300K



300,000… that is a BIG NUMBER!  I don’t see that number very often but I saw it this evening because my humble blog reached a major milestone sometime today.  It blows my mind.  While I was having a wacky day at work, someone clicked on my blog for 300,000th time!  Wowie zowie!  Was that you?  Thank you!

I so appreciate you reading and commenting, celebrating my best days with me, sticking with me when life is not great, and coming back to find out what wild adventure I get up to next!

I can’t tell anyone in my real life, so I hope you will celebrate with me! I’m doing the Sassy Happy Dance! 

It took me a long time (over two years) to get to 100,000 hits on March 3, 2014… 27 months.  And then another 17 months to get to 200,000!  It’s been just over a year since I hit 250,000.  

Here’s a fun graph from Blogger that shows my blog’s hits by month from December 2011 to now.  Nothing like a great graph!   Hard to believe it’s been almost six years since I discovered Riff Dawg’s sexy blog!  I spent the entire Thanksgiving weekend reading it and realizing I had to start sharing the story of my sex life with the entire internet!


Same Sassy Girl  ·  Stats  ›  Overview 

Many thanks to the top six sexy blogs that refer people to my blog.  These fantastic bloggers help me find my way in this corner of the blog world: 
Please pop in again soon for more Sassy shenanigans!  After quite a few months with very little action, the end of August will be more exciting with new men in my life!  Where will I go next?!  Will the Universe be kind?  Stay tuned!

Fifth Blogiversary!


Dear Readers,  

Same Sassy Girl is passing a major milestone today – five years of blogging.  Wow!  Time to celebrate!  Have a cupcake!  I got one for you! You can have some hugs with groping and… mmm… what was I talking about?  Oh yes!  FIVE YEARS!  YIKES!

  • Over 268,000 hits.  
  • Over 41,000 hits this year.
  • This is my 3,041st post!  
  • Whee!
Some days five years ago seems like forever – I have come so far, learned so much, seen so many bloggers cum and go.  Other times it still feels so shiny and new. How can it be five years?!  If you haven’t read about my humble beginning, please click “The Start” above and read about how I reconnected with my old flame and started on the road to Sassy-ness!  

I had no idea when I started this blog experiment I’d reveal all this crap strange and wonderful stuff.  I just wanted a seat at the table with the likes of Riff Dawg, Ryan Beaumont, Holly or Ms. I.  I figured I’d write for a month or two, tell people about Philip and me and then stop, like you do when you write a book.

Every post is still tough – I think… “can I do this?” I am half-excited and half-terrified every time I hit “Publish,” but telling my story seems worth it – remembering, recording, trying to make sense of it and sharing it.  I work so hard to entertain Philip and keep the connection open.  And I’ve met the strange and wonderful men from AM… have to tell you all about it!  I keep wondering how my story will turn out, but it’s still happening… and I hope still interesting to you!

I am astonished I have kept the blog a secret. It is strange not to share what I consider a major accomplishment with my real life friends and family, and to share so many feelings with you and none of the usual facts!   There are many of you I trust, but it’s simpler to stay anonymous.

This blog led me to so many fantastic blogs and the wonderful people who write them!  Be sure to check out my blog roll on the right.  I’ve learned so much about life, love, great sex, and myself.  I’ve connected with so many wonderful bloggers and other readers.  I hope you’ll join with me in hoping we all keep sharing for a long time!  In these strange days, the personal sexy stories are such a marvelous distraction from the world’s ills.

The best part, which I didn’t know about when I started writing, is the blogger community online. I am so happy to be part of it!  Where else can you talk with the likes of supportive and sensual Naughty Kitty?  Or the uber-sexy smart stud Advizor54 who has been blogging since February 2006 and still comes up with the hottest twisted fiction tinged with reality in the blogosphere?  And the amazing adventures of James from Break Out!

As the brilliant and beautiful Ryan Beaumont of “The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad” put it so beautifully in his four-year blogiversary post, [how freaky is that?!  We started posting on the same day, a year apart] blogging is “that little something extra we need to feel good about where we are in life.  Yeah, a little life lagniappe.” I hope to keep adding something extra to my life and yours for awhile longer! 

I’m still writing!  Wow!!  And you are still reading!  Wow!!!  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.  Your comments and emails make my day!

If you have a story to tell, join me!  Start blogging today!  Google’s Blogger is mostly easy and there are lots of us to help you get your words out there.  This could be your blogiversary next year!

Hugs with groping!

-Sassy

250,000K



250,000… that is a BIG NUMBER!  I don’t see that number very often but I saw it yesterday because my humble blog reached a major milestone.  It blows my mind.  Sometime Sunday afternoon while I was out and about, someone clicked on my blog for 250,000th time!  Wowie zowie!   Was that you?  Thank you!  

I so appreciate each of you who read and comment and celebrate my great days with me, sticking with me when life was not so great, and coming back to find out what wacky adventure I get up to next!

I can’t tell anyone in my real life, so I hope you will celebrate with me now! I’m doing the Sassy Happy Dance! 

It took me a long time (over two years) to get to 100,000 hits on March 3, 2014… 27 months.  And then another 17 months to get to 200,000!  Here’s a fun graph from Blogger that shows my blog’s hits by month from December 2011 to now.  Nothing like a great graph!   Hard to believe it’s been almost five years since I discovered Riff Dawg’s sexy blog!  I spent the entire Thanksgiving weekend reading it and realizing I had to start sharing the story of my sex life with the entire internet!


Same Sassy Girl  ·  Stats  ›  Overview 

Graph of Blogger page views
Huge thanks to the top seven blogs that refer people to my blog: 
Please pop in again soon for more Sassy shenanigans!  After quite a few months with very little action, August will finally bring some excitement and new men to my life!  Where will I go next?!  Will the Universe be kind?  Stay tuned!

Fourth Blogiversary!

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Dear Readers,  

Same Sassy Girl is passing a major milestone today – four years of blogging.  Wow!  Time to celebrate!  Have a cupcake!  I got one for you!  and two friends!  We could have a foursome and party and… wait… what was I talking about?  Oh yeah… my fourth blogiversary!

Some days four years ago seems like forever – I have come so far, learned so much.  Other times it still feels so shiny and new. How can it be four years?!  If you haven’t read about my humble beginning, please click “The Start” above and read about how I reconnected with my old flame and started on the road to Sassy-ness!  

I had no idea when I started this blog experiment I’d reveal all this crap strange and wonderful stuff.  I just wanted a seat at the table with the likes of Riff Dawg, Ryan Beaumont, Holly or Ms. I.  I figured I’d write for a month or two, tell people about Philip and me and then stop, like you do when you write a book.

Every post is still tough – I think… “can I do this?” I am half-excited and half-terrified every time I hit “Publish,” but telling my story seems worth it – remembering, recording, trying to make sense of it and sharing it.  I work so hard to entertain Philip and keep the connection open.  And I’ve met the strange and wonderful men from AM… have to tell you all about it!  I keep wondering how my story will turn out, but it’s still happening… and I hope still interesting to you!

I am astonished I have kept the blog a secret. It is strange not to share what I consider a major accomplishment with my real life friends and family, and to share so many feelings with you and none of the usual facts!   There are many of you I trust, but it’s simpler to stay anonymous.

This blog led me to so many fantastic blogs and the wonderful people who write them!  Be sure to check out my blog roll on the right.  I’ve learned so much about life, love, great sex, and myself.  I’ve connected with so many wonderful bloggers and other readers.  I hope you’ll join with me in hoping we all keep sharing for a long time!

  • 65 members. 
  • Over 220,000 hits.  
  • Over 2,500 posts.  
  • Whee!

I never realized there is a community online and that I could be part of it.  Where else can you talk with the likes of supportive and sensual Naughty Kitty?  Or the uber-sexy smart stud Advizor54 who has been blogging since February 2006 and still comes up the hottest twisted fiction tinged with reality in the blogosphere?  

As the brilliant and beautiful Ryan Beaumont of “The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad” put it so beautifully in his four-year blogiversary post, [how freaky is that?!  We started posting on the same day, a year apart] blogging is”that little something extra we need to feel good about where we are in life.  Yeah, a little life lagniappe.” I hope to keep adding something extra to my life and yours for awhile longer! 

I’m still writing!  Wow!!  And you are still reading!  Wow!!!  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.  Your comments and emails make my day!

If you have a story to tell, join me!  Start blogging today!  Google’s Blogger is mostly easy and there are lots of us to help you get your words out there.  This could be your blogiversary next year!

Hugs with groping!

-Sassy

200,000K

200,000… that a BIG NUMBER!  I don’t see that number very often but I saw it today because my humble blog reached a major milestone.  It blows my mind.  Sometime this afternoon while I was at the office, someone clicked on my blog for 200,000th time!  Wowie zowie!   Was that you?  Thank you!  I so appreciate you celebrating my great days with me, sticking with me when life was not so great, and coming back to find out what wacky adventure I get up to next!

I can’t tell anyone in my real life, so I hope you will celebrate with me now! I’m doing the Sassy Happy Dance!  Shimmy and stomp with me!  Woot!

It took me a long time (over two years) to get to 100,000 hits on March 3, 2014… 27 months.  And now it’s been another 17 months to get another 100,000!  Here’s a fun graph from Blogger that shows my blog’s hits by month from December 2011 to now.  Nothing like a great graph!   Hard to believe it’s been almost four years since I discovered Riff Dawg’s sexy blog!  I spent the entire Thanksgiving weekend reading it and realizing I had to start sharing the story of my sex life with the entire internet!


Thank you to each and every one of you who have clicked!  And read and commented and emailed!  It is so wonderful to be part of this community, our sexy little corner of the internet.  Huge thanks to the top seven blogs that refer people to my blog: 
 Please pop in again soon for more Sassy shenanigans!  August started off with sex in the cemetery.  Where will I go next?!  Is Kris gone forever?  Will Philip ever visit again?  Will Sassy get back on Ashley Madison?  Will the Universe be kind?  August is going to be a wild month!  


Third Blogiversary!!!

Wednesday, December 4, 2014 

Dear Readers,  
Same Sassy Girl is passing a major milestone today – three years of blogging.  Wow!  Let’s celebrate!  Have a cupcake!  I got one for you!  and a friend!  We could have a threesome and… wait… what was I talking about?  Oh yeah… my third blogiversary!

How can this integral part of my life be three years old?!  If you haven’t read about my humble beginning, please hit “The Start” above and see how I reconnected with my old flame and started on the road to Sassy-ness!  

I had no idea when I started this blog experiment I’d reveal all this crap strange and wonderful stuff.  Or that I’d still be doing it three years later.  I still look at every post and think… “can I do this?” I am half-excited and half-terrified every time I hit “Publish,” but telling my story seems worth it – remembering, recording, trying to make sense of it and sharing it.  I work so hard to entertain Philip and keep the connection open.  And I’ve met the strange and wonderful men from AM… have to tell you all about it!

I am astonished I have kept the blog a secret. It is strange not to share what I consider a major accomplishment with my real life friends and family, and to share so many feelings with you and none of the usual facts!   There are many of you I trust, but it’s simpler to stay anonymous.

This blog led me to so many other fabulous blogs!  Be sure to check out my blog roll on the right.  I’ve learned so much about life, love, great sex, and myself.  I’ve connected with so many wonderful bloggers and other readers.  I hope you’ll join with me in hoping we all keep sharing for a long time!

  • 65 members. 
  • Over 150,000 hits.  
  • Over 1,850 posts.  
  • Even a mention on Lola & HH’s list of “25 of the hottest female bloggers!”  I am not into thongs, booze or shoes, but I’ll take the honor! 
  • Whee!

I’m obeying the rules of the BGB award by telling you about three more female bloggers who write beautifully about sex and all their adventures: 
1) Naughty Kitty of “My Secret Life” who uses her sense of humor and sexy adventures to keep us  smiling.  She also ever so kindly hosts a forum where bloggers and cheaters can help each other in a very supportive community.  
2) Simplicity of “KISS – Keep It Simple, Sexy” for her straight-forward sharing of what she runs into as a single woman looking for a sexy man.  
3) Hypersexual Girl of “Love and Lust” who is in her seventh year of daily posting with the best links on a wide range of topics that are often days or weeks ahead of what everyone will be talking about.  

Special thanks to the ever-hot Advizor54 from “Free Advice is worth what you pay for it” and sexy stealth comedian Tom from “Three Spelling Mistakes” for running the weekly “Flash Fiction Friday” meme over the past year that kept challenging me and connecting me to so many great writers and readers.

As the handsome and talented Ryan Beaumont of “The Ashley Madison Adventures of a Regular Guy Gone Bad” put it so beautifully in his four-year blogiversary post, [how freaky is that?!  We started posting on the same day, a year apart] blogging is”that little something extra we need to feel good about where we are in life.  Yeah, a little life lagniappe.” I hope to keep adding something extra to my life and yours for awhile longer! 

I’m still writing!  Wow!!  And you are still reading!  Wow!!!  Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

Hugs with groping!

-Sassy

150K

Time to celebrate!  I’m doing the Sassy Dance again!  Shimmy and stomp with me!  Woot!
I can’t tell anyone in my real life, so I hope you will celebrate with me now!

My humble blog reached a major milestone today.  It blows my mind.  Sometime this afternoon while I was at the office, someone clicked on my blog for 150,000th time!  Wowie zowie!   Was that you?  Thank you!

Here’s a fun graph from Blogger that shows my blog’s hits by month from December 2011 to now.  Nothing like a great graph!   Hard to believe it’s been almost three years since I discovered Riff Dawg’s sexy blog!  I spent the entire Thanksgiving weekend reading it and realizing I had to start sharing the story of my sex life with the entire internet!


Thank you to each and every one of you who have clicked!  And read and commented and emailed!  It is so wonderful to be part of this community, our sexy little corner of the internet.  Huge thanks to the top seven blogs that refer people to my blog: 
I so appreciate you celebrating my great days with me, sticking with me when life was not so great, and coming back to find out what wacky adventure I get up to next!  Stay tuned for more Sassy shenanigans!

Sassy Answers: Changing words

Dear Readers,

A lot of you have a story to tell and write to ask me questions about what it takes to write a blog.   It’s a lot of work, but for many of us, writing is not an option.  I have to write.  I started a diary when I was twelve, and have been writing about my life and loves in various formats ever since!  Sharing it with THE ENTIRE INTERNET can be time-consuming and scary, but the rewards are wonderful.  I get to interact with other bloggers and readers!!  The questions can be quite specific, like this one:

Q.  In order to stay anonymous, do you replace words and edit out details when writing posts for your blog?

A.  Yes!

Everyone thinks of having to change names… but there’s more.  Names, locations, work details – here’s the list of nearly two dozen keywords for entries about my old flame that have to be changed for a start, and I catch others as I transfer them into posts.  Thank goodness for “find and replace” feature in my word processing program!

Actual                                 Gets replaced with

Philip’s real first name             Philip
Philip’s real nickname              Phil
My real first name                   Sassy
Phillip’s nickname for me         Sass
Another pet name for me         Sass
Philip’s wife’s first name           His wife or My wife
My husband’s first name           Hubby
My last name                           blank
Philip’s last name                     blank
Philip’s favorite football team    My team, his team      
Military buzz words                  military (or non-branch specific or edited)
Names/ranks of his bosses         Bigwigs
My employer’s name                 removed
My project                               edit
His branch of the military          edit
His children’s names                 edit or remove entire reference
His other family members         edit or remove entire reference
My other family members         Sis, niece or whatever
His other ladies’ names             Beach Gal or Fred
Our hometown name                our hometown
Where I live                             remove details to generic Boston
Where he lives                         fix it to something else like my area etc. 
Details of his work                    delete
Details of my work                    edit or delete 
My adventures with the AM men bring on a whole other list of changes!  It’s fun to come up with nicknames and re-spin their stories so even they would not recognize themselves!  
I try to keep the flow of the sentence but you can probably tell most of the time when I am changing and editing.  It makes me sad to take out some stories, especially about his great work for this country, or my cool projects, but they aren’t what this story is about.  And I want you to be able to fill in your details, make this about your people, so too many specifics don’t help with that.  Some diligence to cover my details makes it easy to share the sexy stuff!  
-Sassy