The other Tom

Thursday, December 5, 2013

Whenever I have a meet coming up with an AM man, it makes me think of The Lawyer… I wish I could be with him instead!  And going to meet a guy with the same name only makes it worse. 
So I lose my resolve to stop pestering him.  I have this irresistible urge to tell him I am thinking about him. So I did!  He always responds so sweetly and then disappears again.  *sigh
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From: Sassy 
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Thursday, December 5, 2013 12:37 PM
Subject: Thinking of you
Dear Tom, 
You are in my thoughts today.  I hope you are having good moments!  
-S
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From: The Lawyer 
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, December 5, 2013 3:42 PM
Subject: Re: Thinking of you

thank you– reading this was a good moment– thinking of the two of us, naked and together, is a good moment— 

Got lucky

Thursday, December 5, 2013
11:26pm
Met the very nice man from PF Chang’s again.  Got lucky!
Hope you’re having a great evening kid!
11:37pm Phil
Good for you Sass!

11:38pm
Watching football?
11:53pm Phil
Nah, Sound of Music

Third Blogiversary!!!

Wednesday, December 4, 2014 

Dear Readers,  
Same Sassy Girl is passing a major milestone today – three years of blogging.  Wow!  Let’s celebrate!  Have a cupcake!  I got one for you!  and a friend!  We could have a threesome and… wait… what was I talking about?  Oh yeah… my third blogiversary!

How can this integral part of my life be three years old?!  If you haven’t read about my humble beginning, please hit “The Start” above and see how I reconnected with my old flame and started on the road to Sassy-ness!  

I had no idea when I started this blog experiment I’d reveal all this crap strange and wonderful stuff.  Or that I’d still be doing it three years later.  I still look at every post and think… “can I do this?” I am half-excited and half-terrified every time I hit “Publish,” but telling my story seems worth it – remembering, recording, trying to make sense of it and sharing it.  I work so hard to entertain Philip and keep the connection open.  And I’ve met the strange and wonderful men from AM… have to tell you all about it!

I am astonished I have kept the blog a secret. It is strange not to share what I consider a major accomplishment with my real life friends and family, and to share so many feelings with you and none of the usual facts!   There are many of you I trust, but it’s simpler to stay anonymous.

This blog led me to so many other fabulous blogs!  Be sure to check out my blog roll on the right.  I’ve learned so much about life, love, great sex, and myself.  I’ve connected with so many wonderful bloggers and other readers.  I hope you’ll join with me in hoping we all keep sharing for a long time!

  • 65 members. 
  • Over 150,000 hits.  
  • Over 1,850 posts.  
  • Even a mention on Lola & HH’s list of “25 of the hottest female bloggers!”  I am not into thongs, booze or shoes, but I’ll take the honor! 
  • Whee!

I’m obeying the rules of the BGB award by telling you about three more female bloggers who write beautifully about sex and all their adventures: 
1) Naughty Kitty of “My Secret Life” who uses her sense of humor and sexy adventures to keep us  smiling.  She also ever so kindly hosts a forum where bloggers and cheaters can help each other in a very supportive community.  
2) Simplicity of “KISS – Keep It Simple, Sexy” for her straight-forward sharing of what she runs into as a single woman looking for a sexy man.  
3) Hypersexual Girl of “Love and Lust” who is in her seventh year of daily posting with the best links on a wide range of topics that are often days or weeks ahead of what everyone will be talking about.  

Special thanks to the ever-hot Advizor54 from “Free Advice is worth what you pay for it” and sexy stealth comedian Tom from “Three Spelling Mistakes” for running the weekly “Flash Fiction Friday” meme over the past year that kept challenging me and connecting me to so many great writers and readers.

As the handsome and talented Ryan Beaumont of “The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad” put it so beautifully in his four-year blogiversary post, [how freaky is that?!  We started posting on the same day, a year apart] blogging is”that little something extra we need to feel good about where we are in life.  Yeah, a little life lagniappe.” I hope to keep adding something extra to my life and yours for awhile longer! 

I’m still writing!  Wow!!  And you are still reading!  Wow!!!  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

Hugs with groping!

-Sassy

Whiskey calendar

Wednesday, December 4, 2013
12:05am Phil
Hope your project went well

[PHOTO of his gorgeous cock]
11:14am
Good morning!  Well, well, well… this photo was an amazing way to start my day!  Thank you kid.  I nearly licked my screen!  Hope your Wednesday is going well.

11:14am

Did you see this?  A whiskey advent calendar!
http://gothamist.com/2013/12/02/now_that_were_adults_we_get_a_whisk.php

Now That We’re Adults, We Get A Whisky Advent Calendar

The advent calendar of our dreams.

11:15am

The project event was AMAZING! Fun!

11:36am Phil

A more normal photo

[PHOTO his smiling face in front of the Christmas tree]

11:36am Phil
[PHOTO his smiling face fresh out of the shower… with his beautiful shoulders]
11:44am
the facial hair is hot!  Does it feel odd after all these years?  Thank you!!!
           
12:01pm Phil
Nah, it’s a nice break
12:06pm
What’s on your agenda for today?
12:16pm Phil
Pets to the vet, walk on the beach, decorate the tree, baked scallops for dinner with an olive oil, butter and garlic tossed pasta
12:17pm
How do the pets feel about the vet?

12:17pm Phil
They do ok.

Gotta run to Sam’s to check on tires and Walmart for extension chords

Sharing Tuesday

Tuesday, December 3, 2013
From: Sassy
To: NH Man 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 8:25 AM
Subject: Sunday meet 
Good morning! How are you this fine Tuesday? I’m dragging a bit…another long day ahead! At least it’s above freezing down here. Have a terrific day!
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 8:30 AM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
I’m doing well. Got up at 5am and am out on the road after my my bullshit morning meetings. I much rather like being out on the road than stuck in the office. I’m up on a big hill. Normally great view of the Seacoast from up here but very foggy and cloudy today. 
Sent from my iPhone
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 11:29 AM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
I’m down at the beach place right now. Tide is high and the waves are pounding. It is a bit brisk but still nice here even in the almost winter. 
Sent from my iPhone
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 2:58 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet
Georgetown is good to call from
Sent from my iPhone
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From: Sassy
To: NH Man 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 11:07 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
Hiya!  Oh how lucky you are!  I was stuck at my desk… slaving away.  Only took a brief break to snag lunch from a food truck!  
Another fantastic night working on a project!  So we’re done with that and can move on to the next task. 
Thursday can not get here fast enough!!! 
-S
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Tuesday, Dec 3, 2013 11:09 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet
Sleep tightly and rest up for Thursday workout
Sent from my iPhone

Planning Thursday Meet

Monday, December 2, 2013
From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 5:56 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
How was your day ?  Fabulous I hope. Mine was pretty good. My Ex asked me out for lunch and we got through the whole thing with no drama. Very pleasant. Some day when we are bored I will tell you the story of how she broke my heart and made me miserable. Women, can’t live with em, can’t …. You know the rest. Don’t need the NSA hunting me down over a key word match.
Sent from my iPhone
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From: Sassy
To: NH Man 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 7:24 PM
Subject: Sunday meet 
Hiya! Today was nuts! I was working on the holiday party – ordering food, sending invites! I didn’t get to pee until 3 pm! I’m helping with a project meeting tonight. Long day!
Good you can still break bread with you Ex. A rare talent! I look foward to hearing your stories.
How early can I appear on Thursday? I’m thinking to leave early, beat traffic, drive in the light if you can be there by 3:30 or so. If not, no worries. Should I bring you anything? 
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 7:41 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
How early are you leaving on Thursday?  I can try for 3:30 but 4 is more realistic. 
Sent from my iPhone
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 7:52 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
Can’t think of anything you need to being. You may want to bring some work clothes in case you decide it is tooooo cozy in bed and just can’t bear to get up to go home. Maybe I’ll pick up some appetizers at the Chinese place down the road. It is getting frigid out again. Just started the wood furnace. Supposed to get warmer later in the week. 
Sent from my iPhone
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 8:35 PM 
Subject: Sunday meet 
I can try for 3:30 so you don’t have to search around in the dark. Just call me when you are half way and I will head over then. You never know how the traffic will be heading north. My address is [redacted].  [Directions redacted] Park on left side next to my car. Call when you are close and I will look for you. It is not hard to find.
Sent from my iPhone
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From: Sassy
To: NH Man 
Sent: Monday, Dec 2, 2013 9:57 PM
Subject: Sunday meet 
I got stuck on “cozy in bed”…mmmm
Thanks for the directions! It looks easy enough. Where is halfway?
I’m hoping it’ll take about an hour? So I could leave at 2:30 pm. Don’t get in trouble at work – I can stare at the beach and wait.
Almost done at the project meeting…so many talented people!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

Facial hair

Monday, December 2, 2013
            
8:28am
Happy Monday!  Long day for me – busy work then a project event tonight!  Whee!  Have a marvelous day kid!
9:05am Phil
Good morning! Enjoy the day!

[PHOTO His smiling face fresh out of the gym, with facial hair!]

4:09pm Phil
Working hard

[PHOTO of him at a bar toasting me with a beer]
10:07pm
Finishing a project event – so many talented people!

You look more gorgeous every day!