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G-spot

Tuesday, December 20

8:34 am
Phil:    Good morning. Quiet day today I hope. Anxious to get going tomorrow and be home for Christmas. I will miss here though. Would have been nice to build a fire and spend an evening reading, watching movies. Be nice to walk on the beach though. Can’t wait to see the family. I like the drive too. Got some books on CD to enjoy. 

I internalize most of my feelings, rarely speak about what I feel. Work is my crutch. I’m good at it and I enjoy it. The rest is what makes life interesting. Too much swimming around in my brain. Hope the day is good.
10:37 am
Good morning, sweet man. Staff mtg at 11 am, hoping pizza arrives this time. Budget mtg 2 pm to plan for next year. 

I was NOT asking about feelings – I know better than to ask a man about that!  If any leak out, that’s okay. Just wondered if you think, “I wish she’d….” or “I wish she’d stop…” Just opening a door, clear the air etc. But don’t worry about it if that’s not your style. Have a lovely day and think of the girl at her desk, thinking of you…
12:43pm
Phil: I’m good. Nice to have you to listen. Not everyone hears what is said without judging it first.
Pretty much done with my day, have to hit the gym. Down 15 pounds and still dropping. Weight loss is noticeable at this point, pants getting pretty loose, shirts hanging. I want to drop another 30lbs at least. That gets me down to a waist size in the mid 30s which is good for me.
I’d give a lot for an evening alone to relax in the house but Sally is there every second unless she is shopping or out to lunch. She needs a job but it’s much easier to pluck the golden goose. I get to travel in January and I am looking forward to just me time for a few days. Ah well. One more meeting tomorrow morning and then off to the beach.  She sleeps, I listen to my books, great trip.

3:33 pm
I survived my meetings! Staff meeting ran 45 min over! Eep! At least the pizza arrived this time. And budgeting… how can it take an hour to say “same as last year?!” Arrgh.
4:10pm
Phil: Ha ha.  Been there, done that.  
4:32pm
Ok… short anatomy lesson.  or “why Sassy asked you to curl your fingers and press toward the ceiling.”   It seems women have “erectile tissue” …the so-called G-spot.  How did I not know this?!  Did you know it? 
I found a great diagram!  Please study it! :0
It also describes 3 positions to hit it with ease… putting this on my f*it list!  It sounds technical but the phrase that caught my eye was “Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.” Hee!
            



Finding and stimulating the g-spot in a womans body including a picture of the g-spot location in a female

4:32 pm 
Off to shop.  YUCK!  Have a nice evening.  I hope you get some “me” time.  I would love to interrupt you for some “Fuck time” but know how much you value your solitude.  If you change your mind, you know where I am…
6:56pm
Survived the “valley of the things!”  With any luck, I won’t have to set foot in a store until next December.  🙂
9:03pm
Best of luck with the travels! 

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Monday, December 19
8:19am
Phil: Good morning. Slow day today but lot of cats and dogs before heading home. Had a nice weekend. Football sucked but otherwise ok. Weather is cool but not bad. Not expecting any snow. Looking forward to Christmas, all of us together is nice. Chance to take some family photos. Cousin about my age thinking marriage. First time.  My brother is having real health issues. Glad to be going home. Hope your day is good
11:12am
Good morning!  Cold start in the 20s but headed to 45.  Sun is shining, feeling great!  Progress – Hubby got up and showered and went out to work at the coffee house!  Office is quiet.  Trying to get ahead on January conference tasks.  Have a great Monday!
12:06pm
Wow… big doings with the men-folk in your family!  Has your cousin known his intended long?  What’s going on with Tommy? Can they fix him?  I will pray for them both.  I’ve done all my work… looking for something else to do.  Any suggestions? 
2:52pm
Phil: My brother has [disease]. Hitting him hard lately. My cousin has known this young lady for many years.
3:55pm
Had you heard of that disease before?  I had to look it up.  Sounds like it can be managed if he has good care… hope so! 
Our organist married after years with a guy, and they broke up 6 months later!  Eek.  Luckily, she is married again, with twins!
Do you like your cousin’s lady?  Think his marriage is a good idea?  I’m fascinated when people who’ve known each other suddenly consider marrying.  It usually means a great party! 
How are things going with Sally and you? She’s smiling more in the photos.…
5:21pm
Phil: No, had to look it up too. I like my cousin’s gal, good for him. He is where he wants something permanent. Sally likes it here, likes the people. She does not work so life is good. She likes volunteering. We get along well, always did till she got nasty a few years back. Much easier to be around now. No romance, sedate old married couple, that sucks. 
6:32pm
Phil: This spelling help function sucks. Sorry, screws up my words
7:17pm
No worries.  I get it most of the time… I just got it on my new computer… had not understood for years what people were on about but now I do! 
7:27pm
Phil: LOL
7:31pm
Since I’m being all nosy, how are we doing?  Now and then I feel like I should remind you that even if you’re not used to being able to say what you want, you can do it with me. You can tell me anytime, or not say if you’d rather not.  But here’s a chance to mouth off good or bad… I sometimes find I’ve been arguing with you in my head or thinking wonderful things and not getting around to saying them, and that’s not fair and when I just come out with it, you are very nice about it!



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Catching up


Saturday, December 17
9:58am
Good morning!  36 cloudy!  Hope you have a great Saturday!
10:31am
Phil: You too girl.  Snowing here. Yippee! Neighborhood party tonight.  Great time!
11:10am
Hiya, kid. Your house looks so festive in the snow!  And main buildings are so majestic.  Off to help mom stuff envelopes for her Christmas letters!

7:08pm
Had a fun dinner out at Christopher’s with a gal pal.  So good that the holidays make people remember to get together and catch-up!  You know I always think of you when I have a yummy crock of clam chowder.  The fried pickle sticks were good, too.  But the chocolate chip bread pudding was the best!

Clam chowder and fried pickle sticks 
Chocolate chip bread pudding

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Christmas plans

Friday, December 16
8:27am
Good morning!  Good weather?  47 clear, into the 50s later.  TGIF!
2:36pm
Phil: Good day – got everything done!  I am bushed at this point but pleased.
2:37pm 
Yay!
2:40pm
Phil:  It’s a ghost town.
2:47pm
People are still around until Tuesday… but after that we can definitely tell the difference.  Nice to have less traffic, empty elevators… but I miss them in the office.
3:13pm
Phil: I already miss them. It’s a nice break for the staff though. This is the most rewarding experience I have ever had. I’ll see my kids at Christmas and then the rest of my family and I am so excited. 
3:42pm 
Can you rest soon or is there more to do?
3:44pm
Phil: I have admin I want to catch up on and then a series of meetings next week. Head out on Thursday. After that I believe I am pretty much off which is wonderful.
3:47pm
Isn’t it lovely when the end is in sight?  I work Mon/Tues, off Wed. (annual mammogram at MGH, which seems more serious this year), work Th afternoon to do payroll, then off until Jan 3.
3:59pm
So wish you could make a side trip to Boston… eat some…lobster.
4:09pm
Phil: Not this trip. Got family in the car and a hell of a long way to drive.  
4:21pm
I know… doesn’t keep me from wishing… and thinking about what it would be like to hear you laugh, see you smile…
4:37pm
Phil: Gonna fill up on seafood at the beach though.  Not as good as Lobster of course. That little place we found last time is still a favorite.  I just loved the place and of course that amazing place in Boston.  What a fabulous meal and evening.
4:42pm 
You staying with your family?
5:19pm
Phil: Yes. That’s going to be interesting.  I’m making a turkey, and all the trimmings for Christmas dinner. Gonna watch lots of football. Worried about snow though.
8:53pm
It’s so wonderful to hear you so happy in your job… such a change from last year when you were so glad to see D.C. in the rear view mirror!  and your Christmas plan sounds great! You are so lucky to be doing great work, and be where you want to be, doing what you want to do on Christmas!  No one deserves it more than you! 
9:46pm
Tough week – nice to think of lobster and you.  Hubby’s in bad shape, saw 2 docs and a therapist.. no answers, trying new anti-depressant but they don’t hold out much hope it will change anything.  I don’t know what more to do… praying hard.   Weepy and scared, but trying to snap out of it.  Don’t worry – I always do!  Sleep well, sweet man. 
11:55pm
Phil: I am so sorry to hear that. I will remember to pray for you. Have only dealt with friends with minor depression. Has to be very hard. So sorry you are going through this.



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December memories


Thursday, December 15
1:31pm
Hiya!  We’re back to “we get the weather you had yesterday” routine.  Gray here, 43, but rain and warmer tomorrow.  Very quiet, dare I say BORING, in the office.  People are finishing up their work, leaving Friday or Monday.  What do you plan to change in the house?  Hope your admin is rolling along. 
3:46pm
My brain is stuck on memories of this day last December. It starts w/special moments on a frigid night – talks, chowder, lobster, a hot man’s cock in my mouth. And then my body is reacting.  My hands stray below my desk.  And suddenly you are here in the dark and I’m on my desk.. longing for you to tell me what happens next.
11:30 pm
Hiya.
You okay?
11:40pm
Phil: Hey! Busy, work. Doing fine
11:40pm 
Cool.  Thanks. 
2:31am
Phil: Very busy time.  Exhausting but rewarding. Nite girl


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Mysteries


Week 18
Wednesday, December 14
8:03am
Phil: Wet morning but warm but the bottom is going to drop and then we are gonna be in for it. 

Ton of Admin today! Yuck! People are taking off for two weeks on Friday.  That’s gonna be a long day but then some relief. Gotta clean up the house and get ready to head to the beach for a few days and then up to NY to see family and back to CHI for New Years.  Lot of driving in a week’s time but be nice to see everyone and will be a nice break from here. 

Almost no booze. See the weight loss in my face and belly first. Pants getting looser, less jowly in the face. I am determined to get to my lowest weight and stay there. That puts me at about a xx inch waist. Going for a long, lean look rather than the bulkier muscle look. Wind sprints are kicking my ass but I love that burn in my lungs and muscles. 

Boat load of my favorite authors have books coming out this month. Can’t wait. I love to read. I like mysteries that deal with world wide stuff. Like books where much of the action happens in Europe, cloak and dagger type stuff I guess. Love Stuart Woords, Jack Higgens, Ludlum, DeMille, Clive Cussler, Paul Christopher. Easy to lose yourself in a book. 

Ah well, off to my admin. Have a great day!


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Less Booze


Monday, December 12
8:15am 
Phil: Doing ok.  Right teams won yesterday – good Sunday.  Cantata was fun. Down another pound and working. Used to fall off, really got to work at it now but I am determined.  I already feel the difference in my energy level, better food, less booze, more exercise, who’da thunk? Have a great day.
11:09am 
Good morning!  40 and clear. Busy week for you?  It’s wicked quiet here.  Congrats on going down another pound.  Yay!  Less booze?  You really are serious about this! 🙂

 


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Sexy Way to Pray

Sunday, December 11

10:40am
Happy Football Day!  34 clear – we’ve finally crossed into regular December weather!
I have THREE project meetings today, and dinner w/ them. Whee!  Hope you have a jubilant day!
11:57am
Since it’s Sunday, here’s a quick link about prayer.  Sort of.  While you watch football, think of me on my knees at your feet doing this. Then find me later and spank me for sending it.

http://www.dick-n-jane.com/2009/11/answered-prayer-dick.html

9:36pm
Hiya, kid.  How’re you doing?  Yay for your team!  I survived the three meetings, and got amazing baked stuffed schrod with rice pilaf for dinner!  Yum.  Hope you’ve had a relaxing day. 



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Getting hot


Saturday, December 10
10:36am
Phil: 13 friggin degrees out.  There is ice! Sweat froze on my body coming back from the gym.  Brrrrrrrrrrrr.  off to watch the Army/Navy game with friends and neighbors. Enjoy the day. Gotta jump in my shower and change into a uniform and get hot.
10:38am
Good morning!  43 clear.  Wish I could be there… You’d be hot in no time.  
How was the holiday party? What did they have to eat?
11:05am
Phil: Party was great! Prime Rib, chicken, veggie ravioli, jumbo shrimp, stuffed mushroom caps, champagne fountain all night, chocolate fountain.  Was a very nice evening.
11:07am
Wow!  Sounds spectacular!  Dancing?
1:16am
Phil: We had a DJ.  Nice place, great chow, good time. More fun coming up. Non stop party around here. Heading to the Beach in a couple weeks.  I have to clean up this house between now and then.