Monthly Archives: October 2013

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Sharing Lingerie

I’ve still talking with Panties Man.  I want to see if I can find a way to excite him and have some fun myself, if he can play outside of the humiliation model.

We’ve exchanged dozens of emails and had a lot of talks on Yahoo IM.  He was very impressed when I pointed out that it’s Halloween time… he could easily go to GoodWill or the Salvation Army and paw through their wigs, dresses, shoes or jewelry “looking for a costume” and no one would think anything of it other than he was going somewhere in drag.

He asked me about my lingerie.  Now… Sassy is not a lingerie girl.  I wracked my brain to think of anything he’d consider silky or sexy.  Suddenly it hit me – I do own one negligee.  It’s too small… haven’t worn it in years.  I’m not sure a man ever saw it on me.  But I figured Rick would get a kick out of it.  I told him about it as if I saw him wearing it in a dream:

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The negligee is a pale peach color, with lace in the bodice, an empire high waist, and long… swirling around your legs as you walk toward me with a very devilish smile.  (It hangs on the back on my bathroom door as a reminder of better days.  It’s about 5 sizes too small now, but still lovely to look at and feel sometimes.  I wonder if it would fit you? It probably qualifies as vintage!  Hee.) You dropped the spaghetti strap off one shoulder and winked at me.  I don’t know what I had on… you know how dreams are. 
Too bad you have no privacy… that’s almost like waving a red flag in front of a bull in terms of challenging me to tease you.  To talk about the wicked things… ah, well.  I’ll be good.  
 -S
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He begged for a photo of me wearing it.  It doesn’t fit, but I found a way to show it (and a bit of me) to him.

Date: Thursday, October 18, 2012
From: Sassy
To: Rick
Subject: Good morning

Happy Thursday to you! Sorry for the brevity…work being crazed. Maybe a photo is worth more than words? Hope you enjoy. 

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Date: October 18, 2012 11:59 am
To: Sassy
From: Rick

Oh..my..god.
 
This is beautiful.  What an absolutely wonderful present!!!  I love the pic!  both that you are in it, as well as the nightie!  And what an absolutely lovely nightie, it is.  damn, I want to see it…touch it….have you rub it on me….and I’ll definitely be fantasizing about wearing it for you, imagining such wonderful things we’d do.
 
I want to see it in person!!  And you!!
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From: Rick
To: Sassy

Another present, seeing you liked the other ones I’ve sent.  Maybe you’d like to see one of me hard in my panties from thinking of you, with my cockhead peeking out from the top?
 
So you know, I have rarely ever sent pics like this to anyone!!  Really; I don’t do this.  For whatever reason, I trust you and want to share, and you seem to like them.



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Foot fail

Thursday, October 18, 2012
8:15am Phil
Have a great day! It’s almost Friday.  Football this weekend!  (piggy face)
9:08am
You too kid.  Hurt my foot.  Bad. Walking is…interesting.  Xrays show a mess of ouch.  Just shoot me!  Your sweet words and a handful of Aleve will get me thru!
6:07pm Phil
Easy does it! I find that scotch helps
6:08pm
This may drive me to drink… I HATE sitting still.

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Wicked Wednesday

What is it about Wednesdays?!  I heard from all four of the Ashley Madison men I am talking to!  It’s amazing how much time this philandering takes!

I had shared with three of them (not Panties Man) that I was hearing from men with kinks (doms, subs, wearing women’s underwear – oh my!) that I could not deal with, probing to be sure they weren’t hiding such proclivities.  They reassured me they were not, each in their own way.  Phew.

Before I wrote this post, I had not looked at them side-by-side… as I do I realize how typical these emails are of each man, how similar and how different they are, and the range of choices I have!

Which one would you pick first?

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There was email from Ashley Madison, showing me six men in my area who signed up recently.  I like looking at them… it shows their nickname, age, town and a photo if they’ve posted one.  I am horrified by the face photos… seems like indiscretion of the highest order!  Dude!  Your wife can log on and see you!  Your boss can see you!  I clicked on a couple of profiles but as usual they hadn’t written much if anything yet.

Tip for men – don’t join AM until you have a full profile ready to go!  AM will show it to women right away and you’ll miss a big chance to get some attention!  And if you put a public photo, post one without your face!

I tried to think of writing to one, but that just didn’t seem possible.  It tells them I clicked and they can write or wink me if they are okay with BBWs.

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First up was The Professor:

12:32 am

Dear S.,

My fantasies are as unimaginative–and as electrifying–as can be: full-out, hours-long sex with a willing partner who has multiple orgasms.  That’s it.  No one has to play any “roles,” be “dom” or “sub” or whatever the lingo is.  I’ll settle for a woman who plays the role of “woman.”  That’s how plain-vanilla I am.

–Scot

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Next up – Panties Man:

6:52 am

ha!  You’re not sure what that mean???   aw, c’mon; that’s a simple dream to analyze! Was it pretty?  What were you wearing today?  

Thanks for that incredibly hot link!! 

Back to work today.  I’m having to share a cube due to space constraints.  Absolutely no privacy.

Date: Sun, 14 Oct 2012 19:04:16 -0700
From: Sassy
Subject: Sunday hot dogs
To: Rick

Hiya, 
Glad you hear your rolling along.  I had a dream of you in a silky nightgown… not sure what that meant!  Here’s a hot dogging gif for your pleasure.  Rock on, Rick!
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then along came Kevin, AM #1:

6:55 am

Sassy!  Here’s a little morning tingle as I stop you from doing whatever you are doing and pull you over to sit on my lap so you can feel some anticipatory throbbing as my hands work their away exploring your back and my lips lavish attention on the back of your neck.  Good morning!

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Finally I heard from The Lawyer, who had been silent for ten days.

3:54 pm

I hope the sassy girl hasn’t forgotten her lawyerly suitor!  He has returned….sounds like you’ve been busy whilst i travelled!! 😉   It’s absolutely amazing to me what (i) specific sexual eccentricities so many people have, and (ii) how willing, in the confines of cyberspace, they’re willing to reveal said eccentricities! Whilst I am generally amazed, often amused, and almost always tolerant of same, alas, I’m a little short-handed in matters of fetish! 


I hope you won’t find me boring, but I love touch, taste, intensity of feeling and the combined pulses of pure pleasure that come from fully pleasing one’s partner, and in return, being fully pleased. 

My fetish is the feeling of skin-on-skin, the delights of the heat of passion, the wet warmth of a beautiful woman in full throttled passion, her physical urgency and growing forcefulness as we mutually approach a climactic rush.  I hope that’s neither too forward, too explicit, or too “vanilla”… and I do have my own underwear– but wouldn’t mind removing yours…;-)… but I have no need to try them on!

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Panties Man’s Panties

Panties Man and I are still emailing and IMing.  He is a fascinating mix of a caring friend, a very sexy man, and my first interaction with an AM man with a fetish who will openly share it with me.

We’ve fallen into a fun pattern of checking on each other every day, and he always wants to know what I’m wearing.  Taking the advice I’d gotten to give him things to do, I decided to gently demand that he send me a photo of his panties.  I am so curious!  He wants to show me, but also likes to be ordered to do it.  I cant’t go that far, but I tease him a little.  And he showed me.  Every day this week.  There is something so hot about his man parts covered in lady panties.  He has such a handsome torso and bulge!

Here’s my favorite pair he sent – going into the bathroom at work, shedding his slacks and snapping a photo for me!  It was quite a rush to see it.  And he was so happy that I thought it was hot!

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Teasing and tantalizing

I sent AM #1 a photo of my cleavage (you know the one, my icon with the black bra) to entice him to meet me.  He liked that.  We agreed to meet in ten days and here is a sample of how we spent the time… 
From: Sassy
To: Kevin
Sent: Friday, October 12, 2012 1:50 PM
Subject: Friday lunch fun

Happy Friday Kevin!
Well… that seems to have worked!  Your appreciation of my assets made me smile.  And giggle.  And swoon.  That means A LOT!  I’ve been missing that for way too long.  Please do explore… with your hands, your face… and another body part.  Since breasts are the topic, here’s another moving picture to um… titillate?  
I hope you had a lovely evening wondering what it will be like to touch me.  Since we didn’t meet up, I got into trouble on the internet, looking at images.  But I kept having to close my eyes and take my hands off the keyboard due to a vision (or was it a premonition?) of a tall man in a bar, hugging me… squeezing me, breathing me in and… it went several directions after that.  I try not to get too far ahead but it is so much fun!  My brain won’t shut up!  Even now in the midst of doing payroll!  

We are kissing right there in the bar, forgetting where we are, being alone together in the crowd.  Risky!  or kissing and groping, leaning against a car.  Cold steel on my back and you very warm pressed against me in front.  Hot!  Sometimes more… in a car.  Hands, mouths… button, zippers… whee!  Sometimes… even more.  Hmmmm.
I usually consider an offer to meet very carefully, but since you asked so nicely and wrote so beautifully that it made me wet, I’ll say a week from Monday sounds great, other than it is too long away!  But let’s make good use of the time in between…
My questions for today – do people ever say you look like a celebrity?  And which female celebrity makes you tingle?  
Have a great weekend!  
-Sassy
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From: Kevin
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, October 13, 2012 9:32 PM
Subject: Friday lunch fun

Good Morning Sassy:
That was easily my favorite of your short films. probably because that is exactly what we have been doing in my mind since you sent the picture of your delicious breasts.  Thanks for sharing – your visuals always get me nicely bothered! And I love what we have been doing in your mind – I am so looking forward to that moment where we first meet and hug, feeling our bodies against each other and especially when we manage to find a private spot later and share our first, heart-pounding kiss. I want your lips. I want your tongue. I want more…..
For our meeting, I will be downtown so pick whatever place you think will be the best. I can get to your area easily or we can meet anywhere convenient.
I do not get compared to any celebrities, but I can share some tingly female celebs with you. My first was Angie Dickinson. I remember her being on the cover of a magazine my mom had back in the 1970’s. I would sit and look at that picture and give myself massive erections when I was just starting to learn the joy of sexual excitement.  
In the 1980’s it was Phoebe Cates, who captured many a young man’s ….ummmm…heart?….with her topless emergence from the pool in Fast Times at Ridgemont High. My friends and I were so taken with her, we proclaimed that every day was “Phoebe Cates Day” and often wished each other “Happy Phoebe Cates Day” whenever one of us was in the dumps.  
Today’s most tingly females?  Salma Hayek? Yummy. Diane Lane? Makes me hard every time, which I don’t quite understand because I’ve never liked any movie she has been in. Elisabeth Shue? Adored her for years. Idina Menzel? I’d love to make her sing to me in bed. And my most recent one is Regina Spektor – on the younger side, but she has such a beautiful voice and fertile mind, that I’m willing to risk being considered a dirty old man for her:-) 
And if I could go back in time, Mae West wouldn’t have a chance at resisting my charm:-)
So feel free to analyze what my choices say about me:-)  And then share yours.

Speaking of sharing, wouldn’t it be nice right now if we were sharing lips…….

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On again again

It didn’t take long for AM #1 to get back to me.  So maybe the excuse about his daughter’s rehearsal had been true?  He said he was so sorry and we should plan another date.  I sent him a photo of my cleavage to entice him a bit more!  I know… bad bad Sassy!

Here’s part of his response, so typical of his charming self….

Hubba hubba! Wowza! Va-va-va voom! And any other sound of pleasure that isn’t quite an articulate word, because that’s how I feel after knowing you wore your lucky black bra just for me and after seeing those luscious breasts. I would love the chance to bury my face in them and explore!:-)  

The weekend and next week are tricky for me, but I can guarantee Monday night the week after if that works for you. I have a rare work event in downtown Boston until 7:00 that night. Can we get together afterward? (read that last question picturing me saying it in a seductively pleading tone with my baby blues locked right into your eyes so closely you can feel my breath flow into your mouth, my chest pressing up against your breasts and a throbbing in my pants up against your hips while we hold hands).
Kevin
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How could I say anything but yes?  It means another 10 days of teasing and tantalizing… yum!  Something about him makes my mind race in so many sexy directions!  I fantasize about hugging him… laughing with him… walking to my car and him kissing me.  Mmmm….