34 am Phil: Thanks!  On our way now, have a good one.  Looks like I missed a good time last nite. :):)
7:35 am Just make sure they don’t lock you up!
2:10 pm You make me smile.  🙂
2:23 pm Phil:  Did not lock me up.  Looks like no fun!
2:25 pm Glad you escaped.  Should be bad, deter people, right?
2:30 pm Phil:  Certainly deterred me!
10:06 pm Wants.  You.  Sleep well.
Wednesday, February 9
7:18 am Good morning! Sun and 16. Brr.  Have a wonderful Wednesday!
7:58 am Phil: Good morning!  The temp here is ridiculous!  It’s just friggin cold. Have people coming to tour and see how we do things here.  Then of course we have to entertain them this evening, dinner with the bigwigs tomorrow.  Always interesting and always great food.  Have a great day!
8:06 am Phil:  It’s 2 out, TWO!
8:16 am Yikes!  That is COLD!  Wow, busy you!  My immune system is tanking, no fun.  Be patient w/ me.  Escaping into fantasies of us.  Thank goodness for memories!  Tell me things, you are my joy.  Have fun w/ visitors!
4:05 pm Lots of meetings?  Quiet here.  Feeling better, got a new drug.  Whee.
7:39 pm Phil:  Still meeting.  Glad u feel better
7:40 pm Eating that Thai soup.  Cures all. 🙂
9:00 pm Exciting evening – figured out how to tell one cat from the other.  Heh.
9:35 pm Phil: Does one have a dickie and one not?
9:38 am You are a strange man.
9:46 am Phil: Well that would help tell the kitties apart would it not?
9:47 am Phil: I am not a strange man.
10:00 pm What did you eat?
10:13 pm It’s late.  Hard not to type sexy stuff.  Should stop before I tell you what I’ve been thinking…
10:32 pm You’re right… Not strange at all.  I meant to type sweet and skipped keys. 🙂
10:47 pm Bedtime.  Wishing you were here to tuck me in.  sleep well.
11:11 pm Phil: Nite. :)Had a burger.  Simple food.  Was good.  Off to bed.  Beat.
Thursday, February 10
6:41 am Good morning!  27 and sun.  Busy night!  Big project event.  So psyched.  Have a great Thursday!
6:43 am Phil: Woooo!  Got up at 4:30 am to work out with the staff!  Awesome.  Gonna grab some coffee and hit the elliptical!  Have a great night and an awesome day!
5:40 pm Good meetings?  Quiet day, wrote erotic story at work.  About us as kids.  Heh.  Wanna see?  At the event now, ordering dinner, helping set up.
9:35 pm Event is going so well!  Hope you’re having a fine evening.
10:45 pm All done.  Woot!  1 event down, 9 to go.  Sleep well, sweet man.
11:13 pm Phil:  Awesome!  Glad it went well.  Dinner was great!  Off to bed!
Friday, February 11
Good morning!  18 and sunny.  Rubbing warm kitty tummy.  Life is good.  Say more about dinner?  Have a fab Friday, Philip.

3:45 pm Great photos of you with the visitors!
3:58 pm Phil:  Yeah, that was a lot of work.  Dinner was good, not terribly stuffy.  Had macadamea chicken.  It was actually enjoyable.
6:08 pm Eating Thai food again – satay is especially good!
6:18 pm Phil:  You suck.  I love satay
7:27 pm at event #2, prepped the volunteers. Whee.  So good to see everyone.  Quiet evening for you?
10:06 pm Another event done.  Fun to see people.  Thinking of you, wondering what you’d think of it… Sleep well, sweet man. 
Saturday, February 12
6:39 am Good morning!  23 now-to 37 – melting!  Up late working on a newsletter w/ sis.  have 5 projects in various stages w/stuff going on in March.  Signed up w/a fancy email graphic co co we’ll have a spiffy format.  
6:47 am Busy or quiet today for you?  Hope it’s fun!
8:15 am Phil: Morning.  Hoping for a quiet day.  Going to try to get a little work done, clear a box or two at home
11:58 am You are a nice guy. 🙂
1:47 pm Phil: Well thank you. 🙂
5:24 pm Had an awesome dim sum.  Yummy steamer buns…
5:54 pm Phil: Leftover pot roast
6:23 pm You may not believe me, but I’ve never had pot roast.
6:37 pm Phil: I believe you. 🙂
6:48 pm Wasn’t on my Mom’s menu… Good day?  I’m at event #3!
8:40 pm Huge, responsive audience tonight – talked to someone’s parents here from WVa.
8:56 pm Phil: That’s always nice when the audience is into it.  Did some work, went to the theater.  Was good.  Now sipping a drink, unwinding.

10:22 pm What’s on your mind?
11:04 pm Done with event #3 –
they were so on tonight!  Awesome!
11:06 pm Phil:  Cool!
11:44 pm Home at last.  What a night!  This is what it’s all about.  I am so pumped!  You asleep?
12:40 am Thank you emails all sent to volunteers… Maybe I can chill now.  Sleep well, sweet man. 
Sunday, February 13
[I decided it felt like I’d been bugging Philip too much, that I should back off.  I was also interested to see if he would write to me if I didn’t write to him.  The answer was no. :(]
Monday, February 14
7:54 am  Good morning!  Warmer, 37, headed to 48.  Melt!
8:01 am Phil: Us too.  Water every where!  Bring on Spring!  Busy week here.  I guess they all are.  Waiting for a down week to catch my breath.  Glad the event went well.  Have a good week and Happy Valentine’s Day!
11:48 am Happy Valentine’s Day, kid.  This year it seems sweeter to me for some reason. 🙂
9:24 pm Full of Korean food – yummy seafood scallion pancake.  Hope you had fun.
11:10 pm Hey kid.  Figured out why this day is better this year.  Because you showed me how to have fun again.  Thanks!  Sleep well, sweet man.