September 25, 2017 Sunday
I got a message from a new Ashley Madison guy today!
I still get excited seeing the notification email, even with all the crap I went through earlier in the month – getting to know a man and then having it not work out – TWICE. Argh! I keep thinking I can’t put myself out there again… why am I doing this? Oh yeah… talking to a nice men…being touched… sex… *sigh. Okay. I’ll go read it. Can’t hurt to read it, right?
I still get excited seeing the notification email, even with all the crap I went through earlier in the month – getting to know a man and then having it not work out – TWICE. Argh! I keep thinking I can’t put myself out there again… why am I doing this? Oh yeah… talking to a nice men…being touched… sex… *sigh. Okay. I’ll go read it. Can’t hurt to read it, right?
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Ashley Madison message
Date: Sep 25th – 5:49pm
From: Randy
To: Sassy
Message
Hey there, Loved your profile.
I am a full size, happy guy, I’m 6’4″ and love real women (BBW).
I am well educated and can hold a conversation.
I would like to exchange emails and get to know each other better?
I am [email address redacted] at gmail dot com.
Looking forward to your response,
Randy
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Hmmm… brief. Kinda sweet. Always fascinated and sort of repelled by men who say they like BBW (Big Beautiful Women) but better than him saying he doesn’t! I went to look at his profile.
He says he’s 50. Probably means he’s at least 52. Whatever. I don’t usually do well with younger men, but it’s worth trying?
He’s tall! I like that. Makes me feel a little smaller.
And he’s burly. That’s good.
Want’s something long term. Hunh. Nice of him to say that, even if it rarely works. Better than “undecided!”
And he’s attached. That’s a must. No single men.
And he’s burly. That’s good.
Want’s something long term. Hunh. Nice of him to say that, even if it rarely works. Better than “undecided!”
And he’s attached. That’s a must. No single men.
He checked a bunch of boxes for his preferences. Eh. Some I don’t want to deal with… but mostly fine.
Refers to his wife as a roommate. I know that feeling!
He wants the basics… kissing, holding hands. I know that feeling so well!
He wants the basics… kissing, holding hands. I know that feeling so well!
Ooh! He sent me access to his photo! Awww… such a nice smile. Though it’s a cropped family photo with the top of a little girl’s head beside him. Don’t do that guys! Use that mobile phone, smile and snap a photo. Geez…
He put in his email… maybe I’ll use it instead waiting a day or two and dithering on AM.
Okay. He deserves a reply. I’m writing back. But not until tomorrow. I want to see if his words and his smile stick with me.
Time to get back out there!