Philosophical Sneezy

October 14, 2015 Wednesday
From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 14, 2015, 7:45 AM
Subject: Lunch
Hello Sassy. Lovely beach Wingaersheek. 

My trip to Maine resulted in an unplanned, though not totally surprising, encounter with my friend of many years. Nothing intimate, but a jolt to our sensibilities nonetheless.
I think that there is some energy triggered when I think about starting another relationship which sends me back to the familiar well, causing me to question yet again: “and why didn’t it work out?”
We are strange creatures.
I am going to be near your beach today with a meeting in Ipswich. There is some estate there I am told I should visit. If I have time, I may take advantage of that on this beautiful day.
Hope you enjoy the day!

G

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Hmmm… he’s philosophical today.  Perhaps it explains why there is still nothing about getting together again.  Okay… I get it now.  Every once in awhile he needs… something.  And I can provide it somewhere during dinner or in my car and that’s it.  No sex.  Fine. It’s not what I need.  If he writes again, fine.  I’m not responding now.  *sigh


Late reply

October 13, 2015 Tuesday

From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 13, 2015, 9:42 AM
Subject: Lunch
Hiya G! Hope your Tuesday is going well, despite the drizzle.
My journal for last Tuesday said some very sexy things about you!  
Glad you got a break in Maine! I would go with you next time. 🙂 

I went up to Gloucester yesterday, walked on the beach at Wingaersheek at sunset. It was so perfect!  
Mwah!
-S


Sneezy smiles

October 8, 2015 Thursday

From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 8, 2015, 8:56 AM
Subject: Lunch
Thanks for the smile:) 

What was the Tuesday night entry??
I played hooky yesterday and spent the day and evening on the seacoast in Maine. What a jewel of a day!
Today looks like another. Will have to steal a walk through the public gardens at some point.
Enjoy the day Sassy!

G
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Hmmm… he didn’t say anything about getting together again.  

Maybe I will wait awhile to respond.  


Sneezy Sassy summary

October 7, 2015 Wednesday

During dinner last night, Sneezy asked me about the history of our interactions, and my history with AM, so I poked back through our emails and sent it to him. 
Since I don’t make him sneeze anymore, and with the way he looked at me with big puppy dog eyes, I had the feeling I would see him again very soon and we might finally get a room!  I wrote right back the next lunch time!  
I need a new nickname for him… 
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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 7, 2015, 12:00 PM
Subject: Lunch
Good morning G! Hope your Wednesday is off to a grand start.
You are such a class act. Thanks again for a lovely dinner, and the best “dessert” I’ve had in a long while. I melted at your note. If I was going to make a manual for “what AM men should do” I would include your note. 🙂
Here’s more concrete details on our history and mine!
1) April 2013 – You wrote to me. I don’t recall anything about that… I didn’t answer. No idea why.
2) Oct 7, 2013 – (Yes, that is TWO years ago!) You wrote to me again. I answered. We wrote back and forth. You were very brief. Didn’t feel right. 

I politely told you to go away. You wrote back anyway and you were so charming… I met you the next day.
October 11, 2013 – we met for coffee at Starbucks and sat outside chatting. You walked me to my car and I gave you a very Sassy bj.
October 13, 2013 – we met in the parking lot in Somerville. You were allergic to me!
I went a little wild my first year on AM. You were the 16th man I met, and the first one to see me again.
I calmed way down in my second year on AM… I got tested – all clear.  I spent 3 months with NH Man #1 and then 7 months with NH Man #2. I was “on the shelf” for a year after he left in early October 2014. I met a couple of guys for coffee in March but nothing came of it. (Pun intended) Hope that’s not too scary!
Have a great day!
-S


Meet #3 Seeing Sneezy

October 6, 2015 Tuesday

From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:12 AM
Subject: Lunch

Hello Sassy-
Thursday lunch should work. Also, I have a dinner tonight that I suspect will be cancelled. Should know by noon. Would you be available?
G
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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:16 PM
Subject: Lunch
Good morning G!
Tonight could work. Where when if we do? Or Thursday lunch is fine. 

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:21 AM
Subject: Lunch

How about 6 at PF Changs at the mall?

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:25 AM
Subject: Lunch
Sounds good. I’ll look for confirmation later. Have a super Tuesday! 

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:29 AM
Subject: Lunch

Be back to you. 

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:33 AM
Subject: Lunch

What do you want to happen G? When you think of seeing me, what are you envisioning? 

Sent from Yahoo Mail on Android
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 8:59 AM
Subject: Lunch
I think first, about what a great kisser you are.

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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 9:05 AM
Subject: Lunch

And you lovely lady?

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 10:57 AM
Subject: Lunch
I think of your hands…
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 11:17 AM
Subject: Lunch
Wish they were in you right now. 🙂

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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 12:18 PM
Subject: Dinner Tonight

Confirmed. 🙂

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 12:21 PM
Subject: Dinner Tonight
Hooray!  So… 6 pm at PF Chang’s.  See you there! 
-S
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I met Greg at PF Chang’s.  I parked on the upper level and made my way to the restaurant right on time.  He was pacing back and forth outside, waiting for me!  We had a great hug.  He is much thinner than the last time I saw him!  
We went inside and I asked for a quiet table for two.  We had the best table yet – against the back wall with no one around!  I sat in the banquet and he sat very close to me the chair perpendicular.  
We did not touch.  I had washed my hands and face just before leaving home, but I was afraid to touch him again because he was so allergic to me last time his eyes swelled shut!  And I wasn’t sure what he wanted.  I had thought he just wanted someone to talk to about the Ashley Madison data breach mess, but when I asked him in email what he wanted he talked about me being such a great kisser. 
So we chatted and ordered drinks and dinner. I had my usual strawberry cucumber limeade and he ordered a particular gin straight up with two olives!  I’ve never seen anyone drink gin straight.  
I asked if he had a time limit – he said no.
He got an eggplant tofu dish and I got the fried shrimp with melon and walnuts.  He is very curious and asks good questions, so it was easy to talk with him.  He asked a lot about the AM data breach, had I heard of blackmail emails, what to do about them, what to do if he is outed… I told him what I’d read on various forums and in chat, urged calm.  He had used his real credit card when he set up his account.  He doesn’t worry much about his wife finding out about his online adventures, but from a business perspective it could be bad.  But we agreed it has died down more quickly than we thought.  We are both surprised the company still exists.  It may get to be the most secure site on the net now. 
We talked about our two meets two years ago.  He thought it was a year ago!  I looked it up on my calendar on my phone… he was astonished I keep track.  I told him all the details I recall… met at Starbucks, sat outside, sat in my car the first time.  Second time in my car in a parking lot.  Whee!  He had forgotten he was allergic to me.  Fascinating.  
We talked about my open marriage and his don’t ask/don’t tell.  I had not remembered he had that arrangement.  That makes life so much easier!   We talked about our expectations and I described my wanting passion and fun – I do not want love.  I am not looking for another husband.  I don’t care what he does when he is not with me, as long as he is safe.  We talked about my toys.  He is not familiar with them but interested in learning.  He seemed much more serious about getting together in a hotel soon.   
He paid the bill then asked if I’d like him to walk me to my car.  We strolled through the mall talking about his grown children.  We got to my car and he jumped into the passenger seat and leaned over to kiss me.  I put my hand on his cheek and he moaned in appreciation.  He admitted he dreams of my kisses.  And that he has not had sex in a year!  
He undid my top and pulled my breasts out of my bra.  He noted they make quite a site!  He pulled and twisted my nipples, then leaned over the bite and suck on them.  I put my hand between his legs to squeeze and press.  I unbuttoned his shirt, played with his nipples and rubbed around his chest.  
He slipped his hand down my pants and inside my panties, played with my clit.  He was a little rough, so I slowed him down.  It felt so good!  But it was too public to relax enough to cum. 
I sat forward when someone came by.  He rubbed my back.  That is so glorious!  We leaned together again for more kissing.  Then I sucked on his thumb.  We talked about what we did for our birthdays.  He had a family dinner.   We talked about 9/11.
I offered him a ride home.  He had biked over using the bike rental Hubway system!  I asked how that works… he said he pays $82 a year and can pick up a bike anywhere, ride anywhere there’s an automated rack and drop it off.  Usually faster than dealing with traffic, and good exercise! 
He let me take him to within a few blocks of his place.  I dropped him at a strip mall.  He gave me a quick kiss and sauntered off.  
He wrote me a very sweet note less than two hours later.  
THIS IS HOW IT’S DONE GUYS! 
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 6, 2015, 10:51 PM
Subject: Dinner Tonight
Thank you Sassy. You are good company. I like the way you think and express yourself. And your touch is delightful  🙂
G


Date searching

October 5, 2015 Monday

From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 5, 2015,12:45 AM
Subject: Lunch
Hiya G! 
Hope you had a great time with your visitors.  I had a fun night out with the project gang.  
Things are a little in flux and I need to check my work calendar.  Stay tuned and I’ll get back to you in the morning.  
-S
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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Oct 5, 2015, 3:49 PM
Subject: Lunch
Hi G!
Hope your week got off to a good start.
Wednesday or Thursday lunch can work. I haven’t made my mind up about Friday. Any of those work for you?
-S


Sneezy speaks

October 4, 2015 Sunday
From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Date: Oct 4, 2015, 12:29 PM 
Subject: Re: Lunch
Hello Sassy-

No problem. We had visitors this wknd. Week will be active but pockets of time. Mon and Tues out, but what does back half of week hold for you? Do you still take Friday’s off before holiday weekends?

Hope you are doing something fun this wknd.

g

Sneezy re-start

October 2, 2015 Friday

Sneezy and I met a couple of times two years ago but (in one of the more bizarre ways a meet can go south) he was allergic to cats so I made him sneeze.   It didn’t make any sense to keep seeing each other.  A guy sneezing constantly and his eyes swelling shut is not conducive to sexy activity!  You can see my dozen or so posts about him if you want to read the full history.   It’s so sad… he is quite charming!  


He emails me now and then, checking in on my adventures or his.  After not hearing from him since New Year’s, we exchanged emails throughout September that I didn’t bore you with.  I was busy with The Northerner and didn’t work too hard to find a time to see Sneezy.  Here’s a quick summary:
Sneezy: Hi!  How are you?  Wanna meet for dinner tonight?
Sassy:  Hiya!  What a great surprise!  Sorry… I have plans.  What about (two days from now)? 
Sneezy: Can’t… (some reason).  What about next week Tuesday or Thursday?
Sassy:  Tuesday works! 
Sneezy: Sorry… something came up.  Thursday? 
Sassy: Friday lunch? 
Sneezy: Can’t.  Ping me with your next idea? 
I decided to start fresh in October!  Maybe we’ll have better luck?  I was curious as to why he was contacting me when all I do is make him sneeze but… maybe he’s on new meds?  
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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Date: Fri, Oct 2, 2015, 4:10 PM
Subject: Lunch
Hiya G! How are you doing? Hope you’ve had a great week despite the dreary weather.
So sorry I have been off the grid. Please don’t take it personally! This week was a crazy mixture of new boss at work, my Mom’s birthday bash with relatives here from out-of-state and project stuff. Plus my husband was sick so I had to take on all his chores. Whee!
So… how’s your weekend looking? Or next week?
-S


Sneezy pops up

January 5, 2015 Monday


From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Subject: Happy New Year 
Sent: Sunday, Jan 5, 2015 1:45 PM
How are you my friend?
Hope you had a great holiday break.
Still going strong in NH?
g
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So Sneezy is checking in.  I don’t get it.  Last time I saw him he sneezed the entire time because he’s allergic to cats and therefore me!  Did he forget that?  Maybe he is on some new anti-allergy meds?  He doesn’t say.  I’ll tell him I am not seeing anyone… we’ll see what he wants.

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Subject: re: Happy New Year 
Sent: Sunday, Jan 5, 2015 5:15 PM
Greg!  How are you dear man?  Did you have a good holiday?  
I had a lovely Christmas, then got sick and was stuck inside with a cough for 7 days!  Argh! 
You found a nice lady to play with?  I’m not seeing anyone at present – been mired in moving my mom to an assisted living place and selling her condo and taking over her finances.  The NH guy got divorced and took off with a single lady in October, as you’d expect.  I’ve been hanging out on AM but not being enticed by anyone so far. 
Hope the new year brings great adventures for both of us!
-S

Sneezy knows

Friday, October 3, 2014

I don’t know why Sneezy keeps writing to me if all I do is make him sneeze when we’re together.  It’s so sad – he is the nicest, politest man!  Maybe he has some new allergy meds?  He checked in again this week.  It took me awhile to figure out how to respond, but I decided to tell it like it is.  

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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Sent: Monday, September 29, 2014 9:41 AM
Subject: Hello
How are you Sassy? Still going strong in NH?
Hope you are well.
G
Sent from Yahoo Mail for iPad

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From: Sassy
To: Sneezy
Subject: Re: Hello 
Sent: Thu, Oct 2, 2014 1:57:58 AM 
Hiya George!  How are you dear man?  I hope your October is off to a grand start.  Can’t believe it’s been a year since we started talking.  and we’re still talking.  Nice! 
I am carrying on with “Kris.”  We got away for an overnight to RI last weekend.  He is a mess going through a divorce, missing his family, but manages to make me smile anyway.  
You having any luck?  Hope so! 
-S 
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From: Sneezy
To: Sassy
Subject: re: Hello
Sent: Fri Oct 3, 2014 8:37 PM
Hello Sassy-
Happy you are still in the groove w/ NH man.
Nothing going on here. Maybe I need to change my pic?
I am suspicious that AM has some phony profiles just to have us exhaust fees.
Just out of hospital after issues with a routine test. Chances are 2/1000. 
Wish I could be so lucky on line!
Keep the faith,

G