Shaved or not?

Tuesday, November 19, 2013
From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 11:17 AM
Subject: Re: Connection
Good morning Sassy,
I will get back to you with a more detailed reply later when I can get to my computer. If you think you would like to meet, I will be in your area early Friday evening. I have to pick up wifey. I would be open to meeting after work for a coffee/drink whatever. 
You can check to see if I’m wearing women’s clothes or have horns growing out of my head. Let me know a place that would be comfortable for that has a place to park and I could meet you. What do you think Sassy? Up for it?  Sounds pretty harmless to me. 
Tom
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 1:44 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
I’m at the beach place right now. Stopped by for lunch. It is beautiful here this afternoon. Not too cold but windy and incredible sunshine. Good for my vitamin D production….  Catch you later. 
Tom

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From: Sassy
To: NH Man 
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 3:56 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
Hiya Tom!   Now you’ve got me thinking about your underwear and… more.  Yum.  Boxers?  Briefs?  Boxer briefs? 
 Friday might work.  Would the [redacted] mall be okay or is that too far in town?  It has
 underground parking for pretty cheap or spots around the streets if you bring quarters.  They have a Starbucks, restaurants, food court.  What time is good? 
So envious of your beach lunch!

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From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 6:28 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
Ha ha colored briefs. Why?  Does anyone really care about that?  I wear them cause they are comfortable and I get the colored ones because I don’t have wash them in bleach. Lol. 
The mall is good. I drive right past there. What time can you get there after work?  I’m off so it doesn’t matter to me. 

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From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 6:37 PM
Subject: Re: Connection

Hi Sassy,
I’m home now.  Making chicken and broccoli and brown rice for dinner.  It is cooking now while I’m writing to you.
I do work in a crappy office some of the time but most of the time I’m out on the road.  I have a techie kind of job.  I’m much happier out on the road.  In the winter I’m often stuck in the office.  Pays the bills.  
I got an offer to retire early.  One years pay to go away in addition to my regular pension.  They didn’t have to ask me twice.  The only catch is they asked me to stay until July so they can do the Vulcan mind meld thing and suck my brain dry before I leave.  But after 7/1 I’m free to sail off into the sunset.
The Seacoast is kind of a hidden gem once you get off of Route 1 and head for the beach area.    I actually live further north and inland.  I just started renting the beach condo at the end of the summer.  Long story I may share with you if we ever take one of those long drives….
I don’t have one favorite day trip.  I love driving around Lake Winnipesaukee on my motorcycle.  I love the ride to Gloucester, Rockport and Magnolia on my bike too.  Lately my favorite day trip is Ogunquit and walking along Marginal Way.  There is a great breakfast place there called Amore.  I will tell you the name of my secret beach if you tell me yours…. OK I’m easy it is Parson’s Beach in Kennebunk, ME.  I never go to the south shore.  Too much to do up this way.  I used to go to the Cape but got out of the habit because of the traffic issues.
All of those foods sound great. Especially Chinese food.
I like to be pleased but I also like to return the pleasure.  I enjoy making a woman relax and let go to enjoy her orgasm without worrying about getting me off.  Plenty of time for that when it is my turn to lie back and be pleasured.  Then of course it is always fun to play together.  Different styles for different moods.  There is no one right way for anything just lots of variations on similar themes.  
The wife and I have had issues for many years.  I started to leave and planned to divorce many years ago but a sick child put that on hold and things just festered for years.  We had a blowout this spring and I made plans to file for divorce again which is why I moved out to the beach.  Yet again family drama with one of our daughters who still lives with me (and her kids) screwed it up again.  Right now I’m in Limbo- half beach – half at home.  
Wife lives in Boston but often comes to our house on weekends.  We have not had a sex life for years.  She knows I have “special friends” but I do not throw it in the family’s face.  My outside life is private.  I just say I’m going out or staying at the beach and no questions are asked.  She told me a couple of weeks ago that an open marriage was better than no marriage for her at this point in our lives.  So the jury is still out on that situation.  
Hence, I am not really looking for anything more than GOOD friends /Bennies.  Looking to fill a void in my life not make a new life.  I am not jealous in this kind of no-strings situation but I would expect fidelity in a committed relationship.  No harems for me.  I have enough trouble making time for one woman.  Besides I think it is wise to limit the number of sex partners to keep things disease free.  Don’t really need those kind of problems.  I shy away from women who are screwing multiple guys because it much too risky.  What about you?  You having sex with multiple guys?  Hope not.  Bad for your health.
Like I said earlier – I have to pick up the wife Friday night sometime in Boston if you want to have a quick meet and “feel each other out”   oooohhhh sounds good to me.  Maybe just coffee lol.
Take care,

Tom
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 10:38 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
Now you’ve got me thinking about….  shaved or not shaved?  There is no absolute answer.  Both have their appeal.  I’m even intrigued by women who don’t shave their pits or have “happy trails”.  I am not attracted to hairy legs though.  Even I have my limits of kinkiness.
I stop there for lunch maybe every other day.  Not sure if I am going to keep the place or just move back home.  It was just supposed to be a winter rental until the divorce went through then I was going to move into GF’s place.  GF wanted me to get the place because it drove her crazy that I was staying at my house when wifey was there from time to time.  Even though I did not even touch her.  
Shortly after I got the place, GF bailed because of her overwhelming guilt.  Sucked for me left holding the bag.  Wifey thinks that is a regular whore house with hoards of women there 24/7.  LOL I should be so lucky but not really my thing.  I just need 1 compatible sex partner to keep me satisfied.  No need for a harem. 😉
If Friday is no good don’t worry about it.  I am down there often so we could do it another time.  No worries.  If you can make it then great.  Do you drive or are you an MBTA girl?  Would you be up for driving up to the beach sometime or do you hate driving by yourself?  What about over nighters-  is that possible for you or would it push the limits at home?  Is it possible for you to host or is hubby there all the time?  I could not host at home.  Too many kids around here.  Just could host at the beach place.  Just trying to fill in the possibilities…
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From: Sassy
To: NH Man
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013, at 11:32 PM
Subject:  Re: Connection
How fun that you’re thinking!  I am not shaved.  I lost that hair during chemo… interesting sensitivity.  It came back in soft and sparse, and I do not want to shave.  I know it’s all the rage in porn but not for me.  I’ve only been with natural unshaven men.  I like to play with the hair and not have a guy who looks prepubescent!  I never heard of a man shaving except gay men until I started learning about two years ago.  I usually shave the pits and legs, even if I do live in Boston! 
It’s fine to explore logistics, great that you think of it.   I mostly drive, do all the driving when we adventure.  I can do overnight.  Hubby does.  I haven’t hosted at home… but I have been thinking about it.  Could coordinate with when H stays out.  Are you allergic to cats? 
-S
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From: NH Man
To: Sassy
Sent: Tuesday, November 19, 2013 11:37 PM
Subject: Re: Connection
There are cats & dogs at my house so not a problem. 
I could do 5:15. Let me know where to meet.
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