Putting off the next meet

August 19, 2015 Wednesday
Date:  Aug 19th – 5:09pm
From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy

Message:
A little (or a lot) of unhinging is in order….next week would be sweet to meet!
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Date:  Aug 19th – 8:48pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Message:
Hiya Handsome! Thank you for that wonderful thought. I must beg your patience. Sadly, next week is looking overwhelming for me at work – running two big conferences. If you can wait until the weekend or the week of Sept. 1, you will get a much sassier Sassy. Please do not take this as stalling or whatnot… you just happened on my craziest week of the year. If you want to email or chat a bit more online as you wait, we can try that. If not, let’s plan for and dream of a salacious September!

10-Minute Man Being Glib

August 17, 2015 Monday
I waited for him to answer my questions.  Don’t want to be too eager and look desperate. 
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Date:  Aug 17th – 9:50 am
From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Message:
Good morning Sassy one! Hoping your week started off well…I’m trying to think of a good time to come see you and unhinge you. :-p

• Why are you on AM now? 
     • To talk to you
• When did you lose your virginity? 
     • the first time I had sex

• What is your favorite meal? 
     • Anything we eat together 
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I’m not sure why, but those answers felt like a slap in the face to me.  Ugh.  I took it like… “I’m not going to share anything personal with you.”  Am I wrong?   Maybe it’s a “not on AM, wait for email” situation.  If so, why not say that?  
I decided not to answer until I could get over that.  And not to ask anything more.  And not to share anything with him until he loosened up.  This should not be a one-way street!  
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Date:  Aug 17th – 8:03pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Message:
Hiya Fred! Today was nutty at work… very little brain left. I did have fun thinking of you and un-hinging. Ha. Pick a safe time for you… I’ll be here.

10-Minute Man Plans

August 16, 2016 Sunday
Date:  Aug 16th – 12:06pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Message:
Good morning! Hope you’re having a fine Sunday! and thinking of fun Sassy times.
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Date:  Aug 16th – 1:17pm
From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Message:
Good afternoon…Several thoughts did cross my mind about Sassy’s soft white flesh and velvety pink nooks, remembering the playful mischief in her blue eyes…
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Date:  Aug 16th – 2:14pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Message:
Hiya Fred! Oh my… how perceptive you are. You saw a lot in those 10 minutes! Mischief… mmmm.
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Date:  Aug 16th – 2:42pm
From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Message:
I’ll find out a lot more in your kiss…just how versatile your mouth is…and how tactile a woman you are… Tuesday may work out fine — do you work during day?
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Date:  Aug 16th – 9:20pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man

Message:
Hiya Fred! Hope your weekend is ending well. I do work 9 am – 5 pm. Most weeks I could be out or take a long lunch but the next two weeks are nuts prepping for a big conference. Are evenings possible? If not we can wait a little. Anticipate. Mmm…
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Date:  Aug 16th – 10:16pm
From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy

Message:
Mostly relaxing day here…I knocked off the Globe’s Sudoku puzzle earlier and am now working on the crossword puzzle…I like the challenge sans external resources. As for you, I like the idea of an evening meet in the next week or so if you can swing it…we can challenge each other’s stimulation threshold with flirtatious word play and strategic touches…are you game?
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Date:  Aug 16th – 10:35pm
From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man

Message:
Glad one of us got to relax! I help run a community project in my spare time, and had brunch with a bunch of them this morning, a monthly meeting late afternoon, followed by dinner out with a dozen others! Whee! More got done at the meals than at the meeting. Heh. 
I’m wondering three things: 
• Why are you on AM now? 
• When did you lose your virginity? 
• What is your favorite meal? 
Your plan sounds fantastic. Mwah!


10-Minute Meet

August 15, 2015 Saturday

I woke up thinking it would be great to try meeting the guy who wrote me from Ashley Madison yesterday.  

His message was short and sweet, so I went for the same.  Could we really figure it out and meet in just a few hours? 
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From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Date:  Aug 15th – 10:13am
Message:
Hiya Handsome, Thanks for your message and photos, and for writing a profile without checkboxes or typos! I can try to appear at CBC about 3 pm (have a lunch date with Mom and never know how long she’ll keep me). Should I tap you on the shoulder and hug you like an old friend or what?
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From: 10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Date: Saturday August 15, 2015 at 10:19am
Message:
Thanks for the compliments…we may be on the patio — you can get my attention and I can meet you inside…:-) 
My friends are unaware…so some discretion would be appreciated 🙂
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From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Date:  Aug 15th – 10:33am
Message:
Sounds great! No worries… I know how to spell discreet. I have long silver hair, glasses and will be wearing a navy blue t-shirt. Though you’ll probably notice my chest first. -Sassy
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He had, by chance, picked a bar I know.  I zipped over there and found a parking spot out right out front.  I fed the meter for an hour, not sure how long he could be away from his friends. 
He was out on the patio with his friends. I waved as I walked in and he came inside to the bar to chat.  We stood at the far end.  He is much better looking than his photos!  He has this great smile and a sexy voice.  He is tall and fit.  He reminded me of the actor Robert De Niro. 

Robert De Niro

It was a little awkward but we chatted and hugged.  In 10 minutes he said he had to get back to his friends and I left.  I thought it went well.  There was a certain twinkle in his eyes and his licked his lips… but who knows?   
He wrote me 12 minutes later!
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From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Date:  Aug 15th – 3:22pm
Message:
I’d like to meet you again, Sassy… My name’s Fred. Are you interested?
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He doesn’t write more than two sentences?  Doesn’t ask about me or share anything.  He may not be for me! 
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From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Message:
Hiya Fred! That sounds like fun. You definitely piqued my interest. Hugs with groping. – Sassy
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From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Date:  Aug 15th – 6:14pm
Message:
I’d love to grope you 🙂 What’s your name?
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From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Date:  Aug 15th – 6:40pm
Message:
Yes please. 🙂 May I be Sassy for now? Ask me something else. Hugs with groping and an ear nibble.
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From:  10-Minute Man
To: Sassy
Date:  Aug 15th – 7:32pm
Message:
How soon and where would you like to meet to get acquainted better? I’m all for flexibility 😉
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From:  Sassy
To: 10-Minute Man
Date:  Aug 15th – 8:50pm
Message:
Hiya Fred! I’d like to see you soon! My ideal would be a leisurely meal in a restaurant so we can flirt and get to know each other a little better, then a chance to feel how you kiss. 😉 I’m flexible, so let me know what works for you and I’ll see if I can make it. Hugs with groping and a kiss… French kiss. Mwah! -Sassy


10-Minute Man Appears

August 14, 2015 Friday
It was a quiet Friday night.  Hubby and I stayed in, ordered a pizza delivered.  I was blogging when my mischief email pinged.  
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From: 10-Minute Man
To: Sassy 
Date: Friday August 14, 2015 at 5:38pm
Message: 
I’m going to be in the Cambridge Brewing Co for drinks with friends tomorrow afternoon. If you would like to accidentally run into me there, I’d be happy to exchange flirty quips and hearty cheers… I should be there from 1:30 – 4:00 … 🙂
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Well… there’s an opening salvo!  I’m usually suspicious of men who don’t want to take the time to get to know me online but there was something about this that made sense… very little pressure, a quick look?  I didn’t have any other men on the horizon…. 
I looked at his profile.  He says he is 57, so he’s probably my age or a little older.  6’2’ 230… that sounds perfect!  He’s from about an hour away.  Hmm… I usually have better luck with men closer, but I won’t let that keep me from moving forward if everything else looks possible.  He’s attached… good.  Wants “something long term.”  Also good.  No checkboxes in his profile!  Yay!  He can write!  He says he wants “a lover who is married, passionate, smart and good-looking.”  I’ve got three out of four… maybe this is worth exploring? 
Now for the photos… he posted four!  Three of his face, one of his chest.  Nothing spectacular, but a nice smile and hair!  Lovely thick salt & pepper hair.  Yum. 

I decided to sleep on it, write back in the morning if it still seemed like a good idea.