September 13, 2017 Wednesday
3:30 PM Sassy
In Boston picking up new shoes from the special orthopedic guy. They’re ugly but they keep my feet in good health!
4:18 PM Sassy
Early Chinese dinner at Shanghai Gate in Allston – adore their cheese rolls and yu shiang pork!
7:15 PM Sassy
This applies in so many circumstances. You’ve certainly shown me many ways it applies!
September 12, 2017 Tuesday
Ashley Madison Message
Date: Sep 12th – 9:06pm
From: WrySmile
To: Sassy
Message
Hi Sassy
Let me buy you a Toscanini’s sundae or cappuccino so we can talk. I really enjoy your profile, your tagline and the fact that you live nearby. I have to admit that I’m a bit put off by your dimensions, but you seem like fun. So let’s meet.
About me: I’m friendly, open, warm, honest, well-educated and occasionally quirky. I’ve been called a great conversationalist. I love to make people laugh. I’m occasionally called handsome, but I doubt I’ve ever been called sexy. I’m told I have kind eyes, but I have no idea what that means. My wife described me this way: “You’re interested in everyone and you respect everyone.”
To echo what you want in your profile: I’m smart (at least that’s what my degrees say), I believe I have a good sense of humor, and I’m often upbeat. I like a wide variety of restaurants. I love to make people laugh and smile – especially women.
The relationship I’m looking for will be based on good conversation and sex. I think my profile describe me quite well. Take a look and see if you feel like a trip to Toscanini’s with me.
PS1: You can use wrysmile688@gmail.com to contact me.
PS2: Got a photo?
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Hmmm… he jumps straight to wanting to meet. And gives me an email right away. That usually does not bode well. But an offer of ice cream is different… how creative! and one of the best places across the river! I usually get invited “for coffee” or “for drinks” neither of which appeal. Ice cream? YUM!
But the line about my “dimensions?” Ugh. Normal I guess, and honest but… yuck. It reminds me of the line about what people fear when meeting a person online. Men worry the woman will be fat. Women worry the man will kill them. *sigh
Otherwise, he sounds possible. I’d better go look at his profile to see if it makes him look better or worse.
Let’s see….
Good tagline around humor! That’s a great start!
Photo is not great…his face cropped from some random group photo with the added goofy Ashley Madison eye mask. Not smiling. He has hair on his head! Nice beard.
A little older than I am. Good.
Lives nearby… okay.
A little taller. Okay.
Weight… skinny. Eh.
Wants something long term. Good.
Didn’t answer the smoking question?
Wants someone smart! Yay!
Nice guy. Yes, please.
Wants to charm me, make me smile, make me laugh. Great!
Says no sex with his wife and she’s okay for him to look elsewhere. Wow. Never seen that before.
Spelled discreet wrong. Twice. Heh. What it is with that word guys?!
He put requirements, which I can easily meet. Then he put a wish list – good way to express that! He mentioned one of my favorite rather obscure movies!
He mentions anal sex. Eh. But then a lot of guys do, sort of a litmus test to see if you’re flexible and non-vanilla, but then they never try to do it.
He would like 420 friendly. Bleh.
An interesting mix… maybe worth responding to and eating an ice cream to see if the positives outweigh the negatives? Do I really want to jump back into this again? I need to think it over.
September 12, 2017 Tuesday
11:47 AM Sassy
Lobster bao bao! Tom’s Bao Bao in Harvard Square
September 11, 2017 Monday
I was poking around online on Ashley Madison and noticed that the Big Fish had clicked on my profile. So I clicked on his profile to see if he had changed it. He’d tweaked a few things – updated his age and added a few more items about himself.
Soon after that, after 5 months of silence, he messaged me again on Ashley Madison!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Date:Sep 11th – 12:16am
Message
Hi Sassy Nice to know that I still catch your eye.
Many apologies for being unreliable about being in touch — nervous I guess.
About a year ago, I think, we met at John Harvard’s. A very very hot interaction! I remember fondly (lustfully), but don’t know if that area is the place to get together again.
A big hug, a smooch, and a nice grope! T
Date:Sep 11th – 8:30am
From:Sassy
To: Thad
Message
Hiya hot stuff!
Wonderful to read your words again!
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September 11, 2017 Monday
11:18 PM Sassy
The ocean receded just prior to Hurricane Irma, some guys saw two stranded manatees and used Facebook to get help! Woot!
September 10, 2017 Sunday
7:21 AM Sassy
Good morning kid! What a sunrise!
8:17 AM Phil
Good morning! Pretty day!
7:39 PM Sassy
Italian supper at Regina Pizzeria in The Station Landing in Everett
September 9, 2017 Saturday
3:47 PM Sassy
I have to admit I had never heard of this marvelous musician who died yesterday. Here’s a beautiful tune
Written By Sam Hogin & Roger Cook
I don’t believe in superstars
Organic food and foreign cars
I don’t believe the price of gold
The certainty of growing old
That right is right and left is wrong
That north and south can’t get along
That east is east and west is west
And bein’ first is always best.
But I believe in love
I believe in babies
I believe in mom and dad
And I believe in you.
Well, I dont believe that heaven waits
For only those who congregate
I’d like to think of God as love
He’s down below
He’s up above
He’s watchin’ people everywhere
He knows who does and doesn’t care
And I’m an ordinary man
Sometimes I wonder who I am.
But I believe in love
I believe in music
I believe in magic
And I believe in you.
I know with all my certainty
What’s goin’ on with you and me
Is a good thing
It’s true
I believe in you.
I dont believe virginity
Is as common as it used be
In workin’ days and sleepin’ nights
That black is black and white is white
That Superman and Robinhood
Are still alive in Hollywood
That gasoline’s in short supply
The risin’ cost of gettin’ by
But I believe in love
I believe in old folks
I believe in children
I believe in you.
Wow! That’s lovely.
September 8, 2017 Friday
5:21 PM Phil
Happy Birthday Sass!
Hope you have a beautiful day!
5:37 PM Sassy
Aww…thanks kid!
5:41 PM Phil
[graphic of a little girl with a birthday cake, balloons and a little kitty]
5:42 PM Sassy
Hee hee! Kitty!
10:25 PM Sassy
Sis took us out for a spectacular dinner – first time at Oleana in Cambridge!!
September 7, 2017 Thursday
5:28 PM Phil
[photo of Legal Sea Foods restaurant]
9:39 PM Sassy
Ooh! Did you eat there?
9:42 PM Phil
Just had a drink. Had Mexican for dinner
9:43 PM Sassy
Oooh…fish tacos?
I had paella.
9:34 PM Phil
burrito for me
9:42 PM Sassy
Venezuelan dinner at La Casa de Pedro in Watertown
So many storms!
September 6, 2017 Wednesday
2:03 pm Truck
Miss you a lot, hope your summer went well xoxox