Done with Don

July 30, 2016 Saturday

From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Sat 07/30/16 11:02 AM
Re: Connection

Good morning Don! It’s a pleasure to hear from you, wherever you are. Thanks for the heads-up. Should I write now and then, send you tantalizing stuff? Or should I wait until you’re home?

-S

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Sat 07/30/16 8:28 PM
Re: Connection

You can send me all the tantalizing stuff you like. Just keep in mind that I am involved at my destination. Off to the West on Tuesday for the week.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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Hmmm…this message ticked me off. Not sure what it was, but I suddenly felt like it was okay with him if I did a lot of work to keep in touch and entertain him, but he wasn’t promising anything. Honest but… I don’t feel like doing that.

I also don’t get the feeling he is really interested. If he comes back around when he’s home, we’ll see. I am going quiet for now.  Not my usual style but between the weed thing and his terse messages, I am done.

Distracted or distancing?

July 29, 2016 Friday

I didn’t hear from Don all week.  I decided it would be good to write a week after we met.  I wonder if he is distracted by being away or just not that interested?

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Fri 07/29/16 11:44 AM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don!

Hope you’ve had a wonderful week.  It’s finally cooler here, with some much needed rain.

I can’t believe it’s been a week since you were here.  I’ve been thinking about what you said, what we did.  Mmm….

Hugs with groping!

-S

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Fri, Jul 29, 2016 4:15 PM
Re: Connection
Hi Sass.
I’m traveling most of the next month. Out West, South, midwest. 
Won’t be around for your pleasure.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android


Further away

July 24, 2016 Sunday

From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Sun, Jul 24, 2016 6:38 AM

Re: Connection

Steaming. In northern NH with my boy and his children. Off to play tennis now.

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android


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From: Sassy

To: Don
Date: Sun 07/24/16 9:53 AM
Re: Connection

NH?  Wow…I want you closer and you’re further away!  

I’m lying in bed, pondering which toy to take out of the drawer to press against a certain sensitive spot while I think about sucking on you.  😉

We’re headed out for dim sum and to the movies today for the new Star Trek.

Keep misbehaving!


Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android



Wondering about weed

July 23, 2016 Saturday

From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Saturday, July 23, 2016 7:08 AM
Subject: Re: Connection

I’m ready to act out one of your stories!

Sex in unusual places. Another afternoon. This one an afternoon delight.
Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Sat 07/23/16 10:41 PM
Re: Connection

Hope you had a grand Saturday!  So hot here… oof. Reminded me of you.  😉

-S

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The weed thing…

As long as he is going be away, I decided to stall a little bit and not commit to a plan while I think about whether I want to be with someone who smokes weed.  Is this something I should worry about?  I know it goes on all around me all the time but it’s not something I’ve dealt with.

I don’t care what he does when he is not with me, but something about it struck a wrong chord.  What if I am in a car with him and he gets pulled over for something random and the cop smells it or decides to search his car?  Are there other things I should think about?

Seems like there is always a complication!  *sigh

Meet RI Don

July 22, 2016 Friday

From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Fri 07/22/16 8:18 AM
Re: Connection

Shouldn’t be a problem getting there. I’ll go business casual. See you on the inside.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Fri 07/22/16 11:25 AM
Re: The View

What are you wearing?

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Fri 07/22/16 11:30 AM
Re: The View

Good morning! Happy Friday! Purple glasses, silk scarf with blue and roses, blue top and slacks. And a bright smile!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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I have a meet today with a new man!  
I was antsy all morning… working but thinking about meeting Don from Rhode Island. Half-excited, half-nervous.  I took a face photo in the bathroom and stared at it, thinking about how he’d see me.  I had a moment of feeling fat and ugly and wondering how I can do this… but luckily it passed!  I did not send it to him, just wrote to tell him what I was wearing.  
I left the office with plenty of time and strolled over to The Red House for lunch.  He was sitting at the bar!  Yay!  I adore it when the man is there before I am!  I hugged him.  He smiled and asked how I was.  Wow!  He is tall and good-looking in that way that men are who are outside a lot, looking sort of weathered and rugged.  Yum.  He reminds me of Craig T. Nelson, TV’s Coach.  
He had on a white golf shirt and white summer khakis.  I wore my usual dark blue slacks, dark blue top that buttons all the way up the front, and a silk scarf, with my lucky black bra underneath! 
The restaurant
Things went a little wonky – I asked on my reservation for a booth or quiet table, and for them not to ask for my name or say it aloud.  I got neither, which is odd – they are usually good to me there!  I told the hostess I’d made an OpenTable reservation for two and she asked for my last name with him standing beside me.  I gave her a pleading look and she finally clued in to who I was (that odd woman who didn’t want to say her name!) I need to find a better way to do that.  Then she took me to a 4-top in the middle of the restaurant!  Argh.  We settled in a right angle to each other and sat close together for privacy.  It worked okay.  
The waiter came over and started with, ‘I just want to let you know we don’t have any oysters.”  Argh!  That was why I went there.  He said they might come in any time.  So Don asked him every time he appeared if they had arrived yet?  Heh.  
We ordered – I got an iced tea and he had a beer – Stella Artois!  That’s one of Philip’s favorites so I took it as a good sign. He got the half-sandwich (Salmon BLT) with a small lobster chowder, and I got a bowl of lobster chowder.  It’s odd to eat soup on a hot day, but it’s so tasty, I can’t resist!  
We had a great conversation.  I found out what he did for a living, that he has grown children who are out of the house and doing well, that he enjoys cooking breakfast and dinner, gardening, tennis, golf, kayaking.  We talked about baseball, where we were raised, travels we’ve enjoyed.  He asked good questions, seemed interested in my answers.  He tried to dig a bit into where I work and what I do.  I answered without giving too much away. 
We looked at the dessert menu but decided not to get anything.  He paid for lunch.  I thanked him.  It seemed like no big deal.  I was surprised to see him use a credit card.  I tried to look to see his name but couldn’t quite make it out. 
Walking and talking 
He asked if he could walk me back to my office.  I demurred but said I could walk him back to his car.  As we made our way through the heat to the Charles Hotel, he asked if I like to smoke weed.  No one has asked me that before.  I replied that I don’t.  He said he likes to smoke every day.  Wow.  Not sure what I think about that, between the smoking aspect and the illegal aspect.  Have to think about that.  
He had taken my suggestion to park in the hotel garage underground.  It was beastly hot outside – why did it have to be the hottest day of the year?!  
He hopped into the same part of the revolving door as we entered the hotel, and groped my ass big time!  Ha!  That was fun!  
We wandered around the lobby looking around for the garage entrance – I asked the doorman, who pointed us at the stairs.  
Groping in the garage 
He walked down the stairs ahead of me.  I noticed that it was empty, looked for a security camera, then decided not to worry about it.  When we got to the bottom, I tapped him on the shoulder to turn him around, and he got the drift very quickly, hugging me and kissing me.  We are a good fit!  He moaned slightly.  We kissed and groped and mmm…. It got too hot very quickly!  I broke it off and took his hand to lead him out into the garage.  

We found his car and leaned against it.  He grabbed me again, kissing… I put my hands on his face, then played with his hair.  I groped his back muscles and he moaned nicely. Then I moved my hand between his legs… nice hard bulge there!  
He was not a great kisser, and didn’t make much progress on touching me… was he nervous?  There was no one around and we were relatively hidden in between cars.  But first times can be odd.  I don’t judge by that.  
He asked when we could get together again for some “real fun.” I apologized for getting him revved up and not being able to finish.  He said he was going to be away for a couple of weeks,  but he would stay in touch and hope to see me soon when he returns.  Now I see why he was in such a hurry to meet today!  
I told him I’d send him some interesting reading, maybe a video or photos.  He liked the sound of that.  He wanted to drive me back to my office but that was pointless and I didn’t want him to know where I work…. So I told him I’d better be on my way.  
I asked him to let me know when he made it home and he said he would.  There was one more long hug and then he got into his car and I strolled back to my office. 
 

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I hoped for a note as soon as he got home.  That didn’t happen.  GUYS!  PLEASE DO THAT!  

Then I hoped for an email after dinner.  Nope.  I began to get nervous that he was going to be another “never another word” type.  *sigh  

He finally wrote later in the evening.  Hooray! 
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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Friday, July 22, 2016 9:20 PM
Subject: Re: Connection

Hi Sass,

I made it home and found my friends waiting to go into the pool. Wish you had joined them and me.

I can see you and me in the pool, late at night, and floating around the shallow end. I’ll tell you the rest later.

Enjoyed the afternoon. Wondering where we go from here. Its up to you obviously.

Where would we meet? Especially if you won’t tell me anything about you. Up to you.

Don

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Fri 07/22/16 11:14 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don,

Thanks again for lunch and “dessert.” Glad to hear you made it home and thought of me around the pool!

Where do I want to go? TO BED! 😉

Let’s work on what’s possible…where… when… what would you consider ideal?

Hey… I told you lots! And I will tell you more. Does the mundane stuff matter? Tough for me to know what you want to know. Ask me anything that is important and I will answer. What matters other than the feel of my skin next to yours? The taste of my neck where it meets my shoulder? The sight of my mouth on your body? How tight and wet and hot I am? mmmm… where was I? Oh yeah…

Today gave me hope that we could be great together. Let’s make it happen!

-Sassy

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Plan to meet RI Don

July 21, 2016 Thursday

To: Sassy
From: Don
Date: Thu 07/21/16 8:51 AM
Re: Connection

Ha. It wasn’t your sister, it was my first wife.

Thanks for deciding a place to meet.

Looking forward to your writings. Will read and reply later today. Headed out to play tennis now.

Don

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Thu, Jul 21, 2016 11:42 AM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don! Wow… what great weather for tennis. How was it out there? What it is they say… hmm… hope you had good bounces?

My life has not intersected with much tennis except the beautiful day I walked around the Pro Tour when it came to Boston ages ago.

I don’t want to press you if tomorrow is not convenient, but if you’re up for it, here’s a quick question on the meeting spot: Do you want a “coffee first, go on to lunch if we like” starting place? Or do you feel like we could do lunch? Do you like oysters? There’s a place that has 50 cent Island Creeks and an incredible lobster chowder, with easy parking.

Don’t think about my chest… too much.

-S

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Thu 07/21/16 3:43 PM
Re: The View

That story is hot!

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Th 07/21/16 3:51 PM
Re: Connection

Let’s go for it all and eat oysters as we meet. Sounds like you know a good place.

Unless you can find a conference room with a view. In that case I’ll have what you are having. .. and I’ll give it to you.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Thu, Jul 21, 2016 4:04 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don,

Hooray for oysters! You can check out the menu

http://www.theredhouse.com/

Park under the Charles Hotel or the Eliot Street garage. Either is about a block from the restaurant.

What time do you want to meet? Will 1 pm work for you?

Is it okay if I hug you like an old friend when we meet?

Anything else you need to know?

I am so excited to meet you. I’ll email in the morning to let you know what I’m wearing. 🙂

-S

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To: Don
From: Sassy
Date: Thu, Jul 21, 2016 4:05 PM
Re: The View

You betcha! I’m happy to see you understood this and could see yourself there…

-S

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To: Sassy
From: Don
Date: Thu 07/21/16 5:15 PM
Re: Connection

One pm works well. I should be able to put Charles Hotel into my MAP app.

Should I plan matching wardrobes or will shorts do in the city?

I’ll look forward to know what you are wearing. Maybe a picture will be in order.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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To: Don
From: Sassy
Date: Thu, Jul 21, 2016 10:31 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don!

Sounds like we’re all set. I hope it’s easy to find. It’s just one right and one left off Memorial Drive.

I made a reservation at the Red House for 1 pm. I’ll probably wait inside because it’s supposed to be beastly hot outside. Shorts should be fine. They’ll think you’re a tourist. Which you kind of are… And I can see your long legs!

Sweet sexy dreams!

-S

New RI guy chimes in

July 20, 2016 Wednesday

A new guy wrote to me today!

It was a quiet Wednesday at work. I ate my breakfast at my desk, read work emails then my mobile phone beeped – I had a message from a man on Ashley Madison!

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From: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 at 8:36am
 Private Showcase

You sound nice and like a lot of fun. Can I come visit you sometime? I would like to get to know you.

Don

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Hmmm… no typos. Short. Okay. Nothing exciting. No clue that he really read my profile. He did give a name… I like that. I didn’t have anything better to do, so I looked at his profile.

He’s from Rhode Island. I’m mostly over dealing with men from out of state, especially to the south – it’s such a pain to drive that direction.

He’s a little older than I am… that’s good. And he’s TALL! And FIT! Yay!

Hmm… he doesn’t know how to spell discreet. GUYS! LEARN THAT ONE!

He checked a bunch of boxes… eh. No icky ones. Okay.

He wrote three sentences. He likes tennis and golf and boats and… eh. Not much to go on, but simple and sweet.

He gave me the key to see his photo. It’s a great photo – he’s smiling, having a drink at a bar by the water, wearing sunglasses… he has hair and nice shoulders!

Can’t hurt to write and see what else he says, right?

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To: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 9:50am

Hiya Don,

How’re you this fine summer morning? Thank you for your message! Great to get one without typos.

I am nice – I’ve been told I’m the nicest woman ever. Are you nice? I want to meet – give me a few messages to check that we’re on the same page and you’re not an axe murderer?

Three questions for you –

What’s your favorite food for a birthday dinner? 

What brings you to AM now? How did you hear about it? 
(I’m curious as well as Sassy!) 
I adore the baked stuffed lobster at The Boat House in Tiverton. I’m on AM because Hubby and I are great friends, but haven’t had sex in a long time. And I beat cancer five years ago. I’m whole and healthy, and want to live life to the fullest!

Men say I am an awesome kisser, a great communicator, very discreet, no drama… looking for fun and passion and a confidante. Is that you? Feel free to ask me whatever you like to see if we click, and tell me more about you.

Hugs with groping. -Sassy

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He answered quickly! Yay!

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From: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 10:02am
 Private Showcase

Hi Sassy,

So, I’m a well educated guy with a lot of desire. I retired a bit early and take care of meals, gardens, and tennis and golf. My wife has a very busy job and I support her. But I need more attention. And I enjoy meeting nice people.

I’ll have the baked stuffed lobster or the fisherman platter for birthday. Heard about AM with the data breach.

Like you, I want to live a full and exciting life. Discrete and drama free.

I’m a very active guy. Timing a get together would be important.

But it will be worth every minute of it.

Don

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It’s a good message! Easy to write back.

He still can’t spell discreet. *sigh

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To: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 11:36am

Hiya Don!

Thanks for the fabulous photo! I’m a sucker for sexy shoulders and you have those going on! I’ll share a photo if we progress to email… have to be careful sharing much on here. What color are your eyes?

I had a great education. It helps me at the office – I’m that efficient, invisible office manager who keeps things running while the pros do their thing. I hope to retire early… maybe you can give me some pointers. I also help run a community project in my spare time, which is much more my thing than the office that pays the bills.

Ah, the wretched data breach… people said that would kill the site but it has made it busier! Glad it gave you a new option. Tell me you know how to cover your tracks? Can you deal with me being anonymous?

Desire is fantastic! What do you want most? Do you have any kinks that are must-haves or you want to try? I am not vanilla, have explored a bunch but mostly come back to the “two people pleasuring each other” model, with lots of variety. I don’t want to waste your time if you are looking for role-playing or pain or threesomes. I thought I was done with sex but an old flame found me after 37 years and resurrected me. Now I definitely want more. I am starved for the basics – a sweet back rub, a slow blow job, a good pounding with dirty talk… mmm. I am mostly an active person indoors… wink wink.

What days, times of day are good for you to adventure up to Boston? What do you envision for a first meet?

Hugs with groping. And an ear nibble… just because.

– Sassy

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He sent me two messages! And talked dirty! *tingling*

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From: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 11:57am
 Private Showcase

You’re sounding more interesting and fun all the time. Friday is a good day to meet. What time are you in the office? Could you take an afternoon away with me? We could explore together.

I’m very discreet and need you to be too. So Sassy is going to be your name. I’m sure you have a more proper one too, but when I’m in you, pumping, touching, and exploding you will be Sassy.

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He changed how he spells discreet! Whee!

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From: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 11:59am
 Private Showcase

My eyes are brown. My arms and legs are long, and you can imagine my other parts. I’m big and strong.

Send me a picture at [email address]

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Hmm… I have a good feeling about this guy! I don’t usually like a guy asking for a photo, or want to jump to email this fast, but he seems fine so off we go to Yahoo!  I’ve been putting in too much time upfront only to have guys disappear, so let’s see how it works if I move along to a first meet more quickly.  Not put so much into it that I am crushed.

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To: mtRI
Date: Wednesday July 20, 2016 12:29pm

My eyes are blue. I’m tall and curvy so you extrapolate from that. I sent you an email, so check over there and we’ll escape this site!

-Sassy

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From: Sassy
To: mtRI
Date: Wed 07/20/16 12:27 PM
Subject: Connection

Tap…tap, tap… is this thing working? I like to check before I launch into something else.

-S

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: Wed 07/20/16 12:32 PM
re: Connection

Tap tap. Yes from AM. Don

🙂

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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He wrote right back! Yay! And he has an Android phone. Nice.

Time to dig out photos of me.

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From: Sassy
To: Don
Date: Wed 07/20/16 12:39 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don!

Okay then… photos. Here are two for you. Hope they inspire you.

-S

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I sent him my cleavage photo you can see on my blog, and a photo of me dressed up to go out so he could see my face. And then started to fret. Bless him – he wrote right back.

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From: Don
To: Sassy
Date: 07/20/16 12:49 PM
Re: Connection

Hey, I’m appropriately inspired. I’d like to put my nose in there and give you a kiss.

Shall I visit you on Friday 🙂

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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Wow… he said nice things about the photos. And got the message of the cleavage shot!

Hmmm… kinda pushy about wanting to meet… but a lunch could be fine. I debated about telling him my timeline, but jumped in with both feet.

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To: Don
From: Sassy
Date: Wed, Jul 20, 2016 1:26 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don,

Thank you for responding quickly… it’s always nerve-wracking to share those first photos! Other things are good to put in there, too. 😉

I will do everything in my power to protect you from discovery. I’ve read a lot online about it and know the pitfalls and solutions. I so appreciate you allowing me my anonymity. It’s not so much about you, but whoever might see your email. Last thing I need is a vindictive spouse.

Please tell me you don’t have any STDs. And are careful? I was tested last year and have been careful since.

Friday is possible. I can leave the office any time after 12:30 pm, and have to be back for my ride at 5 pm. The first look needs to be somewhere public… safe. Are you safe most places up here? Do you have any favorite spots to start? Oh this is going to be fun!

I’m off to a dr’s appointment – more later!

-S

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To: Sassy
From: Don
Date: Wed 07/20/16 1:45 PM
Re: Connection

You know Sassy, I don’t know your area well anymore. I had a girlfriend up there, behind the Post Office, 40 years ago. I think that I am safe most anywhere. You pick a place and I’ll find it.

I have to make arrangements for Friday so I will confirm later.

I’m mostly monogamous, so don’t worry about me. I give blood often too.

I’m interested in your thoughts on keeping private.

Don

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android

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To: Don
From: Sassy
Date: Wed, Jul 20, 2016 8:03 PM
Re: Connection

Hiya Don,

Hope you’re having a good evening. I am reading our messages and smiling.

My older sister lived behind the Post Office in the early 70s… did you date her?!

Let me think about a place… will tell you tomorrow if you’re still up for it.

While you wait, I’ll send a little snippet of my writing. Probably want to read it when you’re alone.

-S

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To: Don
From: Sassy
Date: Wed, Jul 20, 2016 8:05 PM
Subject: The View

Just as I was finishing my last meeting of the day yesterday,
gathering my papers off the marble table in the conference
room on the 36th floor, the sound of sirens wafted up from
the expressway below. Everyone else had left the room, so
I took a minute to lean over the marble counter and stare
down at the roadway. There was a horrible wreck of mangled
metal and shattered glass, several cars and a tractor trailer
twisted together. The traffic was stopped behind the mess,
and the cars on the other side barely moved, rubbernecking.

Suddenly, I heard the door close. I straightened up, but before I
could turn, I felt your arm around my waist, and felt the heat of you
on my back through my dress. You were already hard, pressed
tightly against my ass. I started to speak, but you put a finger
on my lips and teased a corner. I licked your thumb, and you moved
your hand down to unbutton my dress. Just enough to slip
your hand inside and tease a hard nipple. I moaned and let my head
fall back against your shoulder. You bit my neck and ran your
tongue across my skin.

You slipped your hand under my skirt and inside my underwear,
teasing my most sensitive spot. You pressed a finger inside,
unsurprised at the moisture gathered there. I was startled
as you lowered my underwear. I felt like my knees would
buckle, but you tightened your grip and spread my legs to
balance me against the counter. I panicked when I heard
the rasping sound of your zipper, but before I could form the
words in my mind to stop you, I felt you hot and hard against
my skin, and a low moan was all that escaped my lips. You
shoved it inside me, and your breathing grew ragged as you
watched yourself slide in and out. You kneaded the flesh of
my hips as you moved, then reached around me to rub the top
of my slit in time with your strokes. I was trying to be
quiet, but could not hold in all the gasps of pleasure as
you thrust deeper and deeper inside me, your balls slapping
against me. You felt the trembling start inside me, and
the clenching around you. You felt the pulsing, the searing
heat and suddenly lost control, pounding me into the wood
and stone, spurting up inside me over and over.

The only sound was our uneven breathing and the whirring
air conditioning. You pressed your cheek to my back and
whispered, “What a view…”