Under one to get over the other

September 5, 2016 Monday

What’s the old saying?  “The best way to get over one is to get under another?”  That seems rather crass but perhaps there is some truth to it?

I didn’t want to do something stupid on the rebound, but I definitely needed something to help me stop thinking about the Big Fish.  Fourteen hours after he wrote to send me away, a message from Ashley Madison gave me another option!

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From Ashley Madison

Sep 5th – 12:46pm
From: Usual_Man02110

Message

Hi, I’ll tell you a little about me. I believe in treating a woman the way she should be treated like holding doors open, holding the umbrella over her even though I’ll get wet…you get the picture. I’m easy going and I get along well with most people. I’m married and can’t leave my marriage so I’m absolutely discrete. I have a master’s degree and I read the NY Times and the Wall Street Journal regularly to get some kind of balance. I live in and work in Boston. I hope I’ve piqued your interest!
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Okay… the profile name.  Most men are trying to be unusual or sexy but this guy is “usual.”  Interesting.  The Boston downtown zip code.  Probably means he doesn’t live or work there.  Heh.  Doesn’t matter.  Quite a good choice.  
A nice message!  Fascinating how he got across a lot of hints about his personality in one paragraph.  Strange that he mentions NYC newspapers. Can’t spell discreet.  But lots of guys can’t!  
I looked at his profile.  
Age 56.  (likely a little older) But very close to my age.  Good.  
6’4″ tall and 240 pounds… mmm… I like that!  
Married.  Good. 
Non-smoker.  Good. 
Limits: Anything Goes.  Okay… way better than “Undecided!”  
He didn’t write anything, just checked the boxes AM provides.  Bleh.  The boxes he checked were mostly fine except for “one-night stands.”  But that’s a guy thing that gives them a way out so whatever.  I met most of what he was looking for except “physical fitness.”  I am in shape… if your count round as a shape! Of course he’d want someone fit if you asked him to list his ideal. 
He seemed worth an answer.  But I wanted to think about it.  Not rush.  See if his words stuck with me overnight.  Sleep on it, as they say.  So I waited until the next day to decide if I’d reply.

Probably so

September 5, 2016 Monday

9:38AM Sassy
Good morning kid!
Happy Labor Day from a union gal!

9:46AM Phil
Happy Labor Day!
9:47AM Sassy
You got fun plans?
9:53AM Phil
Concert!  Bruce!
9:54AM Sassy
Wow!
10:36AM Sassy
The Big Fish at my employer said good bye last night, so I don’t have to worry about getting in trouble and losing my job.
11:49PM Phil
That’s a good thing!
11:59PM Sassy
Probably so.  Makes sense. Still hurts.


Too Close

September 4, 2016 Sunday

Drawing by Bookinbear

From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, September 4, 2016 10:36 PM
Subject: Apologies
Dear Sassy,
I have really enjoyed our meetings, our email, and our joint fantasies.
Over the past couple of days I have been agonizing about where this could lead.  Many many attractive paths ahead.  But also, for me at least, some scary or dangerous ones as well.
I hate to say this — it is really painful — but I cannot see how I can continue to explore our relationship.  I cannot see how this could work.
The “too close” issue is a really major one for me.  During the past week I have been looking over my shoulder and around corners to see if we are in proximity.  I cannot imagine how I could handle that if we were fully having an affair.  With both of us working at the same place, it seems as if the chances of discovery increase enormously, and the consequences of discovery are elevated accordingly.
I really apologize, but I can’t see any way clear ahead.  I wish it were otherwise, but my gut tells me don’t go there!
With foregone hugs, kisses, snuggles, gropes, and  . . .
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad 
Sent: Sunday, September 4, 2016 11:18 PM
Re: Apologies
Dear T, 
Thank you for your message.  I so appreciate you taking the time to explain.  You are a class act! 
Sadly, your reasoning makes a lot of sense.  I mourn the possibilities, while accepting your assessment of the risk.  I am so sorry to have caused you any pain.  The last thing I want to do is complicate your life in that way.  Please relax – you have not seen me in all my years at work, and you won’t run in to me now.  It’s tempting to tell you more about where I am to ease your mind, but I value my anonymity too much.  
It has been a great pleasure getting to know you!  Thank you T.  You are such a special, sexy man.  Don’t ever forget that.  I wish you all the best! 
One last hug with groping.  *sniff

-S

Experiment with you

September 4, 2016 Sunday

9:01AM Sassy
Good morning kid
10:20AM Phil
Good morning! Great workout this morning!

10:20AM Sassy
Rain gone?
10:22AM Phil
Yep, just clouds now. Sushi for lunch
10:22AM Sassy
Oooh…yum

10:27PM Sassy
I’m thinking of cooking
11:36AM Phil
Oh my!  
I made dinner last night. Delightful!
12:08 PM Sassy
I made Annie’s mac & Cheese with diced ham for breakfast.
Ordered the ingredients for meatball stroganoff for dinner… we’ll see if that works.
1:08 PM Phil
Yummy
6:04PM Phil
[photo of a lake and a pier, with his hand filled with a glass of scotch and a cigar]
Not so bad
6:05PM Sassy
Toughing it out, I see…
6:06PM Phil
Of course
Life is tough, gotta carve out the good moments…. Nah, that’s complete bullshit

6:08PM Sassy
Hee hee
How was sushi at lunch?
6:09PM Phil
Not great. Place has changed. Salt salt salt
6:10PM Sassy
Oh dear!
Could be a different chef
6:12PM Phil
I don’t know. 
Took 4 beers to hydrate
6:12PM Sassy
Wow… rough
Good beers?
6:13PM Phil
Oh yeah!
7:00PM Sassy
Just did this recipe… waiting to see if it tastes okay.  
http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/easy-meatball-stroganoff

Easy Meatball Stroganoff
This recipe has fed not only my own family, but many neighborhood kids! They come running when I make this supper. It’s one of those things you throw together after work on a busy day because you know it works. —Julie May, Hattiesburg, Mississippi
8:11PM Phil
Looks good!
8:54PM Sassy
Here’s my version.


Tasted kind of boring.  
Will add something next time…maybe onion or mushrooms.
9:09PM Phil
Always got to experiment
9:35PM Sassy
I’d like to experiment with you.
9:39PM Phil
Hee hee
9:40PM Sassy
Test your stamina
9:46PM Phil
My stamina is good, why I go to the gym
9:55PM Sassy
Test your reactions
10:04PM Phil
What makes me groan or moan and what makes me jump
10:04PM Sassy
When I touch certain places. yes.


A Hand…or two

September 3, 2016 Saturday

From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, September 3, 2016 12:38 PM
Re: Night owl
Good afternoon T!  Hope life is treating you well on this lovely Saturday.  
I am off to a slow start.  My mind is straying to a vision of your beard, in my hand, and your lips so close… mmm.  Somehow my “demure business lady” side took up most of lunch yesterday.  Need to find a way to get Sassy out and about more! 
The way ahead is not clear to me.  I am wracking my brain for a space, a time… hoping something occurs to one of us!  
You are so kind to offer bra shopping assistance!  I’d definitely like a hand… or two!  

Bad Advice, Questionable Tactics
So many pictures, so little time….
You rogue.  Hee hee.  Do you have any favorites?  Colors?  Lace?  Any turn-offs?  Due to my size I am relatively limited in my options, but I am exploring and hope to have some lovely photos to share.  I was tempted to show you the one I had on yesterday… but the moment never presented itself.  Next time?  
Have a wonderful day… think about the possibilities.  Mmmm…
-S

Just chill

September 3, 2016 Saturday

11:17AM Sassy
Good morning kid!
1:47PM Phil
Good morning! Lot of rain and wind down here
1:48PM Sassy
Hurricane Hermine?
1:48PM Phil
Yup
1:49PM Sassy
You in a safe spot with lots of booze?
1:49PM Phil
Just hanging out at the beach
1:49PM Sassy
They’re not sure it will get this far north.
We could use the rain.
1:50PM Phil
No impact at home but here is different
1:50PM Sassy
Seeing a mess from FL
1:51PM Phil
Oh yeah!  Just downed trees and fences here
1:52PM Sassy
Phew
I just played…very mellow
4:03PM Phil
I’m napping, never get the chance to do this. Kind of nice
7:14PM Sassy
Napping?  Okay… who hacked your account?
7:18PM Phil
Ha!  I never ever get to just chill. 
I was gonna go to the gym but gave it up. I’ll go in the morning. 
7:20PM Sassy
It’s okay to relax… rest…
7:20PM Phil
I don’t do it often


Meet #2 Thad for Lunch

September 2, 2016 Friday

From: Sassy 
To: Thad
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 10:41 AM
Subject: Re: Friday
Good morning T!  Happy Friday.  It’s a beautiful day!  And it’s cool!  
New thought… maybe I could be your Lyft driver?  🙂 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 11:36 AM
Re: Friday
See you soon!
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From: Sassy 
To: Thad
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 12:15 PM
Subject: Re: Friday
On my way! Mwah!!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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Meet #2 Thad for Lunch

It was a beautiful, warm afternoon.  I raced up to Arlington, anticipating filling all my senses with Thad – seeing Thad.  Listening to Thad. Touching Thad.  Tasting Thad!  I parked and dashed into the Menotomy Tavern right at 12:30 pm.  


He was already there!  He was seated at a rather public table at a booth, but the place was empty so I hoped for ways to indulge in touching him.  (the first booth on the right side of this photo, with the bar on the other side of low wall)  

He rose to hug me and held me for 5 seconds longer than most people would… mmmm.  He is so cuddly!  He smiled his sweet smile and watched as I settled in to sit opposite him.  He seemed rather nervous.  I reached out for his hand and held it.  The waiter appeared to take our order.  I knew time would be short, so I asked about the soup of the day – chilled white gazpacho – and ordered that along with an iced tea.  He asked for a burger and a beer, then asked if I wanted to share some fried dill pickles.  Sure!

We had a wonderful conversation, sharing about our families, our work, our summer trips.  It was a conversation any strangers could have had.  I kept trying to get a little more intimate, but he kept things on the safe side.

I began to wonder if he was having second thoughts.  But then he’d tell me another charming story and I smiled and relaxed and enjoyed his company.  One of the big lessons I’ve learned in my adventures is to not let worries about the future ruin the present!  I can noodle about those issues later!

Too soon it was time to head out.  I ran to the bathroom and back, needing to heed nature’s call but not wanting to be away from him.  While I was gone, he paid the bill, so he stood up ready to go when he saw me.  I thanked him, told him he wouldn’t always have to pay.  He insisted he likes doing it, feels old-fashioned and right to him.

He walked me out to my car.  I was worried that he was nervous enough not to do much, but he pressed me against the far side and kissed me fiercely, groping my breast with his hand.  I put my hands on his face, played with his beard.  He put his forehead on mine and whispered, “I shouldn’t do that out here but you… mmm… I have to… just for a little while.”  I smiled at him and nodded.  He pressed his hips against me, nestled between my legs so I could tell exactly how excited he was, and kissed me again, slipping his hand under my top to caress my breast through my bra!  I want to be alone with him!!

Too soon, he broke away.  “I have to go back to work.  It’s not what I want to do now but…” he sighed.

“I know… we’ll figure out more soon,” I assured him.  He grinned and winked at me!  He hopped into his car a few spaces away and I watched him drive away.  I sat in my car for a few minutes with my eyes closed, savoring the memory of his lips, his hands, his body on mine… mmm mmm mmm.  Then I snapped back to reality and went off to runs errands with head filled with thoughts of Thad!

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From: Sassy 
To: Thad
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 5:56 PM
Subject: Re: Friday
Hiya T!  Thank you for a special lunch and for sharing your stories.  It was a lovely addition to my day off. 
Hope your afternoon rolled along.  I jousted with two banks, closed three credit cards, and pestered Verizon for my mother’s estate…I know how to live it up!
I fantasized about being with you in the shower, singing silly songs, washing your back, playing with your front…mmmm. So many senses stimulated…
Have s lovely evening! Mwah!
-S

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 6:57 PM
Re: Friday
Nice fantasies!
Mwah!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, September 2, 2016 11:44 PM
Re: Night owl
Hi Sassie
Lunch was very nice, and it was very special to have a chance to talk about our families.  I felt even closer than I have before!
Kissing you in the parking lot was fun.  (I think I hear you growl when we kiss — very sexy and arousing!!!)
So how do we get to another level?  
I feel a little bit like an idiot kissing you in a parking lot, or massaging hands while a waiter looks on.  I guess I am a pretty private person (like you, I think) so I would like to kiss, feel, grope behind closed doors (at least sometimes!)
How will we figure out how to do that.  
I’d like to do some more face to face (that is, tongue to tongue — as well as hand to breasts) interaction before getting a hotel room.  I want to get to know you better in several senses before I throw you down on a bed and . . .
But where and when can we find a venue for seriously making out?
Any ideas?
By the way, my wife just told me that she will be going to a conference in a few weeks.  I don’t yet know exactly the dates, but this could be some quality play time, but I hope we don’t have to wait until then.
Regarding your mother’s estate, you said you might buy some socks and bras.  I’m not much interested in your socks (but be sure to practice safe socks), however if you need any help feeling — er, fitting — bras, let me know!  I’ll be happy to lend a hand or two!
MWAH, MWAH, MWAH
T

Tootsies pampered

September 2, 2016 Friday

2:38PM Phil
[photo of his naked tanned hairy legs and toes in the pedicure chair]
Ahhhh
2:40PM Sassy
Oh my…
2:54PM Sassy
You having fun?

3:02PM Sassy
Lunch at Menotomy Tavern in Arlington with the new guy. Their chilled white gazpacho rocks the garlic! And the remoulade with the fried pickles is fierce! Yummmmm

3:27PM Phil
Just getting the tootsies pampered