Breaking the silence

I waited all day Saturday and into Sunday to hear from him… silence.  Argh!!!  Guys – if a lady sucks your cock, email her with thanks and say something nice RIGHT AWAY!  I mean… sitting in your car.  Or first thing when you get home.  DO NOT leave her to wonder.  I finally caved in and wrote to him. 
From: Sassy
To: SmoothGuy
Sent: Sunday, February 24, 2013 1:49 PM
Subject: Checking in
Hiya!  Hope you’re having an easy Sunday.  I am mired in the ever exciting laundry, plant watering and prepping for a project meeting.
Thank you for the iced tea, and the best breakfast I’ve had in a long time.  
Soooo…. are you freaking out?  Unimpressed? Overwhelmed?  Still processing?  Something else?  Give me a clue, please.  
 “There are silences harder to take back than words.
     from “By the Numbers” Poetry and Aphorisms
     by James Richardson, America Poet 
From: SmoothGuy
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, February 24, 2013 2:00 PM
Subject: Re: Checking in
Hey there.
I’m mostly processing.  As you know, a very enjoyable experience!  But, it’s the furthest I’ve gone, prior was just kissing.
So I’m processing if that’s what I want to be doing outside my marriage. Knowing me, I take several days to think things through. In any event, was very nice.
From: Sassy
To: SmoothGuy
Sent: Sunday, February 24, 2013 7:02 PM
Subject: Re: Checking in 
Thanks for the update!  Best of luck working through this… if I can help, let me know.  
It was great meeting you.  You are fun!

15 thoughts on “Breaking the silence

  1. Kat says:

    Ugh!!!! I had a similar issue with T. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask them to “think things through” *before* their cock is in my mouth, right? Your reply was so sweet, kinder than he deserves, but that’s just me.

  2. Olivia G. says:

    Totally inconsiderate of him not to thank you for the date (and the hot blowjob!). No matter what comes next, a thank you is basic manners.

  3. ~McK says:

    I concur! Even if a one and done, one should always be gracious.

    • Thanks! I’d be fine with “Hey, Sass. Thanks for the fun times today but you don’t float my boat. Best of luck!” or “Thanks for then fun times!” and then a little more later when he’s processed it. Ah well… I was relieved not to have to deal with his strange equipment again!

  4. I’m with Kat! What a jackass! I certainly remember those days well although I have to say I had one particular jackass claim it was his first time and he ended up being quite the player. He used the whole guilt thing to give me the slip. Needless to say I wrote an entire book about that jerk. Anyway, I’m sorry this guy was a jackass to you but glad to see you as well as Kat 🙂

  5. Red Shoes says:

    Unless you just sucked him dry and left him lifeless… he should have contacted you…

    I trust that YOU still had fun, however… ;o)


  6. Max says:

    I can only echo what everyone is saying. Not impressive. 🙁

  7. Kenny says:

    I have a prewritten “thanks for the BJ” text always on the ready. I time it to send 30 seconds after I cum. I usually follow it up with a “the finger in the ass was very thoughtful” after call.

    Sorry, I was just imagining writing a thank you letter for the levels of depravity that I sometimes engage in…lol

    I do agree…bad form on his part.

    I still have the image of his junk in my head and I am thinking…well…maybe everything is for the best after all…

  8. Thank you for confirming my belief that writing back is common courtesy! Odd how many men I’ve met don’t get that. At least he replied eventually.

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