NY Times Tumblr Article

December 9, 2018 Sunday

From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 9, 2018 at 11:17 AM
Subject: Fw: Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn – The New York Times

Thought you might like this article

xox

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/06/style/tumblr-porn.html

Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn
Pornographic content, which had a large female viewer base on the site, will no longer be allowed.
Dec. 6, 2018

[photo – Inside the Manhattan offices of Tumblr.
Michael Appleton for The New York Times]

Elle Chase, 49, has run Lady Cheeky, one of the most celebrated pornographic blogs on Tumblr, for eight years.

It features short video clips, often focused on female pleasure, that she sources from around the internet. Celebrated by Glamour and Cosmopolitan as a great sex blog for women (Cosmo lauded its GIFs as “classy and smart”), Lady Cheeky has over 200,000 followers and gets two million page views a month.

But Ms. Chase will soon have to take her classy GIFs elsewhere.

Tumblr announced on Monday that, starting Dec. 17, what it calls “adult content” will no longer be allowed on the website. The company, which is owned by Yahoo, is defining adult content primarily as photos, videos or GIFs that “show real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples, and any content — including photos, videos, GIFs and illustrations — that depicts sex acts.” (Tumblr will continue to allow images of breast-feeding and nudity in art.)

The reaction from users was swift. A Change.org petition started by someone who identified as a NSFW (short for “not safe for work”) Tumblr artist drew hundreds of thousands of signatures in just two days, with many commenters decrying the decision. But critics applauded the move, citing the site’s lax policing of piracy and arguing that Tumblr does not do enough to keep minors from having access to pornography.

In interviews, creators and proponents of pornography on Tumblr expressed a mix of outrage and resignation. Many said that they planned to leave Tumblr for other platforms but were not sure where they would go.

Sera Smith, a 24-year-old from Los Angeles, said she has been visiting the Lady Cheeky Tumblr for three years and is drawn to the blog because it feels like a tasteful departure from sites like PornHub.

“I don’t have to worry about seeing something objectifying and terribly jarring,” Ms. Smith said. “It just feels like a safe space where things were curated for a variety of different social backgrounds and ethnic backgrounds.”

Founded in 2007, Tumblr reached its heyday around 2012, and hosted 108 million blogs the following year, when it was acquired by Yahoo. It wilted under the company’s leadership and is broadly acknowledged to be on the decline.

Still, some of its most faithful users have remained loyal to the platform for the pornography. According to a 2017 study that analyzed Yahoo data from 2015, approximately 100,000 producers on Tumblr generated sexually explicit content and 30 million people engaged with it.

The study found that 82 percent of the producers of that content were male and 68 percent of the consumers were female. (The study found that 72 percent of Tumblr users were female more broadly.) The average age of consumers of pornographic content was 26 years old. A little over 10 percent of those viewers were younger than 18.

“Most of the popular content was coming from professional producers,” said Luca Maria Aiello, one of the authors of the study and a former researcher at Yahoo Labs.

That content often appeared as GIFs — looping, second-long videos pulled from pornography produced by others — and were shared across the platform on blogs like Lady Cheeky.

“This is how porn started on the internet, with these little thumbnail galleries back in the late ’90s,” said Chauntelle Tibbals, the author of “Exposure: A Sociologist Explores Sex, Society, and Adult Entertainment.” What set Tumblr apart, in this internet era, was the range of content available, and as Brett L., a 28-year-old New Yorker who runs one of the most popular adult Tumblr accounts, put it: “Tumblr always was a place for all.”

Jorge España, a 24-year-old resident of Mexico City who hosts a Tumblr page called Stunner Pone, which featured what he calls “naughty furry art” (sexualized drawings of cartoon animals), said that outsiders could not understand how much work went into sites like his, and how much of a niche it filled.

“It may not be to their taste, and that’s fine, but trying to pretend that there isn’t a user base that craves this kind of content and goes to Tumblr specifically for it is misguided at best,” Mr. España said.

Tumblr was also a home for many L.G.B.T. pornography blogs, including that of Steven Toushin, 72, whose Tumblr, Bijou World, was an extension of the film and merchandise empire he has been running since the late 1960s.

Mr. Toushin said that Tumblr’s ban was a story that was familiar to him from his decades in the pornographic film industry. Any time a small, unregulated platform was acquired by a bigger one, he said, the new company would invoke a “morality clause” and attempt to shake people like him from using it.

“We try to find platforms to sell our product,” he said. “That’s all you can do is look for distribution platforms.”

But loosely regulated distribution platforms can also harbor illegal content — in this case child pornography, which Tumblr said caused Apple to remove its app from the App Store in November.

A source familiar with Tumblr’s decision to ban pornography, who was not authorized to speak publicly, said that the decision had been in the works long before that.

There have also been reports of nonconsensual pornography, or revenge porn, on the site. In 2017, a 27-year-old Bronx woman sued Tumblr after a tape emerged of her having sex with her boyfriend when she was 17.

Mary Anne Franks, a professor at the University of Miami School of Law and the legislative and tech policy director at the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative, said she has been asking Tumblr to address nonconsensual pornography on the site for years.

“If five years ago they had gotten a handle on nonconsensual pornography or the child pornography issues, maybe they wouldn’t have to resort to something so extreme,” Ms. Franks said.

Stoya, a pornographic film performer who maintains a Tumblr, said she has been contacted by underage users on the site.

“I got a message from a 16-year-old Irish girl,” she said, adding that she asked her to “come back in two years.”

Stoya thinks Tumblr’s ban ignores a larger problem. “Let’s think about what can actually be done here that would result in a world where people have better tools to navigate sexuality,” she said.

Few expect Tumblr’s decision to decrease the amount of pornography online. Many users predict the content will just migrate elsewhere.

Carlyn M., a grandmother in her 60s who works as a lawyer in the Netherlands and runs a Tumblr page dedicated to female masturbation in her spare time, said that she was “looking for a good alternative, just like many people.”

But none were “as good as Tumblr at the moment.”

Jonah Bromwich is based in New York. He writes for the Style section. @jonesieman
A version of this article appears in print on Dec. 9, 2018 , on Page ST12 of the New York edition with the headline: ‘NSFW’ Bloggers Prepare to Abandon Ship at Tumblr.’

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From: Sassy

To: Mr Truck
Sent: Dec 9, 2018 at 2:06 PM
Re: Tumblr Fans Abandon Ship as Tumblr Bans Porn – The New York Times

Thanks! I’m glad to see it getting coverage and making it seem like an over reaction. 

I think you may understand why this grieves me so… it’s like someone is burning my favorite books! Most of my mentourage don’t get it. Eh.

I’ve been indulging a lot this weekend, taking one last look at my favorite sites and downloading stuff. So sad.

I signed up with swarmr.com which looks quite similar. We’ll see if it ends up being the new spot.

How’re you this sunny Sunday? Hope you’re enjoying it!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android



Eggs Maryland

December 9, 2018 Sunday

12:20 PM Sassy
Eggs Maryland at S&S Deli in Cambridge!  Think Eggs Benedict minus the ham plus a shrimp and crab cake!

4:27 PM Sassy
Wow! Snow for you! Supposed to get much?

4:29 PM Phil
Who knows? Inch or two maybe. Pretty though

4:29 PM Sassy
Our weekend guests are gone, can finally relax!

4:35 PM Phil
Ahhhhhhhh

My team won, Pats lost, great weekend!

4:36 PM Sassy
Congrats!

4:41 PM Phil
THX!

Dim Sum Brunch

December 8, 2018 Saturday

10:02 AM Sassy
Good morning kid!

11:08 AM Phil
Good morning! Happy Saturday!

12:30 PM Sassy
Dim sum brunch with Mary Chung’s in Central Square Cambridge

 Shumai
 Suan la chow show
 Peking Ravioli
 Egg roll
 Crab Rangoon
 Soup dumplings with ginger soy sauce 
 Upcoming open hours

5:26 PM Sassy
Avgolemono soup on a cold night at Greek Corner in Cambridge



Swedish sapphires

December 7, 2018 Friday

6:55 AM Sassy
Happy Friday kid!

7:13 AM Phil
Happy Friday!

1:09 PM Sassy
Dig this parure! I so adore the Swedish sapphires!

Pascal Le Segretain/Getty Images
Queen Silvia of Sweden wears the tiara and jewels from the Leuchtenberg Sapphire Parure at the Nobel Prize ceremony in Stockholm, December 2004

http://www.thecourtjeweller.com/2018/12/the-daily-diadem-leuchtenberg-sapphire.html

Guacamole

December 6, 2018 Thursday

8:42 AM Sassy
Good morning Philip! Another sunny cold morning! Wiggle those sexy toes for me!
10:04 AM Phil
Good morning!
8:21 PM Sassy
Marvelous Mexican dinner at Catina la Mexicana in Union Square Somerville
Shrimp ceviche
Guacamole
Gorditas
Veggie fajitas
Chilaquiles with chicken
Shrimp enchiladas with rice, refried beans and pica de gallo 
Tres leches cake
Flan

Sleep sweater

December 5, 2018 Wednesday

6:26 AM
Sassy
Good morning! Made it to Wednesday!
7:24 PM Phil
Happy Wednesday! Hope your day was good. 
Nice to see politicians acting like adults today.

[photo of the fireplace on his balcony]

7:25 PM Sassy
You have the day off to mourn Bush?

7:27 PM Phil
No, I had to work but taped the funeral. I liked the president.

7:27 PM Sassy
Cold down there? We’re at 31. Brrrr….

7:27 PM Phil
GW did a great job today

About the same here, snowed a little

7:28 PM Sassy
I’ve been reading lots of folksy stories about GHWB. The folks in Maine adored him

7:28 PM Phil
My pal and I froze last night

7:28 PM Sassy
Doing what?

7:28 PM Phil
Secret Service telling good Bush stories too

Smoking cigars on the porch

7:29 PM Sassy
Ah. How’s your pal?

7:29 PM Phil
Good as always
We keep each other sane

7:30 PM Sassy
Excellent!

I took an anti-harassment online course today.

7:31 PM Phil
[photo of his pal eating a huge slice of pizza]
Great guy

7:31 PM Sassy
He’s looking sharp!

7:32 PM Phil
dude always looks sharp

7:32 PM Sassy
Heh
Do you have a nickname amongst the dudes?

7:33 PM Phil
Phil, just Phil
7:33 PM Sassy
The folks at work being nice to you?

7:34 PM Phil
Yeah, much different system but I’m learning.
Good people

7:35 PM Sassy
When will they let you do actual work?

7:36 PM Phil
After school. 
Gotta earn my credentials and I am earning them.
School is a booger

Brrrrrrrrrrr

[graphic of the temperature – 30 degrees]

7:40 PM Sassy
Wow! You’re in for a cold spell…. we’re about 10 degrees colder all long. But at least no snow!
7:41 PM Phil
It’s gonna come though
Still early
7:43 PM Sassy
I pulled my favorites off Tumblr last night
Looking for somewhere new
7:44 PM Phil
Let me know when you find it
7:45 PM Sassy
Lots of folks are going to a place called swarmr
7:45 PM Phil
Not sure why sex is such a bad thing
Sassy
Swarmr is committed to letting people post what they want

Yeah… it stumps me. I get nixing child porn but… geesh

I hope it kills Tumblr

There was a funny article today about the posts their algorithm thinks are adult content… like Garfield
or a bowl of fruit

7:47 PM Phil
Me too!
7:48 PM Sassy
I’ll find good stuff to send you. 
  

The way Tumblr worded it also was yucky. They didn’t go after the content, they went after people… “We don’t want you as part of our community.”

7:49 PM Phil
You can just send me pics of you. 
Those are my favorites

Ah well. Screw em

7:51 PM Sassy
Awww… you are so sweet!
7:51 PM Phil
Truth though, love you girl
7:52 PM Sassy
I adore you! And love you lots.
  
7:52 PM Phil
<3

7:52 PM Sassy
Did you see the video of Senator Dole at the Rotunda yesterday saluting?

7:52 PM Phil
Loved it
Very touching. Rivals with great respect
7:53 PM Sassy
He reminded me so much of my dad
Going and doing the right thing, even when it was very difficult.
He looked so frail.
7:54 PM Phil
Yep! Nothing but respect. He’s 95
Loved watching GW slip Michelle a candy. Those two are cute
7:56 PM Sassy
My coworker is reading her book, says it’s excellent
7:57 PM Phil
I’m sure. I like her
8:05 PM Phil
Ahhhh

[photo of his hot tub and his foot sticking out of the water]

8:05 PM Sassy
Toes!

8:39 PM Sassy
My sassy sleep sweater

[photo of me in the bathroom in a black sweater and night shirt]

8:51 PM Phil
My sleep sweater

[photo of him in the bathroom naked]

8:51 PM Sassy
Ha! Gonna smooch those sexy shoulders!

8:51 PM Phil
Mmmm
8:56 PM Sassy
Let’s go to bed early and not sleep
8:58 PM Phil
I like the way you think

On to the bike I go. There are much more fun ways to exercise

9:00 PM Sassy
I bet you’d keep me warmer than the sweater
9:01 PM Phil
Yes ma’am
You know it

Moot

December 4, 2018 Tuesday

From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 4, 2018 at 9:45 AM
Re: Tumblr ban

That’s so dumb, so bending to conservative values, rather than giving consumers/users what they want.

Worse yet, I was unable to see the links you sent, I guess I need to be a member. That wasn’t the case long ago when you sent me links. I really don’t want to join any more ‘clubs.’ But now it’s moot anyway 🙁

I’d still love to take stills and/or video of your body…

> On Monday, December 3, 2018, 9:19:26 PM EST, 

> Sassy wrote:
>
> FYI – Tumblr announced today they are banning p0rn. sigh
>
> -S
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From: Mr Truck
To: Sassy
Sent: Dec 4, 2018 at 10:03 AM

Re: Audio Erotica

Answers below

On Sunday, December 2, 2018, 10:39:02 PM EST, Sassy wrote:

>>Wow! You moved? What made you do that?

A great deal on a house, small but nicer land and no taxes, we’ll save some taxes!

>> I do motor up that way now and then… or you could tell me when you around Boston? Would adore catching up!

Great let’s keep both options open. Loved our short but sweet parking lot rendezvous…

>>My local project is going strong, just finished a big event that did especially well!

Good to hear it, must be so fun for you

>>What are your hottest fantasies these days?

I too like the cfnm thing. So deliciously vulnerable for a clothed woman to tell me to strip in front of her, submit for her inspection & comments. I think cmnf would be fun too. Having you naked with me like for a full hour before we even touching, just erotic talk and lovingly close up examination. I also love cuckold fantasies, some incest stories too…

>>What’s the safest way for you to communicate?

Probably text and cell voice, selected times. I’ll have to explore google voice. I’m so out of step!

Kisses

Starbucks Kaput and Alaskan Luck

December 4, 2018 Tuesday

5:48 AM Sassy
Good morning! Have a super Tuesday! My internet is back!

8:15 AM Phil
Good morning! Woo Hoo! 
Aced test number two!
Enjoy your day!

11:31 AM Sassy
The Church Street Starbucks in Harvard Square is gone. They’ve already emptied out the store!

11:13 PM Sassy
Story of the guy whose car got stuck on the broken road after the Alaska earthquake… so Alaskan!

That guy driving the earthquake-marooned GMC? Yeah, he made his flight out of Anchorage.


Tom Sulczynski’s GMC sits marooned on an island of pavement after a magnitude 7.0 earthquake in Anchorage on Friday, Nov. 30, 2018. (Photo by Nat Herz/Alaska’s Energy Desk)

https://www.ktoo.org/2018/12/01/that-guy-driving-the-earthquake-marooned-gmc-yeah-he-made-his-flight-out-of-anchorage/

Eighth Blogiversary

Dear Readers,  

Same Sassy Girl is passing a major milestone today – EIGHT YEARS of blogging.  Wow!  Time to celebrate!  Have a cupcake!  I got one for you! You can have some hugs with groping and… mmm… what was I talking about?  Oh yes!  EIGHT YEARS!  YIKES!

  • Over 415,000 hits in those 8 years  
  • Over 37,000 hits this year
  • This is my 4,837th post!  
  • Whee!
Some days eight years ago seems like forever – I have come so far, learned so much, seen so many bloggers cum and go.  Other times it still feels so shiny and new. How can it be eight years?!  If you haven’t read about my humble beginning, please click “The Start” above and read about how I reconnected with my old flame and started on the road to Sassy-ness!  

I had no idea when I started this blog experiment I’d reveal all this crap strange and wonderful stuff.  I just wanted a seat at the table with the likes of Riff Dawg, Ryan Beaumont, Advizor54, Kat, Holly or Ms. I.  I figured I’d write for a month or two, tell people about Philip and me and then stop, like you do when you write a book.

Every post is still tough – I think… “can I do this?” I am half-excited and half-terrified every time I hit “Publish,” but telling my story seems worth it – remembering, recording, trying to make sense of it and sharing it.  I work so hard to entertain Philip and keep the connection open.  And I’ve met the good, bad and ugly men from AM… have to tell you all about it!  I keep wondering how my story will turn out, but it’s still happening… and I hope still interesting to you!

I am astonished I have kept the blog a secret. It is strange not to share what I consider a major accomplishment with my real life friends and family, and to share so many feelings with you and none of the usual facts!   There are many of you I trust, but it’s simpler to stay anonymous.

This blog led me to so many fantastic blogs and the wonderful people who write them!  Be sure to check out my blog roll on the right.  I’ve learned so much about life, love, great sex, and myself from them.  I’ve connected with so many wonderful bloggers and other readers.  I hope you’ll join with me in hoping we all keep sharing for a long time!  In these strange days, the personal sexy stories are such a marvelous distraction from the world’s ills.

The best part, which I didn’t know about when I started writing, is the blogger community online. I am so happy to be part of it!  Where else can you talk with the likes of supportive and sensual Naughty Kitty?  And the amazing adventures of James from Break Out!  Or Suzy from Adventures of a Happy Hotwife!!  or the uber-sexy smart stud Advizor54 with his Free Advice is worth what you pay for it!!!

I’m still writing! And you are still reading!  Wow!!!  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.  Your comments and emails make my day!

If you have a story to tell, join me!  Start blogging today!  Google’s Blogger is mostly easy and there are lots of us to help you get your words out there.  This could be your blogiversary next year!

Hugs with groping!

-Sassy