First Chat with Kris

Tuesday April 1, 2014

·       Apr 01 2:56 PM Sassy: Hiya
·       Apr 01 2:56 PM Kris: Hi!…that was fast!
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Sassy: Thanks for your email!
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Sassy: I didn’t get your message at yahoo, so I thought I’d try this.
·       Apr 01 2:57 PM Kris: because i sent it to the wrong email address…just resent it to the correct one
·       Apr 01 2:59 PM Sassy: I got it!
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Kris: well…we’re already “doing it” (chatting that is)…wink…
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 01 3:00 PM Sassy: I hope the first message didn’t go to a nun in Peoria…
·       Apr 01 3:01 PM Kris: LOL….can I “fast track” this just a little to tell you a little about myself?
·       Apr 01 3:01 PM Sassy: Sure! Or do you want to wait until tonight? I can be around after 8…
·       Apr 01 3:03 PM Kris: ok…let’s do tonight…just one thing about myself (hope this doesn’t turn you off)….my full-time job is a therapist…..i do a lot of “in home therapy”….working with families in their homes…i have a session in 25 minutes….sitting in my car on my laptop….can we chat after 8:00 tonight?
·       Apr 01 3:03 PM Sassy: Ha! I guessed something like that… you were holding a book in one of the photos.
·       Apr 01 3:04 PM Sassy: Sounds good. Ping me tonight?
·       Apr 01 3:04 PM Kris: Later… 

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·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Kris: Hi
·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Sassy: Hiya!
·       Apr 01 8:07 PM Kris: surprised you’re still talking to me
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Sassy: Awww… why?
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Kris: read my email…with my “crazy past” i talked about?
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Sassy: Sounds like you’ve got some great stories.
·       Apr 01 8:08 PM Kris: ok…so you’re not freaked out?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Sassy: Nope.
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: ok
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: how late do u usually stay up?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Sassy: Midnight or so… you?
·       Apr 01 8:09 PM Kris: about the same….
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: reason i ask….
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: i’m either going to chat now with you and then workout at the gym…
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Kris: or workout first and talk to you later….if you’d be up
·       Apr 01 8:10 PM Sassy: Either way is fine.
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Kris: would 10:30 be too late….or i could cut my workout short…I REALLY want to chat with you
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Sassy: I may have to go out for a few minutes around 10ish, not sure
·       Apr 01 8:11 PM Sassy: 10:30 is fine. If I end up going up, I’ll leave a note here.
·       Apr 01 8:12 PM Sassy: Catch up when I get back.
·       Apr 01 8:12 PM Kris: k…..i’ll check back….10:30 at the latest…..
·       Apr 01 8:13 PM Sassy: Don’t think about my chest.  ; ) 
·       Apr 01 8:13 PM Kris: OMG

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·       Apr 01 10:22 PM Kris: Hi
·       Apr 01 10:22 PM Sassy: Hiya!
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Kris: did u already step out?
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Sassy: no.
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Kris: need to?
·       Apr 01 10:23 PM Sassy: don’t know. Waiting for Hubby to call… or he may get a ride.
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: may need to pick him up?
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Sassy: Yup
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: when he gets home do you have to stop chatting?
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Sassy: No
·       Apr 01 10:24 PM Kris: you messed up my workout
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM Sassy: Oh?
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM Kris: i couldn’t stop thinking about imaginary boobs i was told not to think about
·       Apr 01 10:25 PM
Sassy:  : )
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Kris: truthfully…i love big breasts
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Sassy: Shall I send a photo and really mess with you?
·       Apr 01 10:26 PM Sassy: Or you want to wait…
·       Apr 01 10:27 PM Kris: just of your face….and if i’m going to wait….does that mean we have a future…..you’re a combination of relaxed and “let’s get on with it”…
·       Apr 01 10:27 PM Kris: which i like and makes me laugh…and a little impatient and curious all at the same time
·       Apr 01 10:28 PM Sassy: I am not an email queen, but I like to know a little bit first.
·       Apr 01 10:29 PM Kris: ok….let’s get on with what you need to know….because at a minimum i’m dying to treat you to dinner…if nothing else….ask away…
·       Apr 01 10:31 PM Sassy: Crap. Hubby just called. Argh! Can we re-start about 11 pm?
·       Apr 01 10:31 PM Kris: yup….later
·       Apr 01 10:32 PM Sassy: I’ll send two photos, since you were so good to post five on AM!
·       Apr 01 10:32 PM Kris: k
·       Apr 01 10:34 PM Sassy: If you’re still interested, I’ll ping you when I get back.
·       Apr 01 10:35 PM Kris: i’ll be here…definitely
·       Apr 01 10:35 PM Sassy: Back soon!

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·       Apr 01 11:04 PM Sassy: I’m baaaack!
·       Apr 01 11:04 PM Sassy: You still talking to me?
·       Apr 01 11:05 PM Kris: Hi, Yes—definitely… you’re pretty and your breasts…..well…..i’d just want to get lost in them in a number of ways….some of which you’ve instructed me about…. : )
·       Apr 01 11:06 PM Sassy: Ha ha… Alright!
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Kris: So i know that everything has to happen in it’s own time….but…..
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Kris: i appreciate that you said you’re not an email queen….
·       Apr 01 11:07 PM Sassy: I know guys worry about that.
·       Apr 01 11:08 PM Kris: i chatted for hours on end with a woman for 3 months…we had lunch…she said she wanted to be my lover…..then suddenly broke it off…..???????????
·       Apr 01 11:08 PM Sassy: Oh no! I’m sorry.
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Kris: u don’t seem like you need 3 months of chatting….do u?
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Sassy: Nope
·       Apr 01 11:09 PM Kris: so not to be impatient…but what are you curious about?
·       Apr 01 11:10 PM Sassy: I don’t have a specific list of questions
·       Apr 01 11:10 PM Sassy: Just want to get to know you a bit
·       Apr 01 11:11 PM Kris: ok…so a random question or two….
·       Apr 01 11:11 PM Sassy: I did want to say that I don’t drink alcohol. I’m allergic
·       Apr 01 11:12 PM Kris: really? never heard of that before! wish I was….would have saved me and a lot of other people a lot of pain (bad joke)
·       Apr 01 11:12 PM Sassy: I hear ya
·       Apr 01 11:13 PM Kris: ok…so i have some serious questions…some of which have pissed some women off….ready?
·       Apr 01 11:13 PM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 01 11:14 PM Kris: the two things that seem to bug me the most are “What exactly is the nature of what we’re doing?” Does this woman want more than one lover at a time…or just one at a time…and can I trust her to tell me the truth?…that’s the first one… and the second one is….
·       Apr 01 11:14 PM Kris: STDs
·       Apr 01 11:16 PM  Sassy: Interesting questions.
·       Apr 01 11:17 PM Kris: care to comment further?
·       Apr 01 11:17 PM Sassy: Thinking…
·       Apr 01 11:18 PM Sassy: Do you want a woman seeing only you?
·       Apr 01 11:19 PM Sassy: Had advantages in terms of safety but heightens the attachment risk
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Kris: not necessarily…but if she’s not…that immediately raises the issue of STDs…i can handle a woman who wants to see more than me….but the issue of STDs is real….and needs to addressed responsibly….
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:20 PM Sassy: exclusivity lowers the STD risk but raises the risk of emotional intensity if she is focused on you
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: For the record, I like to stick to one guy.
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: I want someone I like
·       Apr 01 11:22 PM Sassy: and I’d prefer to stay off AM for a while
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: why would you like to stay off AM for a while?
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Sassy: Prowling is tough
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Sassy: nerve-wracking
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:23 PM Kris: in what way?
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Sassy: Trying to figure out if the guy is a creep or nice, trying to convince him I’m nice… putting a lot in and then silence… it’s a roller coaster
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Kris: ok…here’s the thing…
·       Apr 01 11:25 PM Kris: you ARE nice….
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: but you may not want to get “too serious”…which is fine
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: so you may want to have a few lovers at once…
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Kris: to “spread the emotional intensity around” a little…as you put it (never thought of it that way before)
·       Apr 01 11:26 PM Sassy: Yes.
·       Apr 01 11:27 PM Sassy: I get that by having online pals far away
·       Apr 01 11:27 PM Kris: meaning you have erotic chatting and so forth?
·       Apr 01 11:28 PM Sassy: Sometimes
·       Apr 01 11:28 PM Kris: but not physical lovers at the same time?….i’m not judging….i can handle it….it’s just that…..here’s the thing……
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Kris: if we’re going to lie to our spouses….why wouldn’t we lie to the people we’re cheating on them with too?…it bugs me….
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Sassy: I don’t lie to my spouse.
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Kris: does your husband know you’re having sex with other men?
·       Apr 01 11:29 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Kris: oh…my wife doesn’t and i can’t let her…
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: Of course
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: My situation is very rare
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Kris: which is?
·       Apr 01 11:30 PM Sassy: That I don’t have to hide from H
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He does his thing and I do mine
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: I don’t share details
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He doesn’t know names etc.
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Kris: does he have lovers too?
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:31 PM Sassy: He is usually dating a couple of women at a time
·       Apr 01 11:32 PM Kris: is that your real preference also?
·       Apr 01 11:32 PM Sassy: No. I find having one local man is enough
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: But I am not possessive
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: or jealous
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: If you are nice to me, see me now and then, I don’t think about what you do otherwise
·       Apr 01 11:33 PM Sassy: As long as you are safe
·       Apr 01 11:34 PM Sassy: If you are just starting out, you may want to play the field, yes?
·       Apr 01 11:34 PM Kris: that’s the thing…i can wear a condom but if i go down on any woman i can contract an std….unless i used an “oral dam”…which would completely ruin the fun of it….
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Kris: no…i don’t want to play the field….don’t have the time or emotional energy…not that big a “player”….
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Sassy: As for truth… it is best
·       Apr 01 11:35 PM Sassy: I can be “the one you talk to”
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Sassy: you can relax… not filter… be yourself
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: by truth is best?
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Kris: i think leaving some things unsaid is best sometimes…like the arrangement you have with your husband.
·       Apr 01 11:36 PM Sassy: You have to lie to your wife, but there is no reason to lie to me
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: Sure… omit if you like
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Kris: you’re too nice
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: Heh
·       Apr 01 11:37 PM Sassy: But you don’t have to waste mental energy wondering what you can say or not say, if you’ll offend me…
·       Apr 01 11:38 PM Sassy: Just tell me you are not a Yankees fan
·       Apr 01 11:38 PM Kris: LOL
·       Apr 01 11:40 PM Sassy: Did I answer your questions?
·       Apr 01 11:41 PM Kris: yes…having trouble with my keyboard…sorry for the delay….you didn’t even scold me for asking a question twice…most women get “highly pissed off”….like
·       Apr 01 11:42 PM Kris: like…”how dare you insinuate i’m not telling the truth”…instead of just answering the question….which you did…..that’s why you’re too nice (but I like you for it)
·       Apr 01 11:42 PM Sassy: My impression, is that most men do not tell the truth
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: I try not to bet my life on it
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: But at a certain point…
·       Apr 01 11:43 PM Sassy: I have to get over that and have fun.
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: remember when you asked me what fantasies i had?
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: i thought of one that isn’t directly about sex…but about a “kind of lover”…
·       Apr 01 11:44 PM Kris: you already told me you could be it….
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Kris: know what it is?
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Sassy:  What?
·       Apr 01 11:45 PM Kris: someone i could actually tell the truth to…who wouldn’t freak out and could handle it…. hard to find….
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Sassy: Are you the same?
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Kris: doesn’t mean I want to “unload crap” on someone…but just to not have to hide and work so hard at “editing” all the time…
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Kris: what do you mean?
·       Apr 01 11:46 PM Sassy: Will I freak you out?
·       Apr 01 11:47 PM Kris: i highly doubt it…but i’d like to see you try….remember….i’ve “seen a few things” in my day…..try me…
·       Apr 01 11:47 PM Sassy: How did you find AM?
·       Apr 01 11:48 PM Kris: i can’t remember…probably through a porn site…
·       Apr 01 11:48 PM Kris: you?
·       Apr 01 11:49 PM Sassy: I found a sexy blog written by a man about his AM adventures
·       Apr 01 11:49 PM Kris: so how long have you been on AM?
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Sassy: Let me back up a little further
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Kris: k
·       Apr 01 11:50 PM Sassy: In August 2010 I got email from the first boy who ever kissed me.
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Sassy: We dated for 3 weeks when I was 14 and he was 16, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing in the choir room at church
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Kris: lol
·       Apr 01 11:51 PM Sassy: He broke up with me and I was crushed.
 Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: So 37 years later he writes to me
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: I remember his name and that he broke my heart.
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Sassy: Not much else.
·       Apr 01 11:52 PM Kris: this is a great story…keep going..
·       Apr 01 11:53 PM Sassy: He apologizes, says he has thought of me over the years whenever he um… well… you know, was alone… and he’s never felt the chemistry we had and he wants to see if it still burns
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Sassy: I’ve never cheated. He’s never cheated. I am not 14 anymore.
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Kris: this was only 4 years ago?
·       Apr 01 11:54 PM Sassy: I figure we’ll talk, it will be fun… he will never touch a curvy old married lady
·       Apr 01 11:55 PM Sassy: He tells me stories about that sassy teenager…
·       Apr 01 11:55 PM Sassy: our first kiss
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: invites me to D.C. to have dinner and see what happens
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: I tell Hubby in that “can you believe this?” way
·       Apr 01 11:56 PM Sassy: and he says, “Go… have fun.”
·       Apr 01 11:57 PM Sassy: So I did.
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Sassy: He surprised me. He wanted me.
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Kris: ah…the crux of it all… being wanted..
·       Apr 01 11:58 PM Sassy: The chemistry was nuclear.
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Sassy: And he made sure I had fun… which no man had ever done.
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Kris: how did he make sure you had fun?
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Kris: you can tell me at the end of the story…keep going…
·       Apr 01 11:59 PM Sassy: So… he’s military. Miles away.  Married.
·       Apr 02 12:01 AM Sassy: Lots of emotion.
·       Apr 02 12:01 AM Sassy: So eventually he says, “You need a local option.”
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: I cannot imagine being a success at online dating.
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: But I have a lot of friends on AM
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: I’ve even helped them with their profiles
·       Apr 02 12:02 AM Sassy: But I am sure no man will want me… old, curvy…
 Apr 02 12:03 AM Kris: you underestimate how much most men “think with another head”…
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: So one rainy night in Sept. 2012, when both Hubby and my military man have forgotten my birthday, a woman friend online tells me to go on AM
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Kris: sorry….keep going….
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: Make a profile. Enjoy the attention
·       Apr 02 12:04 AM Sassy: I bet her that no one will contact me
·       Apr 02 12:05 AM Sassy: She takes the bet and helps me write a profile, then calls in a couple guys she has dated to fine tune it and I posted it
·       Apr 02 12:05 AM Sassy: So I’ve been on and off since then
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Sassy: Sorry for the long answer!
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Kris: no…i like it….so how many lovers besides your military man have you had in the past 2 years?
·       Apr 02 12:06 AM Sassy: How long have you been on AM?
·       Apr 02 12:07 AM Kris: about 6 months
·       Apr 02 12:08 AM Sassy: Have you met anyone?
·       Apr 02 12:08 AM Kris: yes….had several dates with 3 different women…no sex with any though….
·       Apr 02 12:10 AM Kris: lunches…dinners…even treated one to the Boston Holiday Pops Concert at Symphony Hall….then dinner after….she wanted to be my lover….but wasn’t really my type…..couldn’t do it….
·       Apr 02 12:11 AM Kris: the “chemistry/connection” thing…besides just “sex”…it’s all kind of hard to figure out…..you?
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Sassy: I’ve talked to a couple dozen guys…
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Kris: how many lovers you’ve had really isn’t important…just curious…as you described some “encounters” with some men…
·       Apr 02 12:13 AM Sassy: met 16
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Kris: that you’ve had sex with?
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: nooo
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: about half of them.
·       Apr 02 12:14 AM Sassy: I went a bit nuts when I first started
·       Apr 02 12:15 AM Sassy: But I got attacked in July
·       Apr 02 12:15 AM Kris: i appreciate you telling me the truth about this…since you don’t really have to…..but are…..
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: attacked????????
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Sassy: Yeah
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: what happened?
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Sassy: Law of averages caught up with me I suppose
·       Apr 02 12:16 AM Kris: do you mind telling me what happened?
 Apr 02 12:17 AM Sassy: Guy was very rough
·       Apr 02 12:17 AM Sassy: Started with a vibrator
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Kris: innocent enough…then what?
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Sassy: he was very violent with it, made me bleed
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Kris: OMG!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 02 12:18 AM Sassy: I protested, so he got even rougher with his hands
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: I started to try to get away
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: so he kind of… sat on me
·       Apr 02 12:19 AM Sassy: bit me. I told him it was not my thing.  To stop.
·       Apr 02 12:20 AM Sassy: then he raped me
·       Apr 02 12:20 AM Kris: omg… i’m so sorry…..
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Kris: r u ok right now?
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Sassy: I had good people to talk to
·       Apr 02 12:21 AM Kris: how long ago was that
·       Apr 02 12:22 AM Sassy: July
·       Apr 02 12:22 AM Sassy: I’ve only been with one man since then
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Sassy: I finally decided that jerk was not going to keep me on the shelf
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Kris: i was going to ask how you managed to get back on AM after that
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Sassy: I changed the way I interact
·       Apr 02 12:23 AM Kris: how?
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Sassy: No private first meets
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Sassy: and take a little more time talking to the guy first
·       Apr 02 12:24 AM Kris: so you had sex with men the first time you met them in person–after just meeting them a little through AM?
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: At first I did
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Kris: can i go back to before all this a little….and ask about your marriage?
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: Sure.
·       Apr 02 12:25 AM Sassy: Sorry… I usually try to stay light and fun
Apr 02 12:26 AM Sassy: Not lay out all this first night out!
·       Apr 02 12:26 AM Kris: is this the first night out?
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: Well… you know, the first time we’ve talked
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Kris: gotcha….
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: But it seems to be the answer to what you’re asking
·       Apr 02 12:27 AM Sassy: You were going to ask something when I started talking about July?
·       Apr 02 12:28 AM Sassy: i appreciate you telling me the truth about this…since you don’t really have to…but are…..
·       Apr 02 12:28 AM Kris: i appreciate everything you’ve told me…..lots of women won’t do that….for me it “connects me” with you….in ways “just fun” can’t…back to my other question…
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Sassy: marriage?
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Kris: if at any point you don’t want to answer a question…or want to change the subject…please tell me…yes…marriage….
·       Apr 02 12:29 AM Kris: why did you stop having sex with your husband?
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Sassy: He told me I was not attractive anymore and pushed me away
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Kris: ouch…how sad…how long ago was that?
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Sassy: 1999
·       Apr 02 12:30 AM Kris: did he start having affairs with other women?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: no. not until about… hmmm…let’s see… Feb. 2013
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Kris: how do you know…did he tell you?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Kris: did you tell him about yours?
·       Apr 02 12:31 AM Sassy: Yes
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Sassy: He wanted to start while I was ill but I asked him not to
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Sassy: He went on OKCupid anyway
·       Apr 02 12:32 AM Kris: that’s so different from my experience…have a hard time imagining it…my wife would divorce me and I don’t think i would want to live with her.
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: speaking of you being ill…
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: i wanted to say i’m glad you beat cancer.
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: Thanks!
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: I was very lucky
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Kris: how so?
 Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: I was rather random about mammograms
·       Apr 02 12:33 AM Sassy: no cancer in my family, they hurt etc.
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: So I tended to let them go
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: Old flame got on me about it
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: Talked me into catching up
·       Apr 02 12:34 AM Sassy: At exactly the right moment to catch a tiny tumor
·       Apr 02 12:35 AM Sassy: So… caught it early, had access to MGH Women’s Cancer team
·       Apr 02 12:35 AM Sassy: was able to work the entire time except surgery days or chemo day
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Kris: so is it completely gone?
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Sassy: Yup
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Kris: GREAT!!!!!!!!!
·       Apr 02 12:36 AM Sassy: Yep
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: I try hard not be about that…
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: went to the doctor a lot, over it… moving on
·       Apr 02 12:37 AM Sassy: don’t wear any pink. : ) 
·       Apr 02 12:38 AM Kris: Besides keeping you here…it would seem from one of the pictures you sent some “great assets” have been preserved…mind if i change the subject to your sexy emails/messages to me?
·       Apr 02 12:38 AM Sassy: I fought hard for those… get to show them off in a demure way, right?
·       Apr 02 12:39 AM Kris: right!
·       Apr 02 12:39 AM Sassy: Sure —emails. what?
·       Apr 02 12:40 AM Kris: i liked your descriptions of what you’d like and want during sex…besides just turning me on…..it’s part of what i’m hoping for…the “teaching me”….”i’ll teach you” part of communicating what you like and want….turns me on….just FYI…..smile
·       Apr 02 12:40 AM Sassy: Trying to make sure you know my style…
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Kris: it helps…sounds like you like a variety of things…and depends on your mood of the moment too…is that right?
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Sassy: that I don’t waste your time if you’re looking for something else
·       Apr 02 12:41 AM Sassy: Yes.
·       Apr 02 12:42 AM Sassy: Seems like a lot of men are used to wives who want the same thing, in the dark, quick
·       Apr 02 12:42 AM Sassy: I am not that
·       Apr 02 12:43 AM Kris: ok…here’s that “can i talk to you” part…about sex with my wife…don’t have to though…but about why it will be different….
·       Apr 02 12:43 AM Sassy: Sure
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: first…does it bother you that i still have sex regularly with my wife?
 Apr 02 12:44 AM Sassy: no
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: and actually…it’s not “bad”
·       Apr 02 12:44 AM Kris: but it is pretty much “the same”
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Sassy: Are you hitting the “if I am ever going to get to try other stuff, I need to do it now” point?
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Kris: no….actually it’s not about trying other stuff…it’s more about “with someone different”…let me tell you a little more about what i mean.
·       Apr 02 12:45 AM Sassy: ok
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Kris: remember i said i had a 3 month chatting relationship with a woman?
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Sassy: yes
·       Apr 02 12:46 AM Kris: she kept insisting….
·       Apr 02 12:47 AM Kris: that everything we might do had to be completely different than what i did with my wife…as if it were some kind of “competition” for “good sex” or something….
·       Apr 02 12:48 AM Kris: I kept trying to tell her….
·       Apr 02 12:48 AM Kris: the MAIN thing that will be different is YOU…
·       Apr 02 12:49 AM Kris: she didn’t get it….
·       Apr 02 12:49 AM Kris: “technique” is all well and good…
·       Apr 02 12:50 AM Sassy: Trying to fathom… so not what I am like
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Kris: but it’s about the person too…their passion…personality…all of it/you.
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: I want you to have a confidante
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: I want you to feel good
·       Apr 02 12:51 AM Sassy: Passion
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Pleasure
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Fun
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Laughs
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: I want you not to get caught
·       Apr 02 12:52 AM Sassy: Other than that… can’t imagine imposing rules or competing or controlling much.
·       Apr 02 12:53 AM Kris: ok… pretty much nailed it….sorry for getting “too heavy”….i really want to have fun too.
·       Apr 02 12:54 AM Sassy: So are you a Yankees fan?
·       Apr 02 12:54 AM Kris: LOL…no…but
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Kris: i’m not a big baseball fan in general…like football better…
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Sassy: S’okay
·       Apr 02 12:55 AM Kris: lol
Apr 02 12:55 AM Sassy: Should I let you get to bed?
·       Apr 02 12:56 AM Kris: i’m ok…but it makes sense to go
·       Apr 02 12:56 AM Sassy: Freaked out yet?
·       Apr 02 12:57 AM Kris: no….appreciate your honesty…frankness…humor…pretty face….and big tits (sorry)
·       Apr 02 12:58 AM Sassy: Ha ha
·       Apr 02 12:58 AM Kris: nite…hope to talk to you again soon.
·       Apr 02 12:59 AM Sassy: Want to try tomorrow night?
·       Apr 02 12:59 AM Kris: yes…hold on so i can tell you about when….
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Kris: realistically…i have a late session…then to the gym after…is 10:00 too late?
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Sassy: Nope. Fine.
·       Apr 02 1:01 AM Kris: what time do you have to be at work?
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: 9 am. You?
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: hope you get enough sleep tonite.
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM
Kris: same…9
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: I’ll be fine
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: k….nite
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: Mwah!
·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Sassy: Sweet sexy dreams!

·       Apr 02 1:02 AM Kris: same to you!


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It's the gal you knew in high school that you've wondered about. And she's got something to say! Time to heat up old flames!

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