Hi Sassy,

I’m home now.  Making chicken and broccoli and brown rice for dinner.  It is cooking now while I’m writing to you.

I do work in a crappy office some of the time but most of the time I’m out on the road.  I have a techie kind of job.  I’m much happier out on the road.  In the winter I’m often stuck in the office.  Pays the bills.  

I got an offer to retire early.  One years pay to go away in addition to my regular pension.  They didn’t have to ask me twice.  The only catch is they asked me to stay until July so they can do the Vulcan mind meld thing and suck my brain dry before I leave.  But after 7/1 I’m free to sail off into the sunset.

The Seacoast is kind of a hidden gem once you get off of Route 1 and head for the beach area.    I actually live further north and inland.  I just started renting the beach condo at the end of the summer.  Long story I may share with you if we ever take one of those long drives….

I don’t have one favorite day trip.  I love driving around Lake Winnipesaukee on my motorcycle.  I love the ride to Gloucester, Rockport and Magnolia on my bike too.  Lately my favorite day trip is Ogunquit and walking along Marginal Way.  There is a great breakfast place there called Amore.  I will tell you the name of my secret beach if you tell me yours…. OK I’m easy it is Parson’s Beach in Kennebunk, ME.  I never go to the south shore.  Too much to do up this way.  I used to go to the Cape but got out of the habit because of the traffic issues.

All of those foods sound great. Especially Chinese food.

I like to be pleased but I also like to return the pleasure.  I enjoy making a woman relax and let go to enjoy her orgasm without worrying about getting me off.  Plenty of time for that when it is my turn to lie back and be pleasured.  Then of course it is always fun to play together.  Different styles for different moods.  There is no one right way for anything just lots of variations on similar themes.  

The wife and I have had issues for many years.  I started to leave and planned to divorce many years ago but a sick child put that on hold and things just festered for years.  We had a blowout this spring and I made plans to file for divorce again which is why I moved out to the beach.  Yet again family drama with one of our daughters who still lives with me (and her kids) screwed it up again.  Right now I’m in Limbo- half beach – half at home.  

Wife lives in Boston but often comes to our house on weekends.  We have not had a sex life for years.  She knows I have “special friends” but I do not throw it in the family’s face.  My outside life is private.  I just say I’m going out or staying at the beach and no questions are asked.  She told me a couple of weeks ago that an open marriage was better than no marriage for her at this point in our lives.  So the jury is still out on that situation.  

Hence, I am not really looking for anything more than GOOD friends /Bennies.  Looking to fill a void in my life not make a new life.  I am not jealous in this kind of no-strings situation but I would expect fidelity in a committed relationship.  No harems for me.  I have enough trouble making time for one woman.  Besides I think it is wise to limit the number of sex partners to keep things disease free.  Don’t really need those kind of problems.  I shy away from women who are screwing multiple guys because it much too risky.  What about you?  You having sex with multiple guys?  Hope not.  Bad for your health.

Like I said earlier – I have to pick up the wife Friday night sometime in Boston if you want to have a quick meet and “feel each other out”   oooohhhh sounds good to me.  Maybe just coffee lol.

Take care,

Tom