Pressing myself into you

Thursday, October 31, 2013
From: Sassy 
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Wednesday, October 30, 2013 9:50 PM
Subject: Thursday thinking
Hiya hot stuff!  Hope you’re having a good week.  
FYI – I am off work tomorrow, at home. You are welcome to call me… 
or chat online or stop by? *wink
-Sassy
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From: The Lawyer
To: Sassy 
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 11:33 AM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
heythere– how are you??   resting up after all that baseball?
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From: Sassy
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 5:53 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
I’m great!  Spent the day unearthing my desk at home.  Fun fun… parking ticket from July.  Oops.  Credit card I never activated.  Ah well! 
Happy Halloween! 
-S
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From: The Lawyer
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 5:58 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
and to you!!
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From: Sassy
To: The Lawyer
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 6:07 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
You have to go home, I suppose?  Couldn’t “get lost” in the wilds of Boston tonight? *wink
-S
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From: The Lawyer
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 6:20 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
wish I could!!   but I am due home relatively soon, and still have some drudgery here!
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From: Sassy 
To: The Lawyer 
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 6:29 PM
Subject: Re: Thursday thinking
Ah well… another time.  
Think of me as you drudge.  Press me up against a wall and have you way with me!  Mwah! 
-S
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From: The Lawyer
To: Sassy
Sent: Thursday, October 31, 2013 6:40 PM
Re: Thursday thinking
mmmmm… the thought of pressing myself into you is a delightful one, indeed!

Rooting

Thursday, October 31, 2013
6:43pm
Happy Halloween!  Hope you’re having a spooky night!
6:51pm Phil
You too! Have my second interview for a fancy job in DC. Would make my year to land that
6:51pm
Fingers crossed for you!
6:51pm Phil
Closer to home, great town.
Thanks, great money and lots of friends around town
6:52pm
Would you go back to being a “geographic bachelor?”
6:54pm Phil
No, my wife hates DC but she will go.  Has no intention of working.
I’d like to live on the river or maybe in Maryland
6:54pm
Interesting work?  Nice people?
6:55pm Phil
Interesting work and I have friends there
If I get the job, there will be a very expensive bottle of scotch to celebrate. The job involves travel and I like that.
6:57pm
That’s a civilian position?
Sounds like what you did before…
7:00pm Phil
It is a civilian position that pays well. I can survive on that and my retirement which is about the same
Will keep me in decent cigars and scotch anyway
Similar to what I have done before
7:01pm
Survive?  Ha ha
7:02pm Phil
It’s expensive in DC!
There will be Thai and Greek
7:02pm
Will they send you to New England ever?
7:03pm Phil
Gotta get the job 1st. It’s down to two of us
Yup
Lobsta!
7:03pm
Right.  I’ll pray!
7:05pm Phil
I have no clue what people make. My retirement pay will be about $xxx. Is that good money these days? I have no clue. It’s what a zillion years in the military and some luck got me
7:06pm
It’s big
I make half that
7:07pm Phil
I just assume most people make the same
7:07pm
some people make a lot more…
for the work you’ve done, it seems low
But you also got housing and stuff
7:10pm Phil
I’m a little out of touch. I think my taxes are going to suck with the addition of the job. I’ll get 95% of what I make now plus about the same or so from another job. I’m never going to be rich but I hope to be comfortable. Got no debt
I’ll be able to pay for a lobster dinner anyway
7:11pm
: )
7:11pm Phil
Gotta find another cool place to eat
7:12pm
I need to take you to The Boat House in Tiverton… sooo good
7:12pm Phil
If I get the job I’ll get there
7:13pm
: )
7:13pm Phil
Congrats on the Sox by the way! Happy that they won
7:13pm
MIght also tell a gal if she could meet you on one of your trips…
7:13pm Phil
Ahhh
7:13pm
Thank you.  I appreciate that!
What a wacky Series….
Did you see any of it?
7:14pm Phil
Yeah but a great one
Oh yeah, rooting for the Sox the entire time
7:14pm
Interference by a prone guy?  Walk-off pick-off… beat out a pickle!
I am shocked!
7:14pm Phil
Fun baseball
Gotta root for the American League
And I love Fenway Park and Boston fans
The city deserved it
Now the Patriots, never
Ever, fucking ever
7:17pm
Heh… it did seem like a fitting lid to put on all the crap after the bombing
And they made it so fun with the beards and all
and Big Pappi and Uehara…
7:25pm Phil
It was fun. Good for Boston
7:30pm
Still talking to the beach gal?
7:47pm Phil
Yeah but there are issues. Would unravel my family, she hangs at the dive bars near her house and they are nasty, drinks too much. Fun and carefree but with a lot of uncertainty. My Mom calls my wife “my princess” and not in a good way. The entire “she’s retired” thing makes my blood boil. I cook, clean, buy flowers. She flops in, eats dinner, pours her wine and then flops on the couch. I remain conflicted
7:48pm
I hear you.  Thanks for the update.  It is sooo good to talk with you!

Teeth are fine

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

2:28pm
Waiting for a dental cleaning.  Yippee.  
Do wish you could check out the results with your tongue…
2:29pm Phil
Ha ha, I have, your teeth are fine
2:30pm
You causing trouble today?
2:45pm Phil
Not I, flying below the radar
3:37pm
Done with dental hygienist.  All clean! Mmm….

Greg’s good bye

Monday, October 28, 2013 
I finally heard back from Greg yesterday after ten days of silence.  I was glad to hear from him and doubly glad to be let off the hook!!
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From: Greg
To: Sassy 
Sent: Sun, Oct 27, 2013 2:50 PM
Re: Connection
Hello Sassy-
I have been meaning to write. 
About a week ago I received an e-mail from a woman I had been in dialogue with for several weeks.  The exchange ended abruptly about 6 weeks ago.  I thought she went in a different direction, however, turns out she had a serious misfortune in her family that consumed her over the past many weeks.  We agreed to meet this week.  I haven’t been back to you because I really don’t want to be going in multiple directions at once; and, given the history with this other woman, I feel compelled to ride it out to see if it is the right situation.
I hope you are well, and understand.
g
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From: Sassy
To: Greg
Sent: Mon, Oct 28, 2013 10:53 AM
Re: Connection
Hiya Greg! 
Happy Monday!  Thank you for your email!  I appreciate it so very much.  You are so good to let me know.  I do like knowing what’s up!   I understand completely.  You are by far the best gentleman I have met.  I wish you all the best with this lady!  
-S

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I’m sad because he was a super-nice man, but it’s such a relief that I don’t have to figure out how to keep from making him sneeze.  Or deal with it if he does!  It took me awhile to craft a response… hope I didn’t sound to happy at the prospect of not seeing him again!  Ah well… back on the shelf for me!

Maine day with cake

Saturday, October 26, 2013
12:39pm Phil
Recognize this dude?
[photo of some guy with blood on his face and vampire teeth leering]
8:00pm
Hubby and I went up to Maine for our anniversary, had an amazing dinner in Ogunuit!

Nubble Lighthouse, York, Maine

 Scalloped wrappd in bacon with maple syrup 
Barnacle Billy’s, Ogunquit, Maine

 Lobster Stew 

 The garden salad that comes with the dinners 

 Lobster saute

Chocolate fudge cake with a glass of milk 

11:09pm

Ewww! Who is that monster vampire?
1:30am Phil
LOL. My brother never looked so good

Back rub

Friday, October 25, 2013
6:34pm
Hiya kid!  Hope your weekend is off to a great start.

I’m home alone, looking at p0rn, like I do.  Here’s a sweet one for you.  It should move! Hugs!

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