Hey, kid. I don’t know this gal, but if it was me and I knew that a year from now you’d be in my life and my bed? And in the intervening months we’d plan and dream? I’d be all over that. She’s waited this long, what’s few more months? You have given your entire life to this country and to your wife. Give yourself permission to stop. Give your wife a chance to find a man who adores her and will do what she wants. You’ve been hurting her for years… STOP. You are stuck with your kids. 🙂 You will be surprised how happy people can be and you have NO IDEA how your life will improve when you can go where you want, wear what you want, take off the mask and be with the right woman! Your family is on your side now, even the chaplain told you to stop trying. There are so many people like me who can’t go… but you can! But no matter what, I will be here to make you smile as often as you’ll let me!
Just afraid it’s too late
Climb up out of your rut, see the possibilities!
Go Philip! Go P H I L!
She won’t take my calls. I think she is trying to move on.
Don’t blame her. Blame myself
Forget about blame. Find a way to say you’re sorry and all you want is to see her smile again.
Send her favorite flowers or something.
I have such a sense of loss
Make a grand gesture.
I know, sweetie.