Subject: Friday night flight of fancy
Sent: Jan 11, 2013 9:22 pm
Hope your week went well. Home alone on a Friday night and thinking about you, hoping you are smiling.
Sent: Jan 15, 2013 6:52 pm
I hope you’ve been well. Sorry I haven’t written back sooner, but work, battling a cold, and regular life sometimes gets in the way. Plus, as I mentioned before, I’m somewhat wishy washy on this whole thing. But, I’d like to move forward and see how it goes.
And, yes I’ve felt real comfortable chatting with you, which is an excellent sign. I think last time we chatted, we talked about availibility and it seemed to mesh. I just want to be clear about what I can offer you, because I want to be sensitive and not raise unmet expectations – so I try to be direct.
Timing wise – weekends for a few hours maybe one in three with the occasional “most of a day get together” – “gambling trip to foxwoods” for me, or my spouse being out of town. Hard to tell the frequency of those.
In between meeting – the occasional email or chat, but I need to be very careful there, because its hard to be discreet when people are home.
When meeting – and of course, this assumes we hit it off well in person – a lot of nice, hot passionate romance.
Question for you – do you any favorite discreet places to meet? Outside of a hotel, which can’t be every time, I struggle with ideas for safe and discreet places to meet and make out like crazy :-).
Anyway, hope all is well with you.
Sent: Jan 15, 2013 9:07 pm
So nice to hear from you! So sorry to hear you’ve been sick! I hope you win that battle soon.
No worries – I know real life interferes with philandering. I am patient. I didn’t mean to push… just wanted you to know I am thinking about you. You should have fun stuff to think about, even if you never act on it – you deserve some sexy smiles from a buxom wench!
Yay for moving ahead! Thank you! I am so honored that you might take a chance on me!
Don’t get too far ahead of yourself. You don’t know if we’ll have any chemistry. We should meet for lunch or a coffee and a quick kiss with some groping, see how that goes. You may decide I am too… something. It happens.
But I can tell you are worrying, thinking ahead, so I will try to answer and put your mind at ease. I think it is sweet that you are mulling over all this!
I appreciate you being direct. It is very good to set expectations. Please don’t worry about me expecting a lot. I am getting nothing now, so any time you have here and there will be fine.
Of course I want to hear from you a lot, but I understand the risks and I am patient between emails as you have seen.
It may make sense to just wait until we can afford a room. There is a nice place near me that is right around $100, but I am also keeping an eye out for places to park. I’ll do some more research. I am a novice at this too. I googled it and the answers are funny but not too helpful.
I have a mini-van with back seats that can be arranged so there is a lot of space in the back and it has tinted windows. I look for spots to park headed into a building or a hill or woods, so no one will walk in front of the car. I may also invest in a “sunshield” to block the front window. Rainy days or darkness helps. Then I look around and try to park slightly away from the traffic, but not alone so I stick out. With some pillows and a blanket, it could get quite private. Look around and I will do the same… places w/o cameras… parks? Parking lots? Places that are busy during the week and relatively quiet on the weekends? The idea of making out with you is making me breathe funny, so I will go now!
Hugs with groping!
Sent: Jan 16, 2013 10:55 pm
Thanks for your note back! And I do realize i over analyze stuff and get ahead of myself. Sorry about that.
I’m glad you have some great ideas about the pratical aspects of passion and romance. Makes things easier. A lunch or coffee date seems like the right next step. And of course the kissing and groping part sounds like fun too :-).
What days/ times work best for you? I’m very busy at work the next few weeks, but maybe after that
I’m smiling thinking about making out with you!