Do Bad Things With You

January 18, 2011

Fun honky tonk tune
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDY42pFwq7c
Bad Things 
by Jace Everett
When you came in the air went out.
And every shadow filled up with doubt.
I don’t know who you think you are,
But before the night is through,
I wanna do bad things with you.
I’m the kind to sit up in his room.
Heart sick an’ eyes filled up with blue.
I don’t know what you’ve done to me,
But I know this much is true:
I wanna do bad things with you.
I don’t know what you’ve done to me,
But I know this much is true:
I wanna do bad things with you.
I wanna do real bad things with you.

Collide

Monday at home
Between Phil and You
December 20 at 12:37pm
Good morning! Gray day here, 30 degrees and windy. Smells like snow but they say we won’t get much. Lots of snow there? Hope your meetings are going well. Thanks for the photos… gorgeous! I hope that view restores your soul on certain days. Have a great day!
TEXTS
Phil: [sent photo of his new living room]
3:15 pm Me: Wow!  Gorgeous wood floor!  And a fireplace… Nifty!
3:15 pm Phil It’s not too bad
3:16 pm Me: Room looks HUGE!
3:17 pm Phil: Probably 40 by 25 I think
3:18 pm Me: Yowza!  Your own bowling alley!
December 20 at 10:10pm
Hey, kid. You watching football? I forget where you are tonight… hope it’s fun. Busy day, got stuff done so I can veg out – laundry, bills, project stuff, bank. Sis took me on a tour of the Christmas lights on the homes in Somerville – they’re famous for crazy displays. Then a big Italian dinner in Everett.  Had hoped to sleep but totally wired. Hubby’s out. Call if you can… tell me story… heh. Sleep well, sweet man.
December 20 at 10:16pm
FYI – I asked Hubby to text you tomorrow, when I am out of surgery. If you get antsy, call or text him at [phone number] or email [email address]
Phil December 20 at 10:21pm
You will be in my prayers Sass. I have faith you will have no issues. What an amazing nite. Snowing, wonderful food, great people in the new place

From: Sassy
Subject: Collide
Date: December 20, 2010 10:27:47 PM EST
To: Phil

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ca9ub9rpNK4

Collide lyrics
Songwriters: Griffin, Kevin; Day, Howie;
The dawn is breaking
A light shining through
You’re barely waking
And I’m tangled up in you, yeah
I’m open, you’re closed
Where I follow, you’ll go
I worry I won’t see your face
Light up again
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the wrong words seem to rhyme
Out of the doubt that fills my mind
I somehow find you and I collide
I’m quiet you know
You make a first impression
I’ve found I’m scared to know
I’m always on your mind
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the stars refuse to shine
Out of the back you fall in time
I somehow find you and I collide
Don’t stop here
I lost my place
I’m close behind
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the wrong words seem to rhyme
Out of the doubt that fills your mind
You finally find you and I collide
You finally find you and I collide
You finally find you and I collide
© TENTATIVE MUSIC

Visit #2 – part 6 The road back

11:35 pm Headed Out


I drove off down the highway.  I kept one hand on the wheel and put the other hand on his knee, making little circles on his soft jeans.  I played David Wilcox’s “East Ashville Hardware” CD for him – he liked it!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZvOgyJt_Xts

He fell asleep for about 30 minutes.  It validated my decision to drive, so he could drink if he liked, and sleep if he needed to, and not worry his head about directions or traffic etc.  He apologized for nodding off, but I told him it was okay.  I thought it was kind of sweet, that he trusted me to drive and could be himself.  He said he’d been in cabs in Israel – no driver scared him after that.  
12:15 pm Stopped for gas at the rest stop  

I got out to pump gas.  No one else was around.  It was so cold and windy… I thought I might freeze!  He got out and hugged me from behind, blocked the wind, put the gas cap back while I was getting my receipt.  Then he pressed me against the car and kissed me.  I wrapped my leg around him and wondered how far we could go standing outside before we froze solid.  But the cold got to us and we hopped back into the car. He kissed me and I felt warmer very quickly! 

12: 25 am Stories as we roll along

He told me stories about the conference, mentoring other officers with tips and learning from them, too.  
He told me the stories of his hardest hours in the service, being in hot spots around the world, or during an emergency when he had to be awake for 36 hours and keep his team awake.  He said it taught him not to have more than 2 drinks except when he’s on vacation and away.  He has to be ready for the phone to ring at 2 am, to race back to duty, be in command and work until it’s over.  A heavy burden.  

I told him about the lessons I learned from my work… nothing quite as dramatic, but still telling him why I am the way I am. 

I felt so close to him, driving down the road in the dark in the middle of the night, sharing the deepest moments that made us who we are, the road we’ve traveled since we were teenagers.  


Visit #2 Prep – Raw talk

Phil December 15 at 7:41am
Good morning! Friggin cold this morning! May be a few minutes late tonight. Meetings finish at 4:30. Downtown lot near the hotel sounds great!

December 15 at 12:00pm
Good morning! We’ve got the coldest day of the year. Windy, too. Old Glory flying straight out! Scrapping plan for outdoor activities. 😉 Don’t stress… I will wait for you. With cheese. and crackers.  Look for my car. 
[texted him a photo]
December 15 at 12:08pm
Here’s a funny ad from Legal Seafood – talking seafood! 

At Legal Sea Foods, if it isn’t fresh, it isn’t legal. Sometimes when you have the freshest fish around, things can a little too fresh.

December 15 at 2:04pm
Heading out. See you soon!


Make My Dream Come True

Friday finding
Between Phil and You
December 10 at 7:28am
Good morning! Hope your day is off to a super start. Wicked cold here – 14 degrees! Arrgh! You’re driving, yes? I hope you have an uneventful trip North and a fabulous time with the family. Where are you headed exactly? Call in the afternoon? I’m off to MGH to meet the anesthesia team at 8:30 am. Hope to be done before lunch time and head to work, but who knows how long I will wait! heh. Stay safe, Philip.
December 10 at 11:32am
Hiya, kid! Rolling along? Easy time at MGH – quick EKG… chat with anesthesia nurse and done! Quick subway ride. Back at work. Nothing to do… again. Have a great day!
Phil December 10 at 11:32am
Cold here too. Some where in Pennsylvania and its freezing. Scenic drive enjoying it.

December 10 at 11:58am
Snow on the ground there?
Phil December 10 at 12:02pm
No snow but it’s grey and cold!

December 10 at 12:31pm
You eaten yet? Wish you were here… we’re having free lunch! So much food leftover from the holiday party… Crackers and cheese and fruit! Even grilled veggies and hummus. Yum!

December 10 at 12:59pm

I got a third email from Classmates this morning! A pal from our home town, [NAME]. Sweet kid. Remember him? He brought his male partner to reunion in ’97, so I think there are no worries about any romantic overtures from that direction! Phew.

December 10 at 2:42pm
It is officially boring here. Caught up on email, Facebook, LiveJournal, CNN, BBC, ESPN, Boston.com… very quiet day all around. Which I suppose is good thing! Hope the miles are flying by for you.
December 10 at 3:43pm
Hey, kid. Worked on my projects. Might as well do something productive! Prepped for Sunday meeting.

December 10 at 5:00pm
Hope you’ve made it there or are close. Headed home for another quiet evening. Have a grand time!
December 10 at 11:38pm
Hey, kid. I hope you made it safely and are whooping it up with the family. Was there wine? Quiet night here. Hubby went to a party. I did more de-cluttering! Sleep well, sweet man.
December 11 at 12:25am
Quick question – did you want me to help driving? Pick me up Sunday morning, drop me at a hotel near the airport Sunday night? I need to buy a plane ticket this Sunday to get the 7 day deal…
December 11 at 12:57am
Very sweet and funny video about a guy who found the girl again…
HALL & OATES “YOU MAKE MY DREAMS”
What I want, you’ve got
But it might be hard to handle
Like the flame that burns the candle
The candle feeds the flame yeah yeah
What I got — full stock of thoughts
and dreams that scatter
And you pull them all together
And how I can’t explain oh yeah
Well well you (ooh ooh ooh ooh) you make my
dreams come true (you you) you
(you you)
Well well well you (ooh ooh ooh ooh) oh
yeah you make my dreams come true
(ooh oooh ooh ooh) hell yeah
On a night when bad dreams become a screamer
When they’re messin’ with a dreamer
I can laugh it in the face
Twist and shout my way out
And wrap yourself around me
‘Cause I ain’t the way you found me
And I’ll never be the same oh yeah
Well ’cause You (ooh ooh ooh ooh) hmmm hmm
you make my dreams come true (you
you you you) oh yeah
Well well well you (ooh ooh ooh ooh) ooh you
make my dreams come true (you
you you you) oh yeah
Listen to this
I’m down on my daydream
All that sleepwalk should be over by now
I know
Well you hell yeah you make my dreams come
true (you you you you) oh yeah
(you you)
I’ve been waiting for waiting for
you girl (ooh ooh ooh ooh)
Oh yeah you make my dreams come true (you you you you)
Me you me and you
I’ve been waiting for waiting for you girl
(ooh ooh ooh ooh) all my life
You make my dreams come true (you you) whoa (you you)
Whoa whoa I’ve been waiting for waiting for
waiting for waiting for waiting
for waiting for waiting for
(You make my dreams) ooh ooh ooh ooh
I’ve been waiting for you girl (you you you you)
(You make my dream you you you you)

Movie : 500 Days Of Summer 
Song Title : You Make My Dreams Artist : Hall & Oates

Homeless Heart

From: Sassy
Subject: Homeless Heart by Amanda Stott 
Date: December 2, 2010 12:59:00 AM EST
To: Phil 
Hiya, kid, 
Heard this song?  Been stuck in my head all day – nice tempo, piano and amazing voice.  Words… sweet words I might understand if I ever give up the fight to keep from loving you again. Wonder if I could tell you this time around?  Would you smile or frown?  
Ah, the trouble I get into after midnite!  😉  Forgive the philosophical drivel.  
 -B
==========
Homeless Heart 
Sung by Amanda Stott
Songwriters: Carlsson, Andreas; Sommerdahl, Harry; Child, Desmond

Lonesome stranger with a crowd around you, I see who you are
You joke, they laugh til the show is over, then you fall so hard
If you’re needing a soul-to-soul connection I’ll run to your side
When you’re lost in the dark, when you’re out in the cold
When you’re looking for something that resembles your soul
When the wind blows your house of cards
I’ll be a home to your homeless heart
Open, close me. Leave your secrets with me. I can ease your pain
And my arms will be just like walls around you – come in from the rain
If you’re running in the wrong direction, I will lead you back
When you’re lost in the dark, when you’re out in the cold
When you’re looking for something that resembles your soul
When the wind blows your house of cards
I’ll be a home to your homeless heart
Broken, shattered like a mirror in a million pieces
Sooner or later you’ve got to find 
something, someone to find you and save you
When you’re lost in the dark, when you’re out in the cold
When you’re looking for something that resembles your soul
When the wind blows your house of cards
I’ll be a home to your homeless heart
When you’re looking for something that resembles your soul
When the wind blows your house of cards
I’ll be a home to your homeless heart
I’ll be a home to your homeless heart

Don’t Wanna Be Right

November 17, 2010 Chat
10:10 pm hiya

10:11 PM Phil: hey!

10:13 PM sounds like you’re having a good night… 

10:14 PM Phil: too much wine, not bad though

hunh…  didn’t know there was ever too much wine.  🙂
red wine?

10:17 pm Phil: of course

there is such a thing
temptation zinfandel.  Not bad

10:20 PM What have you been watching on TV?

Phil: survivor, criminal minds and the Belushi show

10:23 PM you in bed?

Phil: nah, only 9:30 here 

10:25 PM ah, right

are you allergic to cats or just don’t like them? 

10:29 PM Phil: allergic to some, some not.  Generally ok as long as I don’t touch them 
I like cats, just make my eyes swell up some times

hmmm… was thinking about you perhaps staying here when you visit.  But the cat thing may be a problem.

Phil: not sure how much time I will have.  Can come up one night.  We’ll figure it out.

10:33 PM Sure 
Just checking on possibilities…
My goodness, you get around…

Phil: Love to see your place. Yeah, travels, yippee. Much on my plate 

10:37 PM yikes
Are you flying up here?
10:40pm Phil: no driving.  hoooo ya
holy cow
so the nights I might see you would be that week?

Phil: yea, thats the period. need to pick one that works. Gonna enjoy New England chow every night.
Not going to get any of that in the new spot.  very different food out there.  
10:47 PM Thanks for the dates… helps me juggle other things.   
Are you on base or a hotel?

Phil: on base.

People you need to socialize with?
Phil: there are
Figured
will there be staff at your new place that you know?

Phil: a few.  Met some last week.  Know one or two. All mind boggling.

just wondered if you could sort of hire people you like, get people you know transferred in there etc. 
So you could be here in less than a month!
Eating lobster
Phil: NOPE, GET WHAT i GET
yes! couple of lobsters
10:58 am at once?

Phil: hell yeah!

heh
Phil: they are small
not necessarily…
Phil: oh cool.  Like them stuffed, broiled, boiled, in linguini, ravioli, tortelini, sauce, salad, 
HA! so good!        
with a great wine or cold beer, oh yeah!      
even better with great company, especially if its a sexy brown haired wench

Might be some kissing…
Phil: thats not a bad thing

Would it weird you out to meet Hubby?   

11:05 PM Phil: I don’t think so. he gonna be ok with that?

It depends on where his head is that day…but he said he’s cool with it. 
11:06 PM Phil: some guys are not ok meeting a guy who’s dick was down their wife’s throat
much less shooting multiple loads inside them  

11:07 PM He is totally fine with all that.

Phil: just saying

I know.  He said he wanted to make it clear he is fine with you, us…

Phil:  wow

I’m pretty easy

11:08 PM And he volunteered to go stay at a friend’s house if you want to be here

Phil: will see. Have to be back and alert in the morning.  This is critical

Sure.  Not meaning stay here overnight, just meaning um… 
make use of my king sized bed… 
if there’s time

Phil: don’t remember what the drive is from one place to the other.  At least an hour I think

90 minutes 

11:10 PM Phil: not too bad

If you’d rather not drive it, I could come get you… 
Phil: Don’t mind the drive.  Will see when I get there 
 
sure.  You were so good to me when I was down there, want to return the favor
make it as easy as possible.
and work will be absolutely dead at that time… so I can be in or out as I need to

Phil: ok, no need to twist my arm 

11:14 PM not… just want to be hospitable.  

and FUN!

Phil: ok, sold

On what? Fun?
Phil: all of the above 

11:16 PM We’ll work it out.  Just whatever makes it easy on you.  

And get us lobster. 
And some kisses. 

Phil: all of the above.  Good new England beer too>  chowda, clams, oh my

Clams… stuffed? 

11:20 PM very nice

steamed, raw, stuffed, all good

I’m looking at menus.. you’ve given me some new ideas.  
Phil: oohhhh good
This is going to be a great night. 
we will have a good time.  Thats a given

It’s a wonderful thing for me to think about… distracts me from other crap going on.  
Phil: good! love clams, oysters, mussels, shrimp, lobster, scallops, beer, beer, beer
hee hee 

11:26 PM Phil: choosing from a long menu may be tough!

Maybe I can order some stuff and you other stuff and we can trade tastes…

Phil: that’s always fun! love to eat like that

But then, what I really want is something… um… sweet.
Phil: hussy 

11:29 PM How do you know I don’t mean chocolate cake?

11:30pm Phil: LOL

I don’t, but… sweet lobster?
Phil: well, that too.   

11:31 PM What do you have on?

Phil: naked in a chair, sitting on a towel, why? 

11:36 PM just trying to imagine.

Phil: glass of wine

like to be naked. relaxing, comfortable
fine by me.   

11:38 PM LOL

I’m thinking about you in the chair in D.C.
kicking myself for not taking advantage of that moment… 

ahhhhh 

11:41 PM Kneeling there. 

doing something good…
 
Phil: should have swallowed my cock and sucked it dry

Yeah… started with you between my breasts and gone on from there. 

yes… would have liked to lick you…
suck on you…
Phil: ummmm 

11:45 PM press a finger inside me and then inside you…

Phil: ummmmmm, you never got a mouthful of cum
want to change that
Phil: hussy 

11:47 PM Phil: I mean that in a good way 

11:49 PM I know.  

Was just pondering how you bring that out in me… 
it’s fun

Phil: bad boy I guess 

11:50 PM fun to think about how to make you feel hot 

If you’re bad, I don’t want to be good

Phil: I am pooped. Need to get to bed.  Have to be fresh in the am 

11:51 PM Phil: think thats a song 

11:52 PM Yeah?  I think it’s “if loving you is wrong, i don’t wanna be right…”
but maybe there’s another one?

Phil: thats the one 

11:53 PM who sang it? Luther Ingrahm… 
11:55 PM or Barbara Mandrell

wow… lyrics are right on

11:56pm Phil: barbara is the one I remember.  off to bed for me
good night  

Have a good night.  Sleep well, sweet man.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-wdD8JMY3I

http://www.lyricstime.com/barbara-mandrell-if-loving-you-is-wrong-lyrics.html

If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If being right means being without you
I’d rather live a wrong doing life
Your mama and daddy say it’s a shame
It’s a downright disgrace
Long as I got you by my side
I don’t care what your people say

Your friends tell you there’s no future
in loving a married man
If I can’t see you when I want to
I’ll see you when I can
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

Am I wrong to fall so deeply in love with you
knowing I got a wife and two little children
depending on me too
And am I wrong to hunger
for the gentleness of your touch
knowing I got somebody else at home
who needs me just as much

And are you wrong to fall in love
with a married man
And am I wrong trying to hold on
to the best thing I ever had
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

Are you wrong to give your love
to a married man
And am I wrong trying to hold on
to the best thing I ever had
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

I don’t wanna be right
if it means sleeping alone at night
I don’t wanna be right
if it means coming home at night
I don’t wanna, I don’t wanna
I don’t wanna never, never, never be right

Don't Wanna Be Right

November 17, 2010 Chat
10:10 pm hiya

10:11 PM Phil: hey!

10:13 PM sounds like you’re having a good night… 

10:14 PM Phil: too much wine, not bad though

hunh…  didn’t know there was ever too much wine.  🙂
red wine?

10:17 pm Phil: of course

there is such a thing
temptation zinfandel.  Not bad

10:20 PM What have you been watching on TV?

Phil: survivor, criminal minds and the Belushi show

10:23 PM you in bed?

Phil: nah, only 9:30 here 

10:25 PM ah, right

are you allergic to cats or just don’t like them? 

10:29 PM Phil: allergic to some, some not.  Generally ok as long as I don’t touch them 
I like cats, just make my eyes swell up some times

hmmm… was thinking about you perhaps staying here when you visit.  But the cat thing may be a problem.

Phil: not sure how much time I will have.  Can come up one night.  We’ll figure it out.

10:33 PM Sure 
Just checking on possibilities…
My goodness, you get around…

Phil: Love to see your place. Yeah, travels, yippee. Much on my plate 

10:37 PM yikes
Are you flying up here?
10:40pm Phil: no driving.  hoooo ya
holy cow
so the nights I might see you would be that week?

Phil: yea, thats the period. need to pick one that works. Gonna enjoy New England chow every night.
Not going to get any of that in the new spot.  very different food out there.  
10:47 PM Thanks for the dates… helps me juggle other things.   
Are you on base or a hotel?

Phil: on base.

People you need to socialize with?
Phil: there are
Figured
will there be staff at your new place that you know?

Phil: a few.  Met some last week.  Know one or two. All mind boggling.

just wondered if you could sort of hire people you like, get people you know transferred in there etc. 
So you could be here in less than a month!
Eating lobster
Phil: NOPE, GET WHAT i GET
yes! couple of lobsters
10:58 am at once?

Phil: hell yeah!

heh
Phil: they are small
not necessarily…
Phil: oh cool.  Like them stuffed, broiled, boiled, in linguini, ravioli, tortelini, sauce, salad, 
HA! so good!        
with a great wine or cold beer, oh yeah!      
even better with great company, esp
ecially if its a sexy brown haired wench

Might be some kissing…
Phil: thats not a bad thing

Would it weird you out to meet Hubby?   

11:05 PM Phil: I don’t think so. he gonna be ok with that?

It depends on where his head is that day…but he said he’s cool with it. 
11:06 PM Phil: some guys are not ok meeting a guy who’s dick was down their wife’s throat
much less shooting multiple loads inside them  

11:07 PM He is totally fine with all that.

Phil: just saying

I know.  He said he wanted to make it clear he is fine with you, us…

Phil:  wow

I’m pretty easy

11:08 PM And he volunteered to go stay at a friend’s house if you want to be here

Phil: will see. Have to be back and alert in the morning.  This is critical

Sure.  Not meaning stay here overnight, just meaning um… 
make use of my king sized bed… 
if there’s time

Phil: don’t remember what the drive is from one place to the other.  At least an hour I think

90 minutes 

11:10 PM Phil: not too bad

If you’d rather not drive it, I could come get you… 
Phil: Don’t mind the drive.  Will see when I get there 
 
sure.  You were so good to me when I was down there, want to return the favor
make it as easy as possible.
and work will be absolutely dead at that time… so I can be in or out as I need to

Phil: ok, no need to twist my arm 

11:14 PM not… just want to be hospitable.  

and FUN!

Phil: ok, sold

On what? Fun?
Phil: all of the above 

11:16 PM We’ll work it out.  Just whatever makes it easy on you.  

And get us lobster. 
And some kisses. 

Phil: all of the above.  Good new England beer too>  chowda, clams, oh my

Clams… stuffed? 

11:20 PM very nice

steamed, raw, stuffed, all good

I’m looking at menus.. you’ve given me some new ideas.  
Phil: oohhhh good
This is going to be a great night. 
we will have a good time.  Thats a given

It’s a wonderful thing for me to think about… distracts me from other crap going on.  
Phil: good! love clams, oysters, mussels, shrimp, lobster, scallops, beer, beer, beer
hee hee 

11:26 PM Phil: choosing from a long menu may be tough!

Maybe I can order some stuff and you other stuff and we can trade tastes…

Phil: that’s always fun! love to eat like that

But then, what I really want is something… um… sweet.
Phil: hussy 

11:29 PM How do you know I don’t mean chocolate cake?

11:30pm Phil: LOL

I don’t, but… sweet lobster?
Phil: well, that too.   

11:31 PM What do you have on?

Phil: naked in a chair, sitting on a towel, why? 

11:36 PM just trying to imagine.

Phil: glass of wine

like to be naked. relaxing, comfortable
fine by me.   

11:38 PM LOL

I’m thinking about you in the chair in D.C.
kicking myself for not taking advantage of that moment… 

ahhhhh 

11:41 PM Kneeling there. 

doing something good…
 
Phil: should have swallowed my cock and sucked it dry

Yeah… started with you between my breasts and gone on from there. 

yes… would have liked to lick you…
suck on you…
Phil: ummmm 

11:45 PM press a finger inside me and then inside you…

Phil: ummmmmm, you never got a mouthful of cum
want to change that
Phil: hussy 

11:47 PM Phil: I mean that in a good way 

11:49 PM I know.  

Was just pondering how you bring that out in me… 
it’s fun

Phil: bad boy I guess 

11:50 PM fun to think about how to make you feel hot 

If you’re bad, I don’t want to be good

Phil: I am pooped. Need to get to bed.  Have to be fresh in the am 

11:51 PM Phil: think thats a song 

11:52 PM Yeah?  I think it’s “if loving you is wrong, i don’t wanna be right…”
but maybe there’s another one?

Phil: thats the one 

11:53 PM who sang it? Luther Ingrahm… 
11:55 PM or Barbara Mandrell

wow… lyrics are right on

11:56pm Phil: barbara is the one I remember.  off to bed for me
good night  

Have a good night.  Sleep well, sweet man.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-wdD8JMY3I

http://www.lyricstime.com/barbara-mandrell-if-loving-you-is-wrong-lyrics.html

If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If being right means being without you
I’d rather live a wrong doing life
Your mama and daddy say it’s a shame
It’s a downright disgrace
Long as I got you by my side
I don’t care what your people say

Your friends tell you there’s no future
in loving a married man
If I can’t see you when I want to
I’ll see you when I can
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

Am I wrong to fall so deeply in love with you
knowing I got a wife and two little children
depending on me too
And am I wrong to hunger
for the gentleness of your touch
knowing I got somebody else at home
who needs me just as much

And are you wrong to fall in love
with a married man
And am I wrong trying to hold on
to the best thing I ever had
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

Are you wrong to give your love
to a married man
And am I wrong trying to hold on
to the best thing I ever had
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right
If loving you is wrong I don’t wanna be right

I don’t wanna be right
if it means sleeping alone at night
I don’t wanna be right
if it means coming home at night
I don’t wanna, I don’t wanna
I don’t wanna never, never, never be right

Captain’s Wife’s Lament

Friday feeding
Between Phil and You
October 22 at 11:40am
Good morning! Happy Friday! It’s cold here today – only 47 degrees right now. But clear and beautiful. I’m noticing how some of the trees have turned colors and are already losing their leaves, with the one next to them still green. Ah, the vagaries of nature!
Phil October 22 at 11:44am
Cool here too! Feels great! Got a wedding this weekend, more house cleaning too. No football, bye week :(. Getting ready to head out.

October 22 at 11:47am
Call me while you’re driving? Please?
My co-workers are going out for a drink after work today and invited me along to Casablanca, a Moroccan bar, for tapas.
Casablanca is Harvard Square’s legendary ‘neighborhood joint’ on Brattle Street, a restaurant and bar with creative Mediterranean cuisine, great cocktails and a mildly exotic atmosphere
October 22 at 12:07pm
In the “freaky coincidence” category, I got email from a former co-worker this morning. He lives in Pentagon City and was telling me about this great Greek restaurant where he had dinner last night. You can guess where that was…
Phil October 22 at 12:10pm
It’s a small small world

Phil October 22 at 12:13pm
Having greek tonight at the beach. Yummy.
October 22 at 12:26pm
Ooh! They have a FB page. And a huge menu. Looks like all the right stuff – the taramosalata caviar dip. I love the avegolemono chicken soup. and they have loukoumades – little donuts – very rare and special! I’ve only seen those at the church festivals. Wow.
October 22 at 12:26pm
Maybe you can ask if they have galactobureko in the back. 🙂
Phil October 22 at 12:28pm
Cool! Never been there. I’ll let u know how it was!
October 22 at 2:16pm
Very quiet here… chatting about weekend plans. 
October 22 at 4:48pm
Soooo good to talk to you!  I love it when you tell me about cool places you’ve been.  I looked up Punta Arenas – It’s in Chile. Google maps has lots of photos of the casino and various places around town. Wicked cool. Thanks for “taking me” there. So great to hear your voice. And your stories. Thanks for giving me a new association for German Shepherds! Sorry if I kept you from the football news for too long. But it made my day! Heading out to the bar… smiling. Hope the Greek food makes for a great evening!
October 22 at 10:00pm
I can’t believe I’m sending this. Did you ever think there would be a woman who would? The bit about the Saint Bernard makes me giggle very time. Hope it gives you a chuckle. 

This clip is from a concert by DaVinci’s Notebook in December of 2003. Sadly, they’re not officially together anymore, but if you enjoyed this, you’ll enjoy Paul and Storm who are touring together and can be found at http://www.paulandstorm.com/

Phil October 25 at 10:55am
Now this video was funny! I loved it!
October 25 at 3:03pm
What a difference an “a” makes! *cough*

Captain's Wife's Lament

Friday feeding
Between Phil and You
October 22 at 11:40am
Good morning! Happy Friday! It’s cold here today – only 47 degrees right now. But clear and beautiful. I’m noticing how some of the trees have turned colors and are already losing their leaves, with the one next to them still green. Ah, the vagaries of nature!
Phil October 22 at 11:44am
Cool here too! Feels great! Got a wedding this weekend, more house cleaning too. No football, bye week :(. Getting ready to head out.

October 22 at 11:47am
Call me while you’re driving? Please?
My co-workers are going out for a drink after work today and invited me along to Casablanca, a Moroccan bar, for tapas.
Casablanca is Harvard Square’s legendary ‘neighborhood joint’ on Brattle Street, a restaurant and bar with creative Mediterranean cuisine, great cocktails and a mildly exotic atmosphere
October 22 at 12:07pm
In the “freaky coincidence” category, I got email from a former co-worker this morning. He lives in Pentagon City and was telling me about this great Greek restaurant where he had dinner last night. You can guess where that was…
Phil October 22 at 12:10pm
It’s a small small world

Phil October 22 at 12:13pm
Having greek tonight at the beach. Yummy.
October 22 at 12:26pm
Ooh! They have a FB page. And a huge menu. Looks like all the right stuff – the taramosalata caviar dip. I love the avegolemono chicken soup. and they have loukoumades – little donuts – very rare and special! I’ve only seen those at the church festivals. Wow.
October 22 at 12:26pm
Maybe you can ask if they have galactobureko in the back. 🙂
Phil October 22 at 12:28pm
Cool! Never been there. I’ll let u know how it was!
October 22 at 2:16pm
Very quiet here… chatting about weekend plans. 
October 22 at 4:48pm
Soooo good to talk to you!  I love it when you tell me about cool places you’ve been.  I looked up Punta Arenas – It’s in Chile. Google maps has lots of photos of the casino and various places around town. Wicked cool. Thanks for “taking me” there. So great to hear your voice. And your stories. Thanks for giving me a new association for German Shepherds! Sorry if I kept you from the football news for too long. But it made my day! Heading out to the bar… smiling. Hope the Greek food makes for a great eve
ning!
October 22 at 10:00pm
I can’t believe I’m sending this. Did you ever think there would be a woman who would? The bit about the Saint Bernard makes me giggle very time. Hope it gives you a chuckle. 

This clip is from a concert by DaVinci’s Notebook in December of 2003. Sadly, they’re not officially together anymore, but if you enjoyed this, you’ll enjoy Paul and Storm who are touring together and can be found at http://www.paulandstorm.com/

Phil October 25 at 10:55am
Now this video was funny! I loved it!
October 25 at 3:03pm
What a difference an “a” makes! *cough*