Monthly Archives: August 2014

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First chat with Glider

Friday, August 16, 2013
·        11:18 AM
Sassy: Hiya
·        11:18 AM
Sassy: Happy Friday!
·        11:20 AM
Glider: Same to you. Working?
·        11:20 AM
Sassy: Yes. You?
·        11:20 AM
Glider: Yes but would rather not
·        11:20 AM
Sassy: I hear ya
·        11:20 AM
Glider: you in Boston?
·        11:20 AM
Sassy: Yes.
·        11:21 AM
Glider: lived there many years ago
·        11:21 AM
Sassy: while in school?
·        11:21 AM
Glider: no younger days
·        11:22 AM
Sassy: where are you now?
·        11:22 AM
Glider:  western suburb
·        11:22 AM
Sassy: Ah!
·        11:23 AM
Sassy: I went there to eat once. 
·        11:23 AM
Glider: where?
·        11:25 AM
Glider: what part of Boston?
·        11:25 AM
Sassy: Hmmm… a barbecue place on the main street …
·        11:25 AM
Sassy: They had chocolate bacon.
·        11:25 AM
Glider: ah, I remember that place
·        11:25 AM
Glider: decadent
·        11:25 AM
Sassy: I don’t think it’s there anymore…
11:25 AM
Glider:  you’re right
·        11:27 AM
Glider: so we are both playing while at work
·        11:27 AM
Sassy: Yes. Do you have your own office?
·        11:28 AM
Glider: yes I am there now
·        11:28 AM
Sassy: I work in an open office… lots of people around.
·        11:28 AM
Glider: and they are none the wiser
·        11:28 AM
Sassy: yup
·        11:29 AM
Glider: it’s a good sneaky feeling
 11:29 AM
Sassy:  😉 
·        11:29 AM
Glider: looking busy
·        11:29 AM
Glider: I was glad you responded to me
·        11:31 AM
Sassy: It can be nerve-wracking waiting so I try to respond as soon as I can
·        11:32 AM
Glider: me too.if I can I like to be responsive quickly
·        11:33 AM
Glider: Met any fellas on AM yet?
·        11:34 AM
Sassy: Yes. You met any lovely women?
·        11:35 AM
Glider: I’ve met a few but no keepers so to speak
·        11:36 AM
Sassy: Sounds familiar.
·        11:36 AM
Glider: if there is such a thing as a keeper there
·        11:39 AM
Glider: your description of yourself is exquisite
·        11:44 AM
Sassy: thanks!
·        11:44 AM
Sassy: I tossed it up there one night, was afraid I’d lose my nerve if I pondered it too long
·        11:45 AM
Glider: sometimes it’s best not to over think, sometimes it is
·        11:46 AM
Sassy: My friends talked me into it… I was convinced no man would respond.
·        11:47 AM
Glider: you were obviously proven wrong
·        11:48 AM
Sassy: How did you find the site?
·        11:49 AM
Glider: friend let it slip he was on there
·        11:49 AM
Sassy: Cool!
·       11:51 AM
Glider: he doesn’t know I am. I was pretty casual about it
·        11:54 AM
Sassy: Are the stats you put up accurate?
·        11:55 AM
Glider: yes they are. I figure why lie. if I were to meet someone it wouldn’t work. you?
·        11:55 AM
Sassy: Yes.
·        11:55 AM
Sassy: I’ve been running into guys who are MUCH older than they say.
·        11:55 AM
Glider: 52
·        11:55 AM
Sassy: Age doesn’t matter much, but when they put 50 and they’re 68…
·        11:56 AM
Glider: who are they kidding?
·        11:56 AM
Sassy: I don’t mind a little fudging, for security reasons, so their wife can’t id them… but that’s a bit much!
 11:57 AM
Sassy: Do you need to run? You said noon… don’t want to make you late for something.
·        11:58 AM
Glider: no, gotta run by 12:30 but you can always catch me on email
·        11:58 AM
Glider: good memory
·        11:58 AM
Sassy: Yahoo email is horked right now. Grrr..
·        11:58 AM
Sassy: Thank you ever so much for the early morning message… made me smile.
·        11:58 AM
Glider: I’m glad it did
·        11:59 AM
Sassy: Great way to start my day!
·        11:59 AM
Glider: yahoo mail never works when you are sneaking around
·        11:59 AM
Sassy: Many days I would be like… whatever.
·        11:59 AM
Sassy: But in the early going I wanted to connect so badly!
·        12:00 PM
Glider: I understand completely
·        12:02 PM
Sassy: Do you have hair?
·        12:03 PM
Glider: full head
·        12:03 PM
Sassy: Yay! Doesn’t matter… just wondered.
·        12:05 PM
Glider: what color hair for you?
·        12:05 PM
Sassy: Silver.  Long
·        12:06 PM
Glider: Silver is very nice. I have some of that
·        12:09 PM
Glider: More that I like to admit
·       12:13 PM
Sassy: Awww… you probably look distinguished?
·        12:14 PM
Glider: that’s sweet
·        12:16 PM
Sassy: So what brings you to AM?
·        12:17 PM
Glider: woke up one day and asked myself if this is all there is.
·        12:18 PM
Glider: you?
·        12:18 PM
Sassy: I get nothing at home… finished cancer treatment and said…I don’t want to live half a life… I want to be touched and touch someone…
·        12:19 PM
Glider: like roommates?
·        12:20 PM
Sassy: Yes. We’re a good team, except in the bedroom.
·        12:20 PM
Glider: any guilt?
·        12:20 PM
Sassy: None
·        12:21 PM
Sassy: You?
·        12:21 PM
Glider: zero
·        12:21 PM
Sassy: Phew. That’s good. I have run into some guilt kings.
·        12:21 PM
Glider: wrong place for them to be
·        12:22 PM
Sassy: A lot of guys jump in before they realize what it all means
·        12:22 PM
Sassy: I get it… but… ugh
·        12:23 PM
Sassy: It never would’ve occurred to me to cheat but an old flame found me… someone I dated for 3 weeks in h.s. (holding hands at lunch mostly)
·        12:24 PM
Sassy: He wanted to finish what we started 30+ yrs ago
·        12:24 PM
Glider: and did you?
·        12:24 PM
Sassy: Yes.
·        12:24 PM
Sassy:  But he is military… miles away
·        12:24 PM
Sassy: He encouraged me to find someone local… live it up
·        12:25 PM
Glider: how would you see something working out?
·        12:25 PM
Sassy: It sounds so trite.. but…
·        12:26 PM
Sassy: find a nice man to be with now and then
·        12:27 PM
Sassy: So many of the details depend on the guy’s schedule, finances etc.
·        12:27 PM
Glider: it isn’t easy
·        12:30 PM
Sassy: I get a lot of time off, so I end up taking a morning or afternoon…
·        12:30 PM
Sassy: I am very flexible
·        12:30 PM
Sassy: Can do almost any time… H doesn’t watch over me at all
  12:31 PM
Glider: I am out of the office quite a bit so that could work
·        12:31 PM
Sassy: I can also do evenings or weekends, but you probably can’t?
·        12:34 PM
Glider: takes a bit more notice but possible
·        12:34 PM
Sassy: Interesting
·        12:35 PM
Sassy: I need to run to lunch.. would like to chat more soon… if you’re still interested.
·        12:36 PM
Glider: absolutely but you will have to catch me on email. ok?
·        12:36 PM
Sassy: Sure.
·        12:37 PM
Glider: enjoy the lunch and imagine sharing it with a new guy
·        12:37 PM
Sassy: MInd if I ask you random questions? No right/wrong answers… just poke around, get an idea of what you like?
·        12:37 PM
Sassy: In email… I mean
·        12:37 PM
Glider: please do
·       12:38 PM
Glider: ask me anything
·        12:38 PM
Sassy: If you don’t want to answer any, I understand
·        12:38 PM
Glider: do my best
·        12:38 PM
Sassy: Keep yourself safe, until you know I am not part of the evil in this world. 
·        12:39 PM
Glider: I don’t sense any evil
·        12:39 PM
Sassy:  🙂
·        12:40 PM
Sassy: Try to misbehave!
·        12:41 PM
Glider: that I can handle
·        12:43 PM
Sassy: Mwah!
·        12:45 PM

Glider: Back at you sexy!


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Seducing Glider

From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 7:19 am 
Re: Connection
Good Morning,
I’ll be around until noon if you get a second. You live or work in Boston? You certainly have a way with words. I had a guest membership and couldn’t send or receive messages and bit the bullet and upgraded so I could reply to you. Glad I did!
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 10:46 AM 
Re: Connection
You said your voice is sultry.  Sultry makes me weak in the knees
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From: Sassy
To: Glider
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 11:35 AM 
Re: Connection
Ah… maybe you should lie down.  🙂 
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 2:35 PM
Re: Connection
Tempting
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013  2:48 PM 
Re: Connection
You said you’re the best kisser.  Kissing is mistakenly underrated by many
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 3:03 PM
Re: Connection
awww… now you’re just trying to get on my good side!
But you’re right.  I miss the simple things the most… kissing, back rubs… *sigh  Though I do think about more.  
I’ll send you a sample of my erotic writing.  
I hope you won’t think I’m too much of a hussy!
-S
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 3:04 PM 
Subject: The view
Just as I was finishing my last meeting of the day yesterday, 
gathering my papers off the marble table in the conference 
room on the 36th floor, the sound of sirens wafted up from 
the expressway below.  Everyone else had left the room, so 
I took a minute to lean over the marble counter and stare 
down at the roadway.  There was a horrible wreck of mangled 
metal and shattered glass, several cars and a tractor trailer 
twisted together.  The traffic was stopped behind the mess, 
and the cars on the other side barely moved, rubbernecking.
Suddenly, I heard the door close. I straightened up, but before I
could turn, I felt your arm around my waist, and felt the heat of you
on my back through my dress.  You were already hard, pressed
tightly against my ass.  I started to speak, but you put a finger
on my lips and teased a corner.  I licked your thumb, and you moved
your hand down to unbutton my dress.  Just enough to slip
your hand inside and tease a hard nipple.  I moaned and let my head
fall back against your shoulder.  You bit my neck and ran your
tongue across my skin.
You slipped your hand under my skirt and inside my underwear,
teasing my most sensitive spot.  You pressed a finger inside,
unsurprised at the moisture gathered there.  I was startled
as you lowered my underwear.  I felt like my knees would
buckle, but you tightened your grip and spread my legs to
balance me against the counter.  I panicked when I heard
the rasping sound of your zipper, but before I could form the
words in my mind to stop you, I felt you hot and hard against
my skin, and a low moan was all that escaped my lips.  You
shoved it inside me, and your breathing grew ragged as you
watched yourself slide in and out.  You kneaded the flesh of
my hips as you moved, then reached around me to rub the top
of my slit in time with your strokes.  I was trying to be
quiet, but could not hold in all the gasps of pleasure as
you thrust deeper and deeper inside me, your balls slapping
against me.  You felt the trembling start inside me, and
the clenching around you.  You felt the pulsing, the searing
heat and suddenly lost control, pounding me into the wood
and stone, spurting up inside me over and over.
The only sound was our uneven breathing and the whirring
air conditioning.  You pressed your cheek to my back and
whispered, “What a view…”
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013  3:09 PM 
Subject: re: The view
Now you’re trying to get on my good side. I’m speechless. 
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013  3:10 PM 
Subject: re: The view
Busted. Good side,bad side. I’ll take it
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013  3:15 PM 
Subject: re: The view
Going into a brief meeting. Will I be able to concentrate????
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 3:15 PM 
Subject: re: The view
Now you can see where my energies are channeled 
when I’ve been alone for awhile. 
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 4:12 PM 
Subject: re: The view
How’d it go?  I hope the thought of a buxom wench was a major distraction!  
Heading out of the office… more later. 
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013 4:12 PM
Subject: re: The view
Well that was a productive meeting. Mind was wandering just a tad
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent: Aug 16, 2013  4:16 PM 
Subject: re: The view
Looking forward to more. 
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From: Glider 
To: Sassy
Sent:  Aug 16, 2013 5:26 PM 
Subject: re: The view
You are seducing me. I have a feeling you know how to keep a man 
on his toes or where ever else you want him. Ask me anything you
 want to know to keep this moving forward.
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Rare photos


Friday, August 16, 2013
1:55pm
Happy Friday kid!  
Check out these 19 old photos… Rare photos of some amazing people – Little White Lion
http://littlewhitelion.com/rare-photos-of-some-amazing-people-awesome/

something about the Don Johnson one reminds me of you and a minister’s daughter!

5:29pm Phil
Very cool! Don Johnson in no way reminds me of me but thanks!
5:49pm
The way he is looking at the camera, reminds me a lot of the old photo of you that makes me plotz.
5:59pm
And it reminded me of a time I sat on your lap!
But that was a long time ago.
6:36pm Phil
[photo of his smiling face outside with a cigar in his hand]
6:39pm
Hiya kid.  Man… your smile does things to me!  SEXY BEAST!
6:52pm Phil
Fresh out of the gym
 [photo of him outside, all sweaty and smiling]
11:08pm Phil
[photo of him outside at night with a tumbler of scotch and a cigar in his hand]
11:11pm
Hiya hot stuff… damn you are a fine looking fella!  Living the good life, I see!  Good food, good cigar, good booze… wish I could add the good woman!
11:32pm
Just chillaxing

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The Wink

Thursday, August 15, 2013

So I get a message from Ashley Madison.  The subject line looks really juicy:

Today 1 member has contacted you! 

Woohoo!

Then I open it and it reads In the last 24 hours you have received
1 wink. 

*sigh* Well.. that’s something.  That cost him nothing.  Ah well… it is the first AM contact I’ve gotten in weeks, and my first contact since the jerk in July, so I’m skittish.  But I think it’s worth a look.

I took a deep, logged in to AM and looked at his profile. Age 52.  6’0” 215 pounds.  Sounds about right.  From a nice suburb, with the “Anything Goes” limit that is not a limit at all!  Attached male… good.  It was very terse but there was a spark there.  So I winked him back.

He wrote me three times, the last one offering me his Yahoo ID and an invitation to chat.  I stared at the messages for awhile.  Am I really going to try this again?  Take a deep breath.  It will be fine.  Baby steps.  

So I switched over to email and tried to make a Yahoo IM connection.

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To: Glider
From: Sassy
Sent: Thu, Aug 15, 2013 8:41 PM
Subject: Connection

Hiya!  I’m home, ready to chat.  -Sassy
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To: Sassy
From: Glider
Sent: Aug 15, 2013 9:08 PM 
Subject: re: Connection
Free at last 
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To: Sassy
From: Glider
Sent: Aug 15, 2013 10:38 PM 
Subject: re: Connection
Got an early day tomoorow so I’m gonna hit it. 
Catch up with me when you. I really want to learn more about you.
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To: Glider
From: Sassy
Sent: Thu, Aug 15, 2013 11:11 PM
Subject: Re: Connection

Hiya!  Tried a couple of times… ping me tomorrow whenever? 
Hope you have sweet sexy dreams!
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We didn’t make the connection.  That’s a first.  Hope we have better luck tomorrow! 
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Lobster on me

Thursday, August 15, 2013
8:22am
Good morning kid!  Another beautiful day! Cleaners, project lunch and lots of juicy work!  Whoo Hoo! Almost Friday! Have a great day!
Have you decided where you’re moving when you retire?
9:15am Phil
Staying here for the time being. My actual end of service date isn’t until next year,  and I can stay till then. Gotta find a job!
9:20am Phil
Morning!
[photo of his smiling face in the office]
10:48am
Ah… next year.  That gives you a little more time.  You probably have loads of contacts but if I can help on the job front, don’t hesitate to ask.
Here’s a little slideshow of my photos from Monday’s adventure to RI.  
Safe for work.  
12:52pm Phil
Wow!  Looks awesome!  Great looking food! I’m watching my waistline so most of that would be in my “do not eat” category except maybe the lobster as long as I skip the roll! Gorgeous shots.
2:40pm
How is your weight going? I’ve been losing, so I decided to splurge for one day. The food was especially good this trip!  I did skip the roll!  We shared most things.  Also, I’ve learned that it’s okay not to finish restaurants meals.  My mom trained us to clean our plates but it’s okay not to when someone else determines the serving size and it’s too much!  The other thing was not to order an entree at dinner.  We sampled apps and salads instead. But you should’ve seen the baked stuffed lobster at The Boat House… someone at a table next to us got it and oh man… a thing of beauty!  I am going back for that for sure! 
4:20pm Phil
I would have taken that stuffed lobster! I roll up, I roll down, back on the downward trend again. As long as I have time and a steady workout routine, I do well.  When I get too busy, not so much. I just try to exercise every day and watch what I eat.  Not too hard!

6:44 pm
Dinner at PF Chang’s

Cucumber strawberry lemonade

 Dynamite shrimp, spring rolls, hot & sour soup,
 spicy green beans and roast duck summer rolls 

8:59pm
Hey kid – get yourself to RI and the lobster is on me!
10:00pm Phil
That’s an interesting way to eat lobster 🙂
10:02pm
Ooh you!  Man… that gets my imagination going!  Yum…

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A Rhode Island Adventure

August 12th, 2013
[from my private journal]
     
08:44 pm – A Rhode Island Adventure 

Hubby and I got out of town today and headed South to Rhode Island!  
It was one of those perfect summer weather  “don’t waste it!” days. 
The view of Mount Hope Bay from 
The Boat House Restaurant, Tiverton, RI

It’s an easy drive from Boston down Rte 93 to Rte 24.  Take exit 2 toward 

Bristol, then Rte 114 and go over the spectacular Mount Hope Bridge.  
You can see for MILES in every direction!  Go up Rte 114 into Bristol. 
DELICIOUS LUNCH
We started with lunch on the Bristol Harbor front at Quito’s.  Get there 
early – the deck fills up by a little after 12 noon.

They have a covered deck so we ate looking out at the boats and the water
of Bristol Harbor.  

I had a cup of the best New England clam chowder  – creamy and 

seasoned just right  I also had a quahog – yummy stuffing.  Hubby had the 
fish and chips which he declared fresh and delicious.  I had a warm
 lobster roll.  I snarfed the lobster and skipped the roll.  Their cole slaw 
is excellent, too.  We shared big crunchy onion rings with remoulade.  

We strolled along the haborfront walk in the sunshine.  It was in the
 mid-70’s today.  There are cute little shops like “Luna Sea” (get it?) 
and a fun jewelry, clothes, bath products place. 
BEAUTIFUL BEACH
We drove down to Little Compton.  A shop owner told me about a 
“secret beach” and gave me directions, which is good because our phones
 had no signal and the GPS sent us the oddest way.  There are no signs 
but we managed to find this gorgeous place called South Shore Beach! 
 It is miles of rocks and sand.   They were charging for parking today – $12. 
We strolled down to see the peaceful freshwater pond across the way.

Incredible scenery!   A nice man from MA took our photo!  
He’s a diver and told us about other fun beaches he frequents. 

ICE CREAM 
We stopped at a classic roadside ice cream parlour and general store in 
Tiverton.  I had a creamy butter pecan sugar cone.  

ANOTHER BEACH

I needed another beach so we pulled in to a small beach called Grinnell.  
It has a gorgeous view of an inlet with a little island.  And real bathrooms!  
And a phone signal!   We sat in their lot plotting our next move.  We
checked Yelp and they sent us about a mile up the road to an incredible spot.  

DINNER with a VIEW

We considered going to Evelyn’s Drive-in in Tiverton or driving back to
 Bristol to Redlefson’s (the German place) but ended up at The Boat House 
Waterfront Dining with a stunning view of Great Hope Bay at sunset.

This may be the best restaurant I have ever experienced!  The combination
of the spectacular view, friendly service and the innovative locally sourced
food with reasonable prices make it stand out in my memory.  It has two
decks, two bars and a fine restaurant situated about 100 ft above the bay.
It’s a popular spot for summer weddings.  

We were brave and sat outside.  The sun was a bit much but we shifted my 

chair around and enjoyed the breeze.  We started with warm sourdough rolls
 and whipped butter – always the sign of a classy place.  We had a very chatty
 helpful waitress who pointed our their local sourcing and talked up the 
highest-priced entrees, but we weren’t that hungry after the big lunch and 
ice cream so we made our own way through an eclectic selection of 
– their unique “Hall of Fame Chowder” with Baby Maine shrimp,
 chourico, and corn

– NEW ENGLAND KIELBASA
Golden oyster mushrooms, green onion puree, asparagus, grain 
mustard-Banyuls sauce

– LOBSTER FRITTERS with Sweet corn, chipotle aioli 

– MIXED FIELD GREENS 
Pecans, goat cheese, radish, onion, tomato, cucumber, 
Champagne-honey dressing

– BUTTERSCOTCH BANANA CAKE
Warmed, maple walnut ice cream, butterscotch, walnuts and toffee crunch

Contrary to the conventional wisdom that a restaurant with a view 

doesn’t have very good food, each dish proclaimed “This place has 
a real CHEF” and was a delicious combination of ingredients.  I will 
say that I could not taste any lobster in the fritters but they are okay 
on the hush puppy-like end of things.   It would be great to go back 
when the foliage is in season or for a warm dinner by the water in 
the colder months. 
What a day!  It is only an hour home, but felt like a real vacation!  
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Drive In Memories

Monday, August 12, 2013
4:39pm
Day trip to RI – just drove past Evelyn’s Drive In. 
5:53pm Phil
Awesome!  I loved that place!
6:25pm
Look up The Boat House, Tiverton.  It’s spectacular!   Food, view…
6:33pm Phil
WOW! Looks spectacular!
7:19pm Phil
[photo of his face, drinking scotch with a cigar in his hand]
7:31pm Phil
Ahhhhhhhh
Good scotch, good cigar, good tunes!

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Thriving

August 11th, 2013
[from my private journal]
     
03:09 pm – Two year survivor and thriver! 
 Two years ago today, I saw my oncologist at Mass General Hospital, 
which marked the end of nine intense months of being tested, cut,
 stabbed,  poisoned and zapped in my effort to fight breast cancer.  
In some ways, it feels like yesterday.  In other ways, it was another life.  
I was very lucky to find my way to the Yawkey Center for Women’s 
Cancer at Mass General Hospital, thanks to the tenacity of my project pals
who worked there and at my health clinic.  The staff at those medical 
establishments saw me through some very challenging days with their 
expertise, ingenuity and humor. 
There was also an incredible sense of community and gratitude to 
everyone who sent me cat videos, brought me food or flowers, 
commented on my Facebook or blog, participated in the astonishing
“chemo calendar” that gave me gifts to open every week, sat with
 me in waiting rooms or treatment rooms and filled in with tasks I could 
not do for awhile.  And the folks who walked or rode bikes or donated 
to cancer research in my name!  I think of you today and hope you 
know what a difference you made.  Thank you! 
I left treatment with a fervent desire for my hair to grow back really fast!  
I had a renewed appreciation of  “Life is short – live it to the fullest!”  
And a gnawing feeling, as yet unresolved, that I should be doing 
something different with my life, that I lived for a reason.  I’m still 
searching for that path.