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Tuesday tantalizations

August 30, 2016 Tuesday

From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday August 30, 2016 1:26 AM
Subject: Tuesday tantalizations 
Actually this is more direct than a “tantalization.”  
I would like to find a time to fuck you!  Sorry if that is too blunt …
Can you clear some time this Friday afternoon?  
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 30, 2016 5:06 PM
Subject: Re: Tuesday tantalizations 
Hiya T!  You are so cute when you’re horny.  And sexy.  And silly.  And I like it.  So sorry not to write sooner.. I had to be out early at 7 am to give my cleaners space to work, so I came to work early and got slammed with one thing after another!  Things will calm down, I swear.  Just as you get slammed probably… heh.  
Aren’t bathrooms great for fueling fantasies?  I’ve been re-living our 10 minutes and then spinning scenarios out in every direction!  Whee! 
I am taking Friday off from work, so we can meet up if you like. 
Here’s a theory: Meet at the La Quinta Inn near the Assembly Square Mall.  Their check-in time is 3 pm which can be pushed a little.  The current rate for Friday is $150.  The other option is the Holiday Inn on Washington Street in Somerville, same price range.  Both have free parking, not too tough to find. 
If you want to see me earlier, we could meet for lunch anywhere near there.  Near the LQ there’s a Ninety-Nine (diner/pub like cheaper food) or the entire Assembly Row (pricier – Outback Steakhouse? The new Southern Kin, etc) or all of Wellington Circle (Italian, Mexican, Kelly’s Roast Beef!) 
Or you can have your own theory and let me know.  
I thought more about the risk, same pond… I hope we can get away with this once, see if it is worth it, think more… is that too crass?  I definitely do not want to lose my job or yours… not clear on the problems that could arise but please be super-duper careful!  
Mwah.. and more disrobing. 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday August 30, 2016 10:50 PM
Re: Tuesday tantalizations 
Hiya Sassie
I am glad you think I am cute and sexy and silly!  And I am glad you like it when I express my horniness!
When I woke up this morning and remembered the middle of the night message “I want to fuck you,” I thought I was a total jerk!  What a crude message to send to a lovely lady I had only just met.  I was totally convinced that I must have been so obnoxious that I had completely alienated you!
Very very glad to learn that I didn’t!
How long did we spend in the bathroom?  I lost track of time.  Could have been a couple of minutes, could have been twenty! 
(I haven’t made out in a public bathroom since college.  What a total rush!)
I’ve replayed it dozens of times in my mind too!  Mainly I remember some really great kissing; some exciting grabbing, fondling, squeezing your boobs; your breathy, panting voice as I pushed you up against the wall, and as I imagined you said “I am a woman who will do whatever you like.”  (Did you actually say that (or anything like that), or is this just my horny memory?)
You said you spun out scenarios in every direction.  Do tell!  What are some of your favorite scenarios?  At the moment, mine are pretty simple — extended making out, with hands gradually exploring under our clothes (altho of course clothes will get ripped off), lots of kissing and tongues, some heavy duty playing with and kissing/sucking your breasts, and having you lick my cock to a stiff erection (with reciprocity, of course)!  To be expanded upon freely in all directions.  But if there is anything in particular you are thinking about, let me know!  I will be happy to develop my own fantasies to synch with yours.
As we plan for getting together on Friday, may I ask you to bring some of your favorite toys, to introduce me to their use and particularly their application to your body!!!  I am new to toys, but I would like to be a quick learner!  Just need a skilled teacher!
I’ll think about the logistics of Friday and get back to you.  First thing, I need a cover story for going off radar on Fri afternoon.  (Didn’t think of that in the heat of lust when I wrote you as a caveman, “I want to fuck you on Friday!”)
Fishing in one’s own pond issue?  Yeah, I am thinking about that too.  At work today I found myself scanning every woman walking by, wondering if I would see you.
I like your tentative solution.  “let’s fuck, then evaluate!”  Certainly this could be an issue, but . . .
More soon, but in the meantime MWAH!!!!!!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday August 30, 2016 11:56 PM
Re: Tuesday tantalizations 
Hiya T!  
I was pondering what you could say to me that would offend me… hmmm… you’re not a Trump fan or a Yankees baseball fan… you aren’t mean.  You can say what you think.  If it is too much, I will say so!  Don’t filter. I want to be the one who can hear you say fuck and know you mean it in the best possible way.  Being wanted in that way is very very enticing! 😉 
Time didn’t seem to matter in that bathroom except there wasn’t enough of it!  I had whiplash when I got to my meeting, having just been in there with you and having to pull myself together to greet people and smile and… eep.  All I wanted to do was close my eyes and figure out how to get your cock into my mouth while you lean against the sink!  I did say… something… like “Imagine a woman who will do what you want.”  
I can bring my toys.  I don’t usually at first but if you want, my toy bag is ready to go.  
I don’t get out of the office much… doubt you will see me around.  The risk is bugging me. I usually have no qualms but I’ve never had sex with anyone at the same employer.  When I analyze it, it gets scarier and scarier, so I stop thinking about it.  I worry about my job and yours.  I worry about you being discreet.  I wonder if there can be some excuse… work-related, project-related… that would explain anything  someone could see in public and tell your wife. Luckily, I look mostly harmless looking.  Just a chubby old gray-haired lady.  Heh.  Can you keep from telling anyone?  I wonder if you could keep from confessing if she asked you.  I wonder if you can keep my name out of it, no matter what.  *sigh  
If Friday doesn’t work, I can wait.  Be safe.  If you have any questions, or other ideas, don’t hesitate to say. 
Best of luck getting through this week!  Whee! Do not think about my chest… too much.  
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday August 31, 2016 12:59 AM
Re: Tuesday tantalizations
I am not mean!  And I don’t kiss and tell!  And I am certainly not going to say to someone “you can’t believe the great tits I felt up yesterday . . . ” (except, I have certainly told you, but that is from feeler to feelee!!!) Whoopee!
I won’t filter, and when I write in the middle of the night “I want to fuck you” I mean it in the best, most erotic possible way!  I also recognize that “fuck” has a male aggressive/dominant tone to it.  I am happy to be aggressive/dominant (a little bit) if/when you want to be passive/submissive.  But I also like to play either way!
I am curious if you have a submissive side?
But, can also take charge of me when that works for us!
I cannot write any longer on my laptop, since there is something rising up and disrupting the keyboard.  I’ll have to deal with this and write again later!
Mwah!
Mwah!Mwah!Mwah!Mwah!Mwah!Mwah!Mwah!
Slurp!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad 
Sent: Wednesday August 31, 2016 1:04 AM
Re: Tuesday tantalizations 
T!  You are fun!  I’m giggling and tingling… So wet!  
Sweet sexy dreams!

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Meet #1 The Restaurant Bathroom

August 29, 2016 Monday
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 8:07 AM
Subject: Monday musing
Good morning T!  Hope your Monday is off to a marvelous start.  Mwah!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 10:37 AM
Re: Monday musing
Nervous!
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 11:50 AM
Subject: Monday musing
Aww… it’s just me.  I hope this day flies and you can put your arms around me and it will be great!  

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 2:20 PM
Subject: Re: Monday musing
Hiya T!  
Look around at the bar for a lady with purple glasses, a blue and white silk scarf, blue top and slacks!  I’ll be smiling. 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 2:47 PM
Re: Monday musing
Hiya S!
I was just going to write!  Why don’t we see about a booth, rather than the bar?  I recall there are some booths along the back wall.
I’ll be the guy with a beard, glasses, and muted flowered shirt (last gasps of summer) and a nervous look!  (I know, I know, but remember you’ve done this before, I haven’t exactly . . . )
Soon!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 3:54 PM
Subject: Re: Monday musing
Hiya!  We can meet at the bar, then ask for a quiet table.  There’s an alcove on the side that is cozy…
Oof…I feel like such a hussy for knowing all this.  Can’t say it gets much easier…but it’s worth it!
So excited to see your flowered shirt!  
-S

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 4:04 PM
Re: Monday musing
mmmmmm
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Meeting Thad
I got to the bar first, right at 4:30 pm, and saw a man sitting alone there, but he didn’t have on a floral shirt, so I stood in the entryway waiting at the bottom of the stairs.  Two minutes later a cute older guy wandered in, looked down and smiled.  I opened my arms to him and we had a lovely hug.  He is a cuddly teddy bear!  He reminds me of Emeril LaGasse… a solid, dark-haired, jovial, smiling man!

Emeril LaGasse
We headed into the restaurant and the bartender told us to sit anywhere on the lefthand side.  It was deserted. He picked a booth at the back.  I sat across from him and we stared at each other, smiling like loons.  He had on a muted floral shirt and khakis, with black framed glasses. I wore my usual “Sassy goes to a meet” outfit of silk scarf, blue button up top, blue slacks and my lucky black bra!  
We talked about our pets, shared photos.  He ordered a beer, I got an iced tea.  He asked a lot of questions he didn’t want to put in email.  I answered.  It’s wonderful to have someone who is curious about me!  I reached out for his hand and he squeezed mine.  We had no privacy so I tried to be subtle… touch his arm and let go. Brush my hand on his. Run a finger down his fingers…  mmmm.  He winked at me and grinned… he knew exactly what I was doing.  
He was easy to talk with.  We went from one topic to the next.  He was interested in my adventures but I tried to keep it brief.  He came across as smart, funny, yet so sad and lonely with his wife not wanting him in bed anymore.  You know I am a sucker for that!  I can help! 
I went to check out the bathroom situation – there is a huge one-holer!  I returned to the table and asked if he’d like me meet me in there in a couple of minutes?  His smile was so bright!  
He paid the bill.  I thanked him and disappeared to the bathroom. I held the door open.  He came toddling over, looking over his shoulder.  I smiled and he relaxed, joined me and locked the door.  We had a long, simple hug, finding out how we fit together.  
He pressed me against the wall and kissed me, tentatively at first… testing, trying various angles, then he went a little wild, devouring my lips, pressing his tongue inside me while angling his hips to let me feel exactly how excited he was!  I grabbed handfuls of his back side.  Mmm mmm mmm! 
He groped my left breast, squeezing, pressing… teasing the nipple with one finger through my shirt.  He pulled away a little and smiled.  I unbuttoned my shirt, gave him a good look at my cleavage and black bra.  He giggled, said, “Ah… now I know it’s really you!”  
He asked if I would touch him.  I winked at him, reached down and pressed between his legs, shifting my hand around the hardness, pressing, pulling a little.  I told him I am the woman who will do what he wants.  He got this puzzled look as he processed that but then grinned from ear to ear!  
He kneaded my back side while I played with his front.  He kissed me again…long, slow, sensual.  Oh my!  
He pulled away and looked at his watch.  His face saddened and he said, “How can it be 6 o’clock  already?!  I’m so sorry to say I have to go… and we can’t stay in here forever!  I want to… more… soon!” He pressed his forehead against mine.  
I straightened my clothes and buttoned my top while he adjusted his.  He pressed me back against the wall for one more long kiss.  He looked at me wistfully, then opened the door and escorted me to the street.  We stopped in the entry alcove and he repeated… “More… soon!”  Then a heartfelt, “It was SO NICE to meet you!” 
I nodded and smiled, replied, “Oh yes…soon.”  He headed off down the street and I went the other way on purpose, so as not to be seen on the street with him.  I turned and watched him until he went around the corner.  
What a first meet!  Wow!  Please, please let him want more!!! 


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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 7:20 PM
Subject: Mwah

mwah!
mwah!
mwah!
mwah!
mwah!
mwah!
mwah!
and
mwah!
I’ll write some mwah later!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 9:07 PM
Subject: Re: Mwah
72.5 mwahs to you!  Mmmm….you…mmm…more! soon!
My meeting is going well.  So many talented people.  

Lots of time to remember.  Mmm

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 9:36 PM
Re: Mwah
But did I meet well?!?
I can clear Friday afternoon if you can!
Mwah again and again!
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 9:51 PM
Re: Mwah
Hey, what was wrong with the last .5 kiss?
Personally, I really REALLY liked them all.
If I messed up on the last .5, will you let me have another chance?
:>)
xxx
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 10:53 PM
Subject: Re: Mwah
Friday sounds good. 
I’m collapsing into bed.  But I can’t go without telling you how wonderful it was to meet you, and thank you for the tea and “dessert.”.  I had such fun canoodling with you! 
More tomorrow.  
Sleep well T.
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 9:51 PM
Re: Mwah
Sleep well, my Sassy!
I love the term canoodling!  You can canoodle with me ANYTIME!
I don’t think we had an adequate dessert!  I want to plan for many more helpings, as soon as possible!
Mwah, mwah, mwah!
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, August 29, 2016 11:58 PM
Re: Mwah
How can I sleep?
My hands on your spectacular breasts, squeezing, fondling, groping!
Our lips (and tongues) probing!
Hands roaming!  You unbuttoning your blouse so I could explore further and lick your cleavage!  No time for my hands to get into your black bra, alas!  Next time!!!
Pressed against the bathroom wall, you offer yourself up as “a woman who will do anything you want.”
Really?  (I will sleep on that thought!)
If we had had time, I would have fucked you then and there, held up against the bathroom wall!
A very hot scene.
So, we will have to find another time and place, SOON!
T


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Meet a Big Fish?

Dear Readers,

Here’s my question for today: Can I “fish in my own pond?”

I’ve faced so many questions – seems like every time I get approached by a guy there is some issue or kink or something that has to be pondered.  Can I deal with that?  or this other thing?  Is sex worth dealing with it?  Beyond the whole “being with a married man” thing that I talked myself through in the first weeks chatting with Philip, I’ve run into so many wrinkles!  Most of which most people say are a bad idea.  Or I haven’t done them and don’t know if I want to start!  What matters?  What doesn’t?

A guy who smokes weed all the time?
The guy who is into olive oil massage?
A guy who is a sub?
A guy who is a dom?
A guy who wants to listen to me poop?
A traveling man?
A single man?
A guy wearing women’s underwear?
The guy who wants me to ride his motorcycle?
The guy who only wants to write to set up meets?
The guy who wants me to visit his house?
The guy who can’t spell?

I’ve crossed a lot of lines, tried a lot of sexy stuff, broken rules, contradicted conventional wisdom… but I have never dated anyone I worked with.  Never had an offer to do so!

So can I meet someone who works where I work?  I keep thinking of course I can.  And then thinking I absolutely can’t!  Help!

It’s not a pond exactly… more like a Great Lake!  And he is on the far shore.  Not in my office, not a supervisor or even in my chain of command.

But still… is it worth the risk?  What can happen?  Could I lose my job?  What if I break it off and he’s mean and tells people?  It’s usually the woman who gets canned when these things come out.  Ugh.  That would really suck.

Okay… I admit it… I googled him.  My Google fu is strong.  If you give me two or three pieces of information about you?  I can usually find you.  So I know his first name, probably, and where he works.  And what he does.  It didn’t take me long to find a guy who could be him, and then find enough info to know it was the same guy.

Oh my… he’s a BIG FISH!  Yikes! Does that change the question? Can I meet a Big Fish?

I had a moment of pride that I managed to attract someone so distinguished!  Then I had a moment of terror imagining what might happen to him or to me if we were discovered.  I usually have to worry about a guy’s wife finding out, but this is much bigger.  If I am going to stop, I should stop now, right?

I realize I am getting ahead of myself.  We may not even click in person.  I should at least see what he looks like, listen to him… right?  I have a special feeling about him.. a kindred spirit.  *sigh*  We can work this out, right?

What should I do?!!!

-S

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Sexy Gif Sunday

August 28, 2016 Sunday
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 10:32 AM
Subject: Sunday snoozing
Good morning T! 
Another glorious morning in the late summer… and a sexy woman to send you greetings.  Hope you like it.
You have anything fun planned?  I am hoping for an easy day to get things done around my condo, read, relax… and store up energy for the start of the semester.
Mwah!  I want… mmmm… 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 12:07 PM
Re: Sunday snoozing
Hiya
I snoozed too.  Nothing much planned for today either.  Still recovering from the thrill of Best Buy yesterday!  Relax, read the Sunday paper, play with kitten (who woke me up at about 6 am playing with my toe which was poking outside the covers), and dream about tomorrow!
I just dashed off a little piece of erotica for you.  Hope you like it.
T
Kneeling on the Oriental rug, he pulled her to the edge of the bed and draped her legs over his shoulders. His tongue began to explore her soft crevice. She was still dry and her inner labia were still closed, but his tongue gently pushed them apart and began to probe into the velvety interior. The tongue reached up to find her clitoris nestled in its little hood. Flicking gently, his tongue coaxed her clit out of hiding.
He could hear her breathing now, still soft but slowing growing in intensity. Stretching his arm he could just barely reach her breast and he squeezed it gently. A moment later he stuck his finger in her now moistening pussy, and then applied some of her own juices to her nipple, which he swirled as he continued to stimulate her pussy with his tongue.
She was getting a little noisier, and her hips, which had lain still when he started, were beginning to move rhythmically. He licked harder and began to nibble at the tender morsels before him. A sharp suck on her clitoris and a gentle nip at the inner labia. His tongue went deeper and deeper into her interior, now beginning to flood with musky juices.
His face was getting soaked with the intoxicating nectar.
She began to moan, gently at first, but then more and more loudly. She grabbed the sides of his head and held it there, making sure that his tongue, his nose, his mouth would not, could not move away.
Her hips began to thrash. Her thighs clamped him firmly. Her moans turned into small cries, rising in intensity. With a loud stammering shriek, she came and her vagina suddenly flooded. She bucked and held his head, then gradually her body began to relax.
Her grip on him loosened. Her thighs released him. She lay across the bed limply, her breath still heaving.
He climbed on the bed beside her, and they began to kiss. She inhaled the musty fragrance from his soaked face and tasted the intoxicating juices that still layered his tongue.
They kissed wildly. She reached for his rock hard cock and lowered her head to welcome it between her other lips.
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 1:2 PM
Subject: Re: Sunday snoozing
Wow… I mean…WOW.  You get it, mister.  I’ve read it 16 times.  You have a real talent.  If you can do it…oh oh oh.   Thank you T. 


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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 2:27 PM
Re: Sunday snoozing
Well, I’m glad you liked it!  Seemed like a good thing to write on a lazy Sunday morning, thinking of other things I wish I was doing at the time. . .
But remember, I’ve had a long dry spell (pun intended) in the bedroom, so I am probably rusty.  Don’t expect miracles from me the first time we have a chance for a test drive~~~
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 2:49 PM
Subject: Re: Sunday snoozing
Hiya T! 
How’s your day going?  I haven’t gotten much done… my mind is wandering, wondering… mmm. 
If we can’t be together and do what we want, writing erotica is a very acceptable substitute!  Yum yum yum… I adore your story! 
Please don’t worry too much.  Be yourself.  I try very very hard not to judge from the first meet.  and the first sexy time.  I do not expect miracles.  I am a jumbled mixture of high excitement hussy and terrified shy woman.  I hope we can get through at least three tries – tomorrow and twice more, because I’ve been with men who were so nervous the first time they mostly stared at me, then couldn’t… finish… the first time in bed, and I thought… oh great, and mostly wrote them off.  But the second time in bed was different. 🙂  I also know that the first sex tends to be super-fast, hot, heavy and crazy, when the “normal” pattern can be a leisurely, conversational, slow-burning delight.  Patience pays off!  Know that I long to touch your hand, look into your eyes, see you smile, hear your voice, hear your stories… and see how you kiss.  Puzzling over where to do that last part.  I forget if there is a handicapped bathroom at the restaurant.  Any ideas? 
I will write you tomorrow to let you know what I am wearing, so you can recognize me easily.  
Not sure how long you can stay, but I do need to leave by about 6 pm.  I have a meeting at 6:30 pm.  
Anything else you want to ask, so you will be maximum comfortable?  I want this to be fun!  
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 4:21 PM
Re: Sunday snoozing
Hi
Not getting much done either.  Daydreaming!  And marveling that we’ve only been writing to each other for a week (since last Sunday!)
No doubt I will stare at you, politely I hope.  (I’ll try not to drool) But I don’t think I will be silent.  I am a pretty talkative kind of guy.  But some of the things I am eager to ask you are probably conversations behind closed doors.
Ingenious to think of a handicapped toilet!  I hope we can at least have a sample kiss tomorrow!
If we are meeting at about 4:30, I can stay til about 6:00.
Send me a description (and think about a name for me to call you!)
I am a very informal dresser, by the way, so I hope you won’t mind if I show up in some chinos and maybe a Hawaiian shirt?  I’ll let you know more precisely what I’ll be wearing.
I am getting very hot just thinking about tomorrow.
mwah
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 6:04 PM
Subject: More
More licking 

advizortoall
This kills me and I love it.

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 6:05 PM
Subject: The Black Gift
My favorite bj video.  (Under 5 minutes) 
Camille Crimson is such an artist. 
De luxe redhead blowing | Redtube 
https://www.redtube.com/41790
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 6:43 PM
Re: The Black Gift
Hiya
I’ve seen this site a few times!  She is very very hot!  Glad we have similar tastes!
mwah
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 9:35 PM
Re: More
So, other than watching each other, what shall we watch together?

T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 9:38 PM
Subject: Re: More
Hiya T! 
Good question!  Any ideas?  

I don’t want to be the only one sharing p0rn!  🙂 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 9:43 PM
Re: Sunday snoozing
Hi there
Just got thru with dinner with friends.
Noticing places makes sense to me!  I hope we can notice someplace appropriate for a trial kiss tomorrow 😮
I know you will be coming from work, so I didn’t expect you to be dressed in anything wild!
My stomach is full of butterflies.  Will we click?  Will this blow up in our faces?  Where will this lead us?
Yikes!  But really exciting too!
By the way, you have great taste in video clips!
Hugs and nibbles
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 10:04 PM
Re: More
Certainly don’t want to be one-sided in our exchange of video clips

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From: Sassy 
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 10:2 PM
Subject: Re: More
Mmmm…very nice!  Thank you T! Nothing like a sexy gif!  
Had not seen either one. I adore their faces… showing how fun that is!  Wish I could see the man’s face.  Hear him moaning.  Perhaps I will see yours in that way soon? 
You are a very interesting man! 
Tomorrow.. only about 18 hours now until hugging!  It is certainly making Monday sound better than it has in a long time.  
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy

Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 10:36 PM
Subject: and one more
Hope I am as interesting in person!
One more favorite
http://xhamster.com/movies/3226822/amateur_blowjob_milf.html 

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Sharing The Storm

August 27, 2016 Saturday
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 12:08 AM
Subject: The Storm
The Storm
He made it inside just as the first thunder clap sounded.  BANG!  It started to pour as he walked past the living room windows.  Wow. That was close.  He loved thunderstorms!  He was very tempted to stand outside to watch the storm.  Maybe even dance in the downpour.  But there was something more important he had to do. 
He knew where to find her.  He shed his clothes as he made his way to the bedroom and sure enough, there was this lump the size of a person under the blanket. He rubbed where he thought a leg might be, and a slight whimper filtered out through the covers.  There was a crash of lightning and another big boom, and she shrieked. 
“It’s okay.  You’re okay.  I’m here,” he said calmly, trying to be soothing.  He crawled into the bed next to her.  She clung to him and wrapped herself around him, burying her head in his chest, trembling.  He couldn’t believe she was still such a wuss about thunderstorms.  She was so brave about almost everything else. 
But he knew how to distract her.  He put his hands on her back and rubbed gently.  He explored up and then down, surprised that she was naked.  He pressed her ass so that she fit tightly against him.  She moaned sweetly when she felt him hard against the top of her leg.  She shifted her head up and grabbed his head with her hands, kissing him frantically.  He slowed her down a bit, pressing his tongue into her mouth at a leisurely pace and making more soothing noises. 
“We have plenty of time…” he pointed out, squeezing her breast and teasing the nipple.
“Fuck me,” she whispered fiercely.  It sent a shock wave through him.  He loved it when she talked dirty to him.  Everyone else saw her as an ultra-polite, demure lady.  Only he knew about the wild girl inside.  She was turning the intense fear into another emotion, putting it to good use.  Smart girl.  
“Yes, ma’am…” he chuckled.  He hugged her, pondering which position would be best. 
“Fuck me now,” she urged him. She wasn’t going to let him go slow today.  She flattened him onto the bed, straddled him and pressed him close, shifting her hips to rub him against her.  He could feel her dripping already.  It made him a little crazy.  He shifted slightly and she took him inside her and began to move.  Up and down she went.  He put a hand on her hip and one on her breast, twisting, teasing…
He knew her inside and out, as much as any person can know another.  But it never stopped surprising him how tight and hot she was, how he fit inside her like a sculptor had made him to be there and made her to make him feel so incredible every single time.  When he first touched her as a green boy, he realized that she was different.  He had felt an emotional connection for ages, but when they finally kissed, he felt a physical connection to her that he never felt again in his life.  Special, comfortable, exciting… and at times, inflammatory.  Chemistry.  That had never changed.  He thought he would get tired of her, stop thinking about her, stop wanting her… but it never happened.  Sometimes it drove him crazy, when he couldn’t get to her.  When he could and he couldn’t get inside her fast enough.  But it was the best kind of crazy… it made him feel alive.  Kept him young.  Made them both happier than anything or anyone else.  And the most amazing thing was that she felt the same way.  He marveled over that every day. 
She stopped moving… sensing that his mind had drifted.  He snapped back to her body and what she was doing, putting a finger at the top of her slit and flicking her most sensitive spot.  She sighed in pleasure and started moving again, rising up, arching her back and driving down on him again, shoving him so deep inside…. and then out again.  Her tits looked amazing when she did that!  It was the sweetest form of torture… so hot, so wet, so…. hmmmm.. he could not think when she was like this.  He could feel… oh, man could he feel!  Every nerve in his body was on fire.  And he craved the heat.  She kept turning up the temperature… taking him closer and closer… and then stopping.  She was panting.  She leaned over and kissed him again, sucking his tongue, twisting her hips… damn.  He felt the magic start.  He wasn’t going to last long if she kept this up… it was as if every muscle inside her was trying to squeeze him, milk him… whoa, baby.  What a woman…he thought she was going to make him peak.  But when he thought he couldn’t take it another moment, she stopped, flipping over onto her back on the bed.
She lay there breathing loudly.  He tried to figure out what she was up to.  She turned to him and kissed him, wrapping herself around him on her side.  She stroked him, then put her hand lower, caressing his balls, pressing the spots she knew would send him soaring.  His breath grew ragged… what would she do next? 
She pressed a finger inside his ass.  Oh, wow… she was really trying to push all his buttons this time!  His hips rocketed off the bed.  She pumped in and out, whispering in his ear.  “You like it when I fuck you, don’t you, fella?  Like it when I give your ass the love, eh?”  she said, making a little sucking sound.  He moaned.  She knew just what to do.  She moved down his body, putting her mouth where her hand had been, licking his cock and sucking it deep into her mouth, then kissing his balls and sucking them and finally sticking her tongue in his ass!  He moaned and trembled.  She could be such a vixen! 
That was it.  He rolled over, pulled her legs up to his shoulders, and dove back inside her, pumping, deep, long strokes while she moaned and then screamed, her head thrashing from side to side.  He watched her shake, felt her hips crashing up against him.  She opened her eyes and the look… the look nearly made him explode.  So many words popped into his head… lust, passion, fire… love.  No one loved him like she did.  Her mind, her body… it all went together to make him know… mmmm….
There was another big thunderclap and she jumped.  He went wild on her, his hips thrusting in and out, hearing the slap of his balls on her skin and her moans… he let go, let his body take over, let the pulsing inside her trigger the flow…. he filled her, shooting over and over inside her, grunting and moaning and… exploding.  He collapsed beside her, feeling his heart beat, listening to her breathing… smiling. He did love thunderstorms!  And her…
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 2:10 AM
Re: The Storm
Hiya
Is this your story?  Very hot!
Let’s go find a thunderstorm sometime.
Years ago, my wife and I stayed overnight in a hotel high on a hill.  There was an outrageous thunder and lighting storm.  Possibly the best sex we have ever had!!!!
Let’s chase a storm together sometime soon!  Or create one!
Grrrr!

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 10:34 AM
Subject: Re: The Storm
Yes…that poured out of my brain.  It helps me cope with my reaction to storms.  So glad it could bring up a sexy storm from your past.  
When the storm comes, look for me under the covers.
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:05 AM
Re: The Storm
Hiya
Have you ever been to the Museum of Science, where they have an indoor lightning show?  We could go and sit in the dark, and I would cuddle you to comfort you :>)
Just a thought!
T

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:11 AM
Subject: Re: The Storm
Hiya!  
You are so so sweet!  I haven’t been there in a long time.  Cuddles sound wonderful.  Lightning…not so much.  I know it’s irrational but it scares me anyway.  You are kind to offer.  
What’re you up to today?  
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:13 AM
Subject: Saturday songs
Good morning T!
The sun is shining and I am lying in bed thinking of you.  And smiling.  Hope you have a superb Saturday!
Do you have siblings?  I have a sister 9 years older and a sister 9 years younger.  Older one is…a challenge, always trying to be another mother.  She’s the radical atheist feminist who lived to tick off my parents.  Younger one, Sis, is my best pal.  She is Martha Stewart – loves to cook and entertain and decorate. She and I have lots of adventures.  They are both deep, philosophy types.  I’m the practical one.  My dad picked me to be his “son,” taught me financial stuff and baseball and girl watching.  Heh.
What’s your favorite breakfast?  I’m longing for a ham and cheese omelette with a fresh fruit cup from the S&S…
I am watching really bad porn… amateur stripper contests.  Maybe I’ll strip for you?  Hmmm….I like it when a guy helps.  But it can be fun to watch.  
Gonna try to sleep more…mwah!
-S
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:21 AM
Re: Saturday songs
Hi there sweetie!
I slept late-ish, til about 10 and then looked at my email and played with myself thinking of you!  Photos of women with toys.
This is odd, but I’ve never had a woman strip for me!  (I’ve had them take off their clothes, of course, but not “strip.”)  I’ll be delighted to watch, and be an enthusiastic audience participant!  Hands-on, so to speak . . . 
I’ve got two older brothers.  We aren’t especially close, partly because of age difference (they were both pretty much out of the house while I was still in elementary school), and because of geography. They live on the other side of the country and the other side of the world!
When it comes to omelettes, I am partial to a mushroom and sour-cream filing!  I like diner breakfasts if they have good hashbrowns.  I like S&S but I don’t go there very often.
The kitten has just landed on the shelf behind me and is learning how to knock things on the floor.  I’ll write again soon!
Need to figure out Monday!!!
Nibbles!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent:  Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:23 AM
Re: The Storm
Well, picking up after the cat, and then really exciting stuff.  Our freezer conked out in a flash of sparks last week, so off to Best Buy to find a new one.
Wheee!
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 3:38 PM
Subject: Re: The Storm
Wow!  You know how to live it up.  🙂  Hope your shopping went well.  I go to Amazon when I need appliances but a freezer seems to big for that! Unlike many women, I am not a shopper.  My days of going to stores are mostly over.  I get groceries delivered, do all my holiday shopping online… a  modern woman!  
I’m off to the wilds of Westford for a casual wedding reception at Kimball Farms.  Have you been there?  This is my first time.  We’ll be outside under a big tent… hope it cools down a bit by 5 pm.  The couple got married a month ago far away and his parents are throwing this party for people who didn’t get invited to go to that.  So we get to go in for free, dinner and an ice cream buffet and do any of the activities we want.  Hubby says he is going to a “play party” after that with his girlfriend.  It’s not my scene… apparently there are demonstrations and group activities.  Ahem.  
I keep meaning to dig into my p0rn collection and send you something salacious but haven’t found a moment.  Maybe tonight… 
Can you go walk the dog and call me later tonight?  Don’t have to if it is problematic, but it might be fun to hear voices and words and… if it is any risk, never mind.  Monday will be here soon.  Did any of my meet ideas appeal or you have others? 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 5:37 PM
Re: The Storm
Yeah, it was a really wild afternoon!  Totally out of control!  Bought a new vacuum too!  
Groceries delivered?!?  I love going to grocery stores, food markets, etc.  Otherwise, I am a slave to my Amazon prime account.  
Never heard of Kimball Farms before, but I googled it.  Ice cream sounds nice, but a family fun park is probably not where I would end up although I’ll keep it in mind if we have visitors with kids!  (Since we moved to the Boston area when our son was just starting high school, we missed out on a whole layer of kid-oriented New Englandiana.  Maybe I’ll discover that slice of the region if our son ever has kids of his own!)
I assume your husband’s play party isn’t part of Kimball Farms’ attractions.  ;o
Sometime I’ll have to ask you to fill me in a bit on your husband.  I get it that you go your separate ways (lucky for me, I hope), but you mentioned that years ago he gave up interest in you — said it wasn’t you, but him — but he’s got an active life with a girlfriend?!?  Seems like you would be a temptress enough for any man.  You certainly tempt me!!!
But, as I said, lucky for me, I hope!
Monday.  Lunch is certainly fine with me.  If we meet at 12, how long before you have to be back at work?   Would we have time for lunch plus a kiss in a secluded spot, or do you have to rush back?  I can be away from the office until more-or-less whenever.  
I’m trying to think of somewhere people won’t know me.  Probably not a problem at this stage, but maybe I’ll think of somewhere to be more anonymous.  (Sooner or later you’ll ask or figure out where I work, so I might as well tell you now that I work at [redacted].   Hope that isn’t a problem!)
What is your transportation going to be?  On foot, by T, by car?  I’ll have a car so I’m flexible. (I could take you to the restaurant with the parking lot I wrote about. . . )
Or, if we meet later in the afternoon, the place at the mall sounds fine.  I’ve never been there (the restaurant, not the mall itself).
I don’t think I’ll be able to call you this evening — tho since Hubby is off cavorting somewhere it is a really tempting idea!
Drop me a line when you get back from your ice cream buffet!  If you spill anything, I wish I could be there to lick it off!  Maybe in the future . . . 
Looking forward to Monday with great anticipation!
Toes curled!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 9:17 PM
Subject: home at last
Made it back from the wilds of Westford!  

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent:  Saturday, August 27, 2016 9:55 PM
Re: home at last
Sweet Sassy!

Welcome back!  Kimball’s ice cream farm must be a far cry from Boston. 

I can’t call you tonight, not that I have a number or a name :>), but I’d be happy to chat on-line.

By the way, regarding Monday, I am ok with the community project cover story if we need one, but I should probably have a name for you — whether real or fantasy — other than “Sassy.”  What should I call you, either to your face or if somehow we run into friends or acquaintances?  Thad is my real name.*

Hugs and a few butterflies!

Thad

[He told me his real name, but I changed it for my blog because… reasons!]

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 10:26 PM
Subject: Re: home at last
Hiya Thad!  
Hope you’re having a lovely evening. So beautiful outside! 
Kimball’s is like a Disney World.  It started with the ice cream stand, and now it’s this huge conglomerate with a store, a zip line, mini-golf, driving range, batting cages… and huge tents for corporate outings and weddings with a grill, bar and ice cream bar!  Wacky!  It just about an hour from here, easy drive on a late Saturday.  
Thank you for telling me a name.  Thad will be easy to say over and over when my mind can not hold on to any other words because you are distracting me in the best possible way.  Good question about my name thing… no easy answer.  We’ll figure it out before we need to, but not in email. 🙂 
-S
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent:  Saturday, August 27, 2016 10:41 PM
Re: home at last
Hiya Sassy
A name would be nice :>)  Whatever you like!  
I’ve told you some other things as well, but maybe you haven’t seen my earlier message.
Gorgeous night.  Wish we were making out on a deck or a patio somewhere.  Maybe soon?
Deep kisses and sweet dreams (but I’ll be up for another hour at least, so if you want to send me anything salacious I’d be thrilled to get it)
Hugs, cuddles, licks, nibbles, spanks, sucks, and whatever else turns us both on!
Thad
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 10:56 PM
Subject: Re: The Storm
Hi again! 
Wow!  Two appliances at once?  Wacky.  I gave up vacuuming when I was ill… a friend gave me free maid service!  I kept it up.  One of my few luxuries.  
I knew about Kimball Farms from Sis taking my niece, and several friends’ companies had outings there.  It is quite something out in the middle of nowhere. Hubby’s already home from the party, said people were smoking too much weed in the house, no food or drinks, and a guy hit on his gf (with her husband there too) and wouldn’t take her “no” at face value.  Ah well… 
Can talk about Hubby.  He is a puzzle.  Definitely hoping his inattention will be lucky for you and me!  
Lunch likely has to be around a hour.  Will you have more time if we meet in the late afternoon?  I can have a “doctors appointment” and be gone until whenever.  I can meet you at the mall if that makes sense.  Rather not ride in your car the first time… have no inkling that you’re not safe but I had a bad time where I had no warning ahead so I am uber-careful now. 
Your employer?  Wow.  Would you meet someone from there? It’s a big place. Could it work? 
What does “toes curled” mean?  I hope it’s good!  
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:53 PM
Re: The Storm
Sassy, ahoy!
Yeah, two appliances in one day and not online!  Who knew! 
I also looked at a new MacBook, but that was too much excitement for one afternoon, so we went back home to try to play with the cat.  She will be skittering around for an hour or two, and then disappears to god knows where.  Luckily, she responds to food!  (and once she comes out, she is happy to be cuddled for a while.)  I’ll show you some pictures on Monday!
So your Hubby took HIS girlfriend to a sex party, and HER husband was there?  And some THIRD guy was hitting on her?  I am not judgmental, but this sounds pretty complicated to me (not the sex, but the interpersonal relationships).  Color me old-fashioned but if I were having an affair, I would like it to be generally a bi-lateral thing!  Two to tango, not three or four.  (altho, under the right circumstances, hmmmm, I wouldn’t rule some multiples out… I am entirely straight, no interest in guys)
I hope your poly is simpler than your husband’s polyamorousness (is that a word?).  Don’t get me wrong, I am looking forward to exploring your poly mind (and other body parts)!
By the way, you mentioned weed (vis-a-vis your Hubby).  Unlike Bill Clinton, I HAVE inhaled, more than a few times, but not recently.  I have no problems with marijuana and am happy to partake, if that is something you like to do, but it is not something I have done much in the last 20 years.  Smoking dope will drive me to brownies and probably some degree of paranoia, as I recall.
Also, by the way, regarding your husband.  You told me that the two of you keep each other informed, and you tell him when you are seeing someone.  That is fine with me, but I guess I am curious about whether I have reached the point where you tell your husband about me!  :>)  Don’t know exactly what I think about this, but on one level I certainly hope that you are serious enough about me that I might be on your radar screen to mention to Hubby.  
But that is another interesting topic to explore.  Probably best talked about in bed!
Understood about my car!  I don’t expect your full faith on first meeting.  (If it is a concern, I am happy to show you my drivers license (really).  If you pull my rap sheet, I think there are a couple of speeding tickets over the past 20 years.  Everything else was hushed up . . . (joke!!!))
Are you saying we work at the same place?  I figured that was likely, given all the people who work there. It is a big place and it makes sense to know people where you work.  Nothing suspicious about knowing someone else in such a vast place.  So, let’s see what we think after we meet each other.  (By the way, I work in [named a part of his employer.)  
Six degrees of separation, or fewer???  Interesting questions to explore!!!!
Given time constraints around lunch, why don’t we meet in the later afternoon?  What time would be good for you and your “doctor’s appt.”?  And in terms of where we meet, what are your transportation options?
The pub is fine with me.  For some reason, I think of getting together for a casual drink after work as less attention-getting than having lunch together.  Don’t know why or if it makes sense.  How about 4:30?
Still need to have a name to call you!  Sassy won’t cut it in pub!  If we run into someone you know, they’ll know your name and would expect me to know it as well.  If we run into someone I know, they will expect me to know your name.  Such is life, whether real or imagined!  People expect names!
I know the term “it curled my toes” as being . . . great sex!  Hope it describes the two of us soon!
Sweet dreams, dear Sassy!
Thad
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:01 PM
Subject: A visual
Finally had a moment to scroll through my favorite sexy gifs.  Made sense to send this one. Hope you like the little loop.  

Simply Sexy
Tumblr Blog
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent:  Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:56 PM
Re: A visual
Should I explode now or later?!?
This is incredibly hot!!!!!!!!!
Can I send you some of my favorites?
I can’t stop thinking about licking!
Thad
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 12:00 AM
Subject: Re: A visual
BOTH!  If you can anymore… 
So glad you like it.  I adore gifs as a springboard to start a fantasy. 
You are most welcome to send me whatever.  I find them a fascinating window into your mind. 
Licking is lovely.  Wherever it lands! 
Here’s another licky gif.  This one is triple good to me… the look on her face, the breast action and her camel toe.  Whee!


Killing Time Alone
Tumblr Blog
I’m just a late 30’s male that loves the beauty of the female body.
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 12:13 AM
Re: A visual

I’ll work on the explosions!  With you!
Very hot.  Hits lots of my buttons!
(I didn’t know that women use the term camel toe!  I thought it was just a sexist porn term.  But I learn something new everyday!)
One of the buttons pushed by the first GIF was the view of the woman’s breasts dangling.  I don’t know why, but I am incredibly turned on by women on top and when I can see their breasts dangling down and moving freely.  Of course, I also really like it when a woman on top of me is brushing her breasts and nipples across my body!  And I can grab and fondle and kiss and lick.
Hope this is not too much information!
Ravenously hungry to see you!
Thad
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 12:52 AM
Subject: Re: The Storm
Hiya! I adore writing to you and reading what you write!  Each message is such a treat. 
I used to have a MacBook Pro – got a new Macbook Air in May.  They are awesome.  Luckily my employer springs for hardware.  
My roommates and I had two kittens years ago, and we’d stay home playing with them.  They can be endlessly entertaining with a string or a box or a ball… ah, those were the days.  I envy you!  I definitely want to see photos!  
Hubby’s gf and her husband went to the party, and he joined them.  Poly is usually quite simple.  Everyone wants everyone to be happy, and they work together to do that.  There is no secrecy, no cheating, no jealousy, lots of chances to try different things.  As long as people communicate, it works pretty well.  People get different things from different people.  I don’t think of myself as poly.  I am a one-man woman, physically.  Do you think your wife is cheating?  Or just stopped being interested in sex? If you don’t want to say now, I understand.  
I am completely het too.  I’ve had girl crushes but when I tried to act on them, it just didn’t work.  I was in the middle of a foursome once, in my 20s.  The wildest night of my life.  In Mexico.  A gal pal of mine and two British soldiers!  When that gets going, it doesn’t matter whose hand or mouth or whatever, male… female… it’s all amazing!  
Weed is not my thing. I don’t judge others, but I am not into chemical enhancers.  I can’t drink liquor.  It makes me barf. I am a great designated driver!  So I won’t tempt you on that front.  I only have two vices.  
You are so cute.  I did tell Hubby that I heard from a nice new man online, and might meet him Monday, got the usual, “that’s nice, dear.”  So you are on my radar, and his, but in a very discreet way.
Your employer is big.  I didn’t say I work there. 🙂  But you are a good guesser.  Eep.  I was taught not to fish in my own pond, but with our employer being a rather “large lake,” it might be okay and even add some plausible cover.  And I don’t want to give you up now!  It may not matter if you don’t take to me in person, and I think we can deal if you do.  I appreciate your insights.  I may not be seeing things clearly, blinded by your charm as I am at present.  
I will put curling your toes on my fuck-it list.  😉 
How can it only be a week since you wrote to me?!  
So I’ll see you at the pub at 4:30 pm.  There are several corners out of the main view, if there is anyone there at that time of the afternoon.  Hooray!  We have a plan!  
-S
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 12:58 AM
Subject: Re: A visual
Hiya… I should get to bed but I can’t resist writing once more. 
I hope to help you on the explosions front.  One of the best things in the world is seeing the smile on a man’s face when he tells me he can only cum once and I help him cum twice… and he says, “Damn, that hasn’t happened in 40 years.”  Sassy has mad skillz.  
I am not most women. I’ve read so much and heard so much in chat that I hardly know what terms are scandalous anymore. 
You like boobs eh?  That is good information.  Seems easily doable.  
Very soon… 
Sleep well sweet T. 
-S
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 1:09 AM
Subject: The black
Dear T, 
Here’s a treat for you… my favorite photo.  


Yes… it’s me.  Demure yet salacious.  😉 

I worked hard to keep them, so I get to show them off, right? 
Please do not share it.  Thanks!
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 1:13 AM
Re: The Storm
Dearest salacious Sally
I need to go to bed — wish I was with you!
Can’t believe we only just started to be in touch last Sunday!  I feel like we have gotten to know each other over a much longer time…where will we end up?  Meeting on Monday will be a big deal!  Butterflies in my stomach.
I really hope we are moving toward a very nice relationship, both emotionally and physically!  As far as I can see, everything looks like we are going to click!  
And clicking is what I really want to do with you . . . 
So much to talk about!  Can’t wait to begin to explore face to face (and face to other body parts)
MWAH!!!!!!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 1:18 AM
Re: A visual
Grrrr
I look forward to your boobs!  And to your making me cum twice or more!
You must be the wonder woman!  
Can’t wait to get together!!!!
Sleep well my sweet Sassy!

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From: Thad
To: Sassy

Sent: Sunday, August 28, 2016 1:23 AM
Re: The black
Of course I won’t share the photo!
Spectacular cleavage!  Can’t wait for a hands-on inspection!
Lots of other ideas as well.  
Do like your guys to play with your boobs and nipples?  If so, sign me up!
Sweet dreams
Thad


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anything (anywhere)

August 26, 2016 Friday
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Friday, August 26, 2016 6:51 PM
Re: Friday thoughts
Hiya Thad!  
My day was wacky!  Everyone was out except the new boss and me, and she pestered me over and over while I was trying to do the payroll. Bleh.  
Quick question – are you allergic to cats? 
Thank you ever so much for sending me your schedule!  That was super helpful.  I can not wait anymore so I’m going to say Monday.  I have a couple ideas for places – depends on what time and where you’d be safe, and whether I need to think of parking for you?  Let me toss out some ideas and see if any of them make sense to you. 
Lunch time 12 noon – sushi? Indian buffet?  Chowder at Legal? 
What’s your timing for late afternoon?  I’m in meetings until about 3 pm but could leave and get somewhere after that.  Late afternoon drink at a pub? Late afternoon drink/cheap apps at PF Chang’s in the Mall near the T? They have a big garage if you need parking. 
Or feel free to suggest somewhere else where no one you know goes.  With the week I’ve had, my brain is not functioning at its best.  
Tongues?  Oh yeah… we can definitely have fun with those!  If if if… *sigh.  I am hoping we click.  Please please please.  
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent:  Friday, August 26, 2016 10:40 PM
Subject: Monday thoughts!!!!
Dear Sassy
Sorry you’ve had a wacky day with a new boss! I know what that can be like. My condolences!
No, I am not allergic to cats. My mother was allergic to cats (or maybe just afraid of them) so we never had cats when I was growing up. We were a dog family (still are). But my wife’s family was (and is) a cat family.  So, we have a blended marriage!
Actually just last week we adopted a rescue kitten. She is a total cutie!  We also have a large dog, and the two of them are working out a cordial engagement. Still a bit stand-offish, but not hostile.  I think they will do fine together!
I am delighted to hear back from you this evening! In the past week I’ve gotten so used to getting your Sassy, saucy morning messages that I wondered this morning that I hadn’t heard from you!  Had I said the wrong thing? ;>}
So, I am head over heels happy to hear that you would like to get together on Monday! Honestly, I can’t imagine anything I would rather do ANY day!
I really love your last paragraph… “If if if… *sigh.  I am hoping we click.  Please please please.” – ME TOO!
Clicking. I think we are pretty close to clicked (which is a longer way of writing licked :>)). That is, we are both mature adults who know that we are not going to be looking at each other to be hot body teenagers. We both have lots of sexual experiences we will draw upon and share. And at this stage of our lives, we probably both understand that the sexiest parts of our bodies are our brains.
Everything else is just logistics! (and we’ll have to work that out over the weekend)
Can’t wait to meet. And kiss and cuddle and fondle and grope. Maybe not all on our first date, but pretty damned soon!!!!
Thad, enthralled!
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Friday, August 26, 2016 11:07 PM
Subject: Re: Monday thoughts!!!!
Hiya Thad, 
My goodness you sound absolutely bouncy!  That’s wicked cute. Enthralled is such a wonderful word.  
So glad you can deal with a cat lady.  One poor fellow spent the entire first meet… well… I had to nickname him Sneezy.  *sigh  I hope you’ll let me see photos of your new kitty when we meet? I’ll show off my kitties and explain their names when I see you. 
I am so sorry I didn’t write this morning!  I never want you to worry!!  I got up late and was late to work and then the boss pounced and… nothing to do with you.  I am very familiar with the “What did I say?!” syndrome.  
Thank you for your level-headed appraisal of where we stand, how we’ll deal.  That was quite calming.  I wish chemistry wasn’t so unpredictable.  We have had a great discovery phase, so I am much less terrified than usual that I will lose your excellent correspondence to the fickle chemistry monster.   
Hubby was out this evening and it was all I could do not to ask you to come over here.  So I fantasized about it… naughty Sassy.  Let’s just say we made good use of my king size bed.  And a kitchen counter.  And the shower.  And the balcony.  Ha!  
I’d better get to bed… but I don’t want to let go of our connection.  When I’m writing to you or reading your words, I feel more alive than I have in a long time. 
Sleep well, be careful crossing the street, eat your veggies… until I can hug you!  
-S 
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Friday, August 26, 2016 2:02 AM
Re: Monday thoughts!!!!
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Lots to fall asleep with.  Actually I did fall asleep but just woke up to turn off lights etc.  :>)
Anytime you want to invite me over, I’m game.  Shower and king sized bed are inviting.  Never tried a kitchen counter, but with you . . .  anything (anywhere)!
Sweet, wet dreams!
T

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Making me like you

August 25, 2016 Thursday

From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 6:24 AM
Subject: Thursday thoughts
Good morning T!
Hope your Thursday is off to a terrific start.  I’m heading out to work but couldn’t go without writing to you.  Wish I could wake you up with my hands and mouth…
-S
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 10:38 AM
Re: Thursday thoughts
mmmmmmm
That would be a delightful way to start the day!
mwah
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 6:27 AM
Subject: Re: Parking
Wow!!  Very hot story!  You can write erotica!  Thank you ever so much for sharing! 

Now I wonder if you’ve cheated before or only longed to?
Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 10:41 AM
Re: Parking
I’ll let you wonder for a while . . .
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 10:42:48 AM
Subject: The Fan
The Fan
He couldn’t believe he was doing this.  His friend had talked
him into reading at Stone Soup Poets open mike.  One of the
stories.  It was for Valentine’s Day, and everyone was doing
it, but it still made him feel vulnerable and exposed.  He read 
and paused, as appreciative sighs filled the room, and
knew it would be alright.  
He noticed this woman, standing in the back against the wall.  
Staring right at him.  He felt like he was reading to her, and 
that she felt it, too.  He finished, and a crowd gathered around
 him to chat and congratulate and fawn and cluck.  He searched 
the room for her, but she had gone.
He listened to the other artists awhile, but couldn’t get the
hazy image of the woman out of his mind.  Finally, he slipped
out the side door and started toward the train.  She spoke as
he passed, startling him.
       “Your story was…special.  It touched me.”  She almost
whispered into the night air.
       “Thank you,” he said, automatically.  Brilliant.  He tried
to make out her face in the dim light of the street lamp.
       “It made me…want to know you,” she sighed, almost as if
she hadn’t wanted to admit it. He was sure his mouth hung open at
that point.  He remembered himself in a few seconds, and decided to
be flip.
       “So, what did you want to know?”  He quipped, not really
expecting her to answer. She looked away, then surprised him.
       “What it would be like to inspire you.”  He gulped in air.
There didn’t seem to be enough air to fill his burning lungs.  He
realized that somehow, in the last minute, something had passed
between them.  It scared him, but drew him to her.
       “Can I walk you to the train?”  He asked her.  She seemed
to consider it carefully, then stepped forward and took his arm in
silent acceptance.  He felt her breast against his arm and wondered
if he could remember how to walk.  He managed.  He thought she would
ask him mundane questions, quiz him about his story or his life.  She
was silent, seemingly deep in thought, walking in step with him.
       He wanted to see her face, but she was beside him so he could
only take in her long hair, swinging around her, and how she seemed
just the right height to walk with him, and how her chest moved with
each step.  They passed a pottery shop and she paused briefly to
glance at the brightly colored bowls.  Suddenly, she yanked him into
the dark doorway, and pressed him against the stone of the building.
He felt the cold against his back, then the heat of her in front,
as she wiggled to fit her body to his.  Then she put her lips within
a hair of his, and stopped.  This seemed to be quite a distance for
her initiative to take her, but not quite there.
       He cursed the lack of light.  He couldn’t see her eyes.  But
it didn’t seem to matter, he was taking her invitation and sinking
his tongue into her mouth before he realized he’d decided to do it.
He felt as hard as the stone against his back, and knew she felt it
too by the breath she took when he raised his head momentarily.  She
worked her hand under his shirt, and put his hand on her breast.
They teased each other’s nipples, nipping at necks and ears and noses.
Smiling into each other’s mouths as their breathing raged out of
control.
       This was crazy.  He didn’t know this woman.  He knew
nothing except she liked his writing, that she had understood
the call in it.  And that she felt so right in his arms.  It
was nuts, but it made sense to him.  He’d find out the other
stuff later, if it became important.  He was startled back to
the present by her hand at his belt.  Oh, my god.
       She stopped for a moment, took a deep breath and
whispered in his ear.
       “I don’t…I mean, I haven’t…ever…without…” she
couldn’t seem to say it, but he knew she was trying to justify
this wildfire burning between two strangers in a dark doorway.
       “I know,” he murmured, hugging her even closer.  That
seemed to settle it.  She undid his belt, and slipped her hand
inside his clothes to touch him.  He thought he’d pass out.
She rubbed him just the right way for longer than he thought
he could endure.  He knew he should be touching her, but could
not summon the brain power beyond savoring her touch.  She
removed one hand to her pocket, he heard a rip, then she was
taking his sex from his pants, and covering it with latex,
and leading him to a ledge deeper in the doorway.  She stretched
out on the stone, and pulled him down over her, into her.  The
combination of the time and place and strangeness and the latex
set him off almost immediately.  He pounded her into the stone,
without thought of her soft body.  She met his every thrust,
moaning in his ear.  He felt the pulsing, the searing heat, and
filled the plastic, thinking of filling her.  She clenched him
deep inside.  His mind clung to every detail as he realized he
would desperately need to write about this later.
       They clung to one another forever.  Then sat close to
each other on the ledge as they righted their clothes.  There
seemed to be so much to say, and yet nowhere to start.  He
finally took her arm, and they continued toward the train. He
thought he should be panicking, but couldn’t get beyond the
amazing afterglow.  When they reached the platform, he expected
her to disappear like the dream she seemed to him.  She chewed
her lip.  He feasted on seeing her in the light.
       “I need to know more.”  She whispered, a pleading look
on her face.
       “Yes.” It was all he could say.  It seemed enough.
       “Take me home with you.”
       “Yes.”
       “Let me inspire you.”
       He moaned and rolled his eyes.  Then the train rumbled
into the station and they boarded locked arm in arm.
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 11:36 AM
Re: The Fan
Ah, the anonymous pickup!  
mmmmmm
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 12:36 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thoughts
Hiya hot stuff!  
Are you more of a morning sex person?  afternoon?  Night?  I don’t even know anymore.  I mostly play first thing in the morning and after dinner/before bed… only times I can be alone. 
What’s going on with you today?  Can you enjoy the weather?  
I’m stuck in meetings (at least it’s got a/c!) counting the minutes until I can leave… one more session, and we’re done!  I will be back in my office tomorrow and look at my calendar to see when you can touch me.  I mean… meet me.  May I hug you like an old friend? I can try to behave after that.  Here’s my story if we see anyone we know – I am from that community project trying to get you to make a contribution. Will that work?  🙂 
I’m trying not to get ahead of myself… but you are making me like you.  And feel comfortable.  That rarely happens this early… usually not until the second meet!  Hope I’m not scaring you too much.  I only want to make you smile and moan and cum really hard.  😉 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 2:28 PM
Re: Thursday thoughts
Hi there, S
I’m in my office for some meetings.  The A/C isn’t working, so I am getting hot and sweaty.  Oh!  No it’s because I am reading your message!
Morning, night?  Haven’t had real sex in such a long time, I don’t know.  Playing with myself?  I’m like you.  When I can be alone.  (You asked if I conjure images in my mind or take them from the screen.  Both.  When I conjure in my mind, it usually takes the form of narrating a scenario or a story, some of which I write down.)
Let me know when you would like to meet (or feel and be felt)? (I’ll check my schedule next week and let you know what works for me!)  
You will have to pick a place when we decide on a time.  Knowing that you want anonymity, so you get to decide on place you’ll feel comfortable :>)
A hug like old friends getting together sounds fine to me!  Community project cover story sounds vaguely plausible.  (People tell me I have a very nice speaking voice, so maybe you are trying to get me to try out for a romantic part  . . . testing my oral skills, perhaps.)
You aren’t scaring me, but I am impressed by how fast we are moving across the screen at least!
Nibbling your ear lobe in my mind!
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 2:42 PM
Re: Thursday thoughts
S:
Here’s my rough schedule for next week
Mon — pretty much open all day
Tues — could get together for lunch or afternoon coffee
Wed — could get together for lunch, afternoon coffee, late afternoon drinks
Thurs — afternoon coffee, late afternoon drinks
Fri — pretty much open all day
Let me know what’s your pleasure . . . 
T
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 10:51 PM
Subject: Now to bed
Dearest S
Hope to hear from you tomorrow about chances to meet next week!
Apart from thinking about the logistics of getting together  — when, where, how long — my mind luxuriates over the tactile delights of feeling … er … meeting you!
A hug as old friends talking about your community project sounds fine.
But do you think we’ll be able to keep our hands off each other?!?
I’ll be surprised if we are well behaved!  The past week (actually less) of our contacts seem to have raised us (at least me) to a feverish peak.  And when I say raised, I will assume you get the drift (or is it the thrust?)
A deep French kiss!
Sweet dreams
T

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Sharing sexy stories

August 24, 2016 Wednesday

From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:59 AM
Subject: The view

Just as I was finishing my last meeting of the day yesterday,
gathering my papers off the marble table in the conference
room on the 36th floor, the sound of sirens wafted up from
the expressway below. Everyone else had left the room, so
I took a minute to lean over the marble counter and stare
down at the roadway. There was a horrible wreck of mangled
metal and shattered glass, several cars and a tractor trailer
twisted together. The traffic was stopped behind the mess,
and the cars on the other side barely moved, rubbernecking.

Suddenly, I heard the door close. I straightened up, but before I
could turn, I felt your arm around my waist, and felt the heat of you
on my back through my dress. You were already hard, pressed
tightly against my ass. I started to speak, but you put a finger
on my lips and teased a corner. I licked your thumb, and you moved
your hand down to unbutton my dress. Just enough to slip
your hand inside and tease a hard nipple. I moaned and let my head
fall back against your shoulder. You bit my neck and ran your
tongue across my skin.

You slipped your hand under my skirt and inside my underwear,
teasing my most sensitive spot. You pressed a finger inside,
unsurprised at the moisture gathered there. I was startled
as you lowered my underwear. I felt like my knees would
buckle, but you tightened your grip and spread my legs to
balance me against the counter. I panicked when I heard
the rasping sound of your zipper, but before I could form the
words in my mind to stop you, I felt you hot and hard against
my skin, and a low moan was all that escaped my lips. You
shoved it inside me, and your breathing grew ragged as you
watched yourself slide in and out. You kneaded the flesh of
my hips as you moved, then reached around me to rub the top
of my slit in time with your strokes. I was trying to be
quiet, but could not hold in all the gasps of pleasure as
you thrust deeper and deeper inside me, your balls slapping
against me. You felt the trembling start inside me, and
the clenching around you. You felt the pulsing, the searing
heat and suddenly lost control, pounding me into the wood
and stone, spurting up inside me over and over.

The only sound was our uneven breathing and the whirring
air conditioning. You pressed your cheek to my back and
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 11:04 AM
Subject: In between
Good morning Thad!  I have two minutes between sessions and I am thinking of you!  Hoping the dental work wasn’t too bad and you can relax and heal. I sent you a little snippet of erotica. I wrote it long ago but it still gets to me every time I read it. More later! 
-S

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:37 PM
Subject: mmmmmmmmmmm . . .
Nice!  Pleasant surprise after an hour and a half in a dental chair!  I am basically a wimp when it comes to dentists, but this appt. was much better than I expected/feared!
Tried to keep my mind focused on pleasant thoughts, so I daydreamed about being with you!
Hugs and gropes
T

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24 12:38 PM
Re: In between
thanks!  I’d like to read more!  And of course do other things!
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday August 24, 2016 4:55 PM
Subject: Parking
Parking
After dinner, we went back to Susan’s black Lexus SUV parked in the far corner of the restaurant’s dark and almost deserted lot.
We had been flirting heavily over dinner, and immediately we began making out. Some heavy kisses over the gearshift console, and then she climbed over to my side of the car. “This will be more comfortable,” she murmured. I was in the partly reclined passenger’s seat. She knelt on the leather seat facing me and straddled my lap.
We kissed and groped and rubbed and fondled. For how long? Fifteen minutes? Half an hour?
Her tight jeans ground against the fabric covering my stiffening crotch, and I ground back with equal abandon. The friction got hotter and hotter, and my hands on her tight ass pulled her into my thrusts.
Susan’s loose angora turtleneck offered ample opportunities for my roaming hands to make forays into her bra. She responded to my hands fondling her breasts with deep lush kisses.
I picked up my grinding, harder and faster, my cock rock hard. My faster thrusts were matched by hers.
Her breathing became heavier, and her tongue left my mouth momentarily to flit in and out of my left ear. She murmured, “I’m starting to tingle.”
I redoubled my efforts.
Five minutes later I heard a small guttural moan; she shuddered once, twice, then maybe a dozen times, emitting tiny almost imperceptible cries.
“I think I heard an orgasm,” I whispered. She corrected me, “orgasms.”
She slumped into my arms, breathing heavily.
I could feel her wetness even through her jeans.
We cuddled and kissed a while longer.
“I’m so juicy.”
She reached down to my crotch again and stroked my erection still straining at the fabric.
In a low growl she whispered, “Spank me!”
I slapped her ass with my right hand. She squealed, and I slapped again.
“You’re a bad girl?”
She purred, “Mmmmm. . . . “
I slapped again, harder, and she started slightly from the sting of my hand.
“How bad are you? Does your husband know we’re here tonight?”
“Mmmm, I’m very bad. I let you make me cum!”
More slaps, left and right.
“Harder!” she hissed.
I spanked again half a dozen times. She gyrated on my lap again and her breathing grew more and more throaty.
“I’m cheating, I’m very naughty.”
Thwack, thwack.
“But, maybe I’ll get even naughtier . . .”
Thwack, thwack . . . thwack, thwack!
Again, low guttural cries.
Slap, slap, slap . . . slap, slap.
She was grinding very hard and fast.
“I’ll be bad, very bad.”
A short series of quiet cries, and she arched her body up from my chest and leaned backwards. Her cries turned into small high-pitched shrieks, and her body stiffened. She went rigid for a long moment, then slumped forward with a deep sigh.
Another deep kiss.
She fumbled for my belt and unzipped my pants. As my stiff cock sprang out, she stroked it with both hands, and leaned forward to kiss it  . . .

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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 4:46 PM
Subject: Home
Hiya T!
How’s that sexy mouth?  So glad to hear your dentist wasn’t too mean.  I used to get awfully nervous at the prospect of a dental visit but somehow after chemo it seems minor now.  Not something I’d recommend to make them easier, but I’ll take it. 
Day 1 of running the conference is over.  Whee.  I did not strangle my new boss!  Instead of observing, or asking questions, she came in wanting to rearrange how we do things.  After 14 years running this event, seeing most of the ways it can be goofed up and finding ways around it, that was hard to take.  So I smiled and left her to it and went off to other things!  
I am home eating Chinese food in my underwear with my feet up.  My plan is to collapse into bed, perhaps look at naughty photos and play with a silver vibrating bullet, if I don’t fall asleep.  I would offer to let you watch but the last man who watched told me, “It’s like watching paint dry for 20 minutes and then the wall explodes.”  Heh.  
Yes, I am a woman who likes sex. There are a lot of us out here!  In public, I am demure, proper and even shy!  In private… you already have some idea of how different I can be. I look forward to revealing more to you! 
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 5:03 PM
Re: Home
Hi there
I think that nothing about the dentist could ever be as scary as chemo.  You are a brave woman!
Quite a plan you have for the evening!  Hopefully I’ll get to watch sometime!  :>)  the exploding wall sounds very interesting!
Just sent you a snippet of erotica I wrote a few years ago.  I wonder if it will contribute to your evening’s fun?
So, when you are sitting around in your underwear, what are you wearing?  And what kinds of naughty photos do you have in mind?
Lasciviously thinking of you!
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T

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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:49 PM
Subject: Sweet dreams!
I hope you had fun with your silver bullet.  Please give me a full report!  :>]
  
Your emails turn me on incredibly!  I cannot wait to have you turn me on in person.  I will explode!
hugs, gropes, kisses and more!
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Thursday, August 25, 2016 12:17 AM
Subject: Re: Sweet dreams!
Hiya T,  
It seems very strange to write about such personal moments but what the heck.  I saw some very salacious photos of women and men having fun!  And I pressed that silver bullet on a very sensitive spot.  One photo got me to thinking of you and I closed my eyes and suddenly… boom!!  🙂   Helped me sleep very solidly for four hours!  
I adore turning you on. Here’s hoping I can an even better job in person. Exploding is fantastic!  
Long, slow licks.  You know where. 
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Wednesday, August 25, 2016 
Re: Sweet dreams!
Yes, strange perhaps.  But we both seem to be trying (with success, as far as I am concerned) to turn each other on.  I am turned on!  Hope you are too!
I will fall into slumber shortly, with visions of long, slow mutual licks!
Yummy!
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Switching Thad to email

August 23, 2016 Tuesday

Switching from sending messages through Ashley Madison to using my mischief email always seems like a big step.  I have to be interested in the guy, starting to trust him, and want to be able to write longer emails and share my erotica.  I try to wait at least two days for any danger signs to pop up, but if we’re still conversing at that point, I go for it!

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via Ashley Madison

Date: Aug 23rd – 7:51am
From: Sassy
Message
Good morning T! Wow…you know how to start a gal’s day off right!! All I want at this moment is to answer all your questions and ask more. Sadly, I have to toddle off to work. *Sigh. 

 Would you like to switch to email? Do you have a mischief email address? No character limit. 🙂
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via Ashley Madison
Date:Aug 23rd – 11:02am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi there, my mischief email address is [redacted]. I’ll have to check if it still works; haven’t used it in over a year! Can’t wait to ask and answer questions, by email, but better still face-to-face! Hugs and nibbles 
Thad

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SWITCH TO EMAIL
From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 1:07 PM
Subject: Connection
Hiya T!  Tap… tap… Does this work?  Let me know – don’t want to launch into anything before I confirm. 🙂 

-S

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via Ashley Madison
Date: Aug 23rd – 1:12pm
From: Sassy
Message
Hiya T! I sent a short message to your email. Answer and I will respond more fully. 

 Mwah! 🙂 – Sassy
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 1:28 PM
Re: Connection
Knock, knock.  

 This email still works!  
I’m here!
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 2:59 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
Hiya T!  
Hooray for connecting in email!  I like this interface so much better.  I am about to exceed the character limit!  
Glad you hear you enjoy my messages.  I am adoring yours.  Thank you for letting me poke around in your head.  You make me so curious!  It’s so great to learn more, see if we can have fun, but also silly… the most important things are how your skin feels on mine, and how you kiss and… hope I get to find that out too!  
Let me get through to Thursday afternoon this week, and then I should have a better idea of what next week looks like.  
Thank you for asking questions…  for being interested.  That is very sexy!  There are no questions that are too personal.  You can always ask… I will answer if I can!  I am very open except on topics that identity me.  A reversal of the usual situation… 
I had long straight brunette hair all my life… it was a big part of “who I was.”  They shaved it for chemo and I rocked a long wig for 6 months.  Then my hair grew back in silver!  Quite a shock.  I am rocking the silver fox now.  It’s below my shoulders.  I also have hair “down there” if you are wondering.  
Here’s a little history: 

 History

Part I
I was a workaholic, spending 70 hours a week at my office.  My sister gave me a used “personal computer” in 1993 and put me on the internet.  I met Hubby online in the summer of 1994.  He wrote a beautiful erotic story and posted it to a USENET group – I thought it was written by a woman!  I wrote to tell her I liked it and… surprise!  I had a reason not to work so much! 

 He moved here from the Midwest to be with me.  We got married about a year later.  He got very ill and stopped touching me in 1999.  When he got better, he never started again.  I tried everything… he says it’s not me, it’s him.  I just don’t know.  I went 10 years without sex, figured that part of my life was over, and no one would want an old curvy married lady.  And sex wasn’t much fun anyway, just a guy doing his thing and me waiting for it to be over.  
Part 2 
In August 2010, an old flame from high school found me after 37 years.  We “dated” for three weeks when I was 14, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing under the stairs.  I remembered his name and that he dumped me but very little else.  Turns out he had traveled all over the world dreaming about me, wondering if our chemistry still burned… he begged to meet again.  I figured he would never touch me, but it could be fun to have dinner.  I talked to Hubby and he said go for it!  So I flew to his city and… the chemistry was nuclear!!  And he was totally different in bed from any other man… he made sure I had fun!  He resurrected me sexually.  

 And he got me to have the mammogram that saved my breast and perhaps my life, and stayed with me online tantalizing my brain when my body was useless.  I learned ways to excite a man far away.  I began to explore my “Sassy” side.  I looked for p0rn to teach me how to do things, and shared them.  I wrote erotic stories.  He was military, married and miles away, so he encouraged me to find a local option.  I had no idea how to do that.  I read about a lot of options but couldn’t imagine having any success online. 
Part 3
A rainy night in September 2012.  My husband and my old flame forgot my birthday.  I was online in an IRC chat room for cheaters.  They are wonderful people just trying to make the best of it.  They convinced me to put up a profile on Ashley Madison.  I bet them no one would answer.  I was wrong.  🙂

We can talk more later about fantasies…you’ve given me some ideas of where your mind is.  Just want to be sure there isn’t some major kink I can’t help you with.  I am not vanilla…maybe… butter pecan?  A little more flavor and lots of nuts.  😉  I’ve explored a lot and mostly come back to two people being nice to each other… you do things, I do things, we do things… mmm… no ropes, not much pain, lots of variety!  
I adore a wide range of food.  Do you cook?  I make really good reservations.  😉  Lobster is my favorite.  Or this amazing dish from Mary Chung’s Chinese called suan la chow show that is pork wontons in a spicy sauce.  Or the perfect filet mignon.  Or a pizza with sausage and bacon and garlic.  I’d better stop… haven’t eaten lunch yet!
As for religion, I grew up in the church – my dad was a minister – and I was into singing in the choir, being on committees, helping with events, even served on a national charity board… until 10 years ago.  I was on the search committee and brought in a new pastor.  I’ve dealt with ministers all my life, thought I knew how.  But this one was… evil.  I tried lots of ways to work with her and then around her and then… gave up.  I miss it, especially the music and the special holiday services and sense of community.  I help run a community project now… that is my community!  
If you like, I will tell you more about Hubby and me and our conversations and what he knows about my affairs… the short answer is he does his thing and I do mine.  He identifies as polyamorous, has a girlfriend he sees every Tuesday, is very open about it.  Many of our friends are poly and open.  I am a secretive person, keep my adventures quiet.  We share the basics – he knows if I see someone –  but no details. You can meet him if you like.  

 I am used to protecting the men I see and helping them protect themselves.  Starting out with a military man who would face not only a furious wife but the morals clause of the military code of honor made me very circumspect.  I can help you maintain a “don’t ask, don’t tell” situation.  In my experience, your biggest risks are:

 1) a strange change in your attitude (don’t get TOO CHEERFUL all of a sudden!), 

 2) a stray text sent to her or your son that was meant for me, 

 3) syncing your phone to the wrong machine that your wife also uses, or 

 4) a son who will hack your email.  

 Be careful on those fronts, and you’re golden.  Many things I do are to keep you safe… no perfume or make-up to get on you or your clothes, no lush kisses in public… if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask.  I spent 4 years listening to cheaters all over the world tell about their successes and their mishaps, and I’ve read a lot of blogs written by AM adventurers.  

 In this same vein, I try to stay anonymous.  Not so much worried about you, but about who might see our correspondence.  I aim to be untraceable… no real name, no address, mischief email, not my real phone etc. 
Please tell me lots of stories about your travels!  And living abroad!  Wow!  I’ve traveled a lot too… more on that later!  
I need to get back to work… ugh.  I’d rather slide up over you on a bed and suck on you, but it has to wait.  -Sassy
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From: Thad
To: Sassy 
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 4:50 PM
Subject: !!!Re: Connection
Hi there, Sassy!
Finding out how our skins feel next to each other and how we kiss is top on my list of things I am eagerly curious about (!!!), but I realize that we’ll be playing 20 questions for a while longer.
When you figure out next week’s schedule, let me know!
I’m having some dental surgery tomorrow; I don’t know how much anesthetic I’ll be getting, but I imagine I will not be emailing much.
Thanks for your very nice message!  Lots of things I am curious about, and will ask about later.  Your relationship with your husband is fascinating.  I am certainly curious about your other affairs! :>)
I didn’t want to ask directly about your cancer, but I assumed it was probably breast cancer!  I’ve known quite a few breast cancer patients over the years, so I have an inkling of what you have been through!  My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and lived another 50 years, defiantly proud of beating the odds.
Vanilla vs. butter pecan?!?  I’ve had a pretty vanilla marriage, but I think my brain is a little bit more on the peanut-butter-chocolate-crunch side of things.  My wife has always been very conservative in bed, and there a lots of things I’ve wanted to try but haven’t or haven’t very much.  Nothing rough, but maybe more experimental?  (role playing, talking dirty (I bet you are good at that), toys, a blindfold or mask, that sort of stuff.)
What kinds of porno did you (do you) watch for inspiration?
You have certainly mastered the art of exciting a man from a distance!  
Your last line is an real attention grabber!  Grrrr!
Travel  — some future message.  Short answer, I have lived in abroad, and have traveled a lot!  
Hugs and nibbles and MWAH
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 5:21 PM
Subject: Re: !!!Re: Connection
Hiya T! 
You are a good correspondent.  🙂 
Skin… skin skin…kissing…  mmm… got lost in thought for quite awhile there.  
Ah dental surgery!  Hope that goes well. Thanks for the heads up.  I will likely be mired in work. 
I never know how much to say about other men… there are some strange and wonderful stories I can share later if you’re serious about hearing them. 
Glad to hear your Mom carried on!  I was so lucky – did not have most of the side effects they scare the crap out of you warning you about, was able to work except for treatment days… and have no lasting effect except for a small scar and 5 tiny blue tattoos you can explore.  
I can talk dirty!  😉  Feels odd to type it but in the heat of the moment?  You betcha.  And I have a bunch of toys.  We can talk more in person about role playing… the phrase scares me a little but I have a feeling you would make it fun.  Blindfold on you or me?  Or both? 
Do you watch p0rn?  What do you use for inspiration?  Something in your head or online?  At first I watched to learn specific things, like how to give a blow job or different positions.  Now I go through spells with the p0rn.  I feel like I’ve seen it all. Most of it awful! Not much that appeals to me, but lots that can inspire a man.  When life is good and I’m having sex, I watch romantic stuff.  When I get tense and it’s been awhile, I slide over into raunchy stuff like exhibitionism or crazy clubs scenes.  Do you know about Tumblr?  Is it cool to send samples or no? 
Travel…later.  Gotta run home… I will leave you with the vision of a buxom lady losing a piece of her lunch down her front and you having to help retrieve it.  🙂 
-S
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From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:47 PM
Re: !!!Re: Connection
Hi Sassy
Glad to be a good correspondent!  Being in touch is very exciting.
I am trying to process how we got from our initial contact on Sunday to a full-blown on-line flirtation (and I hope more) within a couple of days!  My head is spinning (in very good ways)
As I mentioned before, your last lines are real turn-ons!
“I will leave you with the vision of a buxom lady losing a piece of her lunch down her front and you having to help retrieve it.  :)”  Some of my favorite thoughts or images involve busty, buxom, and cleavage!  Happy to to lend a hand any time!  Grope!
My query about other men was not meant to be intrusive, but the fact of the matter is that I am really turned on by the idea of women who like sex, so women who have sex with multiple partners is something I pay attention to.  I think this may be a reflection of the fact that I have been married for so long to a woman with sexual interests that disappeared over the years, so I am fascinated by women who actually enjoy sex!  I wish I had such a woman in my life right now!  I hope that will be you, and us!
Don’t mean to scare you with role-playing.  I have nothing particular in mind.  I won’t do anything you don’t want to do.  Blindfolds? On you, on me, both or separate!  The kissing and fondling is the important point.
Yes, I know about Tumblr.  If you want to send me images that turn you on, please send away!
I am inspired both by my head and by the internet.  From time to time I write erotic stories for my own enjoyment, but I will never share them!!!
Yes, I view p0rn.  I wouldn’t have made it these sexless years without some release!  The following is unfortunately crude.  My apologies in advance.  What do I watch?  Depends on my mood!  I am intrigued with mature women who like sex and will have sex with multiple partners.  I like big buxom women, and I like to see them having sex in various positions.  I like to see men fondling, groping breasts.  Blow-jobs are popular with me!  Women on top.   (See comments above, about my wife and how I think our relationship has probably shaped my fantasy sexual life!) And much more that is never on the agenda at home!
So much to talk about.  I can’t wait to meet you to begin to unpack complicated feelings.  and I can’t wait to figure out how to be with you in bed so that you can slide across the sheets and climb on me and begin to . . .
It will be hard to wait!
cheers
T
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From: Sassy
To: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:48 PM
Subject: Travels
Good evening T!  
Hope you could enjoy this beautiful evening… I read over your messages, and got to thinking about my travels.  Thank you for starting to share about yours.  Wow!  You have definitely gone further for longer.  Will you tell me stories in bed?  With my head on your shoulder and your hand on my breast. 🙂 
My parents were big travelers with us, then I continued with my sisters, and did bits on my own.  I have slowed way down because Hubby won’t fly, so we enjoy wonderful day trips now. New England has beautiful places!  
Here’s a fun U.S. map of where I’ve been – only have 6 states to go!  My best memories are of the red rocks in Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs or standing on the black sand at the bottom of Waipeo Valley on the Big island of Hawaii, or touching a glacier in Alaska.  My maternal  grandparents lived in North Carolina, so we spent school vacations driving back and forth.


States Visited
     • white for states where you’ve not been.
     • red for states where you’ve not spent much time or seen very much.
     • amber for states where you’ve at least slept and seen some sights.
     • blue for states you’ve spent a lot of time in or seen a fair amount of.
     • green for states you’ve lived in or spent a great deal of time in on multiple visits.

You can try it yourself if you feel like it.  
https://www.gasfoodnolodging.com/visitedstates/generate/
I’ve also been out of the country: 
Canada – Montreal, Quebec City, Toronto, and BC and the Yukon.  Nothing like afternoon tea at the Empress Hotel in Victoria, BC.  
Mexico – three times to Cancun. My little sister was an exchange student and likes to go back to refresh her Spanish.  
Puerto Rico, to St. Thomas for carnival… I stayed with the local who took me dancing and told me, “Ain’t never seen no white woman move da way you do!”  Trunk Cove on St John is the most beautiful beach in the world!  
Sis, my little sister, lived in CA for awhile, so I got to visit the San Francisco area and Sonoma.  Then she moved to the UK for two years, so I got to visit twice.  I adore it there. I got to see the Queen!  She attended the opening of an arena in Nottingham that featured the figure skating stars of the day from all over the world, gathered by Torvill & Dean!  We also saw Princess Diana’s childhood home at Althorp, Parliament and Buckingham Palace, Harrod’s, Baker Street.  And four shows in the West End!  She knows how to show a gal around.  
My dad was in summer school in Oxford when I was 7.  We drove to Rome and back in three weeks, so I have a small girl’s view of Europe.  My older sister kids me that I only remember when we were lost or there were ducks or doll houses.  Mostly true!  I remember something about England, the channel crossing from Dover to Calais, Paris, Lyon, Amsterdam, Edam, Munich, the boat down the Rhine, the Swiss Alps (cow bells!), Luxembourg, Lichtenstein, Monaco, Florence (with flood marks above my head), Rome, Venice, Marseilles, Nice, Brussels… 
There is still a long list of places I want to see.  
I always look around and wonder if I could live where I am visiting… and always come back to Boston!
-S
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:59 PM
Re: Travels
Stories in bed, your head on my shoulder, my hands on your breasts!  Anytime sweet Sassy!  
I am incredibly turned on by our emails!  
We’ve got to meet face to face, skin to skin, lips to lips, as soon as possible!
T
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To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Wednesday, August 24, 2016 12:17 AM

Subject: Sweet dreams

Sweetest Sassy
I’m up late and about to crash.  
Just want to say how much I am glad to be in touch, and how much I want to meet you!
As I drift off tonight, I will be thinking of you!  Sassy dreams ahoy!
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Getting to know Thad

August 22, 2016 Monday
Date:Aug 22nd – 10:23am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi there I’m just about to drive home, so I’ll write more later. 

Quick answers: 
one kid who lives elsewhere. 
Eyes are brown, as is my hair. My beard is salt-and-pepper. 
Guilt . . . hmmm I’ll have to think about that one. 

Hugs and nibbles

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Date: Aug 22nd – 10:28am
From: Sassy
Message
Good morning! Hope you have an easy trip. 

Here’s to a long luscious kiss. Mwah!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 7:44pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Dear Sassy (or Saucey) It was a beautiful day for a drive. If I’d gotten your message about looking forward to a long luscious kiss, before I started out, I would have driven faster! :>) 

You said that you will be getting busy very soon. Would you have time to get together for lunch either this Thursday (24) or this Friday (25)? 

Cheers by the way, what is the color of your hair? 

I should let you know that I loathe Donald Trump, hope you do too!
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Date:Aug 22nd – 9:18pm
From:Sassy
Message
Hiya! So you made it back, eh? I’m so glad. Nothing must happen to you before i can see you. It was a perfect day outside. Too bad I was inside for most of it. This is my nutty week. Can we pick a day next week? 

My hair is silver. And long. I wear it up most of the time but you can take it down, run your fingers through it… it’s softer than it looks. Maybe grab a handful while… oops. I got a little carried away there. 🙂 

Ah politics. Fear not, I agree with you. True blue gal here. 77 days until we vote and can stop hearing his name please please. 

Today’s troika of queries: 
1) Are you sports fan? 
I’m not a fanatic but keep up with figure skating and what the Sox are doing. 

2) What do you fantasize most about, i.e. if we click, what do you want most, first? 

3) What about you will surprise me?
People usually find the fact that I don’t watch TV unusual.

I’d better get some sleep… my brain is mush.

Sweet sexy dreams! – Sassy

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Date:Aug 22nd – 11:43pm
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
Hi Sassy! Enjoy sweet dreams as I write! 

I really enjoy your messages! Odd to realize we’ve only been in touch with one another for two days! Can’t wait to meet! Sorry this week doesn’t work, but next week I could meet for lunch on Wed or Fri. Or I could get together for a late afternoon drink on Tues, Wed. or Thurs. 

Long silver hair! I love running my fingers through long hair, and grabbing a handful . . . 

Glad to know that we are in synch about the Donald! 

Your questions: you’ll know everything about me before we even meet (but don’t stop asking). 

Sports – not a dedicated fan of any sport, but I watch the world series and the superbowl. I keep vaguely aware during the season of how the Red Sox and the Pats are doing, but I am actually more interested in sports news about fans or about the politics of sports. I always watch figure skating during the Olympics, but I don’t really know the finer points. 

What do I fantasize about – **that is a loaded question!** (it takes two to tango, so it is hard to answer your question, except close-up ;>) I want to gaze into your blue eyes, hear your sultry voice, and appreciate your winning smile. All true! But you’ve tantalized me with talk of long luscious kisses, ear nibbling, and running my fingers through your silver locks. Those sound like good starters! Some groping and making out would be a good second course. I love foreplay (giving and receiving). Beyond that my fantasies could go in many directions, depending on where your’s lead you (and us, if we’re in this together!) So, send me something about your fantasies! 

What will surprise you? Great question, but I don’t know. I think I’m a pretty normal guy with few pronounced eccentricities. (And if I try to tell you what will surprise you, it won’t be a surprise!) 

I’ll drift off to sleep with sexy Sassy running – cavorting? — through my dreams! All best T
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Date:Aug 23rd – 12:31am
From: Meat_or_Fish
Message
The message I sent earlier ran up against character limit, so I had to cut a bunch of comments and questions.  Here they are now! 

You said “I crave the basics – a simple kiss on the back on my neck, holding hands, nibbling, a back rub. I will start to crave more as I get back into it, but for now the idea of little touches revs me up!” I’m in pretty much the same boat. It has been so long (and I mean years) that I have had many little touches, those alone will send me into 7th heaven. 

Perhaps this is too personal a question, but how long have you and your husband been only room-mates? How long have you been married? (My wife and I got married shortly after college over 40 years ago. Still best friends, just not sexual partners!) 

Some other questions: 
What are your fantasies if we click? Physical and/or emotional? 

You asked me about how I got involved with AM. Have you been on the site for a while? 

What color was your hair before silver? How long is long? 

Favorite foods? (yes, I’ve noted that you like lobster risotto . . . yum!) 

Are you religious? I am not.

Have you traveled much outside the US?
(I’ve lived overseas, off-and-on for roughly 10 years.)

* * And here is a really serious question. My wife has told me several times (including at least once or twice in public) that she doesn’t care if I have an affair (she might not have used the term “affair”) as long as she doesn’t learn about it. I’ve attempted to get a more extended conversation going, but she doesn’t want to talk about sex in our marriage at all, as far as I can tell. So, my question is whether you and your husband have had a conversation about you having an affair? Does he know, does he care, does he object? On my part, whatever we end up doing with each other, it will be entirely behind closed doors. Let me know what you think about these issues

Sweet dreams T