Switching from sending messages through Ashley Madison to using my mischief email always seems like a big step.  I have to be interested in the guy, starting to trust him, and want to be able to write longer emails and share my erotica.  I try to wait at least two days for any danger signs to pop up, but if we’re still conversing at that point, I go for it!

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via Ashley Madison

Good morning T! Wow…you know how to start a gal’s day off right!! All I want at this moment is to answer all your questions and ask more. Sadly, I have to toddle off to work. *Sigh. 

Would you like to switch to email? Do you have a mischief email address? No character limit. 🙂

From: Meat_or_Fish

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Hiya T! I sent a short message to your email. Answer and I will respond more fully. 

Mwah! 🙂 – Sassy

From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 1:28 PM

Knock, knock.  

This email still works!  

Here’s a little history: 

History

Part I
I was a workaholic, spending 70 hours a week at my office.  My sister gave me a used “personal computer” in 1993 and put me on the internet.  I met Hubby online in the summer of 1994.  He wrote a beautiful erotic story and posted it to a USENET group – I thought it was written by a woman!  I wrote to tell her I liked it and… surprise!  I had a reason not to work so much! 

He moved here from the Midwest to be with me.  We got married about a year later.  He got very ill and stopped touching me in 1999.  When he got better, he never started again.  I tried everything… he says it’s not me, it’s him.  I just don’t know.  I went 10 years without sex, figured that part of my life was over, and no one would want an old curvy married lady.  And sex wasn’t much fun anyway, just a guy doing his thing and me waiting for it to be over.  

Part 2 
In August 2010, an old flame from high school found me after 37 years.  We “dated” for three weeks when I was 14, which amounted to sitting together at lunch and kissing under the stairs.  I remembered his name and that he dumped me but very little else.  Turns out he had traveled all over the world dreaming about me, wondering if our chemistry still burned… he begged to meet again.  I figured he would never touch me, but it could be fun to have dinner.  I talked to Hubby and he said go for it!  So I flew to his city and… the chemistry was nuclear!!  And he was totally different in bed from any other man… he made sure I had fun!  He resurrected me sexually.  

And he got me to have the mammogram that saved my breast and perhaps my life, and stayed with me online tantalizing my brain when my body was useless.  I learned ways to excite a man far away.  I began to explore my “Sassy” side.  I looked for p0rn to teach me how to do things, and shared them.  I wrote erotic stories.  He was military, married and miles away, so he encouraged me to find a local option.  I had no idea how to do that.  I read about a lot of options but couldn’t imagine having any success online. 

If you like, I will tell you more about Hubby and me and our conversations and what he knows about my affairs… the short answer is he does his thing and I do mine.  He identifies as polyamorous, has a girlfriend he sees every Tuesday, is very open about it.  Many of our friends are poly and open.  I am a secretive person, keep my adventures quiet.  We share the basics – he knows if I see someone –  but no details. You can meet him if you like.  

I am used to protecting the men I see and helping them protect themselves.  Starting out with a military man who would face not only a furious wife but the morals clause of the military code of honor made me very circumspect.  I can help you maintain a “don’t ask, don’t tell” situation.  In my experience, your biggest risks are:

1) a strange change in your attitude (don’t get TOO CHEERFUL all of a sudden!), 

2) a stray text sent to her or your son that was meant for me, 

3) syncing your phone to the wrong machine that your wife also uses, or 

4) a son who will hack your email.  

Be careful on those fronts, and you’re golden.  Many things I do are to keep you safe… no perfume or make-up to get on you or your clothes, no lush kisses in public… if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask.  I spent 4 years listening to cheaters all over the world tell about their successes and their mishaps, and I’ve read a lot of blogs written by AM adventurers.  

In this same vein, I try to stay anonymous.  Not so much worried about you, but about who might see our correspondence.  I aim to be untraceable… no real name, no address, mischief email, not my real phone etc. 

From: Thad
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:47 PM

I am trying to process how we got from our initial contact on Sunday to a full-blown on-line flirtation (and I hope more) within a couple of days!  My head is spinning (in very good ways)

“I will leave you with the vision of a buxom lady losing a piece of her lunch down her front and you having to help retrieve it.  :)”  Some of my favorite thoughts or images involve busty, buxom, and cleavage!  Happy to to lend a hand any time!  Grope!

My query about other men was not meant to be intrusive, but the fact of the matter is that I am really turned on by the idea of women who like sex, so women who have sex with multiple partners is something I pay attention to.  I think this may be a reflection of the fact that I have been married for so long to a woman with sexual interests that disappeared over the years, so I am fascinated by women who actually enjoy sex!  I wish I had such a woman in my life right now!  I hope that will be you, and us!

Don’t mean to scare you with role-playing.  I have nothing particular in mind.  I won’t do anything you don’t want to do.  Blindfolds? On you, on me, both or separate!  The kissing and fondling is the important point.

Yes, I view p0rn.  I wouldn’t have made it these sexless years without some release!  The following is unfortunately crude.  My apologies in advance.  What do I watch?  Depends on my mood!  I am intrigued with mature women who like sex and will have sex with multiple partners.  I like big buxom women, and I like to see them having sex in various positions.  I like to see men fondling, groping breasts.  Blow-jobs are popular with me!  Women on top.   (See comments above, about my wife and how I think our relationship has probably shaped my fantasy sexual life!) And much more that is never on the agenda at home!

So much to talk about.  I can’t wait to meet you to begin to unpack complicated feelings.  and I can’t wait to figure out how to be with you in bed so that you can slide across the sheets and climb on me and begin to . . .

Here’s a fun U.S. map of where I’ve been – only have 6 states to go!  My best memories are of the red rocks in Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs or standing on the black sand at the bottom of Waipeo Valley on the Big island of Hawaii, or touching a glacier in Alaska.  My maternal  grandparents lived in North Carolina, so we spent school vacations driving back and forth.

To: Sassy
From: Thad
Sent: Tuesday, August 23, 2016 10:59 PM

Stories in bed, your head on my shoulder, my hands on your breasts!  Anytime sweet Sassy!  

Subject: Sweet dreams