Monthly Archives: September 2013

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A Different Game

Just when I had started to forget my first contact, AM #1, of course he reappeared!  He wrote another charming message, saying he’d been run ragged at work unexpectedly, so sorry, he still thought I was the best gal in all of AM… so I swooned for a second time!  

So I have a lunch with The Lawyer tomorrow.  Drinks with Dancing Man Friday.  And AM #1 back in the mix.  And the Professor writing every day.  My head is spinning!   

I spent quite a while trying to figure out which man I would choose.  Imagine… me… talking to four men and being able to choose one!   I had never done that in my life!  How was I supposed to do it?  

  • The urbane cautious Ivy-educated lawyer like the men I’d worked, but better? 
  • The charming, flaky AM #1 – the first guy to recognize my potential?
  • The uber-sexy gray fox who sent me a naked photo and wants to fuck like a rabbit?  
  • The staid slow-but-sure turtle of a Professor?  

I like them all!  Arrrgh!  

Then I realized… this is NOT “The Dating Game.”  I don’t have to choose!  I can have lunch and drinks and whatever, and choose or not choose some other day!!! Wow!  There’s no guarantee that any or all of them will want to see me again, so it’s good to have a back-up plan.  Or two.  Or three!  Hee hee.  Wow.  This is not about marriage, children, being seen in public… just sex and fun!   This online dating game is a whole new world!  

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Pre-date advice

Master Shifu

Final Advice from Ryan Beaumont, a wonderful blogger well-versed in the ways of Ashley Madison: 

*   Do it! – You gotta do it now or it will eat at you for not doing it.  It will probably fail but you’ll either be more satisfied with what you have or emboldened to do something else.

*   Have fun, but not at someone else’s expense (of course I know you know that)

*   Be safe.  And don’t screw on first date.  I never hire someone on the day they apply.  At the very least I won’t make sure they are organized enough to come back for an interview.  Often I make them come back multiple times just to assess their tenacity and eagerness.

*   Blog about it but tell me first!   🙂

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Dancing Man

I got a wink from another man last night!  Another 6’2″ 200 pound guy in his 50s!

There was something about his profile… I couldn’t resist writing to him.  He wrote right back, gave me his Yahoo IM and said he wanted to chat!  Wow… that’s fast.  I haven’t chatted with anyone yet, but don’t see a reason not to.  I pinged him but we didn’t connect.

He found me first thing this morning.  We chatted on and off all day!  He is different from the other guys.. a salesman, very blunt, terse and right to the point.  He sent me a very hot full body photo… yum.

He asked very direct questions – Am I shaved or natural?  When was the last time I had sex?  He made it very clear what he wants – he wants to meet me and he wants to fuck!  He wants to meet at hotel on Friday!  I told him that’s a little scary.  He downshifted to meeting for a drink in the hotel bar, said no pressure but he’d get a room just in case.  We hashed through the brass tacks anyway – condoms, lube, fantasies… pouring quite a foundation to build a sexy encounter on!  I shared some porn and he shared back!  Wow.

Not sure what to make of all that.  He seems like a player, but… I want to play!  Terrified that he won’t want me once he sees me, but I am gaining confidence as more men contact me!

He told me that he teaches ballroom dance classes in his spare time, so that will be his nickname.

So to summarize my first week on AM:

     1) #1 charmed me, went quiet and is back chatting but hasn’t named a new date to meet.

     2) The Lawyer is meeting me for lunch on Thursday!

     3) The Professor writes faithfully every day, is talking about a phone call.

     4) Dancing Man wants to meet for a drink Friday!  Whee!

It makes me want to dye my hair, buy all new clothes and loose 100 pounds by Thursday!  Eeek!

The online dating thing still doesn’t seem like my scene, but maybe it will lead me to somewhere better!

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The next step

Wow!  Things are happening fast on the Ashley Madison front!  I’ve only been on there a week and I am learning a lot, in the midst of talking to three men!  It doesn’t feel like my kind of place.  But it did cheer me up. 
So I’ve tested the waters, found out men will write to me and write back to me.  Yay!  Now the much tougher test… meeting in person.  Gulp.  
I have a DATE!  with a MAN!  Gosh… I didn’t think I’d ever say that again!  
Tom, the lawyer who worked at my old firm, asked me to meet him for lunch on Thursday!  
Lunch invitations are considered a good sign.  If he was cheap or iffy, he’d ask to meet for coffee at Starbucks.  Heh.  I am telling Sis and Hubby about it, as a safety precaution.  
What am I going to wear?  What are we going to talk about?  What if he is a creep?  What if he doesn’t like me?  What if I don’t like him?  What if we like each other – then what?  Arrrrgh!!!!
Scot, the professor, sent me several messages today.  He told me enough to find his web site, seems fine with me knowing who he is.  That freaks me out a bit… but I’m rolling with it.  
Of course, I really wanted to hear from Kevin and he’s silent.  Figures.  
Wish me luck!  
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ONE THOUSAND

Tomorrow morning I am going to publish my 1000th post!  Let’s raise a mug of clam chowder and eat some lobster!

When I started on December 3, 2011, I thought I’d last about a month.  I was going to write about meeting Philip and stop.  Tell the story of the most amazing moment of my life, then go back into hiding.  People started commenting.  I started reading their work and learning so much and my story continued… I still don’t know how it will turn out, so I have more to say and… here we are!

There are days I want to stop posting.  Then my life takes a new turn, or I get an email or a comment or read another great blog post I have to share and… I keep going.  And I adore it!

Good golly I post a lot!  Words.  Images.  Videos.  Short posts.  Long posts.  Music videos.  Food photos.  Chats.  Erotica. Cartoons.  Poems.  Mostly happy.  Some sad.  Ordinary days.  Extraordinary moments.  FFFing.  About men.  About sex.  Mostly about me.

Let me toss out some other numbers:

Hits

Total so far 80,272
Weekly total last week 1,103
Monthly total – August 2013 – 3,790
Best month 2013 – May – 4,343
Best month 2012 – June – 3,646
Best day ever 1/11/13 440

Members
56

Comments
656

You still reading?  Priceless!!!!

Huge thanks and hugs with groping to you!

-Sassy

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Happy dance

Sunday, September 23, 2012
11:33 am
Brunch out with our CT pal – another Irish breakfast!  Yum.

5:26 pm
Happy happy football!
5:30 pm
You doing the happy dance?
5:34 pm Phil
Oh yeah!
6:01 pm
At the park w/ my niece – she is such a gymnast!
I uploaded a 15 sec video. First one I’ve done of her.

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Warm him up

Saturday, September 22, 2012
10:57 am
Happy Autumn! It’s fall! Yay! Busy project day – and then party! With guest from CT. Woot!
Have a superb Saturday, kid!
11:56 am Phil
Thanks! It’s 48 here. Brrr. Enjoy your day. Trying to stay warm here. Great football weather!
11:58 am
Come here, sweets. I’ll warm you up. ðŸ˜‰
12:51 pm Phil
LOL
12:51 am
Any particular way you want to be heated?
12:58 am Phil
Mouth baby
1:00 pm
Mmmmm… well then. My talented mouth on you, then. Kissing as only I can… for a start.
1:12 pm Phil
Good start 
1:14 pm
I am going to nibble on your ear and your neck next… make that little breathy sound that makes you shiver.
1:45 pm
I am going to make my way down your beautiful chest until I get to what you have been waiting for and take you deep into my mouth in one big slurp!
2:00 pm Phil
Ummmmm
2:20 pm
Gonna suck you very deep…let you feel the hot, wet mouth all around you. Then bob a bit. Then lick you, all along your gorgeous cock, around that sexy mushroom top…mmm
2:29 pm
Getting warmer?
3:45 pm Phil
Oh hell yeah!
4:03 pm
Good to know I’m on the right path! So… I’ll kiss the tip and blow on it. Then gobble you up again… looking into your eyes… watching until I see you burn and twitch… then stopping and waiting as you take deep breaths. Grinning my evil grin. Because I’m going to rev you up. Again and again. Until you squirm and beg…
4:20 pm  Phil
I like it!
4:30 pm
You say you’ve got to cum… I’ll tilt my head just so, take you in deeper, swallow you… feel your hips pop to me, your hands on my head…moaning. press my finger inside you… fill you, find the spot… I’ve learned how to make a you explode in a way you’ll never forget!
5:14 pm Phil
damn
5:15 pm
Warm enough? Or you want more, my dear?
10:23pm Phil
That was awesome
11:24pm
Adore warming you up, kid.
11:46pm Phil
🙂 
11:47pm
Don’t think about me climbing on top of you…rubbing back and forth with your cock between my lower lips.
12:02am
then taking you deep inside me and riding you as you watch my chest…
12:04am Phil
Damn girl. That’s one tight hot pussy
12:16am
Gonna ride you… up and down, your hands on my hips, squeezing my ass… arching my back, driving you so deep…
12:18am Phil
Yeah Sass, ride my cock
12:18am
Finger my clit, kid… make me burn.
Make me shake and scream and cum all over you… feel it drip down, watch me…
then finish… bounce those hips… fill me, kid.
I want that hot white cum inside me!
12:27am Phil
Umm need to cum. Happy to fill your tight pussy