The New Bartender Part 1

Anderson Cooper

Here is my report on Dancing Man – my second AM meet!  

We were IMing all day while I slogged through payroll processing – revving each other up, re-checking the plan.  I sent him sexy tumblr links to get him going.  ðŸ™‚  He actually sent me links back, which no other man has. 
We were scheduled to meet at 4:30 pm.  At 3:15 pm he pinged me to report that his last meeting of the day had been cancelled.  Could I get there earlier?  I checked to see if Hubby could bring me the car earlier.  He said sure, so he picked me up, I dropped him off at home and headed to the hotel.  I had seen a face shot and a full nude from the neck down, so I knew who I was looking for.  He also told me what he’d be wearing.
The meet
It was a dreary, rainy afternoon and people forget how to drive, so the traffic was awful and I was 15 minutes late, right at 4 pm.  I emailed him from a stoplight to tell him I was on my way.  He told me to meet him in the bar.  There was a man in the lobby leaning against a column reading his phone who looked like it might be him but I walked right past him, and didn’t figure it out for a few seconds.  Just as I turned to backtrack, he was there in the doorway.  I gave him a quick hug and he led me to the bar.  He had on a light blue dress shirt and grey dress pants.  I wore dark blue pants, a lighter blue top and scarf that match my eyes, white underwear with black dots all over and… my lucky black bra!  
He looks like a very trim Anderson Cooper, a “silver fox” with a buzz cut.  His face shot online is at least 10 years old. Not sure about his real job… sales something.  Sleeps with wife, but rarely.  Needs more.  Had been with a woman for 3 years, but they recently moved on and he says he is looking for another long term lady. 
The new bartender

There was no one else around.  We sat at the end of the bar.  There was a brand new bartender – first day – who wouldn’t leave us alone!  He asked what chardonnays they had by the glass, and she was looking at the red wines.  Ugh.  He told her it’s a white and she pulled out a bottle for him to look at.  I asked for iced tea.  She poured his wine and went in search of the tea.  She came back to say they didn’t have it.  So I ordered a diet coke with lime. She brought that and started asking us questions – where are you from?  What brings you to Boston?  How long will you be here?  I let him answer.  He put his hand on my arm and rolled his eyes at me.  
Not subtle
He is the opposite of the lawyer – very intense, edgy.  Not subtle, this one. When she finally left, he turned to me and said, “Wow.  I thought she would never leave!  What am I doing here?  I came here to fuck you!”

I was stunned that he wanted me.  He put my hand between his legs.  I put my hand on his upper leg and he chided me, “Higher!”  I sassed him back, “Patience.  I’ll get there…”  Very nice bulge there.   He said he was very turned on that I watch porn and had expressed interest in trying things.  He stared at me.  I stared back.  He asked how long since I had some dick.  I answered six months.  He rolled his eyes and said, “Let’s fix that, right now.”  He leaned toward me, and whispered, “Yes?” 

Tune in tomorrow for Part 2

A Different Game

Just when I had started to forget my first contact, AM #1, of course he reappeared!  He wrote another charming message, saying he’d been run ragged at work unexpectedly, so sorry, he still thought I was the best gal in all of AM… so I swooned for a second time!  

So I have a lunch with The Lawyer tomorrow.  Drinks with Dancing Man Friday.  And AM #1 back in the mix.  And the Professor writing every day.  My head is spinning!   

I spent quite a while trying to figure out which man I would choose.  Imagine… me… talking to four men and being able to choose one!   I had never done that in my life!  How was I supposed to do it?  

  • The urbane cautious Ivy-educated lawyer like the men I’d worked, but better? 
  • The charming, flaky AM #1 – the first guy to recognize my potential?
  • The uber-sexy gray fox who sent me a naked photo and wants to fuck like a rabbit?  
  • The staid slow-but-sure turtle of a Professor?  

I like them all!  Arrrgh!  

Then I realized… this is NOT “The Dating Game.”  I don’t have to choose!  I can have lunch and drinks and whatever, and choose or not choose some other day!!! Wow!  There’s no guarantee that any or all of them will want to see me again, so it’s good to have a back-up plan.  Or two.  Or three!  Hee hee.  Wow.  This is not about marriage, children, being seen in public… just sex and fun!   This online dating game is a whole new world!  

Dancing Man

I got a wink from another man last night!  Another 6’2″ 200 pound guy in his 50s!

There was something about his profile… I couldn’t resist writing to him.  He wrote right back, gave me his Yahoo IM and said he wanted to chat!  Wow… that’s fast.  I haven’t chatted with anyone yet, but don’t see a reason not to.  I pinged him but we didn’t connect.

He found me first thing this morning.  We chatted on and off all day!  He is different from the other guys.. a salesman, very blunt, terse and right to the point.  He sent me a very hot full body photo… yum.

He asked very direct questions – Am I shaved or natural?  When was the last time I had sex?  He made it very clear what he wants – he wants to meet me and he wants to fuck!  He wants to meet at hotel on Friday!  I told him that’s a little scary.  He downshifted to meeting for a drink in the hotel bar, said no pressure but he’d get a room just in case.  We hashed through the brass tacks anyway – condoms, lube, fantasies… pouring quite a foundation to build a sexy encounter on!  I shared some porn and he shared back!  Wow.

Not sure what to make of all that.  He seems like a player, but… I want to play!  Terrified that he won’t want me once he sees me, but I am gaining confidence as more men contact me!

He told me that he teaches ballroom dance classes in his spare time, so that will be his nickname.

So to summarize my first week on AM:

     1) #1 charmed me, went quiet and is back chatting but hasn’t named a new date to meet.

     2) The Lawyer is meeting me for lunch on Thursday!

     3) The Professor writes faithfully every day, is talking about a phone call.

     4) Dancing Man wants to meet for a drink Friday!  Whee!

It makes me want to dye my hair, buy all new clothes and loose 100 pounds by Thursday!  Eeek!

The online dating thing still doesn’t seem like my scene, but maybe it will lead me to somewhere better!