AM men so far

January 1, 2013

Happy New Year!

I am feeling a little better this morning – regrouping, taking stock of where I am and trying to figure out where I am going.  I feel done with Ashley Madison but don’t see a clear alternative.  Here’s a quick summary of my contacts since I joined AM in mid-September:

  • 10 men contacted me that I replied to 
  • 6 Met 
  • 3 Had sex with (2 good, one bad)
  • 8 Gone
  • 2 Still talking (Mr Truck and Panties Man)

Month            Met       Status Comments


   #1                   No        Gone    Guilt king, stood me up

   The Lawyer     Once     Gone     Regular guy, so sweet, too busy to cheat

   Dancing Man    Once     Gone     Regular guy, One and done without a word

   Panties Man     Once     Active   Kinky, sweet, too busy to cheat

   The Professor   Once     Gone     Vanilla, erudite, lunch and silence


   Mr Truck          No       Active     Email king, porn king, kinky


   Speedy             Once     Gone      Selfish, shorter, thinner, one and done

   Period Man       No         Gone      Too many periods!


   SmoothGuy       No        Gone     Nice guy, said he won’t cheat

   Volt                Once     Gone     Great guy, generous, guilty

7 thoughts on “AM men so far

  1. Why would someone be on AM if they aren’t ready to play?

    • Good question, Dik. I have two theories.
      1) They like the idea, the fantasy… but when it gets real, they can’t deal.
      2) They don’t want to play with me. Which seems more likely when their profile is still on AM weeks or months later.

  2. I would have say your experiences have paralleled mine.

    Interestingly, my #1 (not from AM however) just sent an email “checking in” for the new year. I ask myself “why now”? He left the picture after meeting for lunch once and with a similar “I hope you find what you are looking for” message.

    On a more uplifting note, my final AM contact and I are a thing for a year and a half. We consider ourselves lucky.

  3. When you think of how many guys you dated until you found someone you wanted to marry then those numbers actually look pretty good. We get way to anxious on AM about failure. I sounds corny but failure does really mean you are one step closer to finding the right person.

    I’d count yourself a success. And just think of all the blogging material those guys gave you! You should be thankful! 🙂

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