I had a few minutes in between getting everything set up for the big event at work and when it started so I pulled out my laptop and replied to Mister_C.

Good morning MC! Hope your day is off to a grand start. The weather is perfect! I’m running a big conference, so the good weather makes all that so much easier. 

I was a completely mundane, faithful wife until 5 years ago. Hubby and I are great friends, but he decided he wasn’t interested in touching me anymore. I thought that part of my life was over. An old flame from high school found me after 37 years. We had only held hands in the cafeteria and kissed under the stairs for about three weeks, yet I stuck in his mind and he wanted to see if the flames still burned. He talked me into meeting him in D.C. “for dinner.” I figured he’d never touch an old curvy married lady, but he did! We had a grand time, but he was married, military, miles away… he encouraged me to find a local option. Then I got cancer four years ago and spent 9 months fighting that… taught me a lot including the whole “life is short” lesson. I want a full life, including sex! 

Several of my friends encouraged me to join Ashley Madison. I figured no one would respond, but they did! It doesn’t feel like the right place for me, but another step on my way to where I belong. I spent all my emotions on the old flame, so I’m only looking for passion and fun now. Hubby does his thing and I do mine. I know a lot about not getting caught to help my friends and the men I meet, but I don’t have to worry about it for myself. I promised to look after him – he’s a creative type who can’t manage the daily aspects of life – and I will continue to do that.

Very glad to hear you knew the right way to join AM. I talked to folks last night who are getting blackmail emails (the men) or random requests for sex (the women). It’s ugly. I’m closed to the character limit, so I’ll continue in another message. Mwah!

Hi again! So what’s your favorite type of restaurant? My favorite has lobster. I also adore Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese and even a good steak now and then. I look for cheap, fast and good. Tough to find all three! 

Sorry if I crossed the line too fast for you! Men who push to meet right away feel fast to me. It’s been a long while since a man hugged me, so I am ready for a good long hug! And life is short… 

We can switch to email and chat soon. Do you use gmail or yahoo or something else? Sadly I’ve met some bad men, so it takes me a little while to trust enough to set a meet, but I am not an email queen. I am interested in face-to-face! 

Do you have children? I have two cats – rambunctious brothers – who entertain me. Want to share something about your work? I’m an office manager, that efficient woman in the back office who makes everything run smoothly and no one notices. 🙂 

I can take off for daytime adventures, or do late afternoon meets/dinners and weekends. I know you probably have way more limits and I am used to dealing with that. If you can find time every other week or so? I want you to be cautious and stay safe, while having great adventures. Hugs with groping! And an ear nibble. 😉 -Sassy

My favorite type of dining is casual, I’m not a big fan of fancy but can do it if it fits. Having grown up near the sea, I find it strange that I’m not really a lobster fan. Once a year is enough for me on lobster, my seafood is fried clams. I love asian in both of its forms, americanized and authentic. I’m 
comfortable in a dive bar (within limits) chowing down on bar favorites as well. 

Two children. Both grown and living away from home.

MC