Ashley Madison wrote to tell me I got a message from another man! For those of you keeping track, this is the 11th AM man I’ve written about since mid-September.
Date: Dec 10th – 11:21am
From: Seasons1958 on AM
Hi I liked your profile, you sound like a very sexy lady. I would like to get to know you more. If your interested in talking please get in touch. Sean
Hmmm… a generic opening message. But the way things are going lately, it only had three periods, so I have a good feeling!
I went to AM to look at his profile.
Age: A little older than I am. Whatever.
Location: Lives a little northwest of the city. Fine.
Height: 6’2″. Ooh tall! Yay!
Weight: 200 pounds. Too skinny. Eh. I can deal with it.
Limits: Something Long Term. Yay!
He checked random boxes – nothing alarming. Said BBW’s really turn him on! Wow!
Wrote four original sentences:
I’m interested in a long term affair with a woman that is in a similar situation.
Been married 25 years. the romance is over. I am looking for the excitment and passion that I am missing at home. I can’t change things right now, but who knows what the future will bring
I read it over several times. Not much there. Then I noticed that he had given me the key to his photos! There were three! All regular photos someone else took of him at an outdoor event, jeans and t-shirt. He has a great smile!
I decided to write back and learn more!
To: Sean on AM
December 10, 2012 12:12 pm
HI Sean! Thanks for being in touch. You wrote a great profile and email – just enough to capture my interest but lots to be explored. It looks like we’re interested in the same things – friendly sex and not being back on AM for awhile! Sounds like it will be fun to learn more about you! Feel free to ask whatever helps you decide if we’d make a good match. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a magic quiz that could predict chemistry? The only things that really matter are feel of your skin and if your eyes sparkle when I smile, but it may take me awhile to go there. If it is safe to email, you can find me on Yahoo. -Sassy
From: Sean @ Yahoo
Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 1:15 PM
Subject: Hi from Sean @ AM site
I didn’t get your name? I can just call you Sassy if you like, lol. I take it you got my profile pic’s from the AM site. It would be nice if you could send me one of you so I know who I am talking with. I have lots of great stuff going on in my life right now. My daughter is due to have a baby soon, and my youngest daughter graduated college this past spring. I have a new dog and life is pretty good. So why am I here you ask……. my wife had an affair years ago and since then, well thing have not been the same. I am looking to find a long term relationship with someone who is passionate and excited about being with me. The same passion would be reciprocal on my part. I have lots to offer the right woman and have been told I am a nice guy. It could be fun to find that out for yourself. I look forward to you response.
Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 2:29 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sean @ AM site
Thanks for jumping over to email. AM has its uses but making it easy to communicate is not one of them!
My online friends call me Sassy. Forgive me for not sharing my real name, but I like to stay anonymous for a bit. It probably won’t surprise you that there are some strange men on AM and I need a little while to trust.
How exciting that you’ll be a grand dad soon! I don’t have children, but am a doting aunt to my young niece and was there at her birth… so amazing! What sort of dog? I am owned by cats.
Thank you for explaining your situation. Passion… fun… long term… those words resonate with me. Here’s more info:
I’m 53. Hope you don’t mind a slightly younger older woman. I fudged a bit for security reasons.
I’m well-educated, an office manager 9-5 and help with a project in my spare time.
My friends talked me into AM because Hubby is ill and the medicines kill his libido. We’re great pals, but no sex in years. I have his blessing to find passion elsewhere. I had given up on all that, but spent last year battling breast cancer. I am whole and cancer-free, but decided there must be more to life! Passion! Fun! Lobster!
I’m shy in the “real world” – that smart, curvy lady no guy notices. I’ve attached a couple of photos, though I am not a super model! Are you the man who can see beyond that, check under the hood, to unleash the sassy gal?! I’m want a confidante as part of my daily life online, who’ll see me when he can for a meal or more. I read sexy blogs and look at… ahem… sexy photos and videos I like to share if it’s safe for you to watch. Okay… most people call it p0rn. I hate to use the words “conventional sex,” but some men want to be my dom or wear my underwear, and it leads me to say I like to try things, and know about options but I mostly want to be nice to each other. I’m not into pain or role play etc. though I do like to keep things fresh, different positions, find what makes you soar if you do the same for me.
FYI – you may see me online on AM but I am not searching. I help friends with their profiles and answer if a man reaches out to me politely. I have mostly given up after a series of strange meets. But your profile made me want to try again. If I am not the one, then best of luck to you. If you are interested, feel free to ask me whatever. Share more about you? How did you discover AM? What music do you like? What do you crave? Are there things you haven’t done that you want to do?
Hugs with groping!
Attachments: 2 photos
From: Sean (Yahoo)
Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:22 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sean @ AM site
Thank you for the very nice pictures! You have a nice smile. and a very nice rack!! I am definatly interested, like I said I would like to meet someone sane, honest,safe and sexy. You definatly sound like a very sexy outgoing person. Porn was never a big thing in my house. I would like to explore that type of thing if it were with the right person. I would love to share some of you interests in erotica. That sound better that porn. I have similar tastes in my sexual interests. I’m not into pain in any way either. Lots of mutual pleasure. I find kissing to be one of the most erotic things, at least to start. I have 2 dogs [breed specifics redacted]. I have a mean cat that kicks the dogs asses every chance it gets, the dogs are scared to death of the cat. Its actuallly very funny to watch.
I am an electrician by trade. I work downtown. I will tell you the name when we get more comfortable with each other. Great job overcoming breast cancer, you must be very happy. My dad is battling cancer but hanging in there. I definatly enjoyed reading your e-mail. Hope to read many more. Look forward to talking more. Have a nice night.
[An electrician! My first tradesman! I nicknamed him “Volt.” Maybe there will be sparks!]
Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:41 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sean @ AM site
I was re-reading your e-mail and I forgot to tell you the type of music I like and what I crave. I love 60, thru 90’s rock oldies. The eagles, Neil Young, Zeplin White stripes, John Prine. Maybe you can check out my I-pod some time. I think what I crave most is to find that connection with someone who gives me goose bumps when I think about being with them. I had a long term affair that ended a few years ago. Our schedules just wasn’t workiing any more. We still talk on line but never get together anymore. I am only interested in one woman at a time. Talk more later
Sent: Monday, December 10, 2012 11:01 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sean @ AM site
I have to admit… I haven’t sent a face photo before. Figured I wouldn’t hear back. So thank you very much for writing, and saying nice things. I figure I worked hard for my chest, might as well show it off!
I will send you a couple of samples of what I like in p0rn. There is a lot of crap out there, but I have a modest collection of classy men and women being nice to each other. My favorites right now are .gifs, the little animated 10-second photos that don’t show much but spur my imagination. If they’re not your thing, feel free to say. I can also send a story I wrote. Short, simple and sexy… do you write at all or enjoy other people’s stories? If you have favorites, share!
It has been so long for me that the basics sound amazing… kissing, touching… I miss that a lot.
So fun to hear about your pets! We rescued twocats from a friend of a friend who developed allergies. They arrived while I was in chemo, so they bonded with my husband. But they help me on the computer sometimes when he is busy.
Thanks for the info on your work. Very interesting!
I was very lucky with the cancer treatments – found it early and was able to work right through. This may sounds vain, but the worst thing was losing my waist-length dark hair. An old flame from h.s. found me after 35 years and talked me into getting the test that saved my life. I couldn’t figure out why he’d find me at that point in our lives, but it became clear after that. We never did much in h.s. but he convinced me to see if the chemistry we had as teenagers still burned, and it was incredible. Sadly, he is military and far away so we can’t see each other but we talk online. He encouraged me to find a local option. So here I am. Goosebumps, eh? That’s sounds lovely. Maybe if I talk about nibbling on your ear it would bring those on?
My dad died last year. He was with it until about 3 months before that… lived an amazing life. He was a minister. Not the Bible thumping type, but the liberal, social action to help people type. I’ll pray for you dad. My mom is carrying on, blossomed into her own person, still driving and doing lots of church work. Do you do the church thing? I was deep into it until about five years ago. I had to choose between that and my project work, and the project won.
I’ve heard of all those musicians! A woman I worked with years ago was dating John Prine. Heh. I mostly listen to Broadway show tunes, folk and a cappella so I can sing along. But I can rock the dance floor (or my living room in my undies!) with rock oldies when I get the chance. Do you sing? Dance?
I’d better stop before this reaches novella length. It has been wonderful sharing today! Thank you!
December 10, 2012 11:43 pm
Subject: The View
Just as I was finishing my last meeting of the day yesterday,
gathering my papers off the marble table in the conference
room on the 36th floor, the sound of sirens wafted up from
the expressway below. Everyone else had left the room, so
I took a minute to lean over the marble counter and stare
down at the roadway. There was a horrible wreck of mangled
metal and shattered glass, several cars and a tractor trailer
twisted together. The traffic was stopped behind the mess,
and the cars on the other side barely moved, rubbernecking.
Suddenly, I heard the door close. I straightened up, but before I
could turn, I felt your arm around my waist, and felt the heat of you
on my back through my dress. You were already hard, pressed
tightly against my ass. I started to speak, but you put a finger
on my lips and teased a corner. I licked your thumb, and you moved
your hand down to unbutton my dress. Just enough to slip
your hand inside and tease a hard nipple. I moaned and let my head
fall back against your shoulder. You bit my neck and ran your
tongue across my skin.
You slipped your hand under my skirt and inside my underwear,
teasing my most sensitive spot. You pressed a finger inside,
unsurprised at the moisture gathered there. I was startled
as you lowered my underwear. I felt like my knees would
buckle, but you tightened your grip and spread my legs to
balance me against the counter. I panicked when I heard
the rasping sound of your zipper, but before I could form the
words in my mind to stop you, I felt you hot and hard against
my skin, and a low moan was all that escaped my lips. You
shoved it inside me, and your breathing grew ragged as you
watched yourself slide in and out. You kneaded the flesh of
my hips as you moved, then reached around me to rub the top
of my slit in time with your strokes. I was trying to be
quiet, but could not hold in all the gasps of pleasure as
you thrust deeper and deeper inside me, your balls slapping
against me. You felt the trembling start inside me, and
the clenching around you. You felt the pulsing, the searing
heat and suddenly lost control, pounding me into the wood
and stone, spurting up inside me over and over.
The only sound was our uneven breathing and the whirring
air conditioning. You pressed your cheek to my back and
whispered, “What a view…”