Christmas plans

Friday, December 16
Good morning!  Good weather?  47 clear, into the 50s later.  TGIF!
Phil: Good day – got everything done!  I am bushed at this point but pleased.
Phil:  It’s a ghost town.
People are still around until Tuesday… but after that we can definitely tell the difference.  Nice to have less traffic, empty elevators… but I miss them in the office.
Phil: I already miss them. It’s a nice break for the staff though. This is the most rewarding experience I have ever had. I’ll see my kids at Christmas and then the rest of my family and I am so excited. 
Can you rest soon or is there more to do?
Phil: I have admin I want to catch up on and then a series of meetings next week. Head out on Thursday. After that I believe I am pretty much off which is wonderful.
Isn’t it lovely when the end is in sight?  I work Mon/Tues, off Wed. (annual mammogram at MGH, which seems more serious this year), work Th afternoon to do payroll, then off until Jan 3.
So wish you could make a side trip to Boston… eat some…lobster.
Phil: Not this trip. Got family in the car and a hell of a long way to drive.  
I know… doesn’t keep me from wishing… and thinking about what it would be like to hear you laugh, see you smile…
Phil: Gonna fill up on seafood at the beach though.  Not as good as Lobster of course. That little place we found last time is still a favorite.  I just loved the place and of course that amazing place in Boston.  What a fabulous meal and evening.
You staying with your family?
Phil: Yes. That’s going to be interesting.  I’m making a turkey, and all the trimmings for Christmas dinner. Gonna watch lots of football. Worried about snow though.
It’s so wonderful to hear you so happy in your job… such a change from last year when you were so glad to see D.C. in the rear view mirror!  and your Christmas plan sounds great! You are so lucky to be doing great work, and be where you want to be, doing what you want to do on Christmas!  No one deserves it more than you! 
Tough week – nice to think of lobster and you.  Hubby’s in bad shape, saw 2 docs and a therapist.. no answers, trying new anti-depressant but they don’t hold out much hope it will change anything.  I don’t know what more to do… praying hard.   Weepy and scared, but trying to snap out of it.  Don’t worry – I always do!  Sleep well, sweet man. 
Phil: I am so sorry to hear that. I will remember to pray for you. Have only dealt with friends with minor depression. Has to be very hard. So sorry you are going through this.

December memories

Thursday, December 15
Hiya!  We’re back to “we get the weather you had yesterday” routine.  Gray here, 43, but rain and warmer tomorrow.  Very quiet, dare I say BORING, in the office.  People are finishing up their work, leaving Friday or Monday.  What do you plan to change in the house?  Hope your admin is rolling along. 
My brain is stuck on memories of this day last December. It starts w/special moments on a frigid night – talks, chowder, lobster, a hot man’s cock in my mouth. And then my body is reacting.  My hands stray below my desk.  And suddenly you are here in the dark and I’m on my desk.. longing for you to tell me what happens next.
11:30 pm
You okay?
Phil: Hey! Busy, work. Doing fine
Cool.  Thanks. 
Phil: Very busy time.  Exhausting but rewarding. Nite girl


Week 18
Wednesday, December 14
Phil: Wet morning but warm but the bottom is going to drop and then we are gonna be in for it. 

Ton of Admin today! Yuck! People are taking off for two weeks on Friday.  That’s gonna be a long day but then some relief. Gotta clean up the house and get ready to head to the beach for a few days and then up to NY to see family and back to CHI for New Years.  Lot of driving in a week’s time but be nice to see everyone and will be a nice break from here. 

Almost no booze. See the weight loss in my face and belly first. Pants getting looser, less jowly in the face. I am determined to get to my lowest weight and stay there. That puts me at about a xx inch waist. Going for a long, lean look rather than the bulkier muscle look. Wind sprints are kicking my ass but I love that burn in my lungs and muscles. 

Boat load of my favorite authors have books coming out this month. Can’t wait. I love to read. I like mysteries that deal with world wide stuff. Like books where much of the action happens in Europe, cloak and dagger type stuff I guess. Love Stuart Woords, Jack Higgens, Ludlum, DeMille, Clive Cussler, Paul Christopher. Easy to lose yourself in a book. 

Ah well, off to my admin. Have a great day!

Blog Chain: Holiday Sex

Hello Readers!

It’s time for a brief break from the Philip & Sassy Long Distance Romance for the seventh round of Prowling With Kat‘s Blog Chain, a delightful monthly exercise in posting on the same topic with a bunch of sexy bloggers.  For December we are posting about “Holiday Sex.”

I am whole and cancer-free now, but two years ago, I was staring 8 months of cancer treatments in the face, prepping for surgery in late December, chemo February-May and daily radiation treatments over the entire summer.  I didn’t know what all that would mean.  I was taking it one day at a time, trying not to freak out over the what-ifs… but wishing for a way to stop thinking about it for a little while.

I told Philip he could go away… he had not signed up to deal with a lady with cancer.  He made it clear he was with me for the long haul one night that December by coming to see me!  He asked me what I wanted for Christmas, and I replied, “You.”  I got my wish!  Read the seven posts about our second visit starting here or go straight to the sexy part here.  We only had eight hours together but it was the best Christmas present I’ve ever gotten!

Also, please go read the other smoking hot entries of this month’s Blog Chain!  Marvel at bloggers taking off in different directions from the same starting point!  Leave comments!   Find new blogs to read!  Enjoy! 

If you missed the other monthly entries, pop over to the blog chain posts for 

Many thanks to Kat and Ryan from The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad for their work!  Be sure to read their blogs!  You’ll be glad you did.  Consider adding them and all the chain bloggers to your blog roll so you won’t miss a post.  

BLOGGERS!  Please join in with your own sexy entry next month when the topic is “The Super Bowl of Sex (best sex ever)!  Kat makes hopping on the blog chain gang easy and fun.  Here’s how it works


Less Booze

Monday, December 12
Phil: Doing ok.  Right teams won yesterday – good Sunday.  Cantata was fun. Down another pound and working. Used to fall off, really got to work at it now but I am determined.  I already feel the difference in my energy level, better food, less booze, more exercise, who’da thunk? Have a great day.
Good morning!  40 and clear. Busy week for you?  It’s wicked quiet here.  Congrats on going down another pound.  Yay!  Less booze?  You really are serious about this! 🙂


Sexy Way to Pray

Sunday, December 11

Happy Football Day!  34 clear – we’ve finally crossed into regular December weather!
I have THREE project meetings today, and dinner w/ them. Whee!  Hope you have a jubilant day!
Since it’s Sunday, here’s a quick link about prayer.  Sort of.  While you watch football, think of me on my knees at your feet doing this. Then find me later and spank me for sending it.

Hiya, kid.  How’re you doing?  Yay for your team!  I survived the three meetings, and got amazing baked stuffed schrod with rice pilaf for dinner!  Yum.  Hope you’ve had a relaxing day. 

Red Solo Cup

“Red Solo Cup”
performed by Toby Keith 
Now red solo cup is the best receptacle
From barbecues, tailgates, fairs and festivals
And you sir do not have a pair of testicles
If you prefer drinkin’ from glass
Hey red solo cup is cheap and disposable
In fourteen years they are decomposable
And unlike my home they are not foreclosable
Freddie Mac can kiss my ass, woo!
Red solo cup, I fill you up
Let’s have a party, let’s have a party
I love you red solo cup, I lift you up,
Proceed to party, proceed to party
Now I really love how you’re easy to stack
But I really hate how you’re easy to crack
Cause when beer runs down, in front of my back
Well, that, my friends, is quite yucky
But I have to admit that the ladies get smitten
Admirin’ at how sharply my first name is written
On you with a Sharpie when I get to hittin’
On them, to help me get lucky
Red solo cup, I fill you up
Let’s have a party, let’s have a party
I love you red solo cup, I lift you up,
Proceed to party, proceed to party
Now I’ve seen you in blue and I’ve seen you in yellow
But only you red will do for this fellow
Cause you are the Abbott into my Costello
And you are the Fruit to my Loom
Red solo cup, you’re more than just plastic
More than amazing, you’re more than fantastic
And believe me that I’m not the least bit sarcastic
When I look at you and say:
“Red solo cup, you’re not just a cup (No, no, God no)
You’re my friend, yea (Lifelong)
Thank you for being my friend”
Red solo cup, I fill you up
Let’s have a party, let’s have a party
I love you red solo cup, I lift you up,
Proceed to party, proceed to party

Getting hot

Saturday, December 10
Phil: 13 friggin degrees out.  There is ice! Sweat froze on my body coming back from the gym.  Brrrrrrrrrrrr.  off to watch the Army/Navy game with friends and neighbors. Enjoy the day. Gotta jump in my shower and change into a uniform and get hot.
Good morning!  43 clear.  Wish I could be there… You’d be hot in no time.  
How was the holiday party? What did they have to eat?
Phil: Party was great! Prime Rib, chicken, veggie ravioli, jumbo shrimp, stuffed mushroom caps, champagne fountain all night, chocolate fountain.  Was a very nice evening.
Wow!  Sounds spectacular!  Dancing?
Phil: We had a DJ.  Nice place, great chow, good time. More fun coming up. Non stop party around here. Heading to the Beach in a couple weeks.  I have to clean up this house between now and then.

FFF – The Dorm

Hiya, Readers!   

It’s time for a break from the adventures of Philip and Sassy to play along on a fun project called “Flash Fiction Friday.”  A blogger posts a sexy photo on Sunday, and challenges us to write a story of a certain length with a certain word and post it the following Friday.  Advizor54 is starting his turn as grand poobah of this project.  This first picture was shared by David Sharp from A view from the top.The challenge phrase to be included is Decision.  The word limit is 150 or 300 if you do the extra credit by writing from both perspectives. And the Extra Extra credit is to not use the word “fuck.” Pop over to Free Advice is worth what you pay for it to see who else is playing this week.  And join in!    

The Dorm
I had to visit the new nudist dorm. I adore seeing naked college women but not in my job!  As Dean of Student Housing, I visit every semester and with classes ending, today was the day.  

I mingled at their festive open house.  I kept my eyes on their faces… mostly.  I strolled the other floors.  They were well-cared for… I’d make a good report.  Suddenly, a beautiful brunette popped out of the bathroom.  I had to make a decision to touch her or crash.  I held onto her arms for five seconds, felt the electricity, jumped back to lean casually against the wall, catch my breath and calm my erection.
“Hi, Dean Andrews,” she whispered, looking away.
“Enjoy living here?” I asked.  I couldn’t help staring at her beautiful bush.
“Oh yes!  It’s so… freeing.  Equalizing.  Exciting!” she replied, staring at the wall.  “Maybe you’ll join in next time?”

Crap, she was late.  The open house started half an hour ago and she was supposed to charm some bigwig but she was working on her hair. Without any clothes, it had to be perfect!  She barreled out of the bathroom and ran smack into some old guy!  He steadied her, gently holding her arms.  She felt an electric shock and looked up into his beautiful blue eyes.  Wow!  She jumped back and realized…it was the Dean!  Yikes.  She remembered the email… he was “visiting” today… checking them out.  Well… he was certainly checking her out!  Could he stare any harder at her crotch?  She stole a glance at him, noticed a certain bulge between his legs and she couldn’t resist flirting with him.  She was so bad!  She wanted to see him naked and not in the hallway.  She looked down again and whispered an invitation.