Loyal Nine Again

January 3, 2016 Sunday
Loyal Nine rocks! I took Hubby to try it this time.  The staff was entirely different, the food varied, but still fantastic!
The sourdoughnut (twice the size of last Sunday) 
Crunchy home fries
Lobster popover
Hubby’s lean pork loin and cheese sandwich (new today) 

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Thai, tit and toy

October 17, 2015 Saturday
Lunch with Mom – My soup and salad rolls lunch at Thana Thai Kitchen, a new place in Arlington

5:36pm Phil 

[photo of him toasting the camera with a beer in a restaurant]

5:37pm Phil 
Hey girlie!

Hiya kid!  Looking good!

5:38pm Phil 
Relaxing day, gonna build a fire and enjoy the cool evening

Yay!  I got things done… lunch with Mom, moved cacti inside, bank, pharmacy, changed a bunch of recurring payments to a new credit card, cancelled my long distance service… whee!

Do you still have a landline?

5:52pm Phil 
Yeah but not after we move. It came bundled with the Internet

My theory is to spend a month paying attention to who calls us using it and then decide… would be so nice to stop getting the daily call from the interest rate spammers.

6:08pm Phil 
I never ever use my land line, just my cell


Yeah…we get inbound calls mostly spam

6:17pm Phil 


7:37pm Phil 

[photo of his backyard with a fire going and a scotch]

Awww… you’re set.  
Wish I was there to rub your feet.

8:04pm Phil 
Ooooh, me too


And other things…

8:05pm Phil 

Even better!


You gonna watch the Cubs/Mets?
I learned what “Flying the W” means today!

8:06pm Phil 
Yup! Rooting for the Cubbies

One of my project peeps is a radio DJ in Chicago now.  And works for the Cubs in the stadium.  Her FB is a hoot right now.

Do you trash talk with the hometown folks?

8:18pm Phil 

I’ll bet!  Nah just talk trash with my brother


Of course!

Seems like the stats favor Cubs

8:34pm Phil 

Will see


[full frontal photo of me framed in my mirror]

8:43pm Phil 

Well damn! Wow!

Boy did my cock just jump to attention


See me?

8:44pm Phil 

Oh Yeah.



can you touch it?

8:45pm Phil 
I am touching it


I’m playing

8:46pm Phil 

Show me.  Wanna see.  All the blood in my body shifted south



Damn, hot


Mmmm, that looks like it feels good

Like to have my face between those thighs


Want to feel the beard there

8:55pm Phil 
Mmmm, I’ll lick where the toy isn’t


Press that buzzing toy on my clit, then roll it up and down…mmm

8:56pm Phil 

My pleasure, watch your hips start to buck

Watch your pussy get wetter and wetter

Flick your clit with my tongue and gently suck on it

Long licks from your ass to your clit and back

9:03pm Phil 

[photo of his erect cock from the side while he’s standing up]

You could watch me drip…taste me
Oh sexy!

9:04pm Phil 

Love to lick up those sweet juices


Watching naughty vids

9:05pm Phil 

Watch those juices run down your ass, licking them up


Pick up,  outside…

9:06pm Phil 


 Umm hot, came on her face

Be fun to watch them together and play



I watch and think of us

9:12pm Phil 


Still think it would be hot to get frisky in a theater, people watching as they rub their hardening cocks


Oh my
Came…searing heat to my toes!

9:24pm Phil 

My cock in your hand, my fingers in your pussy, your tits exposed, people watching stroking their cocks


Naughty man



9:24pm Phil
Uh huh

What can I say.

Glad you got off. Always happy to help with that


You make it so easy…

I struggle along by myself forever.  You talk to me and BOOM!

Hee hee

9:30pm Phil 

Must have been doing it in public in full view of others while they played along

Or me tongue fucking your ass while the toy vibrated away in your pussy

Sexy hot girl


Burning man

9:40pm Phil 

That’s a good thing!


Oh yeah

9:41pm Phil 
I’m thinking it might feel good to have a tongue in your ass and a toy on your clit

What if one of those guys walked up behind you stroking his cock and reached over to squeeze a nipple


Just you…touching me

9:44pm Phil 

I would tell him no

Watch but no touching

Only have eyes for you. And your sexy parts…

9:46pm Phil 

I’m not into sharing, always been possessive like that. Been watched a time or two and watched others. That was hot

Chicken pasta

January 12, 2015 Monday
Great lunch out welcoming a new colleague!

 Chicken pasta @ Grafton Street Grille

Tell me you weren’t anywhere near the Metro in D.C. today?

9:34pm Phil
I was not but scary stuff. I go right through there when I do ride the train.

Appreciate the concern : ) : )
When they said one dead and D.C., I perked up!

9:42pm Phil

It was pretty bad

Sassy’s new bra and more

Monday, November 18, 2013
10:09am Phil
Good morning! Have a great week!

[photo of him coming out of the gym, with chin stubble]
10:24am Phil 
[photo of him just out of the shower]
Happy Monday!  Wow!  Look at that stubble!  SEXAY!  I can’t help but wonder how that would feel between my legs.  mmmm…. What’s new today?

3:45pm Phil 

Probably be scratchy, the tongue not so much.

Got another job offer, and lined up two more interviews next week.

Going well! I’d like to do DC for two or three years, and then shift to Fla. go to Mardi Gras and Flash my chest

That’s the fun part of this new part of your life.  You get to decide when you move!

Tongue?  Swoon.


Beignets — at Highland Kitchen.


You watching football? 
11:20pm Phil
Yeah! Loving it! Great game

Ha ha ha, this is great! Yes!

Bah Fucking Receiver

Geez, I can’t stand that QB but what a freaking competitor

He drives me crazy

11:35pm Phil
What a game, loved it
: )     
New dark blue bra

11:59pm Phil
I like it, like what’s under it better
it’s cotton…smooth…
you could feel my reactions thru it…before you see what’s under it!

12:03am Phil

Like to shove this between them
[photo of his gorgeous cock]
You always have the best ideas!
Let me get it nice and wet first?
12:05am Phil
Oh yeah, you could swallow it or take it deep and hard
Or both


Mmmm… lick… suck… swallow… first.  then ride you?

12:07am Phil
Mmm, I do love that tight pussy

Loved yanking your pants down and shoving my tongue inside you when you got to Washington that first time. Set the tone for the visit

I adored that.  Hottest moment of my life!
12:11am Phil
It was such fun and I knew you weren’t expecting that. That’s what we should have done at your house after camp, foolish to waste that opportunity as teenagers
Was actually thinking of that tonight… watching p0rn and the guy was munching on the woman… very similar style to you!
12:12am Phil
Ahhhh, I have much to learn but I’m enthusiastic
Got lots of energy too
Loved going out to eat with your pussy wet
Been in your mouth and pussy. Got a few places left
Just saying

Yes please!  I’ve learned a lot… hope it makes you soar.

12:17am Phil
Hand job under the table, tit fuck, love to gently pound your ass and have you return the favor

Still remember licking my fingers in the school bus. Yummy!


We can make all those fantasies real…
12:18am Phil
I’m game
I want to test your stamina.

12:20am Phil
I have lots of stamina,
Love to see what you’ve learned
Learned a lot about blow jobs.
12:21am Phil
You already knew how to take a cock down your throat, hot as hell
Can’t wait to experience what you learned

Not just sucking… licking… blowing… touching… looking into your eyes.

12:23am Phil

All important. I want you to look at me as you suck and lick and stroke my cock.

I want to cum between your tits, on your face, in your mouth, in your pussy and in your ass, think that covers it, maybe in your hand

I definitely want to see you cum.  Still haven’t seen that ever… feel it on my skin… watch it spurt spurt spurt!
12:27am Phil
I like that
I like to eat you while you chat,
Get that pussy so wet
You stroking?

12:30am Phil

Oh fuck yeah

12:31am Phil

[photo of him lying on the bed with his cock in his hand]
I am so wet… dripping.
You get to me every damn time!
12:32am Phil
Love it
Like to be licking that up

I want to be right there… between your legs, your hands in my hair, my mouth on you!

12:33am Phil
Mmmmm suck my cock

Here’s something for you to suck

[photo of my left nipple in my hand]
12:34am Phil
Rub that wet pussy
Mmmmm, love to be sucking that nipple
Rub your juices on it make it glisten

Bite it… twist it… mmmm

12:36am Phil

Oh yeah
Rub that pussy baby
Get it ready for my cock
It… itches… tingles… aches for you.
12:39am Phil
Show me baby            
I’m going to put it right in your face!
Move back and forth over that beard…

12:41am Phil

Mmmmm yeah, rub it in my face


Mmmm… slide over that face…
then slide over your gorgeous cock… back and forth… teasing, tantalizing…
then I’m going to bounce until my cunt is full of it!
12:45am Phil
[photo of his hand with a white sticky substance on his fingers]


Oh my dear man… I want to lick that!  Rawr…

12:48am Phil
What a nice end to a day


Agreed.  Sleep well sweet man!
It is so fun playing with you!
12:49am Phil
Fun playing with you too!


[a hot black and white photo of a couple having sex doggie style]
12:50am Phil

G’night kid.  Hope you have sexy dreams.

1:02am Phil
Nite Sass


Saturday, September 7, 2013

Smile of the day. Horses being good to each other.  : )



Good morning kid!  I liked last night’s baseball game too. 
Off to Mom’s for lunch and doing her pills.  Beautiful day here!  Whee!  Have a super Saturday!
2:06pm Phil
Tasting wine! Enjoy the day!
Yay wine!
Off to RI for dinner at The Boat House!  You know what I’m going to eat!

Baked stuffed lobster with cheese risotto 
@ The Boat House, Tiverton, RI
7:18pm Phil
Oh my! Looks amazing!

AM men so far

January 1, 2013

Happy New Year!

I am feeling a little better this morning – regrouping, taking stock of where I am and trying to figure out where I am going.  I feel done with Ashley Madison but don’t see a clear alternative.  Here’s a quick summary of my contacts since I joined AM in mid-September:

  • 10 men contacted me that I replied to 
  • 6 Met 
  • 3 Had sex with (2 good, one bad)
  • 8 Gone
  • 2 Still talking (Mr Truck and Panties Man)

Month            Met       Status Comments


   #1                   No        Gone    Guilt king, stood me up

   The Lawyer     Once     Gone     Regular guy, so sweet, too busy to cheat

   Dancing Man    Once     Gone     Regular guy, One and done without a word

   Panties Man     Once     Active   Kinky, sweet, too busy to cheat

   The Professor   Once     Gone     Vanilla, erudite, lunch and silence


   Mr Truck          No       Active     Email king, porn king, kinky


   Speedy             Once     Gone      Selfish, shorter, thinner, one and done

   Period Man       No         Gone      Too many periods!


   SmoothGuy       No        Gone     Nice guy, said he won’t cheat

   Volt                Once     Gone     Great guy, generous, guilty

A Month on AM

Saturday, October 13, 2012
[from my private journal]
My month on AM 
I have gone off the deep end into online dating! 
I was in a terrible funk on Sunday night, September 16.  I was in chat with {a lady}, who patiently listened to a rare whine from me about how both my guy and my husband forgot my birthday.  And how it’s been a year since I saw my guy with no prospect to see him again… don’t know if he’d even make arrangements if he was going to be close by or not.  She suggested signing up for online dating.  I resisted.  Mostly because I think no man would want me if I was even close to honest about my height and weight.  The last thing I need is more rejection!  
But she said they would want me.  And to give it a try.  That it would cheer me up.  Even if I never met anyone, just put up a profile and enjoy the attention.  So before I could lose my nerve, I opened a new Yahoo mischief email account, slapped together a profile and put it up there.  I showed it to a couple of the chat denizens, made sure I didn’t say anything stupid.  
The first couple of days 73 guys looked at my profile!  13 winked me and 2 emailed.  I wrote back to the two who emailed, and three of the winks that interested me, so there were 5 guys in play.  Not a tsunami, but I only need one!  All these men are 6’2″ tall and around 200 pounds.  I’d like someone beefier but not finding him. 
1) AM #1
The first guy who emailed me was incredible!  I adored him and we messaged a lot.  Then he disappeared and I was crushed.  I know, I’m an idiot.  But I felt something.  I waited a couple of days, then contacted three guys who had winked me.  
He reappeared after awhile, said he had backed off because he really liked me.  WTF?!  He had not cheated yet, despite having met 7 women, and was afraid I’d be “the one who would make him cheat.”  People said this is a familiar brush off.  But I wrote him back anyway, offered to talk it out with him or only flirt online, whatever.  He wrote back with a photo!  Somewhere between Greg Kinnear and Tom Hanks.  He set up a meet.  Which he postponed.  But rescheduled.  Then postponed.  But I still feel such a connection!  So we’ll see!
2) The Lawyer
Think Sam Waterston – educated, charming urbane senior partner… we used to work at the same firm at different times!  We had a lovely lunch and he told me he wanted more! Wow!  I AM WANTED! We had a delicious kiss in the afternoon sunshine and he asked me to email him.  I did.  We’ve been emailing and waiting for him to find time.  But I fear he is too busy.  Or he doesn’t really want me.  
3) The Dancing Man
Think Anderson Cooper –  intense, edgy and blunt.  Said he was coming off a 3 yr relationship and looking for another long term lady.  He invited me to a hotel room.  I angled for the bar instead.  We had a hysterical run-in with a brand new bartender who wouldn’t leave us alone, but ended up in his room being very nice to each other.  WOW!  and then I never heard another word from him.  I wrote a thank you note.  Nothing.  That stung.  But at least I got to play!  *sigh
4) The Professor
Brilliant, deep, polite and nervous. Well-educated.  Slow.  Careful.  Uses his real name.  Wants mine.  Showed him my chest instead.  He disappeared, then reappeared a week later.  Still negotiating.  
5) Panties Man
Think taller Michael J. Fox – super nice, focusing on finding a friend.  Met him last Friday, felt comfortable, kissed a little in my car.  He left after 30 minutes, so I assumed he didn’t like me.  Less than an hour later he wrote a long email saying how nice I was and he wanted more. 
Chatted online all weekend.  Saturday he told me he’s a switch – wants to dom me sometimes and have me dom him other days. Hmm… Monday he told me he likes to wear ladies underwear.  and wants to be yelled at and called a sissy for doing it.  Like his mother did. So if I had tried to give him a blow job on Friday, I would have found lace and flowers!  I can deal with silky fabric but NO! I can NOT be mean… just… NO.  I feel bad that I can’t help him, but NO.  I told him that but he is still writing.  Ugh.   Need advice on how to make him stop wasting both our time.  Everyone said just run.  But one friend told me ways to play with him, to make his life fun and not be too tough for me.  Assign him tasks.  So I tried a little of that.  It was strange but wild and fun!  And he appreciated it so much!  
So I have three maybes – The Lawyer, The Professor and AM #1.  None of them are particularly chasing me, though they whine if I don’t write back. Even the best one doesn’t click with me the way bloggers or chatters do, but they are local! 
Tuesday night I was talking about AM in chat when someone mentioned another site online, Private Affairs [the site has disappeared since].  I signed up and found four pages of men in this area.  There is less focus on stats and more in info I want to know.  You can look without signing up, which is lovely.  I winked all the men over 6 feet – three of them. I’ve already heard back from one!  So maybe some fun in that direction.  But he’s awfully droll.  
This doesn’t feel like where I want to be but I am learning a lot about what I want and maybe this will get me somewhere better?

Stay tuned!

Dancing Man postscript

If you missed the posts about my meeting the Dancing Man, start here
Post-coital thoughts 
It is so stunning to be wanted!!!!
And for men to do nice things for me and pay for lunch or a hotel room to get me!  And they are nice, smart, sexy, beautiful men!  I can get online and find a man, get to know him and be in bed with him less than two weeks later!  Why didn’t I do this YEARS AGO? 
Sex with a stranger.  A new milestone.  Of a dubious nature.  I certainly feel a long way from the mundane old married woman I’d rather be.  But it is so lovely to have physical release, to meet a new man, to feel that calm and confidence.  I can please a man even if I don’t have romantic feelings for him.  He can please me!  
I am learning that the rules are different in the EMR world (extra-marital relations).  It’s not about forever or going places together or children or whatever other long term things we think of on the marriage track.  It’s about searching for what you want, enjoying each other for as long as it works.  Reaffirming your sexuality and desirability, physical satisfaction, experimentation, passion.  This week feels like a big fork in the road.  This is not where I want to stay, but I hope it is moving me to where I want to be and giving me the tools to get there.


I waited 90 minutes after we parted to see if he’d write, but no.  I sent him a short email – two sentences of thanks for the drink and all that followed.  No response.  Nothing today.  It is the weekend but… hmmm.  It is not going to surprise me if this was a one night stand.  and I am amazingly calm about that. I suppose it is the lack of emotional connection between us, and the possibility of other men.
So… I  never heard another word from him.  Not one word.  That was tough. I HATE SILENCE!
I spent a long time wondering if there was something wrong with me.  I was puzzled that I thought it went so well and he didn’t think it was even worth one email more.  I wondered if that had been his plan all along, or if something I did or said changed him from a “seeking something long-term” into a one-and-done man?  
Note to gentlemen – even if you have made up your mind that you don’t want to see me again – write one email.  Thank me, say it was fun, but I’m not the one, best of luck.  Don’t make silence the capstone of our encounter.  

The New Bartender Part 2

You can find Part 1 here

The question

He asked how long since I had some dick.  I answered six months, smiling at the thought of my idyll with Simon Templar.  He rolled his eyes and said, “Let’s fix that, right now.”  He leaned toward me, and whispered, “Yes?”

The answer
The bartender came back to check on us.  “Another drink?  Some snacks?  Can I recommend a nice place for dinner?”  He shook his head and I thought he was going to strangle her.  He dug his fingers into my arm to keep from smacking her.  I turned my back to her and leaned toward him, whispering, “Patience” in his ear.  She got the hint and walked away.  He stared and raised an eyebrow, imploring me to answer his question.  I whispered back. “Yes!”

His smile was very wide and he winked at me.  He asked for the check, paid in cash and we went upstairs.  He mentioned that we should be careful in the open spaces as he knows people around here.  I asked if he wanted to go up first but he said just no touching.  He had a room on the seventh floor.  I set my bag and raincoat down on the sofa.  He had already checked in, turned down the bed, his blue blazer over the desk chair, his laptop on the desk.  

Being very nice to each other
He came up behind me, started kissing my neck and turned me around for lots of kissing while he twisted my nipples.  I was moaning into his mouth, touching his head and neck.  He took off everything above my waist in record time, while I unbuttoned his shirt.  There was that fabulous first skin-to-skin hug.  [Note to self: look for heavier guys.  These 6′ 2″ 200 pounders are too skinny!]  He moaned and rubbed all over… arms, back, ass, holding my head and kissing more.  He had white fuzz on his upper chest… I’ve never seen that before!
He sucked on my nipples and squeezed my ass, told me how gorgeous I am, how he loves big tits.  He has a very bold, experienced touch.  I was extremely turned on and started to cum.  He held me and bit my neck, marveling as I trembled.  I told him he was good at what he was doing but he scoffed and said it was just my long time without any.  I told him not to underestimate his talent.  I was having trouble standing up, so I asked if we could lie down.  
We moved to the bed.  I sat on the edge.  He took off the rest of his clothes.  He had on Hilfiger black bikini briefs with a very sexy bulge.  He helped me take off my slacks and underwear.  He had talked online about taking off my clothes slowly and kissing as he went, but that didn’t happen.  He was standing in front of me, so I reached out and touched his cock.  He is cut, and trimmed.  I kissed the tip and blew on it, he moaned and I gave him a sassy blow job!  I was channeling the videos I’ve watched, trying to mimic them – licking from bottom to top, circling the top, sucking him in and out, making smacking, sucking sounds then seeing how deep I could go.  He said he is 7 inches, less wide than some I’ve tasted, and I can deep throat that with some concentration.  I can’t hold it for long because the gag reflex sets in, which disappoints me but he liked that sound.  He talked through it, telling me how great I was doing, how wonderful it felt, moaning… I looked up into his eyes like a good girl.   I told him I felt rusty, that I would get better with practice and he moaned saying much better and he would be in big trouble.  He still had trouble staying hard, but I would work him with my hand and he’d perk back up, then I’d gobble him down again.  He let me control it, even at the most intense moments, which is unusual in my experience, and gave me confidence that I was doing it right.  
He stopped me at a certain point… and flattened me out on the bed asking me what I wanted next.  I asked him to reciprocate.  He put a pillow under my hips and crawled between my legs.  He has a very talented tongue but was rather rough and fast, going straight for the clit.  I slowed him down a bit, and lay there squirming and moaning. Just as I was going to ask for his fingers, he read my mind and put them inside me… one, then two, then three… commenting on how tight I was and that he was going to stretch me a bit.  He didn’t curl them and I was about to request that but I came hard and couldn’t talk.

He went off to the bathroom briefly… I wasn’t really paying attention but I think he wiped his face and rinsed his mouth.  I sucked on him a little more when he returned.  Again, trouble staying hard.  I haven’t run into that before… not a big problem, just need tactics to work it and not make a big deal out of it.  

He grabbed the lube and a condom and we had a doggie style extravaganza.  My first lube!  Not sure why he wanted the lube… I was soaked.  Maybe he is used to that with someone else?  He slapped my ass and my lower lips as he applied the lube.  When I made a nice sound at the latter, he did it again harder.  Hard enough to get my attention and get the nerves tingling but not too hard.  Very nice.  
The lube made for interesting sliding up and down my ass crack and inside me.  He rimmed my ass but didn’t try to go in.  He stretched out full on top of me, biting my neck – so wonderful to feel his weight on me!  He couldn’t stay in, so I inched back onto my knees to raise my ass.  He kneeled behind me and that worked much better.  He told me I have a tight, hot pussy… so good for him.  I liked this position for how it feels down below but hate that I can’t see or touch him with my hands.  I grabbed the sheets and tried to reach back to touch him but he told me to just enjoy this time.  
He did a few rounds of “push in, pull all the way out, tease the opening until I whimpered and then slam back inside” – so good.  I felt wonderfully full!  I asked him to describe what he was seeing so I would know what he was focusing on, and he did a good job.  He said watching his cock go in and out was very erotic.  He said he loves a nice ass and mine is!  He talked about my beautiful alabaster skin and my curly hair.  I slammed back against him and came again when he had hold of my ass and was slamming… the full feeling, sound of balls slapping my ass and a man moaning gets to me!  
Finishing Fantasy Fail
I had told him early on about my fantasy of wanting to see a man cum on me.  He remembered.  He flattened me on my back, crawled up with his knees around my chest, took off the condom, lubed up my tits and slid in and out between them.  He said it was almost as good as pussy but not quite.  I put two fingers on him to press down and provide some more action – he liked that a lot.  He said watching it slide and reappear near my chin was very hot.  He got very worked up and then asked if I was ready… did I want it on my chest or face or both?  I said both and to make sure some of it got into my mouth.  
At the last moment, he changed his mind!  WHAT?  He grabbed another condom and shoved himself back inside me.  He gasped and moaned, seemed very impressed, whispered… “So hot… hot…”  Wow.  I was cumming and shaking so hard, making a lot of noise.  The look on his face was so hot!  
There are so many variables that go into a first encounter, and so many ways to goof it up as two people try to figure out how to make each other cum.  This was definitely the easiest match I’ve had – almost business-like in it’s straightforward focus on pleasure and fun.  I wasn’t sure I could do without any romance… but the online chats helped and it was a great way to get back into play after so long.  
He collapsed next to me, whispering, “so hot… so… damn…. hot.”  I grinned my evil grin at him.  He rolled onto his side with his hand over my waist and closed his eyes.  I was full of energy, still roiling inside.  I explored his arms and chest and legs… learning his body.  He said something about “nothing like finding a hot woman under a shy lady’s exterior.”  He started to perk up and did this pinching thing to my nipples… made me moan and writhe.  I stared into his eyes.  He watched what he doing did to me, wiggling his eyebrows, goading me.  I bit my lip.  I really wanted him to mark me, but I held back as I don’t know who I will see next week!  I was disappointed that he is not able to go again.  It made me miss Philip – he can go and go and is never soft, but I know that is a rare gift.  
Cleaning up
He said he needed a shower.  I asked if he wanted help but he said he was running out of time and the stall was a bit small.  I sat on the toilet and he chatted while he washed the evidence down the drain, asking me questions about my projects and what I was doing this weekend.  I handed him a towel and we kissed more.  He was surprised I could go home without a shower, but I’d rather use my own bathroom and Hubby won’t notice or care.   
We chatted while we dressed.  I looked him over to make sure there was no sign.  I told him he was too far away and he hugged me again, more kissing.  We gathered our stuff and headed out.  He kissed me in the elevator.  We strolled out through the lobby three feet apart.  It was pouring rain. I put up my umbrella and he did the same.  He turned as we got outside to ask where my car was.   I pointed left and he nodded right and said take care! and was gone. 6 pm.

The New Bartender Part 1

Anderson Cooper

Here is my report on Dancing Man – my second AM meet!  

We were IMing all day while I slogged through payroll processing – revving each other up, re-checking the plan.  I sent him sexy tumblr links to get him going.  🙂  He actually sent me links back, which no other man has. 
We were scheduled to meet at 4:30 pm.  At 3:15 pm he pinged me to report that his last meeting of the day had been cancelled.  Could I get there earlier?  I checked to see if Hubby could bring me the car earlier.  He said sure, so he picked me up, I dropped him off at home and headed to the hotel.  I had seen a face shot and a full nude from the neck down, so I knew who I was looking for.  He also told me what he’d be wearing.
The meet
It was a dreary, rainy afternoon and people forget how to drive, so the traffic was awful and I was 15 minutes late, right at 4 pm.  I emailed him from a stoplight to tell him I was on my way.  He told me to meet him in the bar.  There was a man in the lobby leaning against a column reading his phone who looked like it might be him but I walked right past him, and didn’t figure it out for a few seconds.  Just as I turned to backtrack, he was there in the doorway.  I gave him a quick hug and he led me to the bar.  He had on a light blue dress shirt and grey dress pants.  I wore dark blue pants, a lighter blue top and scarf that match my eyes, white underwear with black dots all over and… my lucky black bra!  
He looks like a very trim Anderson Cooper, a “silver fox” with a buzz cut.  His face shot online is at least 10 years old. Not sure about his real job… sales something.  Sleeps with wife, but rarely.  Needs more.  Had been with a woman for 3 years, but they recently moved on and he says he is looking for another long term lady. 
The new bartender

There was no one else around.  We sat at the end of the bar.  There was a brand new bartender – first day – who wouldn’t leave us alone!  He asked what chardonnays they had by the glass, and she was looking at the red wines.  Ugh.  He told her it’s a white and she pulled out a bottle for him to look at.  I asked for iced tea.  She poured his wine and went in search of the tea.  She came back to say they didn’t have it.  So I ordered a diet coke with lime. She brought that and started asking us questions – where are you from?  What brings you to Boston?  How long will you be here?  I let him answer.  He put his hand on my arm and rolled his eyes at me.  
Not subtle
He is the opposite of the lawyer – very intense, edgy.  Not subtle, this one. When she finally left, he turned to me and said, “Wow.  I thought she would never leave!  What am I doing here?  I came here to fuck you!”

I was stunned that he wanted me.  He put my hand between his legs.  I put my hand on his upper leg and he chided me, “Higher!”  I sassed him back, “Patience.  I’ll get there…”  Very nice bulge there.   He said he was very turned on that I watch porn and had expressed interest in trying things.  He stared at me.  I stared back.  He asked how long since I had some dick.  I answered six months.  He rolled his eyes and said, “Let’s fix that, right now.”  He leaned toward me, and whispered, “Yes?” 

Tune in tomorrow for Part 2